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WRITING about your feelings, a practice long embraced by teenagers and folk singers, is now attracting attention as a path to good health. And a recent study suggests that reflecting on your emotions could help you get over a breakup. But, one of its authors says, journaling can have its downsides.
Is structured self-reflection, as some suggest, a healthy tuneup for the heart and head — or can it make hurt feelings worse?
For a study published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science, Grace M. Larson, a graduate student at Northwestern University, and David A. Sbarra, a psychology professor at the University of Arizona, looked at self-reflection through a speaking exercise. They recruited 210 young people (they ranged in age from 17 to 29) who had recently broken up with their partners, and then split this brokenhearted sample into two groups.
One filled out a questionnaire on how they were feeling, then completed a four-minute assignment in which they were asked to talk into a recording device, free-associating in response to questions like, “When did you first realize you and your partner were headed toward breaking up?” This group repeated the same exercise three, six and nine weeks later.
The second group filled out the questionnaire at the beginning and the end of the nine-week study period (they did the speaking exercise only once, after filling out their final questionnaires).
Ms. Larson and Dr. Sbarra found that the breakup sufferers in the first group experienced greater improvements in “self-concept clarity” than those in the second. Dr. Sbarra defines self-concept clarity as “the degree to which you understand yourself as a person.” He and Ms. Larson measured it by asking subjects how much they agreed with statements like “I do not feel like myself anymore” or “I have regained my identity.” Much of our understanding of ourselves can be bound up in our relationships with our partners, Dr. Sbarra explained — and if we break up, it can be hard to answer questions like “Who am I?” or “Who are my friends?” or “How should I spend my time?” The speaking exercise helped people, he explained, because “it improved their sense of self independent of their former partner.”
That improved sense of self, in turn, led to reductions in loneliness and “emotional intrusion.” As for why the exercise worked, Dr. Sbarra has a few theories. “There is a degree of habituation that takes place as you are repeatedly thinking and talking about the process” of a breakup, he said. “You defang it a little bit.” And, he added, hearing yourself say something may prove revelatory. He imagines a subject’s internal monologue: “I didn’t know I seemed to be getting better until I said I seemed to be getting better. I must be getting better.”
For people going through breakups without the benefit of psychology researchers to record their thoughts, Dr. Sbarra says the study offers some insights. Getting back your sense of self after a breakup, he argued, is crucial: “You really need to figure out a way to pull yourself back together and to try to get some reorganization in terms of who you are, what you do, how you spend your time.” You may not need a recording device to do that — Dr. Sbarra believes that you might also be able to rebuild your self-concept by writing, “in a stream-of-consciousness way, how you’re feeling about things.”
OTHER researchers see benefits from self-reflective writing beyond soothing post-breakup pain — and the practice is drawing media attention, too. At the news website Mic, Rachel Grate cites research by a team from New Zealand showing that writing exercises may aid wound healing. She also quotes the psychologist James W. Pennebaker of the University of Texas at Austin: “When people are given the opportunity to write about emotional upheavals, they often experience improved health.”
According to James Hamblin at The Atlantic, a 2012 study found that writing improved quality of life for breast cancer patients. Laura I. Miller at the website Bustle offers 12 reasons we should all resolve to write more in 2015. And “if writing about the difficult parts of your life were a drug,” writes Drake Baer at Business Insider, “it would be making bank for some faceless pharmaceutical company.”
But if it were a drug, it might be one with a maximum recommended dosage — and warnings for certain patients. In another study, Dr. Sbarra found that divorced people assigned to do expressive writing exercises — essentially, exercises wherein they reflected on their feelings — showed no greater improvement in measures of emotional well-being than those asked to write, without emotion, about what they did during the day. And subjects who tended to ruminate on their situation actually did better if they were assigned to the emotion-free writing.
The prompts in the expressive writing study were more involved than those in the speaking-exercise one — instead of responding to simple questions, participants were asked to “really delve into your deepest emotions and thoughts” or to “work toward creating a coherent story and narrative, with yourself as the storyteller.”
“I think the expressive writing intervention at times can be too heavy-handed,” said Dr. Sbarra. “It can be too directive without allowing people’s natural coping tendencies to do what they’ve done over the course of evolutionary history.” And for some people, reflecting too much on their feelings can make things worse. “That’s the real danger of our journaling culture,” he added — diary writing isn’t “one size fits all.”
For many, the key may turn out to be some self-reflection, but not too much: writing about your feelings, “but then not necessarily mulling over it or doing any more. Just write it, talk about it, leave it, do it again.”
“There’s a really delicate balance between avoiding and getting overinvolved for every stressful event,” Dr. Sbarra explained, “and so you touch on it, you think about it, you put it out there, you reflect, and then you sort of create some distance.”
So if you ever get a prescription for writing, it might read: Spend a little time with your diary — and then go for a walk.
写下自己的感想,这种长期被青少年和民谣歌手所采纳的做法,目前正作为一种保持健康的途径,吸引着人们的注意力。最近的一项研究表明,反思自己的情绪能帮你渡过分手时期。但是,论文的一名作者称,记日记可能会产生消极影响。
有人建议进行有条理的自我反思,但这样做会让身心得到健康的调整——还是会让受伤害的感觉更加强烈?
