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下面是读文网小编整理的英语聊天中要回避的四大雷区,欢迎大家阅读!
在与他人闲聊时,我们常常会评论他人的外表,可有时说出的话却违背我们的初衷,造成不必要的误会,那可真叫哑巴吃黄连,有苦说不出啊。下面,我们就来总结一些关于他人外表不该说的话吧!
Don't say: "You look tired."
Why: It implies she doesn't look good。
Instead say: "Is everything OK?" We often blurt the"tired" comment when we get the sense that the other person feels out of sorts. So just ask.
不要说"You look tired."(你看上去很累。)
英语聊天中要回避的四大雷区
这句话暗示了她看上去状况不佳。
我们可以说"Is everything OK?"(你一切还好吗?)我们会脱口而出"tired"这个词是因为感觉到对方有些消沉,所以直接问原因吧。
Don't say: "Wow, you've lost a ton of weight!"
Why: To a newly trim person, it might give the impression that she used to look unattractive。一个让你脸红的微信:vipwyqh,脸红也得加额!
Instead say: "You look fantastic." And leave it at that.If you're curious about how she got so svelte, add, "What's your secret?"
不要说"Wow, you've lost a ton of weight!"(哇塞,你减掉了N多斤啊!)
对一个刚恢复苗条的人来说,这句话给她的感觉是自己从前看上去很糟糕。
我们可以说"You look fantastic."(你看上去真棒。),并且就此打住。如果你想知道她是如何变苗条的,那就加上一句"What's your secret?"(有啥秘诀呀?)
Don't say: "You look good for your age."
Why: Anything with a caveat like this is rude. It's saying,"You look great―compared with other old people. It's amazing you have all your own teeth."
Instead say: "You look great."
不要说"You look good for your age."(以你的年纪来说,你看上不错啊。)
任何像这样带有告诫意味的话语都是粗鲁的。这就是在说:“跟其他老家伙比起来,你看上去不错。你那口牙竟然一颗没掉,太令人惊讶了。”
我们应该直接说"You look great."(你看上去很棒。)
Don't say: "I could never wear that."
Why: It can be misunderstood as a criticism. ("I could never wear that because it's so ugly.")
Instead say: "You look so good in skinny jeans." If you slip, say something like "I could never wear that...because I wasn't blessed with your long legs."
不要说"I could never wear that."(我可不会穿那样的衣服。)
这话可以被误解为批评:“那衣服太丑了,我才不要穿。”
我们应该说"You look so good in skinny jeans."(你穿紧身牛仔裤很漂亮。)假如你不小心说漏了嘴,那就这么圆回来"I could never wear that...because I wasn't blessed with your long legs."(我是穿不了那裤子……因为我没你那样修长的腿哎。)
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碰上不想聊的话题,你会硬着头皮吱唔下去吗?当聊天时大家都不聊正事,去聊其他无关的内容时,如何回到正题上来呢?下面这些转换话题的英文句型要学会喔,希望对你所帮助!
碰上一个聊起来天南海北,跑题无止境的小伙伴,学会说这句话可以及时地搭救你。
Let's get back to the point.
我们言归正传吧!
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教你怎样在车上和老外聊天口语。美好的夏季,你也收拾好行李去旅行吧。
服务很好,是吧?
A: The service is good, isn't it?
服务很好,是吧?
B: But it's a pity the snack is expensive. I feel hungry now.
但可惜的是小吃太贵了。我现在饿了。
A: The train's pulling in. How about getting off and having a rest?
火车进站了,下车休息一下怎么样?
B: Sure.
好的。
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聊天时遇到英语缩写看不懂怎么办?快来看看下面的那些英语缩写的意思吧。以下是读文网小编整理的聊天时常用的英语缩写,希望对大家有帮助。
A new trend has been popping up all over the world--on mobile phones! SMS messages are becoming as common as telephone calls because they're fast, cheap and fun. Here are some tips on using SMS, or Short Message Service, to get your message across in English.
SMS slang can be broken up into two basic categories: acronyms and contractions.
SMS contractions aren't the same as regular ones like "don't" or "they're", but the purpose is the same: to remove unnecessary parts of words while keeping the meaning clear. Vowels are often eliminated, but you can still make out the general sound of the word. The number 8 sometimes represents the sound of eight, so later becomes l8r. The number 4 is also common as a replacement for the for sound as is 2 for to. Take a look at these SMS contractions:
短信的缩略词不是指一些约定俗成的"don't" 或 "they're"之类的缩略,但两者的目的是一样的:即当意思很清楚的时候可将一些不需要的词省略。元音常常会被省略,但是你仍然可以保留这个词的大概发言。数字8有时候会发eight,所以later就写成l8r。数字4通常也被取代成for,就像2这个音就替代了to。
Plz - Please
Thx - Thanks
Cya - See you
L8r - Later
K - OK
U - You
R - Are
B4 - Before
2morro - Tomorrow
SMS is definitely convenient, but it should be used for casual conversations while keeping your audience in mind. You shouldn't be sending text messages to your boss! Additionally, remember that messages sent can easily be saved and retrieved, or even sent to the wrong person, so you may find yourself in an embarrassing situation if you are not cautious! The next time you want to send a very personal message think carefully before you press the "Send" button or you might end up sending your boss a message meant for your sweetheart!
