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摘要:第一次约会该由谁买单?多数人认为这是男士的责任。本月初,美国财经网站NerdWallet公布了一项针对近1000名交往6个月及以上情侣的调查结果。数据显示,77%(异性恋)受访者认为应该由男士来买单。
Who should pay for the first date? The majority says it’s the guy’s responsibility. A survey released this month found that about 77 percent of people in heterosexual relationships believe men should settle the bill on the first date. The survey was put together by US financial website NerdWallet. The site polled roughly 1,000 Americans who had been dating their partners for six months or more.
The financial chivalry began when, in the past, women had no access to employment and therefore couldn’t fend themselves financially. But nowadays, more and more women have become the breadwinners. According to The Atlantic, between 1960 and 2011 in the US, the proportion of two-parent US households in which the mother earned all or most of the income roughly quadrupled.
第一次约会该由谁买单?多数人认为这是男士的责任。本月初,美国财经网站NerdWallet公布了一项针对近1000名交往6个月及以上情侣的调查结果。数据显示,77%(异性恋)受访者认为应该由男士来买单。
过去,这种勇于付款的“骑士精神”是因为女性没有工作,不能经济独立。但现如今,越来越多的女性都成为养家糊口的主力军,据美国《大西洋月刊》报道,从1960年到2011年,美国双亲家庭中母亲是家中主要或全部经济来源的家庭所占比例几乎翻了两番。
So why, amid economic changes and gender equity advancements, are men still expected to pay for the bill?
那么,在经济变革、两性更加平等的今天,为什么依旧应该由男士来买单呢?
第一次约会谁买单
“As social roles start to change, people often embrace the changes that make their lives easier, but resist the changes that make their lives more difficult,” David Frederick, a professor of psychology at Chapman University, US, told The Huffington Post. “Who pays for dates … is one arena where women may be resisting gender changes more than men,” he suggested.
美国柴普曼大学心理学教授大卫•弗里德瑞克在接受《赫芬顿邮报》采访时表示,“在社会角色开始发生变化时,人们往往愿意接受那些使生活更容易的变化,排斥令生活更麻烦的变化。而谁来买单的问题?(在这个问题上)女性比男性更抗拒性别角色的变化。”
Men pay more
男士付得多
Frederick is a co-author of a study released last year that also found men tend to pay for dates. The study was larger than NerdWallet’s and polled about 17,000 people, according to The Atlantic. The study also found 39 percent of its female respondents admitted that they hoped men would reject their offers to help pay. Frederick and his colleagues called paying for dates “a rare case” in which women are motivated not to fight old-school gender dynamics. In the same way, men who are no longer breadwinners aren’t as eager to take up domestic responsibilities such as parenting and homemaking.
弗里德瑞克教授去年与别人共同进行的一项研究发现,男士依旧是约会买单的主力。《大西洋月刊》报道称,这项调查的规模比NerdWallet网站的还大,约17000人参与了调查。数据显示,39%女性受访者承认就算自己提出买单要求,内心仍希望男士抢着付钱。弗里德瑞克教授和他的同事们认为,这是女性不抵触传统性别角色的“特例”。与之类似的还有,男士虽然不再独挑养家糊口的重担,却仍不愿承担教育小孩、操持家务等家庭责任。
Many people would argue men’s paying for dates is a form of respecting women. But Joe Pinsker, writing in The Atlantic, says this seemingly “benevolent” form of sexism can lead to a sense of entitlement on men’s part — they tend to think that women owe them because they have paid.
不少人认为男士在约会时买单是一种对女性的尊重。但乔•皮斯科在美国《大西洋月刊》上撰文称,这种看似“善意”的大男子主义会让男人感觉自己拥有更多权利——他们为约会买单,因此认为女性对他们有所亏欠。
Money can twist men’s opinion of sexual consent. Pinsker cites a 2010 study published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence. It found that men were more likely than women to think that sex should be expected when a man pays for an expensive date.
此外,付钱还会让男性将其误解为允许发生性关系的许可。皮斯科还援引了一份2010年发表于《人际暴力杂志》的调查,其结果显示,在为昂贵的约会买单后,男性比女性更容易认为将与对方发生关系。
This really is disturbing. But Frederick found something optimistic in his study that might serve as a warning to some women. Almost half of the men surveyed in the study he co-authored said that they would break up with a woman if she never offered to help pay the bill on a date. “In this single telling finding about dating and paying interactions, we see evidence of a sea change,” Frederick wrote.
这确实让人感到不安,但弗里德瑞克教授在他的研究中也发现了一些好消息,供一些女士参考:调查中,几乎一半男性都表示如果约会对象从未有过要买单的意思,他们会选择分手。弗里德瑞克教授说,“从这一结果可以看出,在约会与买单的互动关系上,我们可以看到巨大的不同。”
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第一次约会该由谁买单?多数人认为这是男士的责任。本月初,美国财经网站NerdWallet公布了一项针对近1000名交往6个月及以上情侣的调查结果。数据显示,77%(异性恋)受访者认为应该由男士来买单。
过去,这种勇于付款的“骑士精神”是因为女性没有工作,不能经济独立。但现如今,越来越多的女性都成为养家糊口的主力军,据美国《大西洋月刊》报道,从1960年到2011年,美国双亲家庭中母亲是家中主要或全部经济来源的家庭所占比例几乎翻了两番。
那么,在经济变革、两性更加平等的今天,为什么依旧应该由男士来买单呢?