美国西北大学(Northwestern University)的研究生格雷斯·M·拉尔森(Grace M. Larson)和亚利桑那大学(University of Arizona)的心理学教授戴维·A·斯巴拉(David A. Sbarra)在《社会心理与人格科学》(Social Psychological and Personality Science)期刊上发表了一篇论文,为此,他们通过自述对自我反思进行了研究。他们招募了210名最近与伴侣分手的年轻人(年龄从17岁到29岁不等),然后把这些极度伤心的研究对象分成两组。
其中一组需要填写关于个人感受的调查问卷,然后再对着一台录音设备讲话4分钟,对于“你从什么时候开始意识到自己和伴侣即将分手”等问题,他们可以自由联想。这组人在3周、6周和9周之后,重复了同样的任务。
第二组则在最初和为期9周的研究即将结束时填写了调查问卷(他们只在填完最后的调查问卷后,做过一次自述)。
拉尔森和斯巴拉发现,与第二组因为分手而备受折磨的人相比,第一组人在“自我概念清晰性”方面有更大的改善。根据斯巴拉的定义,自我概念清晰性指的是“人对自身存在的理解程度”。他和拉尔森通过询问研究对象对一些观点的认可程度,对这一点进行了评测。这些观点包括“我觉得自己已经不像自己了”和“我已经找回了自我”等等。斯巴拉解释道,我们对自身的理解在很大程度上可能都与我们和伴侣的关系紧密相关,所以一旦分手,像“我是谁”、“我的朋友都有哪些”或者“我应该如何打发时间”这样的问题,就往往会变得难以回答。他解释说,自述能帮助人们,因为“它可以帮人们提高脱离于前情侣的自立感”。
这种经过提高的自我意识,反过来又能减少孤独感和“情绪入侵”。至于自述为什么会起作用,斯巴拉有几个推测。“随着你反复思考和谈论分手过程,就会产生一定程度的习惯化,”他说。“这样会削弱它的影响力。”他还说,听自己讲述一些内容,可能会具有启发性。他想象研究对象的内心独白:“直到我说出自己似乎好些了,才知道我似乎真的已经好些了。我一定要好起来。”
斯巴拉说,对于那些在分手后没有心理学研究人员帮他们记录想法的人,这项研究提供了一些启发。他认为,在分手后找回自我意识至关重要:“你真的需要找到一种找回自我的方式,试着对你是谁,你要做什么,你应该如何打发时间等问题进行重组。”做到这一点,你或许并不需要录音设备——斯巴拉认为你或许也能通过写作来重塑自我概念,“以一种意识流的方式来书写你对事物的感觉”。
还有一些研究人员发现,进行反思式写作除了可以缓解分手后的痛苦,还有其他好处,这种做法也获得了媒体关注。在新闻网站Mic上,拉赫尔·格拉特(Rachel Grate)提到了一个新西兰团队的研究项目,该研究说明写作联系可能有助于创伤修复。她还引用德克萨斯大学奥斯汀分校(University of Texas at Austin)心理学家詹姆斯·W·佩内贝克(James W. Pennebaker)的话称,“当人们有机会记录自己的情绪波动时,他们的健康状况通常会有所改善。”
詹姆斯·汉布林(James Hamblin)在《大西洋月刊》(The Atlantic)杂志发表文章称,2012年的一项研究发现,写作的做法提高了乳腺癌患者的生活质量。劳拉·I·米勒(Laura I. Miller)在Bustle网站撰文,列出了我们在2015年应该决心记录更多的12个理由。“如果记录生活中的艰难时刻的做法是一种药物,”德雷克·贝尔(Drake Baer)在商业内幕(Business Insider)网站上写道,“一些不知名的制药公司就可以一夜暴富了。”
但如果这是一种药物,它可能会设有最大推荐剂量——以及针对某些病人的警告。在另一项研究中,斯巴拉发现,与那些没有情绪的、被要求记录一天当中的所作所为的人相比,被指派做表达性写作练习的——基本上是记录对自己的感觉的反思——离婚人士并没有获得更大程度的改善。当那些倾向于反思自身情况的人被指派进行无情绪写作时,他们实际上做得更好。
表达性写作研究中的提示比自述研究的提示更为深入。它要求参与者“真正探索自己最深层的感受与想法”或“自己作为叙述者,努力创作一个连贯的故事”,而不仅限于回答简单的问题。
“我觉得表达性写作这种干预手段有时会力度过大,”斯巴拉说。“如果不允许人采用自然的应对机制,从事他们在演化过程中发展出来的惯用做法,那么这种手段就会指令性过强。”对于一些人来说,过度反思自己的感受会让情况变得更糟。“这是日记文化真正的危险所在,”他还表示——写日记的做法“并不适用于所有人”。
对于很多人而言,秘诀可能是一定程度上的自我反思,可是不要过多:记录自己的感受,“但不一定要思前想后或做更多的事情。就把它记录下来,聊一聊,然后遗忘,再来一遍”。
“实际上,对于每一个承受压力的情境,在避免过分投入和过分投入之间存在微妙的平衡,”斯巴拉解释称,“你提到这种情绪,你去思考它,把事实摆在那儿,反思,然后就在某种程度上拉开了一些距离。”
因此,如果你得到了一张有关写作的处方,它可能是这么写的:花一点时间写日记,然后出去走走。
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对于一些人来说浪漫的路总是曲曲折折的。下面是读文网小编整理的英语优美散文,欢迎大家阅读!