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当你有一个应该的朋友时,你需要知道哪些话题该聊,哪些话题是聊天禁忌。下面是读文网小编给大家带来和英国人聊天应避免禁忌话题,以供大家参阅!
There is a defunct Oxford tradition, dating from the dark days when the university only accepted men, prohibiting any mention of sex, religion and politics during a formal dinner. Anyone who broke the rule would be forced to drink a huge jug of beer, and if he was unable to finish it in one go would have to pay the bill. I’ve mentioned sex and religion already, and the third traditional taboo – politics – is just as dangerous as the others. As with religion, it is considered extremely impolite to ask someone what political party they support, or which way they vote. Many political topics cause sharp divides amongst the British public – UK membership of the EU and Scottish independence are the highest profile at the time of writing. Save in-depth political discussion until you are better acquainted.
有个已过气的传统曾经流传在牛津只收男生的那段黑暗时期(对男生来说无比黑暗…):任何人在正式晚宴上绝不能提到性、宗教或政治。破坏规矩的人要强行喝下一大壶啤酒,一口气喝不完的话,这个人要付钱。之前提了性和宗教,第三个禁忌——政治——和其他两个一样危险。就像宗教一样,问一个人他支持什么党派或者他投了谁的票也是特别无礼的行为。很多政治话题造成了英国民众的巨大分歧,例如本人撰写此文时最火的:英国于欧盟是留是走、苏格兰独立等。还是等你们更熟了再来深度讨论政治话题吧。
#p#副标题#e#
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职场闲聊时说些什么?聊电视剧?太没品位了吧?聊育儿经,太不专业了吧?那聊什么?帕累托原理听说过吗?那换个说法,二八法则总知道了吧?怎么样?是不是瞬间Hold住了整个聊天的气场啊?快来看看职场闲聊须知的商业法则!
Murphy's Law is commonly expressed as "If anything can go wrong, it will." Sometimes "and at the worst possible time" is added at the end of the saying. Many problems, failures, and annoyances are attributed to Murphy's Law。
墨菲定律通常指“如果事情有变坏的可能,那它就一定会变坏。而且通常是在最不合适的时候变坏。”很多问题、失败和麻烦都可以用墨菲定律来解释。
Many variants of Murphy's Law exist in today's culture. It is generally accepted, for example, that bread will always land jelly side down when dropped, that there will be rain as soon as you wash your car, and that you will always pick the line in the supermarket that doesn't seem to advance at all。
现在,墨菲定律又衍生出了很多版本,而且大多被人们所接受。比如,只有一面涂了果酱的面包掉下来,那一定是涂了果酱的一面掉在地上;刚洗了车的那天就会下雨;在超市排队结账,你总是排在那个比较慢的队伍里。
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-食-
veggie:素食主义者,吃奶类和鸡蛋。
vegan:更严格的素食主义者,杜绝一切动物类制品。
peanut butter:花生酱
clam chowder:类似必胜客的奶油蛤蜊汤
blue cheese:一种味道很怪的奶酪,尝试前做好心理准备,不排除吃一口恶心一天的可能,也不排除你会爱上它的可能...
sandwich:有意思的是,国内人以为含白面包、火腿、生菜、鸡蛋的三角形食物叫sandwich,但其实在美国,sandwich含义更宽泛。大概是指所有两片非圆形面包夹起来的食物,中间夹层可以是turkey(火鸡肉),vegetables(素),ham,roast beef
appetizer:开胃菜
entrée:(en发“昂”的音),主菜
cereal:(蛋奶星星那类脆脆的)麦片,泡凉牛奶喝的。美国最流行食物之一。强烈建议出国的朋友背下来各种cereal的品牌,记住他们的样子,有的时候被问最喜欢哪种cereal也不会尴尬了,而且...绝壁直接反映你对美国文化的了解和把握。我最喜欢special K with strawberries和frosted flakes~(≧▽≦)/~
oatmeal:燕麦片,用热水/热牛奶冲的。注意和cereal区分。
whole milk:全脂牛奶
skim/fat free milk:脱脂牛奶
root beer:根汁汽水,和ice-cream组成的float特别好吃,是美国流行饮料,不是美国特色,骚瑞!
s'mores:篝火(bonfire)或壁炉旁的北美特色小吃,简单讲就是俩饼干夹着巧克力,用木棍把一块棉花糖(marshmallow)放在火上烤,化了之后塞在饼干和巧克力里,夹着吃。
-病-
STD:sexually transmitted diseases,性传染病,就是性病。
ADHD:Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder,注意力缺失多动障碍,就是咱们说的多动症,但有这个病孩子可以申请考试延长时间,有的家长就故意让孩子“被诊断”出这个病以在学习上占优势,反正挺controversial的。
OCD:楼上有人说了,强迫症,不讲了。
narcissistic:自恋的,narcissist:~的人
paranoid:患被害妄想/偏执症的,严格来讲,多数时候用不是说这人真被诊断出这个病,就是大家吐槽的时候用一用。
-住-
bathroom:想上卫生间的时候说这个词
toilet:具体指马桶
shower:这个词作名词是可以指宿舍的浴室
detergent:洗衣液
shampoo:洗发水
body wash:沐浴露
towel:浴巾
water fountain:饮水器,就美国一按就出水的那个东西。当然也可指喷泉,不过语境不同,一般不会被理解错。
tampon:导管(美国人不怎么用棉条;不care膜的问题的妹子,强推)
pads:卫生巾(厕所的自动贩卖机上会写成napkins)
period:月经(when is your period?你姨妈啥时候来?)