美国柴普曼大学心理学教授大卫•弗里德瑞克在接受《赫芬顿邮报》采访时表示,“在社会角色开始发生变化时,人们往往愿意接受那些使生活更容易的变化,排斥令生活更麻烦的变化。而谁来买单的问题?(在这个问题上)女性比男性更抗拒性别角色的变化。”
男士付得多
弗里德瑞克教授去年与别人共同进行的一项研究发现,男士依旧是约会买单的主力。《大西洋月刊》报道称,这项调查的规模比NerdWallet网站的还大,约17000人参与了调查。数据显示,39%女性受访者承认就算自己提出买单要求,内心仍希望男士抢着付钱。弗里德瑞克教授和他的同事们认为,这是女性不抵触传统性别角色的“特例”。与之类似的还有,男士虽然不再独挑养家糊口的重担,却仍不愿承担教育小孩、操持家务等家庭责任。
不少人认为男士在约会时买单是一种对女性的尊重。但乔•皮斯科在美国《大西洋月刊》上撰文称,这种看似“善意”的大男子主义会让男人感觉自己拥有更多权利——他们为约会买单,因此认为女性对他们有所亏欠。
此外,付钱还会让男性将其误解为允许发生性关系的许可。皮斯科还援引了一份2010年发表于《人际暴力杂志》的调查,其结果显示,在为昂贵的约会买单后,男性比女性更容易认为将与对方发生关系。
这确实让人感到不安,但弗里德瑞克教授在他的研究中也发现了一些好消息,供一些女士参考:调查中,几乎一半男性都表示如果约会对象从未有过要买单的意思,他们会选择分手。弗里德瑞克教授说,“从这一结果可以看出,在约会与买单的互动关系上,我们可以看到巨大的不同。”
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摘录:当你喜欢打扮的要去海边那样就不要弄得像要去歌剧院似的。Shina建议:如果你不是很确定怎么打配合适,就多准备几套整套衣服。女性通常可以用短裙或者配套的上衣来展现自己的女性美。但是男人却不可以穿错,西裤搭配带纽扣的开领衬衫,再穿上一双不易走样的鞋。
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歌手介绍:M2M(窈窕美眉)是由两个来自挪威的小女孩Marit (乖乖美眉——玛莉特)及Marion (好动美眉——玛莉安)所组成的团体,由于两人名字都是M开头,所以就叫M2M。 Marit与Marion两人认识于1990年(大约五岁时),由于对音乐的喜爱,两人成了好朋友,并常在一起为家人及朋友表演。 他们的第一张唱片是八岁时以挪威语灌录的儿童专辑,这张专辑也获得Spillemanspriest (相当于挪威葛莱美奖)《最佳儿童专辑》提名。
Well I wonder could it be
When I was dreaming about you baby
You were dreaming of me
Call me crazy
Call me blind
To still be suffering is stupid after all of this time
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there s only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
I remember date and time
September twenty second
Sunday twenty five after nine
In the doorway with your case
No longer shouting at each other
There were tears on our faces
And we were letting go of something special
Something we ll never have again
I know, I guess I really really know
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there s only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there s only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
Why do we never know what we ve got till it s gone
How could I carry on
The day you went away
Cause I ve been missing you so much I have to say
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
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摘录:肚量是看在旁人眼里的,并不是喊出来的,尤其是不适合从自己的嘴巴里喊出来。真正心胸开阔的人,从不会炫耀,也不会索取别人的称赞。他们就不认为自己的心胸气度如此广阔,因为他们觉得他们还能做得更多。
按照我们的传统思维,自我夸耀一番也是难以避免的。但是这真的好吗?
去新公司面试,必定会做什么事情?有99%的面试官会先让应聘者自我介绍一番。
如果说自我夸耀是正常的,那么就有99%的人在面试时这么做了。然而,那么多人都用一样的措辞自夸,真的会有积极的效果?就怕非但没有积极效果,反而让人觉得你很浮夸,尽说大话很不可靠。而且,老外们对此更加在意,一听到某些单词,说不定就触碰到“雷区”,马上say “Good bye”了。
“Good morning, sir. My name is…”
“I’m xxx, I’m xxx, and I’m very xxx。”
这里有10个单词,不适合在面试的时候形容自己。看看你有没有如此自夸的习惯吧。
1.self-disciplined(严格自律的)
自律是好事,但是如果自律过了头,会给别人什么印象?不懂变通,缺乏弹性,死脑筋,不好相处……你身边有没有对待自己特别严格的人?你觉不觉得这样的人太硬不太好相处呢?所以别说自我要求特别严格了,职场不如军队,不需要铁一般的纪律,这样反而会让人觉得你缺乏人性化的变通,也难以沟通。
2. humble(谦恭的)
认为自己很谦虚的人其实并不谦虚,因为真正谦虚的人从不称赞自己谦虚。如果你真要让别人了解自己有多谦虚,就在言语中表现出自己的谦和吧,千万不要直接就说“其实啊,我这个人很谦虚的”。你听到别人这么说,会怎么想?