Located in the checkroom in Union Station as I am, Isee everybody that comes up the stairs.
Harry came in a little over three years ago and waitedat the head of the stairs for the passengers from the9∶05 train.
I remember seeing Harry that first evening. Hewasn’t much more than a thin, anxious kid then. Hewas all dressed up and I knew he was meeting his girland that they would be married twenty minutesafter she arrived.
Well, the passengers came up and I had to get busy.I didn’t look toward the stairs again until nearly time for the 9∶18 and I was very surprised tosee that the young fellow was still there.
She didn’t come on the 9∶18 either, nor on the 9∶40, and when the passengers from the 10∶02had all arrived and left, Harry was looking pretty desperate. Pretty soon he came close to mywindow so I called out and asked him what she looked like.
"She’s small and dark," he said, "and nineteen years old and very neat in the way she walks.She has a face," he said, thinking a minute, "that has lots of spirit. I mean she can get mad butshe never stays mad for long, and her eyebrows come to a little point in the middle. She’s got abrown fur, but maybe she isn’t wearing it."
I couldn’t remember seeing anybody like that.
He showed me the telegram he’d received: ARRIVE THURSDAY. MEET ME STATION. LOVELOVE LOVE LOVE. MAY. It was from Omaha, Nebraska.
"Well," I finally said, "why don’t you phone to your home? She’s probably called there if she gotin ahead of you."
He gave me a sick look. "I’ve only been in town two days. We were going to meet and thendrive down South where I’ve got a job. She hasn’t any address for me." He touched thetelegram.
When I came on duty the next day he was still there and came over as soon as he saw me.
"Did she work anywhere?" I asked.
He nodded. "She was a typist. I telegraphed her former boss. All they know is that she left herjob to get married."
Harry met every train for the next three or four days. Of course, the railroad lines made aroutine checkup and the police looked into the case. But nobody was any real help. I could seethat they all figured that May had simply played a trick on2 him. But I never believed that,somehow.
One day, after about two weeks, Harry and I were talking and I told him about my theory. "Ifyou’ll just wait long enough," I said, "you’ll see her coming up those stairs some day." Heturned and looked at the stairs as though he had never seen them before.
The next day when I came to work Harry was behind the counter of Tony’s magazine stand. Helooked at me rather sheepishly and said, "Well, I had to get a job somewhere, didn’t I?"
So he began to work as a clerk for Tony. We never spoke of May anymore and neither of usever mentioned my theory. But I noticed that Harry always saw every person who came up thestairs.
Toward the end of the year Tony was killed in some argument over gambling, and Tony’s widowleft Harry in complete charge of the magazine stand. And when she got married again sometime later, Harry bought the stand from her. He borrowed money and installed a soda fountainand pretty soon he had a very nice little business.
Then came yesterday. I heard a cry and a lot of things falling. The cry was from Harry and thethings falling were a lot of dolls and other things which he had upset while he was jumping overthe counter. He ran across and grabbed a girl not ten feet from my window. She was small anddark and her eyebrows came to a little point in the middle.
For a while they just hung there to each other laughing and crying and saying things withoutmeaning. She’d say a few words like, "It was the bus station I meant" and he’d kiss herspeechless and tell her the many things he had done to find her. What apparently hadhappeded three years before was that May had come by bus, not by train, and in her telegramshe meant "bus station," not "railroad station." She had waited at the bus station for days andhad spent all her money trying to find Harry. Finally she got a job typing.
"What?" said Harry. "Have you been working in town? All the time?"
She nodded.
"Well, Heavens. Didn’t you ever come down here to the station?" He pointed across to hismagazine stand. "I’ve been there all the time. I own it. I’ve watched everybody that came up thestairs."
She began to look a little pale. Pretty soon she looked over at the stairs and said in a weakvoice, "I never came up the stairs before. You see, I went out of town yesterday on a shortbusiness trip. Oh, Harry!" Then she threw her arms around his neck and really began to cry.
After a minute she backed away and pointed very stiffly toward the north end of the station. "Harry, for three years, for three solid years, I’ve been right over there working right in thisvery station, typing, in the office of the stationmaster."