PMS:经前综合症(狂躁、食欲暴增、低沉etc)
napkins:特指餐桌上的餐巾纸
toilet paper:擦屁屁的厕纸哟`_ >`
paper towel:特指卫生间里洗完手用来擦手的,或者厨房里放的圆筒形厚卫生纸
tissues:抽取纸巾(区别这四者蛮重要!)
-口语常用-
my bad:我错了,我的错
absolutely:那必须
exactly:就是说啊~
jerk:傻逼
obnoxious:讨厌死惹,烦爆惹
annoying:同上
see ya:丫咱待会儿见...其实是再见
cliché:发音“可力谁”,主要指一个idea很俗套
peptalk:动员演说(比如我钢琴演出前我老师就给了我一个peptalk,让我放轻松、enjoy等)
what's up:这个曾经纠结我好久,其实就是见面时问咋啦的意思,回答的时候可以说not much/nothing much,跟熟人儿也可讲讲刚发生的事儿(看评论很多人都纠结过这个哈哈哈)。评论里的知友说还可以用hi/what's up回复。
I feel you:嗯嗯懂你
pull all nighters:熬通宵(注意pull和pool,full和fool的发音不同,full的发音是“否”,fool的发音是“父——哦”)
screw up:搞砸 (a test等)
mess up (with):和...乱搞(don't mess up with those hockey guys别和打冰球的男生鬼混;don't mess up your presentation别把你的presentation搞砸)
make a fuss about:大惊小怪,大发牢骚(I don't know why everybody makes such a fuss about a few mosquitoes.我不知道为啥大家要对几只蚊子大惊小怪)
by any chance:恰巧,这个要在问别人是否有某物的时候用,do you have/have you got a pencil by any chance?你是不是恰巧有根铅笔可以借我?(好吧这翻译太差了,大家感受下就好)
provocative:(形容人/物)调戏的,撩人的
flirt:和...调戏(~ around,~ with);形容词flirty,名词flirt
wasted:烂醉
sassy:这个不好翻,字典不准,大概是improperly bold的意思,也有评价别人时自己很屌的感觉,高手可以帮忙解释一下。
sick/ill - 屌
mean:凶,挑剔,抓人不放的那种,但这个词没有那么贬义,开玩笑的时候也可以说wow why are you so mean to that freshman!哇你干嘛对那个一年级新生那么凶撒。
swag:拽(是这意思吗各位?一开始我以为是secretly we are gay的意思=。=)
chill:adj.(形容人)酷,随和,不事儿逼;(形容天气)微凉,但不到冷的程度
It's a bit chilly out there.外面有点凉v.放松,享受下,玩玩儿(The teacher's not here. Let's just chill.老师不在,咱就放松下吧。)
I'm done doing sth: 我不...了。比如一件事儿你已经说了半天,不想再说了,你就可以说:I'm done talking.
nevermind:算了,别管了,当我没提
whatever:╮(╯▽╰)╭
seriously?:真的?(很多人提名这个耶!)
-学习-
curve:正态。用法灵活,可做名词或动词。用法是:Ms. Olsen gives really nice curves. I got an 80 in the last test but she curved it to a 95. 所以留学的朋友们选课时可以问问同学这个问题,关乎GPA啊啊~
harsh or tough grader/easy grader:打分严/松的老师
interdisciplinary:跨学科的,如~ project,discipline是学科的高端说法,有时被学生吐槽哈哈。
eraser:这么简单的词为什么要放在这儿?留美同学说橡皮时一律用eraser别用rubber(英),这在美国是套套的意思。据说Emma Watson也翻过这个小错误=)
essay:英语议论文
paper:论文,research ~学术论文,跟你英语写的议论文(essay)不一样
due:截止,交(作业)。-when is the paper due?论文啥时候要交?it's due tonight.今晚截止。
assignment:一项作业,强调某一项。但和homework区别也没那么大。Please turn in your assignment on Tuesday.
work:他们好像不怎么说homework,直接说“I have so much work to do"
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和老外聊天时千万要小心使用的几句英语口语 因为中外文化的差异,一些英语口语在我们看来十分正常,可是在老外听来确很奇怪有的甚至会让他们感到很无理,下面一起来看看吧。
如何用英语口语聊天
尽管这取决于你的文化背景,总体来说你还是应该避免taboo(禁忌)话题,例如政治、宗教、年龄和婚姻状态。
6. How old are you?年龄是一个敏感的话题,尤其是男士询问女士的年龄,不要问啦!
7. Have you put onweight?你应该避免关于外表的评论。你可能觉得你在赞美别人,而事实上你在冒犯别人!
8. How much do you earn?大多数人都不喜欢谈论金钱,如果你询问工资,他们会觉得尴尬。
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怎样和女人聊天?如何和女人聊天:如果想博得女孩的欢心,当然得聊女孩感兴趣的话题,尤其是在两个人不是很熟悉的时候尽量不要聊太多个人方面的话题......
Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 13 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:
很多男人都没有学习过怎样和女人聊天。正因为如此,很多男人终其一生都对女人没有吸引力。以下是13个小贴士,让你在想吸引的女人面前不犯错误。
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
你应该谈论和“情感”有关的话题,如童年回忆、未来志向、或者她的爱好。这样的话题能够打开她情绪的闸门。
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
女人们喜欢有能力掌控她的男人。跟女人谈话时要掌控话题。不要等着她告诉你谈论什么。
3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
注意女人给你的非语言提示。如果你站得离她很近,说话时唾沫星横飞,或是让她在其他方面感到不自在,她会给你暗示,要注意这些提示。
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
记住这条箴言:“幽默但不滑稽。”女人会被让她们开心的男人吸引。不要只想着说最搞笑的笑话,要多花花心思向她们展现最令人兴奋最有乐趣的事物。
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
挑逗她。要让对话变得暧昧有趣,最简单的方法就是跟女士们调调情。回想一下当初在学校操场上是如何和女生玩的。当时吸引女生的方法现在在约会时也完全适用。
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
聊聊私密的话题。女人会被敢于让对话上升到个人的私密层面的男人吸引。
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
用“冷读术”推测她们的心理来吸引女性。女人喜欢听别人对她们的评价。告诉她你眼中的她是什么样的。
趣味英语:怎样和女人聊天
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
不要过度恭维女人。看起来“饥不择食”的男人会让女人大倒胃口。过度的恭维女人会让她觉得你在想方设法吸引她的注意力,效果只会适得其反。
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.
如果你想知道要怎样跟女人说话才能让她们觉得不无聊,要避免问过多的“采访”式问题,而是陈述你对事物的意见。
10. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
不要隐藏自己的个性。别担心,大胆谈论任何你喜欢的事物。
11. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.
记住:陈述多于提问。比起问“你在哪里长大?”来,说“你看起来不像是在这块地方长大的。”会更好。这样你既可以对她做出评价,也可以展现你的个性。
12. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
保持神秘感。女人喜欢有挑战性的男人。如果你想让女人保持对你的兴趣,你要让她觉得她需要慢慢赢得你的欢心。如果她认为你太好到手了…她就不会对你有兴趣了。
13. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.
做点对话“游戏”让气氛变得暧昧有趣。游戏可以是“真心话大冒险”,也可以是不那么极端的游戏,如两人间的点名游戏。
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.
和女人谈话最好的方式,就是找一些有趣、好玩、涉及性的谈话。和女人谈话未必有那么困难。你只要知道她们对什么话题有兴趣、对什么话题没有兴趣就可以了。放心照着上面的做就好了。
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名词解释:视频聊天实际上就是利用网页技术,客户端技术运用可视化的数码工具来聊天,可以用来视频聊天的工具有数码相机,但因其价格昂贵,用在视频聊天上却多少有些浪费。还有就是摄像头,摄像头显然更适合于视频聊天使用。你知道怎么用英语表达吗?
Yahoo Tech has consulted YouTube makeup artist Michelle Phan, who rose to Internet superstardom by filming beauty tutorials. These tips from her will keep you looking your best duringvideo chatting:
It's important to find the best source of light possible, and you don't want the light directly on you.
Keep the laptop or device directly in front of you at eye level.
It's still important to be conscious of what you're wearing. Try and wear pure colors, and avoid bold patterns.
As for ladies, a little MAC powder can go a long way toward smoothing out a complexion. Besides, heavy makeup should be avoided.
雅虎科技咨询了YouTube的化妆师Michelle Phan。她因拍摄化妆教程在网络上走红。她的这些小窍门会让你在视频聊天时呈现最佳状态:
找到最佳光源很重要,而且不要让光直接打在你身上。
让你的笔记本电脑或设备和眼睛处于同一水平线上。
要注意自己的穿着。尝试穿纯色,避免夸张的样式。
对于女性而言,一点点MAC修容粉就会大大改善肤色。同时也应该避免浓妆。
文中的video chatting就是“视频聊天”的意思,其中chatting是名词,意为“聊天,闲谈”,动词为chat,多指以友好的态度,谈一些不重要的事情,如:chat over wine(边喝酒边聊天),而talk强调“交谈”,指数人之间的交谈,包括严肃的讨论,也表示轻松的闲聊,如:talk about the elections(谈论有关选举的事)。
第四段中的be conscious of表示“注意,察觉,意识到”之意,如:I was not conscious of having made a mistake.(我没意识到犯了错误。)
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摘要:据说,男人听女人唠叨她的午餐、偶像明星和心情时只能坚持6分钟。
The average man can stand just six minutes of his woman's witterings about her lunch, her stars and her feelings, it is claimed.