3.generous(宽宏大量的)
肚量是看在旁人眼里的,并不是喊出来的,尤其是不适合从自己的嘴巴里喊出来。真正心胸开阔的人,从不会炫耀,也不会索取别人的称赞。他们就不认为自己的心胸气度如此广阔,因为他们觉得他们还能做得更多。
4. passionate(充满激情的)
热情从来不是喊出来的,而是在实际工作中做出来的。说得好听比做什么都容易,千万别让人觉得你只是嘴巴上特别有干劲而已。另外,热爱工作是好事,但是太过于热爱工作,会让人担心你是否会做出什么过激的举动。而且,如果让别人觉得你动不动就满怀激情地工作,这样你的同事也会很累。
5. witty(机智幽默的)
一般很机智又有幽默感的人,是不会刻意这么称赞自己的,除非他擅长说冷笑话。想想,如果一个人对你说“你知道吗?我是个很机智幽默的人”,你的反应一定是两个字——呵呵。真正机智幽默的人,在谈吐间就能让别人感受到了,用得着挑明了说吗?这反而是愚笨的自夸。
6. empathetic(善于察言观色的)
empathy这个词是指理解他人感受和想法的能力。但是明目张胆告诉别人你善于窥探别人的心事,则容易引起别人的反感。比如某人失恋了,想把这当作秘密藏起来,却看到你用“看穿一切”的眼神看着他,一定会因为被你看穿而感到烦躁吧?如果你真有这方面的“超能力”,藏起来,别让人知道,省得他人警戒你。
7. fearless(无所畏惧的)
每个人都应该学会畏惧,会害怕才是正常人该有的心态。有勇气并非是无畏,而是明明害怕却依然在做着该做的事情。所以不要说自己天不怕地不怕,因为这样不正常,不知道危险才容易折戟于危险之中。或许你应该换个词,比如courageous(富有勇气的)。
8. straightforward(直截了当的)
想一想,如果别人对你说“我是个直截了当的人……”,那么你可能会想他的下一句话是“你的工作真是太不尽责了,我深刻质疑你的工作能力,你肯定办不好这件事……”。我们是要说话诚实,但诚实不代表一定要伤了别人的心。如果一个人说自己很直截了当,很可能别人就会对他敬而远之,因为他一点不客气,甚至不讲礼貌。
9. adaptable(能够适应)
其实,这句话原本挺不错,只是现在已经沦为了陈词滥调。万物恒变,没有东西保持不变,我们只有适应才能够生存,也就是说适应能力是我们的基础能力。不要觉得做到了自己应该做的事很了不起,实际上这本应该就是要做好的事情。就好像一位设计师去新公司应聘,然后说“我会做设计”一样,别人反而怀疑你是不是能力不够刻意这么说。
10. independent(独立性强)
依靠自己是好事,能一个人照顾好自己,不用靠太多的帮助就能成事。但是,把这个放到团队工作中去还是好事吗?那就变成了你只习惯一个人工作而忽略了团队协作,等同于对同事不负责任,也不合群。就算当了领导,孤军奋战也必定会让整个团队如一盘散沙,工作一无是处。
看到了这10个单词以后,你有没有细细回忆过,自己爱用其中的哪些呢?
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歌曲介绍:M2M的《The Day You Went Away 》是挪威组合M2M 演唱的一首歌曲。收录在其首张专辑《 Shades Of Purple 》中,这首歌不但红遍挪威以及整个欧洲,在中国也有很高的知名度,中文版的由台湾歌手王心凌翻唱的《第一次爱的人》。
Well I wonder could it be
When I was dreaming about you baby
You were dreaming of me
Call me crazy
Call me blind
To still be suffering is stupid after all of this time
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
I remember date and time
September twenty second
Sunday twenty five after nine
In the doorway with your case
No longer shouting at each other
There were tears on our faces
And we were letting go of something special
Something we'll never have again
I know, I guess I really really know
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
Did I lose my love to someone better
And does she love you like I do
I do, you know I really really do
Well hey
So much I need to say
Been lonely since the day
The day you went away
So sad but true
For me there's only you
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
Why do we never know what we've got till it'sgone
How could I carry on
The day you went away
Cause I've been missing you so much I have to say
Been crying since the day
The day you went away
The day you went away
The day you went away
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下面就给你cram恶补一下关于global warming的英文知识,让你在聊起环保话题也游刃有余!
什么是全球变暖? What is Global Warming? Global warming is the unusually rapid increase in Earth’s average surface temperature over the past century primarily due to the greenhouse gases released as people burn fossil fuels. The global average surface temperature rose 0.6 to 0.9 degrees Celsius (1.1 to 1.6° F) between 1906 and 2005, and the rate of temperature increase has nearly doubled in the last 50 years. Temperatures are certain to go up further.
自然界有正常的“温室效应” Earth’s natural greenhouse effect Earth’s temperature begins with the Sun. Roughly 30 percent of incoming sunlight is reflected back into space by bright surfaces like clouds and ice. Of the remaining 70 percent, most is absorbed by the land and ocean, and the rest is absorbed by the atmosphere. The absorbed solar energy heats our planet. As the rocks, the air, and the seas warm, they radiate “heat” energy (thermal infrared radiation). From the surface, this energy travels into the atmosphere where much of it is absorbed by water vapor and long-lived greenhouse gases such as carbon dioxide and methane. When they absorb the energy radiating from Earth’s surface, microscopic water or greenhouse gas molecules turn into tiny heaters— like the bricks in a fireplace, they radiate heat even after the fire goes out. They radiate in all directions. The energy that radiates back toward Earth heats both the lower atmosphere and the surface, enhancing the heating they get from direct sunlight. This absorption and radiation of heat by the atmosphere—the natural greenhouse effect—is beneficial for life on Earth. If there were no greenhouse effect, the Earth’s average surface temperature would be a very chilly -18°C (0°F) instead of the comfortable 15°C (59°F) that it is today.
加强版“温室效应” The enhanced greenhouse effectWhat has scientists concerned now is that over the past 250 years, humans have been artificially raising the concentration of greenhouse gases in the atmosphere at an ever-increasing rate, mostly by burning fossil fuels, but also from cutting down carbon-absorbing forests. Since the Industrial Revolution began in about 1750, carbon dioxide levels have increased nearly 38 percent as of 2009 and methane levels have increased 148 percent.
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导读:第一次约会总是状况多多,糗事百出?Don't worry!人人都是这样过来的。。。
1. "I got sick from the food we ate at a restaurant, it did not agree with my stomach. On the freeway on the way home, I just couldn't 'hold it' anymore. My date kindly and quickly pulled off the road on an offramp, and I jumped out. It was desert terrain... No bushes!“
饭店吃的东西让我的胃很不舒服。在回家的高速公路上,我再也忍不住了。跟我约会的那个人很好心地快速把车驶入匝道,我立马跳出来,那是荒山野岭啊……没有灌木丛!”