优美散文:浪漫之路曲曲折折
由于我工作的地方在联合车站的行李寄存处,我看得见每一个上楼的人。
哈里3年多以前来到这里,站在楼梯口等待9点05分到达的火车旅客。
我还记得那第一晚见到哈里时的情景。那时,他瘦瘦的,神情焦虑,就像个孩子似的。他穿戴整齐,我知道他是在等女朋友,而且在她到达20分钟之后他们就要结婚。
旅客们过来了,我得忙碌起来。等到9点18分的那趟车快到的时候我才再往楼梯方向看去,我吃惊地发现那个年轻人还在那里。
她也没乘9点18分的那趟车来,9点40分的车上也没她。等10点02分那趟车的旅客全都到达并离开后,哈里显得很失望。很快他走近我的窗口,我就招呼他,问她长得什么模样。
“她个子小,皮肤黑,”他说,“19岁。走路的样子很利落。她的脸,”他想了一会儿,说,“很有个性。我的意思是说她会生气,但从不会生气太久。她的眉心处有一个小点儿。她有一件褐色毛皮大衣,不过可能没穿着。”
我想不起来看见过有谁长得像那样。
他给我看他收到的电报:星期四到。车站接我。爱爱爱爱。——梅。电报寄自内布拉斯加州的奥马哈市。
“呃,”我最后说,“你干吗不往家里打个电话?如果她先你到达这里,她可能已给你家打过电话。”
他懊恼地看了我一眼。“我到城里才两天。我们打算见面之后开车去南方,我在那儿找到了一份工作。她——她也没给我任何地址。”他摸了摸电报。
第二天我去值班时他还在那儿。一看见我,他就走了过来。
“她在哪儿工作过吗?”我问。
他点了点头。“她本来是个打字员。我给她以前的老板拍了电报。他们只知道她不干了,结婚去了。”
哈里在后来的三四天接了每趟车。当然,铁路方面作了例行检查,警察也参与了这件事。但是实际上谁也没帮上忙。我看得出来,他们都觉得梅只不过是跟他开了个玩笑,但不知怎么我却根本不这么认为。
有一天,大约是过了两周之后,哈里和我聊天,我给他谈了我的想法。“假如你等的时间够长的话,”我说,“总有一天,你会看见她走上楼梯的。”他转过身看着楼梯,仿佛过去从来没见过似的。
第二天我去上班时,哈里已经站在托尼杂志摊的柜台后面了。他不大好意思地看着我说,“呃,我总得在哪儿找个工作,是不是?”
于是,他开始给托尼卖杂志。我们再也不谈梅,谁也不提我的看法。但是我注意到哈里总要看看每个上楼的人。
到年底时,托尼由于赌博发生争执而被别人杀了。托尼的妻子将杂志摊完全交给了哈里打理。过了些时候她再次结婚,哈里就从她那儿把杂志摊买了过来。他借了钱,装了个冷饮柜,不久小生意就做得不错了。
于是到了昨天,我听见了一声叫喊,还听见好多东西掉到地上。是哈里在叫。掉在地上的是一大堆玩具和其他的东西,都是他跳过柜台时弄翻的。他从这些东西上面跑过去抓住了一个女孩,她就在离我窗户不到10英尺的地方。她个子小小的,黑黑的,眉心处有一个小点。
好一会儿的时间他们就那么呆着,相对着笑呀,哭呀,讲些没什么意义的话。她好像说“我指的是汽车站——”而他则把她吻得说不出话来,告诉她自己为找她所做的许多事情。显然,3年前梅是乘汽车而不是火车来的。她电报里指的是“汽车站”而不是“火车站”。她在汽车站等了好几天,为找哈里花掉了所有的钱。最后,她找了一份打字的工作。
“什么?”哈里说,“你在城里工作?一直都在?”
她点了点头。
“哎呀,老天爷——你就从来没到这个车站来过?”他把手指向杂志摊。“我一直就在那儿。那个摊儿是我的。我看过每个上楼的人。”
她的脸色开始变得有些苍白。过了
一会儿,她向楼梯看去,声音微弱地
说:“我——我过去一直没上这个楼梯。你看,我昨天出城是去办点公事——噢,哈里!”然后,她伸手搂住他的脖子,真的哭了起来。
过了一会儿,她往后一站,用手直指车站的最北头。“哈里,3年来,整整3年,我就在那儿——就在这个车站工作,在站长办公室里,打字。”
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英语散文以优美的语言、流畅的句子、生动的描述,给人以美的享受,满足人类心灵的要求,具有很高的审美属性。下面读文网小编为大家带来唯美爱情英语散文,欢迎大家阅读!
Earl March look'd on his dying child,
And, smit with grief to view her--
'The youth,' he cried,'whom I exiled
Shall be restored to woo her.'
马奇伯爵在临死的女儿前,
看着她就悲伤的心疼;
他喊到,“召回我流放的青年,
让他来向我女儿求婚。”
She'd at the window many an hour
His coming to discover:
And he look'd up to Ellen's bower
And she look'd on her lover--
多少个小时她守望在窗口,
为发现她回来的情郎;
当情郎仰视着艾琳的绣楼,
她也把情郎细细望。
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只是等待一次爱情,也许永远都没有人,可是,这种等待,就是爱情本身。下面读文网小编为大家带来浪漫唯美英语句子,欢迎大家阅读!
1、never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.纵然伤心,也不要愁眉不展,因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容.
2、smile can be given to anyone.but your heart is for only one. 笑容可以给任何人,但你的心,只须给一个人就好.
3、if you make a girl smile,she would like you.but if you make her cry,she loves you then. 如果你让一个女孩笑了,她会喜欢你.但是你要是让她哭了,她就是爱你.