By contrast, he can pay attention for an entire fifteen minutes' conversation with mates about football or their sex lives, according to research carried out among 2,000 adults。
据说,男人听女人唠叨她的午餐、偶像明星和心情时只能坚持6分钟。
男人与伴侣聊天仅六分钟热度
针对2000名成人中做的一份调查发现,与此相对的是,男人能全神贯注与哥们儿聊整整15分钟的足球或者他们的性生活。
The findings also showed women listen longer and harder in conversation with their friends than they do with their other halves。
调查发现,女性与朋友谈话时比与伴侣聊天时更认真并且听的时间更长。
More than half of the men surveyed admitted they weren’t good listeners at all。
半数以上参与调查的男性承认他们完全不是好的倾听者。
But the study found they will happily talk with a friend about sport, which proved the most popular topic for more than half the men questioned, followed by chats on films and sex。
但是研究发现,他们很乐意和朋友谈论体育。半数以上的男人最喜欢的话题都是体育,其次是电影和性。
Relationships was the favorite theme among women, with 55 percent saying it was their favorite topic of conversation。
女性最喜欢谈论的话题是恋爱关系。55%的女性说,聊天时她们最喜欢这个话题。
The worst time to expect a man's attention is while he is watching sport, channel flicking or playing an app, according to the Ladbrokes-commissioned survey。
据立博博彩公司(Ladbrokes)委托进行的调查显示,男人在看体育节目、换台或是玩应用软件时,他们最不可能分心到其他事上。
The average man has four occasions each week where he isn’t listening to a partner when he should be。
男人本该倾听伴侣谈话却做不到的情况,一般一周会有四次。
Men are most likely to switch off from a conversation if the topic is someone they don’t know, followed by chat about workmates, celebrities or clothes。
男人最不愿谈的是他们不认识的人,其次是讨论工作伙伴、名人和服装。
And chaps are similarly unenthused when talk turns to things their partner has seen on Facebook, horoscopes and chat around what they ate for lunch that day。
同样的,在伴侣谈她们在脸书上的见闻、谈星座和聊当天午饭吃了什么时,男人们会感到很无趣。
No doubt wise to this wilful and lazy ignorance, 55 percent of women say they regularly test their partner to check whether or not he’s listening。
毫无疑问,对这种下意识的忽视、怠慢,55%的女性说她们会时不时地测试她们的伴侣以确定他们有没有在听
More than a third said the most common sign their partner isn’t listening is when they take far too long to respond to a question。
超过三分之一的女性说,男人没有在听她们讲话的最明显标志是他回答一个问题前会花很多时间。
The second most common indicator is a flurry of blank or glazed expressions, while more than a quarter said it’s noticeable when they can’t take their eyes off their phone, tablet or the television。
第二种最明显的标志是他们表现得不知所措、表情呆滞空洞。超过四分之一的女性说,当男人目不转睛地盯着手机、平板电脑和电视机时,就很明显。
More than a fifth of men admit they often browse the web or watch sport while on the phone to their partner. Both sexes said they were more likely to lie or hold back information from their partner than from their best friend。
超过五分之一的男性承认,在和伴侣打电话时他们常常浏览网页或者看体育节目。相比和最好的朋友聊天,男女性都表示他们更可能对伴侣撒谎或是隐瞒信息。
A spokesman for Ladbrokes said: 'It’s natural that the two genders will find different things interesting and certain topics appeal more than others。
立博博彩公司的发言人说:“男女各自有不同的喜好、有各自偏爱的话题,这是很自然的。
'Men are obsessed with sport, gadgets and technology, and often these combine when trying to check scores, place bets or get the latest updates。
“男人对体育、小发明和科技着迷,而这些通常又和查看比分、下赌注和获取最新资讯相联系。
'Of course, this regularly means they aren’t always their most responsive。
“当然,这通常也就意味着他们不能总是很好地做出应答。
'As with anything, getting that balance between showing effort towards a partner and allowing time for following your passions is important.'
“努力跟上伴侣的步调同时又要追求自己的兴趣,和其他任何事情一样,在这两者间取得平衡是非常重要的。”
TOP 10 TOPICS MEN TUNE OUT OF
男人不感兴趣的十大话题
1、Talk about people they’ve never met 谈论他们不认识的人
2、Partner’s workmates 伴侣的同事
3、Celebrities or reality stars 名人或者生活中的明星
4、Fashion/shopping 时尚/购物
5、Other people’s relationships 他人的关系
6、What’s been said/done on Facebook 脸书上的谈论和事件
7、Horoscopes 星座占卜
8、What partner had for lunch 伴侣午餐吃了什么
9、Partner’s feelings 伴侣的感受
10、Dieting/nutrition 节食/营养
1. 假装健忘型
被人侃到头晕眼花,忘了正事儿?突然插一句话,总会显得有点突兀。你可以趁机假装健忘,把话锋转到你关心的事情上。类似的情况,你还可以用 while I remember...
Oh, before I forget, did you give the letter to Jim?
哦,趁我还没忘,你把信给吉姆了吗?
2. “借坡下驴”型
虽说是顺便,其实你要说的跟他讲的没神马关系,借机打个岔吧!
By the way, I really like your shoes.
顺便提一句,我很喜欢你的这双鞋。
3. 跑题终结型
碰上一个聊起来天南海北,跑题无止境的小伙伴,学会说这句话可以及时地搭救你。
Let's get back to the point.
我们言归正传吧!
4. 思维发散型
对方正在滔滔不绝,怎么才能抢到话题的控制权?如果你是个想象力丰富,思维发散的人,那就赶紧找找他说的能让你想到什么吧!
You remind me of your father when you say that.
你说话时,让我想起了你的父亲。
5. 直截了当型
感觉气氛不对、话题沉重,比如小伙伴说到了自己伤心处,不如把难过的话题先放放,咱们说点儿别的吧!
Let's drop the subject.
让我们换个话题吧!
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摘要:网络时代,随着面对面交流的减少,人们也忽略了闲聊对人际关系的重要作用。如何做一个善于闲聊的人呢?让我们向专家讨教一下闲聊的学问吧。
You are an intelligent and articulate person. You have no problem giving a lucid presentation, delivering an eloquent speech or participating in a political debate. You strive for meaningful conversations and have no patience whatsoever for small talk. “The weather is nice, isn’t it?” Really, who cares?