In the cool night air, with only my date's car shielding me from the freeway, I had to relieve myself to end my gastrointestinal torture. When I was done... no toilet paper. My date went to his trunk and retrieved one of his custom-tailored white French-cuff suit shirts that was supposed to be dropped off at the cleaners the next morning... He donated the shirt to my cause. We left the shirt by the road side, BTW.
那个夜晚还有点凉风,在高速公路上,只有那辆车挡着我,我必须要解决我的肠胃问题。我结束之后……发现没有厕纸。跟我约会的那个人从车里拿了一件他的定制白色双层袖口西装衬衫,这件衣服第二天本来应该是要扔去洗衣店的……他因为我的原因奉献出了那件衬衫。顺便提一下,后来我们把那件衬衫扔在路边了。
Although totally embarrassed and humiliated, I got back into the car. Not only did my date handle the entire situation with compassion (although he still calls me Freeway), he took me back to the restaurant and raised a little hell about the incident their food had just created. We not only continued to date, we married and just celebrated 17 years in April.
即便我已经那么尴尬跟丢脸了,我还是回到了车里。跟我约会的那个人不仅同情我的整个遭遇(虽然他现在仍旧叫我高速公路),还带我回到饭店,指责他们做的食物所引起的问题。之后我们不仅继续约会,还结婚了,并且刚刚在四月份庆祝我们的17周年纪念。
2. "I went on a date with a guy who seemed totally normal, and together for the first half of the date, but then he started talking about these flowers that he grew, and how the flowers told him secrets, and expanded his mind, and made him whole. Took me a minute to realize he was saying that he grew pot, and consumed massive quantities of it every day. And it was apparently his whole life. Then he 'forgot' his wallet when the check came. Yeah, that was enough."
“我跟一个看起来完全正常的人约会,当约会进行到一半的时候,他开始谈论起他种的那些花,说那些花是怎么告诉他秘密的,还开阔了他的眼界,令他完整了。我花了一分钟去理解他说的就是他种花,并且每天都卖出去很多。还有很明显那就是他的一切。然后服务员来结账的时候,他“忘记”带他的钱包了。好吧,这已经够够的了。”
3. "On our first date, I had a boy pick me up in an old Bobtail loaded with cattle. The cows were crapping over the side of the truck onto my parents' suburban sidewalk. I married him."
“我们的第一次约会,那个男孩开着满载着牛的车来接我。那些牛站在卡车边,把屎拉在了我父母的郊区房子的人行道上。我还跟他结婚了。”
4. "One date I went on, the guy told me that he was addicted to coke."
“有一次我去约会,那个男的告诉我他对可乐上瘾。”
5. "He was studying a degree in Forensic Science at the time and told me, 'I know how to get rid of a body so no one would ever know it was me, or where to find it.' Needless to say, I didn't pursue this romantic endeavour."
“他那时候正在修法医学的学位,于是跟我说:“我知道怎么去处理尸体,那样就没有人会知道那是我干的或者找到尸体了。”不用说,我后来肯定没再跟他约过了。”
6. "It was his birthday, so I offered to take him out to a nice rooftop restaurant. The drinks came and one of them spilled on the table, he stopped the waitress from wiping it up and proceeded to slurp it off of the table and said 'these drinks ain't cheap' (as though he was paying). Then he spent the rest of the night on his phone.
"那是他的生日,所以我打算带他去一个屋顶上的饭店。喝的东西上来之后,其中一瓶溢在了桌子上,他便叫住了在擦桌子的服务员,滋溜滋溜地把桌子上的酒水吸起来喝掉,还说“这些喝的都不便宜呢”(弄得好像是他付钱似的)。然后他整晚都在打电话。
7. "The 'gentleman' told me that he did not believe in domestic violence as a crime since it was needed to keep women in their place."
那个“绅士”告诉我,他不相信家庭暴力竟然是犯罪行为,因为为了把女人留在家里,那是必须的。
8. "He talked like a baby. He put chopsticks in his mouth and pretended to be a mammoth."
“他说话像孩子一样,还把筷子放在嘴里假装是长毛象。”
9. "He apologized for slavery over dinner."
“他整个晚上都在为奴隶制度而道歉。”
10. "It was wing night, we ordered 40 wings, he left me four. Just four."
“那是个啃鸡翅的夜晚。我们点了40个,他就给我留了四个。只有四个!”