4、smile and silence are two powerful tools. smile is the way to solve many problems and silence is the way to avoid many problems. 微笑和沉默是两把利器:微笑解决很多问题,沉默避免许多问题.
5、if you’re not using your smile, you’re like a man with a million dollars in the bank and no checkbook. 如果你不使用你的微笑,你就好比是个有百万美元存款却没有支票簿的人.
6、i wonder if you smile at my texts like i smile at yours. 我在想收到我的短信,你会不会粲然一笑,就像我收到你的信息很开心一样.
7、smile and keep being fabulous are the best ways to get revenge on your haters. they hate to see you like that. 对讨厌你的人最好的反击是,保持微笑和光芒四射,他们最不希望看到这样的你!
8、i will live in one of the stars, in a star on a smile, every time you look at the sky at night time, would like to see all the stars are smiling general.我会住在其中的一颗星星上面,在某一颗星星上微笑着,每当夜晚你仰望星空的时候,就会像是看到所有的星星都在微笑一般.
9、wonderful life there are always wonderful reason to smile, smile will last laughs best.精彩的人生总有精彩的理由,笑到最后的才会笑得最甜.
10、sometimes you just have to look back at your past and smile about how far you’ve come.有时候,你需要回头看看过去,并为自己一路走来感到欣慰.
11、a smile never goes out of style. wear yours every day. 微笑永不过时.每天都带上笑容吧.
12、real friends don't get offended when you call them bad names; they smile and call you something more offensive. 真正的朋友在你损他们的时候不会生气,他们只会笑着回敬你更损的话.
13、you can fake a smile, but you can't fake your feelings. 你可能假装微笑,但你假装不了你的感受.
14、sometimes, you just have to smile; pretend everything's okay, hold back the tears and just walk away. 有时,你不得不强颜欢笑,假装一切安好,忍住眼泪,默默走开.
15、i love it when i catch you looking at me, then you smile and look away. 你看我时被我发现了,你笑着移开视线,这种感觉我很喜欢.
16、you have no right to make her cry if you never made her smile. 若你不曾让她笑过,那你就没权利让她哭.
17、if you get tired one day,you will see my smile as long as you turn around.如果有一天,你累了,你疲倦了,只要你一回头,我的笑容就在你面前.
18、nothing is warmer than a smile,when you mean it . 当你真心微笑时,没有什么比这更温暖的了.
19、sometimes, tears is sign of unspoken happiness. and smile is sign of silent pain.眼泪,有时候是一种无法言说的幸福,微笑,有时候是一种没有说出口的伤痛.
20、don't cry because it came to an end,smile because it happened. 不要因为它的结束而哭,应当为它的发生而笑.
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I hate when people bring up things from the past just to hurt you...
我讨厌有些人提起往事只是为了伤害你。
Sometimes it’s better to be alone. Nobody can hurt you.
有时候,一个人更好,这样就没有人能伤你了。
Who gives us meet but not concurrently give us forever.
是谁赐我们遇见 却不一并赠我们永远.
Your heart is too crowded but is no more room for me
你的心太拥挤只怕是不能再多容下我这个人
Every careless and inattentive person has his past being careful and attentive for someone
哪个没心没肺的人,没有一段为某人掏心掏肺的曾经。
I remember the tears will not cry is to know
眼泪是记得而不哭了是懂得。
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Your love is a dream, but a real pain.
你的爱是个梦,却有真实的痛。
Dare pick up your memories and I lost.
你和我的回忆丢了不敢捡。
we accept the love we think we deserve.
认为值得 所以接受 这就是爱情。
Do the most true to yourself, will mee.
做最真实的自己,才会遇到最该遇见的那个人。
I need to find my way back to the start.
我想要找到我来时的路,回到最初。
The most known person,the warmest partner.
最懂的人,最暖的伴。
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Catch the star that holds your destiny, the one that forever twinkles within your heart. Take advantage of precious opportunities while they still sparkle before you. Always believe that your ultimate goal is attainable as long as you commit yourself to it.
Though barriers may sometimes stand in the way of your dreams, remember that your destiny is hiding behind them. Accept the fact that not everyone is going to approve of the choices you’ve made. Have faith in your judgment. Catch the star that twinkles in your heart and it will lead you to your destiny’s path. Follow that pathway and uncover the sweet sunrises that await you.
Take pride in your accomplishments, as they are stepping stones to your dreams. Understand that you may make mistakes, but don’t let them discourage you. Value your capabilities and talents for they are what make you truly unique. The greatest gifts in life are not purchased, but acquired through hard work and determination. Find the star that twinkles in your heart—for you alone are capable of making your brightest dreams come true. Give your hopes everything you’ve got and you will catch the star that holds your destiny.