你聪明机灵,口齿伶俐。给出清晰的报告、发表滔滔不绝的演讲、参加政治辩论,你无所不能。你在这些有意义的语言会话上花费心思,却对闲聊嗤之以鼻。“今天天气不错,是吧?”说实在的,谁关心呢?
eloquent
[英]ˈeləkwənt [美]ˈɛləkwənt
adj.
雄辩的,有口才的;有说明力的;
富于表情的,逼真的;动人的
你真的会聊天吗
Although seemingly trivial and superficial, small talk is the starting point of all relationships. Romances and friendships begin with small talk. In a more pragmatic light, you can’t avoid it. Getting a job, working with colleagues, winning new clients — all of it requires small talk.
虽然看似琐碎肤浅,但闲聊却是建立一切关系的切入点。爱情和友谊都始于闲聊。更实际一点考虑的话,你不可能避免闲聊。求职、与同事共事、攻下新客户,这些都离不开闲聊。
trivial
[英]'trɪvɪəl [美]ˈtrɪviəl
adj.
琐碎的,无价值的;
平常的,平凡的;不重要的;[生]种的
Americans call it the “Gift of Gab”. Want to be successful? You’d better acquire this gift.
美国人称之为“能说会道”。你想成功?那么你最好具备这项口才。
An article on the Forbes website lists a few reasons why small talk is so important for one’s career. Not only does small talk make us more likeable; in one’s career, small talk is also a “free option”.
为了说明闲聊对于个人事业的重要性,《福布斯》网站上的一篇文章给出了一系列解释。闲聊不仅能让我们更讨人喜欢,对于个人事业而言,闲聊也是一种“免费期权”。
It can lead to a host of outcomes, from a merely pleasant exchange to the signing of a multimillion dollar business deal, says the article.
文章中指出,闲聊能产生一系列的效果,有时不仅仅是一场愉快的交流,甚至还可以达成数百万美元的交易。
In a time where a big part of our lives has moved online, the art of small talk is elusive and mysterious. The awkward experience of feeling like a total outsider at a social function, such as a company event or a dinner party, is shared by many of us.
在这个生活逐步网络化的时代,闲聊的艺术不可思议又难以捉摸。我们中的很多人都曾有过在公司活动、宴会等社交场合中上化身“局外人”的尴尬经历。
But don’t worry, says Elizabeth Bernstein, a relationship columnist at The Wall Street Journal, you can learn to develop your conversational intelligence.
但是别担心,《华尔街日报》两性关系专栏作家伊丽莎白•伯恩斯坦表示,你可以学会去开发自己的口才。
columnist
[英]ˈkɒləmnɪst [美]ˈkɑləmnɪst, -əmɪst
n. 专栏作家
First of all, remember small talk is not about communicating, it’s about connecting. Bernstein advises to focus on the other person.
首先,要记住闲聊并不是为了沟通交流,而是与对方建立联系。伯恩斯坦建议应该去关注对方。
Bad small talkers tend to dominate the conversation. They spend too much time on their favorite topic, whether it’s football or how clever their kids are.
不擅长闲聊的人往往想要在谈话中占据主动。他们花费过多的时间来谈论喜欢的话题,无论是讨论足球还是夸奖他们的孩子有多么聪颖过人。
They think they are being social because they are talking. But they are talking to somebody, not with someone. Such people often give the impression of being self-centered and inconsiderate.
他们认为滔滔不绝就代表善于交际。但是他们说话的对象是些重要人物,而并非普通人。这样的人通常会给人留下以自我为中心、不替他人着想的印象。
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.
你应该谈论和“情感”有关的话题,如童年回忆、未来志向、或者她的爱好。这样的话题能够打开她情绪的闸门。
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.
女人们喜欢有能力掌控她的男人。跟女人谈话时要掌控话题。不要等着她告诉你谈论什么。
3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.
注意女人给你的非语言提示。如果你站得离她很近,说话时唾沫星横飞,或是让她在其他方面感到不自在,她会给你暗示,要注意这些提示。
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.
记住这条箴言:“幽默但不滑稽。”女人会被让她们开心的男人吸引。不要只想着说最搞笑的笑话,要多花花心思向她们展现最令人兴奋最有乐趣的事物。
5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.
挑逗她。要让对话变得暧昧有趣,最简单的方法就是跟女士们调调情。回想一下当初在学校操场上是如何和女生玩的。当时吸引女生的方法现在在约会时也完全适用。
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.
聊聊私密的话题。女人会被敢于让对话上升到个人的私密层面的男人吸引。
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.
用“冷读术”推测她们的心理来吸引女性。女人喜欢听别人对她们的评价。告诉她你眼中的她是什么样的。
8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.
不要过度恭维女人。看起来“饥不择食”的男人会让女人大倒胃口。过度的恭维女人会让她觉得你在想方设法吸引她的注意力,效果只会适得其反。
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.
如果你想知道要怎样跟女人说话才能让她们觉得不无聊,要避免问过多的“采访”式问题,而是陈述你对事物的意见。
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.
记住:陈述多于提问。比起问“你在哪里长大?”来,说“你看起来不像是在这块地方长大的。”会更好。这样你既可以对她做出评价,也可以展现你的个性。
11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
不要隐藏自己的个性。别担心,大胆谈论任何你喜欢的事物。
12. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.