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摘要:初次约会一般有两种情况,一是经人介绍,而是由于个人直觉,对自己心仪的对象提出邀约。无论是哪一种情况,第一次约会会让双方都感到颇有压力。人人都希望事情有个美好的开端,给对方留下美好的印象,所以感到些微紧张是很正常的。
A first date falls into two categories: following up on an introduction, or pursuing personalinstincts when asking out someone of your choosing. No matter which approach is taken, firstdates can be stressful for both parties. It is normal to be a little nervous as one always wantsto put their best foot forward and make a good first impression. The question commonlyasked is how to go about planning a date that says "I like you" and "I want to get to knowyou". In order for your level of interest to be conveyed it is important to show that effort andthought went into setting the right tone for your time spent together。
初次约会一般有两种情况,一是经人介绍,而是由于个人直觉,对自己心仪的对象提出邀约。无论是哪一种情况,第一次约会会让双方都感到颇有压力。人人都希望事情有个美好的开端,给对方留下美好的印象,所以感到些微紧张是很正常的。人们通常会问,要怎么计划这样一场约会,才能告诉对方“我喜欢你”,“我希望更多的了解你”呢?为了传达你的心意,很重要的一点是,你应该让对方知道自己为了这场初次约会进展顺利,投注了许多心思和气力。
Begin the process with a phone call. As old school as it may sound, texts, tweets or emails justdon't cut it as a way to ask someone out. Direct communication where conversation can flowback and forth is still king。
首先,给对方去一个电话,这虽然看起来有点老土,可是,当你想约某人出去的时候,发短信、微博或者邮件都不如电话直截了当。双向的对话和直接交流仍然是王道。
情场高手亲授浪漫成功的第一次约会
Pick a location where you can talk without screaming. Hip and cool is fine, crazy loud with athumping sound track is a no-no. The restaurant's atmosphere and people watching are greatsources for dialog. Observations made can be very revealing about each other。
第二,挑选一个你们可以自由交谈,不用大声高喊的安静环境。嘻哈风格的场所还差强人意,带有打击乐背景音响的特别吵闹的地方就不行了。在安静的氛围中,餐厅的环境和周围的客人可以作为极好的谈资。你们对对方的观察也可以更加清晰透彻。
Don't pick a see and be seen place. The focus should be on the two of you without theinterruptions of having to interface with the people you know in the room. Plus no reason toinform your immediate universe what you are up to。
不要选一个有熟人出没的地方。你们应该以两人单独相处为重点,杜绝此地还有你认识的人介入的情况。再说,还没必要让你的交际圈知道你正在干什么。
Movies are a perfect third or forth date idea as they provide food for thought later in theevening. As far as first dates go, stick to plans that allow you to get to know one anotherrather than sitting in the dark munching on popcorn。
到第三、第四次约会时再去看电影更好,因为电影能让你们在散场后有思考交谈的共同话题。至于第一次约会,还是选择能让你们了解双方的活动,而不是坐在黑暗中嚼爆米花比较好。
Common hobbies and shared interests are great for couples to engage in, but not on a firstdate. As your initial get together, hiking, biking, sky diving may not be an ideal way to connect.No need to show them your sweated up look right away. Making small talk while gripping yourknees and panting is not sexy。
共同的兴趣爱好对一对情侣来说是经营感情的绝佳手段,但是对于初次约会的两人来说则不是。在初次约会时,远足、骑自行车、跳伞都不是理想的交流方式。没必要此刻就把你汗津津的样子展示给对方。当你精疲力尽,一边支着膝盖喘气、一边跟对方聊天,这可不够性感。
Coffee: Not the best idea for an initial meeting. A cup of Joe says "I don't want to invest toomuch money or time with you". "I am in it for quick recon". Although coffee houses can bequaint and atmospheric, they tend to be viewed as in between activities, not the main eventof the day or evening。
喝咖啡:不是初次约会的理想方式。约一倍咖啡会让对方觉得你“不想为对方花费太多的金钱或时间”、觉得你“只是想快速侦查一下”对方的情况。虽然咖啡厅环境颇为古雅浪漫,但是喝咖啡通常被认为是人们办正事的间隙时间里的消遣,而不是这一天或这一晚上的主要活动。
Lunch: A mid day meal can be seen as a one hour, more stilted, business like encounterrather than a date. On the other hand, a weekend picnic in a park, sitting on a blanket withsavory threats is romantic。
吃午餐:一天正午的这餐饭可能会被看成程式化的,时间固定的商务会面而不是约会。另一方面,在周末去公园野餐,坐在毯子上吃着美味的点心倒是颇为浪漫。
Drinks: Clinking glasses is festive and shows a commitment of time and provides an upbeatvibe. What is appealing about drinks as a first date is that it leaves the door open for dinner. Ifthings are going well it is easy to expand on your evening。
酒吧畅饮:去酒吧开怀畅饮,相互碰杯可以制造愉悦发气氛,表现你愿意为对方投入时间,而且能够调动双方的情绪。初次约会去酒吧畅饮的一大好处在于,你能很自然的约对方吃晚餐。如果进展顺利的话,你就能轻松的将约会顺延到晚上的用餐时间了。
Dinner: This demonstrates a willingness to spend an extended period of time with someone.Nothing expresses interest more than a two hour meal, especially on a Saturday night。
吃晚餐:吃晚餐会告诉对方,你愿意长时间与对方共处。没什么比一场两小时的晚宴更能表达你的心意了,特别是在周六的晚上。
The exciting part about a first date is that if it moves in the right direction, you are paving theway for second and third get togethers. When saying good night, assuming all went well, let itbe known and take the initiative to plan another outing, leaving you both wanting more andgiving each other something to look forward to.。。
初次约会让人开心之处在于,如果进展顺利,你们就可以准备进行第二、第三次约会了。当你们互道晚安,如果你心想一切都很顺利,要及时把自己的想法告诉对方,主动安排下一次见面,让双方都想要继续,给对方一点可供期待的念想……
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文开篇,如果能够石破天惊,“以奇句夺目”,则必使人“一见惊目,不愿弃去”。因为人们首先看到的是开头,开头怎样,对作文有很大的影响。因此,作文要想让阅卷老师眼前一亮,就要重视文章的开头。下面是读文网小编整理的写出地道的英文文章的方法,欢迎大家阅读!
在写作时根据实际情况恰当地用上一两句名言警句来点缀文章,不仅使文章显得有深度、有智慧,而且会让文章在评分中上一个“得分档次”。如:
(1) As the proverb says, “Where there is a will, there is a way.” Though you fail this time, you needn’t lose heart. As long as you work hard and stick to your dream, you will succeed one day.
(2) There is a proverb goes like this “Life isn’t a bed of roses.” It is ture that it is likely for everyone to meet problems and difficulties in life.
(3) In the modern world, more and more people live alone, which is not so good for our life. It is better for us to make more friends and enjoy friendship. Just as a proverb says, “A near friend is better than a far-dwelling kinsman.”