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Pain is constant companion and isn't very good one. I try to reason with this and I end of feeling miserable. I can not help but think about you. You, who has so much to give and share with me. Even when I was young, you were constant figure. You were there to see me grow up. I cried and laught, I learned and you were there to guide me. With your gray hair and chunky glasses. I would watch you think and blued and you sudden smile would lide up your face as quickly as it come. That is the very thing I love about you.You smile, I think about the times I missed being with you. So many years have passed since I saw you again. And for a breath moment I imagined you not being in my life. I wanna to cry, but I knew you were be there, as you always were.The gray hair has turned to white. And with that came a wiry frame that was fragile. Still, the eyes was ever and mind that was well running. You taught me to be strong and live for my dreams. If you were wishes for hunger for knowledge. You taught me to love learning. Always telling me that knowledge is constant thing. You were so strong, so wise and your presense was always comfort. I always love being by your side. You always gave me a hug when I fell down. I never love too crowds and you always seem to understand that not pression me to jion in the others or pretend to have a good time.I got lost the books you taught me to read. Those books which you gave me to learn more about the world. Ever so after remind of the things you taught me. You always love books. You never said much, but I always knew that every time we saw each other. You were glad to see me as I always glad to see you. I remember you with the teary face and wasteful smile. My pain is more insistant and try to hold on to the hope that you will pull through this. Like the strong person that you were. I love you grandpa.
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Touch Me is a soliloquy(独白)composed by Hank Miller, about the Vietnam (越南)Veterans(退伍军人) Memorial in Washington, D.C. also known as “The Wall”.
Touch me. Don’t be afraid. I can’t hurt you. Go ahead and touch my smooth surface. Feel the cold, glass-like smoothness and the crevices(裂缝) and lines that make me what I am. Use both hands if you wish. We are more similar than you dare to believe.
Touch my face. Yes, I have a face like yours. It has weathered(饱经风霜的) the centuries as yours has the years. My face portrays my evolution. Yours, the birth and death of a generation. My face has aged like yours as we have endured together the testimony(证据) of earth elements.
I have eyes like yours. My inscriptions(碑铭) stare out at you as I search for the meaning of why we are here. I look into your eyes and see who you are. Who am I? I was formed millions of years past and now you see the results of my evolution.
I can feel your hands and the sweat from your palms flow into the countless combination of the letters that make me. I know you. I have known you since I was able to breathe in the air as my smoothness began to take shape and my color matured along with natural flaws. You have known me since the days when you came to take me from my mother.
You cannot hear me. I am static(静态的) and unmoving. But, I can hear your murmurs(低语) and your cries of pain and sadness. Your sons and daughters ask why? There are no answers. I am very old. I have seen everything and I am none the wiser for the pain and suffering and I have witnessed since I rose from the bowels of the earth. I have witnessed the conflict, the death, the civilizations, and the societies that have come before you. Yet I remain mystified about this day.
I feel sad yet alive with a purpose. I have come to know those who are now an integral part of the reason for my being here at this place and time. That purpose has become apparent as I stand before you on this day while your brethren (同胞)gather to witness my reflections and the changes of light that mirror your soul.
I am a reflection of you…
I am all of you…
I am your spirit..
I am The Wall.
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Three passions, simple but overwhelmingly strong, have governed my life: the longing for love, the search for knowledge, and unbearable pity for the suffering of mankind. These passions, like great winds, have blown me hither and thither, in a wayward course, over a great ocean of anguish, reaching to the very verge of despair.
I have sought love, first, because it brings ecstasy - ecstasy so great that I would often have sacrificed all the rest of life for a few hours of this joy. I have sought it, next, because it relieves loneliness--that terrible loneliness in which one shivering consciousness looks over the rim of the world into the cold unfathomable lifeless abyss. I have sought it finally, because in the union of love I have seen, in a mystic miniature, the prefiguring vision of the heaven that saints and poets have imagined. This is what I sought, and though it might seem too good for human life, this is what--at last--I have found.
With equal passion I have sought knowledge. I have wished to understand the hearts of men. I have wished to know why the stars shine. And I have tried to apprehend the Pythagorean power by which number holds sway above the flux. A little of this, but not much, I have achieved.
Love and knowledge, so far as they were possible, led upward toward the heavens. But always pity brought me back to earth. Echoes of cries of pain reverberate in my heart. Children in famine, victims tortured by oppressors, helpless old people a burden to their sons, and the whole world of loneliness, poverty, and pain make a mockery of what human life should be. I long to alleviate this evil, but I cannot, and I too suffer.
This has been my life. I have found it worth living, and would gladly live it again if the chance were offered me.
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Time is running out for my friend. While we are sitting at lunch she casually mentions she and her husband are thinking of starting a family. "We're taking a survey,"she says, half-joking. "Do you think I should have a baby?"
"It will change your life," I say, carefully keeping my tone neutral. "I know,"she says, "no more sleeping in on weekends, no more spontaneous holidays..."
But that's not what I mean at all. I look at my friend, trying to decide what to tell her. I want her to know what she will never learn in childbirth classes. I want to tell her that the physical wounds of child bearing will heal, but becoming a mother will leave her with an emotional wound so raw that she will be vulnerable forever.
I consider warning her that she will never again read a newspaper without thinking: "What if that had been MY child?" That every plane crash, every house fire will haunt her. That when she sees pictures of starving children, she will wonder if anything could be worse than watching your child die. I look at her carefully manicured nails and stylish suit and think that no matter how sophisticated she is, becoming a mother will reduce her to the primitive level of a bear protecting her cub.