做点对话“游戏”让气氛变得暧昧有趣。游戏可以是“真心话大冒险”,也可以是不那么极端的游戏,如两人间的点名游戏。
13. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.
保持神秘感。女人喜欢有挑战性的男人。如果你想让女人保持对你的兴趣,你要让她觉得她需要慢慢赢得你的欢心。如果她认为你太好到手了…她就不会对你有兴趣了。
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.
和女人谈话最好的方式,就是找一些有趣、好玩、涉及性的谈话。和女人谈话未必有那么困难。你只要知道她们对什么话题有兴趣、对什么话题没有兴趣就可以了。放心照着上面的做就好了。
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摘要:研究者们已经开始试图找到更好在不同文体中使用表情的方法(emojis也许火过一阵子,但并没有其他传统校园表情前三那般流行:笑脸,皱眉和眨眼。)他们的研究告诉我们如何在网上约会抑或回复专业邮件时充分利用表情符号。
The battle is over and the emoticons have won. Whatever you think of the symbols, they’re absolutely everywhere, including in work emails. But the etiquette over emoticon usage is still fuzzy, and it’s an understandable source of tension, especially considering that people may be judging us based on our smiley deployment.
Luckily, researchers are starting to better understand how people perceive emoticons in various contexts (emojis may be having a moment, but they’re not as universal as the top three old-school emoticons: the smiley, the frowny, and the winky). Their work can provide some helpful pointers on how to use your emoticons to maximum effect, whether dating online or responding to a professional email.
斗争结束情感获胜。无论你怎么看待表情符号,它们真真无处不在,哪怕是工作的邮件。但如何使用这些表达感情的符号并没有明确的规则,也可看成是我们紧张情绪的舒缓,尤其是意识到别人可能会根据我们发出的表情符号对我们自身做出判断。
好在,研究者们已经开始试图找到更好在不同文体中使用表情的方法(emojis也许火过一阵子,但并没有其他传统校园表情前三那般流行:笑脸,皱眉和眨眼。)他们的研究告诉我们如何在网上约会抑或回复专业邮件时充分利用表情符号。
Here are five ways to be a smarter emoticon user:
怎样科学地使用聊天表情
下面五招教你做一个聪明的表情使用者:
1. If you want to be popular, limit how many frownies you use.
Language and culture have been shown to color how emoticons are used and interpreted, as was recently demonstrated in a 2013 study of tweets from around the world. In Japan and South Korea, for instance, emoticons are more likely to be horizontally oriented (think @_@) ), as opposed to the standard American :), which is vertically oriented unless your mail program or phone turns it into a graphic for you.
在对2013年全球推特的研究中发现语言和文化会影响表情的使用和含义。比如日本韩国,表情更加倾向于横向(思考@_@),然而标准的美式表情:),是纵向的。除非你的邮件系统或电话自动为你修改。
In the Philippines and Indonesia, however, where English is spoken along with local languages, emoticons are just as likely to be vertically oriented. And in languages read from right to left, such as Arabic and Hebrew, smileys are reversed, like (: . South Americans apparently “are known to explore various types of eyebrows in their emoticons,” according to the study authors. So if you’re sending emoticons to foreign friends, a bit of research can help bridge the communication gap.
然而在菲律宾和印度尼西亚,英语和当地语言混杂使用,表情符号也似乎偏纵向。而对于从右往左阅读的语言,比如阿拉伯语和希伯来语,笑脸也会反过来(:。研究发现南美显然”被认为在表达情绪中更热衷于使用眉毛 “。所以如果你给国外的朋友发送表情,一点小调查能帮助你缩短交流代沟哦。
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摘要:很多男人都没有学习过怎样和女人聊天。正因为如此,很多男人终其一生都对女人没有吸引力。以下是13个小贴士,让你在想吸引的女人面前不犯错误:
Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 13 tips to help make sure you aren't making mistakes with the women you'd like to attract:
1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates。
很多男人都没有学习过怎样和女人聊天。正因为如此,很多男人终其一生都对女人没有吸引力。以下是13个小贴士,让你在想吸引的女人面前不犯错误:
你应该谈论和“情感”有关的话题,如童年回忆、未来志向、或者她的爱好。这样的话题能够打开她情绪的闸门。
2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you'll be talking about。
女人们喜欢有能力掌控她的男人。跟女人谈话时要掌控话题。不要等着她告诉你谈论什么。
3. Pay attention to the non-verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you're standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them。
注意女人给你的非语言提示。如果你站得离她很近,说话时唾沫星横飞,或是让她在其他方面感到不自在,她会给你暗示,要注意这些提示。
4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny。” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don't concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment。
记住这条箴言:“幽默但不滑稽。”女人会被让她们开心的男人吸引。不要只想着说最搞笑的笑话,要多花花心思向她们展现最令人兴奋最有乐趣的事物。
5. Teasewomen. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again。
挑逗她。要让对话变得暧昧有趣,最简单的方法就是跟女士们调调情。回想一下当初在学校操场上是如何和女生玩的。当时吸引女生的方法现在在约会时也完全适用。
6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level。
聊聊私密的话题。女人会被敢于让对话上升到个人的私密层面的男人吸引。
7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her。
用“冷读术”推测她们的心理来吸引女性。女人喜欢听别人对她们的评价。告诉她你眼中的她是什么样的。
8. Avoid complimentinga woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy。” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you're trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect。
不要过度恭维女人。看起来“饥不择食”的男人会让女人大[微博]倒胃口。过度的恭维女人会让她觉得你在想方设法吸引她的注意力,效果只会适得其反。