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The sun has begun to set and I hang up the smile I’ve worn all day, though I will make sure it is the first thing I put back on in the morning just in case it is “that day.” I want her to see me at my very best.
太阳将要下山,我收起挂了一天的微笑,不过我会确保明天早上第一件事就是将它又挂回去,以防这天就是“那一天”。我希望她看到我的最佳状态。
I do the normal routine, eat dinner, clean the house, write—the usual stuff. And then I lay down hoping to fall asleep quickly so my new day will hurry up and arrive. A new day with a brand new sun. But as I lay there and wait for the world to turn half way around, I think about her. And sometimes I smile, and sometimes that smile will turn into asnicker, and then often that snicker will turn into a burst of laughter.
我按平时的规律吃晚餐、打扫屋子、写作——做着日常事务。然后我躺下,希望能快点入睡,新的一天就能快点到来——拥有新生太阳的崭新的一天。可当我躺在那儿,等待着世界的日夜回转时,我想到了她。有时我会笑起来,有时那微笑变成了窃笑,然后窃笑又常常变成爆笑。
And then there are times I get that lump in my throat and that tight feeling in my chest, and sometimes that feeling overwhelms me and begins to turn into a tear, and often that tear multiplies itself and I can no longer fight the feeling and I lose the battle. Then somehow through either the joy or the sadness I drift and find myself asleep. Then the dreams begin and keep me company until my new day arrives.
也有些时候,我的喉咙像是被一块东西哽住了,胸口发闷;有时那种伤感席卷而来,我开始流泪,眼泪常常越流越多,我再也无力抵抗悲伤,败下阵来。然后不知怎的,我在或喜悦或悲伤中飘荡,逐渐入眠。然后梦境开始伴我左右,直至新的一天到来。
When I awake it’s with such excitement because I tell myself this could be the day that every other day has led up to and the first day of the rest of my life. I quickly don my smile because I do so want her to see me at my very best. Then I look out the window because, even though I know it’s dawn, I still have to confirm I’ve been given another chance to find her.
醒来时,我兴奋不已,因为我告诉自己今天也许就是之前其他日子为之打下基础的“那一天”,是我余生的第一天。我迅速挂上微笑,因为我真的很想让她看到我的最佳状态。然后我朝窗外看去,因为即使我知道现在才刚刚破晓,我仍得确定自己可以与她再次邂逅。
And there it is…the sun, even when it’s cloudy; somehow I still see it. And it smiles at me and I say, “Thank you,” and I smile back.
它在那里……太阳,虽然还是云雾重重,但我还是看到它了。它朝我微笑,我道了声“谢谢”,回以一笑。
Then I ask myself, “Is this the day?” And the excitement rushes over me again. And then I ask myself, “Where’s it going to be?”
然后我问自己:“今天就是那一天吗?”兴奋之情再次充溢全身。然后我问自己:“它会在哪里呢?”
Maybe it’ll be at the water fountain, and, unexpectedly, there I’ll find her, and much more than my thirst will be quenched. Maybe it’ll be at the grocery store and there she’ll appear as I’m picking out fruit, and she’ll show me the difference between fresh and spoiled. Then, from that moment, nothing that I eat will ever taste the same because she’ll bring out the simplest beauties in everything I see, taste, smell, hear, or touch.
也许它会藏在饮水机里,没想到我真能在那里找到她,为我生津止渴,取之不尽。也许它会躲在杂货店里,我拿起水果的时候,她就出现了,她会给我展示新鲜和变质的不同。然后,从那一刻开始,我所尝到的一切味道不再一样,因为但凡我看到的、尝到的、闻到的、听到的或摸到的东西,她都带出了它们最简单的美丽。
Or maybe today will be the day when my angel brings an item up to the cash register without its price tag. And as I wait behind this angel with all the frustrated people who are in such a hurry with their busy lives, I will find myself with such blessed extra time. Just enough time to start a conversation with this beautiful vision standing in front of me that I might not otherwise have noticed, but, because of a “price check on register 5,” I was able to find her.
或许就在今天,我的天使把一件没有价格标签的商品拿到收银台。我在天使身后排队,看着身心疲惫的人们忙忙碌碌地过日子,庆幸自己得到了这样的额外时间,让我可以和面前的倩影闲聊一会儿,否则我也许会错过,但只因为一句“请到5号收银台付款”,我就能找到她。
Thank you for the sun, which began my new day. Thank you for granting me the faith when I arose this morning that I would find her in this new day. But most of all, thank you for me not having to ever wait on another sunrise because whenever I want to see it, I will look at her and there it shall always be, in her eyes; she will forever hold it for me.
感谢太阳,它是新一天的开始。感谢你让我今早一起床就满怀信心,知道自己能在这新的一天找到她。但最要感谢的是我不必再等下一个日出,因为无论我想何时看到它,我都可以看向她,它总会出现在她的双眸里;她永远为我留着。
She is my sunrise, my dawn, my new day.
她是我的日出,我的黎明,我崭新的一天。
Let's take steps to banish some of the most common negative thoughts many of us repeat to ourselves. Being in a negative space is harmful to our overall well-being, because what you dwell on can easily become self fulfilling if you don't change your mindset.
让我们一起行动起来,消灭那些我们经常告诉自己的消极想法吧!如果你不改变想法,而是一味地沉浸在消极的念头中,那么,我们的整个身心就会受到影响,因为“噩梦”也会成真。
1.I'm not good enough.
我不够好。
This type of negative thought that can apply to many categories. Maybe you don't think you're a good enough mother or good at a sport. Even if you find yourself lacking in something, there's no need to keep repeating it to yourself. The human brain is an incredible thing. Be inspired by Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor, Harvard-trained neuroscientist who suffered a stroke that left her unable to walk, read, write, talk, or remember her previous life. Dr. Taylor took eight years to recover and has since then written a best-selling book about her experience and appeared on Oprah. Keep on working toward something, and watch the leaps and bounds you'll make.