I feel I should warn her that no matter how many years she has invested in her career, she will be professionally derailed by motherhood. She might arrange for child care, but one day she will be going into an important business meeting, and she will think her baby's sweet smell. She will have to use every ounce of discipline to keep from running home, just to make sure her child is all right.
I want my friend to know that every decision will no longer be routine. That a five-year-old boy's desire to go to the men's room rather than the women's at a restaurant will become a major dilemma. The issues of independence and gender identity will be weighed against the prospect that a child molester may be lurking in the lavatory. However decisive she may be at the office, she will second-guess herself constantly as a mother.
Looking at my attractive friend, I want to assure her that eventually she will shed the added weight of pregnancy, but she will never feel the same about herself. That her own life, now so important, will be of less value to her once she has a child. She would give it up in a moment to save her offspring, but will also begin to hope for more years—not to accomplish her own dreams—but to watch her children accomplish theirs.
I want to describe to my friend the exhilaration of seeing your child learn to hit a ball. I want to capture for her the belly laugh of a baby who is touching the soft fur of a dog for the first time. I want her to taste the joy that is so real it hurts.
My friend's look makes me realize that tears have formed in my eyes. "You'll never regret it," I say finally. Then, squeezing my friend's hand, I offer a prayer for her and me and all of the mere mortal women who stumble their way into this holiest of callings.
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时光任苒,朋友已经老大不小了。我们坐在一起吃饭的时候,她漫不经心地提到她和她的丈夫正考虑要小孩。“我们正在做一项调查,”她半开玩笑地说。“你觉得我应该要个小孩吗?”
“他将改变你的生活。”我小心翼翼地说道,尽量使语气保持客观。“这我知道。”她答道,“周末睡不成懒觉,再也不能随心所欲休假了……”
但我说的绝非这些。我注视着朋友,试图整理一下自己的思绪。我想让她知道她永远不可能在分娩课上学到的东西。我想让她知道:分娩的有形伤疤可以愈合,但是做母亲的情感伤痕却永远如新,她会因此变得十分脆弱。
我想告诫她:做了母亲后,每当她看报纸时就会情不自禁地联想:“如果那件事情发生在我的孩子身上将会怎样啊!”每一次飞机失事、每一场住宅火灾都会让她提心吊胆。看到那些忍饥挨饿的孩子们的照片时,她会思索:世界上还有什么比眼睁睁地看着自己的孩子饿死更惨的事情呢?我打量着她精修细剪的指甲和时尚前卫的衣服,心里想到:不管她打扮多么考究,做了母亲后,她会变得像护崽的母熊那样原始而不修边幅。
我觉得自己应该提醒她,不管她在工作上投入了多少年,一旦做了母亲,工作就会脱离常规。她自然可以安排他人照顾孩子,但说不定哪天她要去参加一个非常重要的商务会议,却忍不住想起宝宝身上散发的甜甜乳香。她不得不拼命克制自己,才不致于为了看看孩子是否安然无羔而中途回家。
我想告诉朋友,有了孩子后,她将再也不能按照惯例做出决定。在餐馆,5岁的儿子想进男厕而不愿进女厕将成为摆在她眼前的一大难题:她将在两个选择之间权衡一番:尊重孩子的独立和性别意识,还是让他进男厕所冒险被潜在的儿童性骚扰者侵害?任凭她在办公室多么果断,作为母亲,她仍经常事后后悔自己当时的决定。
注视着我的这位漂亮的朋友,我想让她明确地知道,她最终会恢复到怀孕前的体重,但是她对自己的感觉已然不同。她现在视为如此重要的生命将随着孩子的诞生而变得不那么宝贵。为了救自己的孩子,她时刻愿意献出自己的生命。但她也开始希望多活一些年头,不是为了实现自己的梦想,而是为了看着孩子们美梦成真。
我想向朋友形容自己看到孩子学会击球时的喜悦之情。我想让她留意宝宝第一次触摸狗的绒毛时的捧腹大笑。我想让她品尝快乐,尽管这快乐真实得令人心痛。
朋友的表情让我意识到自己已经是热泪盈眶。“你永远不会后悔,”我最后说。然后紧紧地握住朋友的手,为她、为自己、也为每一位艰难跋涉、准备响应母亲职业神圣的召唤的平凡女性献上自己的祈祷
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From the window of my room, I could see a tall cotton-rose hibiscus. In spring, when green foliage was half hidden by mist, the tree looked very enchanting dotted with red blossom. This inspiring neighbor of mine often set my mind working. I gradually regarded it as my best friend.
从我的房间的窗子向外望去,可以看到一株高大的芙蓉树。春日里,芙蓉树在薄雾中若隐若现,红花点点,样子实在迷人。它总是赋予我灵感,让我思如泉涌。时间久了,我竟把这菱蓉视为知已了。
Nevertheless, when I opened the window one morning, to my amazement, the tree was almost bare beyond recognition as a result of the storm ravages the night before. Struck by the plight, I was seized with a sadness at the thought “all the blossom is doomed to fall”. I could not help sighing with emotion: the course of life never runs smooth, for there are so many ups and downs, twists and turns. The vicissitudes of my life saw my beloved friends parting one after another. Isn’t it similar to the tree shedding its flowers in the wind?