9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn't bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things。
如果你想知道要怎样跟女人说话才能让她们觉得不无聊,要避免问过多的“采访”式问题,而是陈述你对事物的意见。
10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don't look like you grew up around here。” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality。
记住:陈述多于提问。比起问“你在哪里长大?”来,说“你看起来不像是在这块地方长大的。”会更好。这样你既可以对她做出评价,也可以展现你的个性。
11. Don't hide your identity. Don't be afraid to talk about whatever you're passionate about。
不要隐藏自己的个性。别担心,大胆谈论任何你喜欢的事物。
12. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”。
做点对话“游戏”让气氛变得暧昧有趣。游戏可以是“真心话大冒险”,也可以是不那么极端的游戏,如两人间的点名游戏。
13. Don't give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman's interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you're too easy… she'll lose interest。
保持神秘感。女人喜欢有挑战性的男人。如果你想让女人保持对你的兴趣,你要让她觉得她需要慢慢赢得你的欢心。如果她认为你太好到手了…她就不会对你有兴趣了。
The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn't have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you'll do just fine。
和女人谈话最好的方式,就是找一些有趣、好玩、涉及性的谈话。和女人谈话未必有那么困难。你只要知道她们对什么话题有兴趣、对什么话题没有兴趣就可以了。放心照着上面的做就好了。
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聊天是以轻松随便的方式谈话,不拘礼仪地,不受拘束地谈话,那么你知道聊天用英语怎么说吗?现在跟着读文网小编一起学习关于聊天的英语知识吧。
在线聊天 Online Chat ; chat online ; Live Chat ; WebChat
聊天方式 Messenger Online ; QQ Online ; Me enger Online
在线聊天 live chat ; chat on line ; on-line talking ; chat
即时聊天 Live Chat ; immediate chat ; Galaxie Chat ; Gtalk
群组聊天 Group Chat ; Chat Groups ; Huddle ; Palringo Group Messenger
聚合聊天 Miranda IM ; Meebo IM ; LCG Slick ; Slick messenger
闲暇聊天 Small Talk in the Office
聊天功能 Instant Messaging ; Gmail chat ; facebook chat
灌水聊天 Chat & Recreation ; Chatting
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如今没有一口流利的英语,了解一些简单的日常英语对话技巧也是很有必要的!今天读文网小编在这里为大家分享一些日常聊天英语情景对话,希望这些英语对话会对大家有所帮助!
A: Guess what? I know something you don't know.
B: What's that?
A: How many planets are there in the Solar System?
B: That's easy. Everyone knows there are nine.
A: Not anymore. Can you believe it? They've decided that Pluto is not a planet anymore.
B: Nice try. I wasn't born yesterday you know.
A: I am dead serious. They've decided that it's too small to be a planet. But actually they haven't yet agreed on how big something has to be in order to be a planet anymore.
B: That sounds crazy. But they can't just change their minds about things like that.
A: Yes, they can. If you remember correctly people used to believe the world was flat.
B: I suppose you are right. They also used to think that they were so important that the sun revloved around them, not the other way around.
A: We actually know relatively little about space and cosmos.
B: Do you that oneday we are able to travel to another planet for a vacation?
A: I suppose we could actually live on a planet outside the Milky Way.
B: Do you think we will get to meet Elites from outer space?
A: I hope not. I think it would be a threat to those of us that live in the earth.
B: You are so old fashined. That's what people used to think about people from another country.
A: Point taking. Hopefully one day we are living in an interplanet society.
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聊天也是有很多技巧的,要注意说话的方式和时机。而在网上聊天又是另一番天地,是用心灵去杜撰感情。那么你知道聊天用英语怎么说吗?下面来学习一下吧。
1. MSN chat software chat monitoring software and complete code examples.
MSN聊天软件聊天记录监控软件,完整的实例代码.
2. Chat record is used to aftertaste the conversation you have just finished.
聊天记录用来回味你们刚完成的谈话.
3. How to MSN chat logs encryption?
如何给MSN聊天记录加密?
4. Could not fetch buddy chat log.
不能提取好友聊天记录.
5. QQ local input landing window users can see the number of users chatting records.
输入本地QQ登陆 窗口中用户号码即可查看该用户的聊天记录.只限本机.
6. The Chat Log is a record of messages sent to you by other players.
在聊天记录的发送给您的消息被其他玩家.
7. Then, and only use the system to see accounts opened after the chat.
这样, 只有使用这个系统账户打开后才能查看聊天记录了.
8. Spokane Skytower: You can create a record in Second Life.
目前好像第二人生,没有这样记录聊天内容的功能.
9. Simple network chat, you can send message, receive message and displays the contents of Record chat.
简单的网络聊天功能, 可以发送消息, 接收消息,并显示聊天的的内容记录.
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聊天室是一个网上空间,为了保证谈话的焦点,聊天室通常有一定的谈话主题。任何一个联入Internet、使用正确的聊天软件,并且渴望谈论的人都可以享受其乐趣。那么你知道聊天室用英语怎么说吗?下面来学习一下吧。
视频聊天室Video Chat
有聊天室 A chat room
会员聊天室 Members Chat Room
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