这种消极想法有很多类型。比如你认为自己不是个称职的妈妈或不擅长运动。即使你真的发现了自己的弱点,也没必要对自己不断复述。人脑是神奇的。吉尔泰勒就是个激励的好典型,她是哈佛大学的神经系统学专家,中风后她就失去了行走、阅读、书写、交谈的能力了,甚至还失忆了。她花了八年的时间复原,用自己的经历写了畅销书,还上了奥普拉的节目。坚持做一件事,亲眼见证自己的变化。
2.No one cares about me.
没人关心我。
To accurately say that your family and friends don't care about you would be a very rare situation. Maybe you're being too negative and overlooking the gestures of love they show you. They don't even have to be big gestures, but it's the little things they do for you that count. And people may be reacting to the energy you're putting out; perhaps you think they don't care about you so you don't make any effort in your relationships. Start showing people you care, so they can show you back in kind. And if you don't have good relationships with the people you know, what's stopping you from making new friends?
家人朋友都不关心你,这种情况其实不太常见。可能你过于消极的想法使你忽略了他们对你表达的爱。他们甚至并不需要为你做什么惊天动地的大事,正是一些小事才真正打动人心。或者你觉得没人关心你,所以无需再经营人际关系,但其实也许人们只有在感知到你的付出后,才会对你进行回报;关心别人,别人才会关心你。如果你和周围人的关系处理不好,为何不结交些新朋友?
3.I really dislike this person.
我真的不喜欢这个人。
If you dislike a person in your work or personal life, focusing on her bad qualities is not going to make things better. You need to let go of your assumptions about her and know that she is human too, which means she makes mistakes. Either you move on and stop thinking and talking about her, or learn to approach her or think about her in a positive manner. Focus on her good qualities, and repeat them to yourself instead of honing in on the unpleasant things.
如果工作或生活中有你讨厌的人,只关注她的缺点有害无益。你需要放下对她的所有成见,告诉自己她也是个人,也有犯错的时候。要么就不再谈论她和想着她,要么学着去接近她,或想想她好的一面。多想想她的优点,不要再专注于让你不开心的事情。
4.Why is she better off?
为什么她比我好?
Comparing yourself to someone else is never productive or positive. There's always going to be someone who is younger, prettier, smarter, or richer than you. If you keep coveting what someone else has, then this may cause you to be resentful of them, which will open a whole other negative can of worms. Remember, what they don't have is your whole package. Be appreciative of what you have, because if you want to play the comparison game, remember that there are people who are also worse off than you are.
和别人比较永远不是有效率和积极的表现。总有比你年轻,漂亮,聪明,富有的人。如果你始终关注别人拥有什么,会带来你对他们的恨意,随即带来更多消极的想法。记住,你所拥有的也是他们所没有的。珍惜你所拥有的东西,如果真的想和别人比较,也别忘了总有比你差的人。
5.I'll never reach my goal.
我永远无法达到目标。
If you think you're not going to be able "get there," think again. There are many people who are worse off and have overcome bigger obstacles than what you are facing. Take, for example, Olympic sprinter Oscar Pistorius, an amputee who overcame his handicap to compete in the Olympics against his able-bodied peers. Everything is within your reach as long as you work hard and have a a positive attitude.
如果你认为自己达不到,再想想。比你差的人比比皆是,他们遇到的困难也比你的更大。比如,奥运会短跑选手刀锋战士奥斯卡·皮斯托利斯,一个被截肢的运动员,战胜了自己的阻碍,在其他健壮的对手中脱颖而出赢得了奥运会的冠军。只要你努力付出,有着积极的信念,任何事都能够做到。
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下面是小编整理的英语版本的优美短文哦!看一下外国诗人是怎么写短文的
Love is more thicker than forge
tMore thinner than recall
More seldom than a wave is wet
More frequent than to failIt is most mad and moonly
And less it shall unbe
Than all the sea which only
Is deeper than the sea
Love is less always than to win
Less never than alive
Less bigger than the least begin
Less littler than forgiveIt is most sane and sunly
And more it cannot die
Than all the sky which only
Is higher than the sky
爱情比忘却厚
比回忆薄
比潮湿的波浪少
比失败多
它最痴癫最疯狂
但比起所有
比海洋更深的海洋
它更为长久
爱情总比胜利少见
却比活着多些
不大于无法开始
不小于谅解
他最明朗最清晰
而比起所有
比天空更高的天空
他更为不朽
2There was a young flower in the desert where all was dry and sad looking…… It was growing by itself…… enjoying every day…… and saying to the sun "When shall I be grown up?" And the sun would say "Be patient - Each time I touch you, you grow a little……" She was so pleased. Because she would have a chance to bring beauty to this corner of sand…… And this is all she wanted to do - bring a little bit of beauty to this world.
遍地干旱、满目悲凉的沙漠中有朵小花,她独自生长在那里,享受着每一天……她问太阳公公“我什么时候才能长大?”太阳公公总是说“要有耐心—— 我每次抚摸你,你都会长大一点……”小花好开心啊,因为她也有机会为沙漠的一隅增添美丽了……这是她毕生的心愿—— 为这个世界增添一丝美丽。
One day the hunter came by - and stepped on her. - She was going to die - and she felt so sad. Not because she was dying - but because she would not have a chance to bring a little bit of beauty to this corner of the desert.
一天,一位猎人经过——正好踩在她身上―― 她快要死了—— 她感到如此悲伤。并不是因为她即将死去,而是因为再没有机会为沙漠增添一丝美丽了。
The great spirit saw her, and was listening. - Indeed, he said…… She should be living…… And he reached down and touched her - and gave her life.
伟大的精神看到了她,并且听到了她的心里话。……事实上,他在说……她应该活着……他俯下身,抚摸着她—— 给了她生命。
And she grew up to be a beautiful flower…… and this corner of the desert became so beautiful because of her.
她长成一朵美丽的花……由于她的存在,这沙漠的一隅变得如此美丽。
3Spirit is a monument, is a cornerstone, is on the way of life is brilliant, ruler. A modest, being the Confucius YinChu hits, "two heads are better than one, slowly," fools, generation Confucianism masters, With tolerance, ambitious, daring JiHuanGong devoid of nay, appoint people by abilities, achievement, generation vista dominance, With firmness, lonely lonely YuFen SuWu of sorrow, always don't throw away the hand that race day, the heart of han motherland, patriotic model; the cadre A dedication, kindness and plain, the ordinary XuHuCai can years like one day, warm feeling, sprinkle the people, to today's "living lei feng." ... Through history, tunnel, through history, forever will hold the grand mansion lofty life.
精神是一座丰碑,是一块基石,是前进道路上的灯塔,是灿烂人生的标尺。有了谦虚,学富五车、才高八斗的孔子缓缓吟出“三人行,必有我师”,不耻下问,终成一代儒学大师;有了宽容,雄心勃勃、意气风发的齐桓公摈弃私仇,任人唯贤,成就千秋伟业,终成一代霸主;有了坚贞,寂寞忧愁、孤寂郁愤的苏武始终不扔掉手中的汉使族节,心系祖国,终成千秋爱国楷模;有了奉献,善良质朴、平凡无闻的徐虎才能够十年如一日,情洒百姓,温暖万家,终成当今的“活雷锋”。……精神,穿越历史隧道,趟过历史长河,将永远撑起人生巍峨壮观的大厦。
4a wild guessOur physics professor was sruggling to draw the class into discussion of Archiimede's principe of water displacement. He told us that Archimede noticed that when he got into a pool at the public bathhouse, the water rose spilling over the edge. Excited at his discovery ,he ran down the street yelling ,"Eureka,eureka!" The instructor asked if anyone knew what that meant.One student stood up and answered ,I'm naked! l'm naked!"
一个胡乱的猜测我们的物理教授正在努力尝试把学生引入关于排水量的阿基米德原理的讨论。他告诉我们当阿基米德进入公共浴室的池子中时他注意到水漫出了浴缸边。由于这个发现,他兴奋的跑到街上并大叫道:”我找到了!我找到了!“教授问道是否有人知道这代表什么。一个学生站起来回答道“我裸(奔)了,我裸(奔)了”
5TO borrow an oxOnce upon a time ,there lived a rich man,but he didn't know any words.One day,one of his friends wanted to borrow an ox from him ,so he wrote a note and asked his servant to take it to this rich man.After the servant gave the note to the rich man,pretended to be reading it and after a while ,he said ,"OK,l know,Go and tell your master,"l'll go myself shortly.
借牛很久很久以前,住着一个有钱人,但是他不识字。有一天,他的一个朋友想从他那里借一头牛,所以写了一个信条让他的仆人带去给那个有钱人。在仆人把信条交给有钱人之后,他假装读了一会,然后说道:好的,我知道了,回去告诉你的主人,我马上亲自过去”
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月亮是环绕地球运行的一颗固态卫星,也是离地球最近的天体。那么你知道月亮的英文是什么吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来月亮的英文表达和相关例句,希望对你有所帮助。
1. In Norse mythology the moon is personified as male.
在斯堪的纳维亚神话里,月亮被赋予了男性身份。
2. The half moon is hidden behind some wispy clouds.
半轮月亮躲在淡淡的云彩之后。
3. Look at that moon. Is that beautiful or what?
看看那月亮,它真漂亮,不是吗?
4. The moon was casting a rainbow through the spray from the waterfall.
月亮在瀑布溅起的水雾上照出了一道彩虹。
5. The moon was waning, and each day it rose later.
月亮渐亏,每天出现的时间也越来越晚。
6. The moon shone, shedding a ghostly light on the fields.
月亮闪耀,田野上洒下幽幽的亮光。
7. The moon disappeared behind a cloud.
月亮消失在云后。
8. The moon was rising in the inky sky.
月亮升起在墨似的夜空中。
9. There will be no moon.
月亮不会出来了。
10. A dog suddenly howled, baying at the moon.
一只狗突然对着月亮狂吠不止。
11. The silvery globe of the moon hung in the sky.
银盘似的月亮悬挂在空中.
12. The moon finally peeped out from behind the clouds.
月亮终于从云层后面露了出来.
13. The sky was dark blue and clear when the moon came up.
月亮出来时,天空是深蓝色的,非常晴朗.
14. He looked at the moon and made the time to be midnight.
他看了看月亮,估计时间是半夜了.
15. The fog cleared away and the full moon appeared.
雾消散了,整个月亮出现了.
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珍惜是指重视爱惜,如对待珠宝般爱惜。那么你知道珍惜的英文是什么吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来珍惜的英文表达和相关例句,希望对你有所帮助。
treasure
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学习,是指通过阅读、听讲、思考、研究、实践等途径获得知识或技能的过程。那么你知道学习的英文是什么吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来学习的英文表达和相关例句,欢迎大家一起学习。
learn
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原始人发展出的图示和表意符号是如今现代字母的原型,比如楔形文字和象形文字。如今我们最常用的就是英语字母,那么你知道字母的英文是什么吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来字母的英文表达和相关例句,希望对你有所帮助。
Arabic alphabet;
阿拉伯字母
a capital letter;
大写字母
the English alphabet;
英语字母
the Chinese phonetic alphabet;
汉语拼音字母
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