然而,一天清晨,当我推开窗子时,愕然发现前夜的一场风雨已将它摧残得落红满地。刹那间,我有一种"花开终有落"的悲凉感觉。这使我不由得发出一声慨叹:人生的旅途中,总是少不了种种羁绊,那些曲折的经历总会伴随着我们。曾经失去过的挚爱的朋友,生命的脆弱不正是像这随风而逝的花吗?
This event faded from my memory as time went by. One day after I came home from the countryside, I found the room stuffy and casually opened the window. Something outside caught my eye and dazzled me. It was a plum tree all scarlet with blossom set off beautifully by the sunset. The surprise discovery overwhelmed me with pleasure. I wondered why I had no idea of some unyielding life sprouting over the fallen petals when I was grieving for the hibiscus.
随着时间的流逝,我渐渐地把那天的感触淡忘了,一次出差回来,感到屋内的空气有些沉闷,于是我不经意的打开了窗,可就在那一瞬,我被眼前的景象惊呆了。窗外,一株李子树开花了,火红火红的花朵,满树都是。在夕阳的映衬下,分外美丽。这意外让我惊喜不已。没想到当初自己只顾悲伤,却没发现那凄凉的背后,竟存在着如此坚强的灵魂。
When the last withered petal dropped, all the joyful admiration for the hibiscus sank into oblivion as if nothing was left, until the landscape was again ablaze with the red plum blossom to remind people of life’s alternation and continuance. Can’t it be said that life is actually a symphony, a harmonious composition of loss and gain.
是啊,当芙蓉的最后一片花瓣凋落之时,人们以往对它的赞许都已成为过眼云烟。可如今,李子树却成长起来了,那火红的花儿正向人们昭示着生命的更迭与繁衍。谁能否认生命原本就是一场得失共存的交响音呢?
Standing by the window lost in thought for a long time, I realized that no scenery in the world remains unchanged. As long as you keep your heart basking in the sun, every dawn will present a fine prospect for you to unfold and the world will always be about new hopes.
我久久地伫立在窗前,深深感悟到,生命之中本没有一成不变的风景,只要你的心永远向着阳光,那么每一个清晨就会向你展现出一个等待着由你来开启的美景。不管你正经历着怎样的风雨,请相信,这个世界总会带给你新的希望。
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John and Bobby joined a wholesale company togther just after graduation from college the same year. Both worked very hard. After several years, however, the boss promoted Bobby to the posotion of manager but John remained an ordinary employee. John could not take it anymore, tendered his resignation to the boss and complained the boss did not know how to delegate and did not value hard working staff, but only promoted those who flattered him.
约翰和博比同年大学毕业后,被同一家批发公司录用。他们二人工作都很努力。然而,几年后,老板提拔博比为部门经理,而约翰还是一名普通员工。约翰再也无法忍受,冲动之下写了一封辞职信,并抱怨老板不会用人,不重用那些敬业的员工,只提升那些奉承他的人。
The boss knew that John worked very hard for the years. He thought for a moment and said, "Thank you for your criticism, but I have a request. I hope you will do one more thing for our company before you leave. Perhaps you will change your mind and take back your resignation."
老板知道这几年约翰工作确实很努力。他想了一会儿说:“谢谢你对我的批评。但是我只有一个请求,我希望在你离开之前再为公司做一件事情。或许到时你会改变决定,收回辞呈。”
John agreed. The boss asked him to go and find out anyone selling watermelon in the market. John went and returned soon. He said he had found out a man selling watermelon. The boss asked how much per kg? John shook his head and went back to the market to ask and returned to inform the boss $1.2 per kg.
约翰答应了。 老板让他去市场找到一个卖西瓜的人。约翰去了并很快回来。他说他找到了一个卖西瓜的人。老板问他每公斤多少钱?约翰摇摇头,回到市场去问,然后又回来告诉老板每公斤1.2美元。
Boss told John to wait a second, and he called Bobby to come to his office. He asked Bobby to go and find anyone seling watermelon in the market. Bobby went, returned and said, boss, only one person selling watermelon. $1.2 per kg, $10 for 10kg, he has inventory of 340 melons. On the table 58 melons, every melon weights about 2 kg, bought from the South two days ago, they are fresh and red, good quality.
老板让约翰等一会儿,这时他把博比叫到办公室。他让博比去市场找到一个卖西瓜的人。博比去了,回来之后说:“老板,只有一个卖西瓜的人,每公斤 1.2美元,每10公斤卖10美元。这个人一共有340个西瓜,其中58个放在货架上,每个西瓜重约2公斤,都是两天前从南方运来的,新鲜,红瓤,质量好。”
John was very impresed and realized the difference between himself and Bobby. He decided not to resign but to learn from Bobby.
约翰受到很大的触动,他意识到自己与博比之间的差距。他决定收回辞呈并向博比学习。
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It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
只有付出的爱是痛苦的,但比这更痛苦是爱一个人却没有勇气让那人知道你的感情。
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you,only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
生命中令人悲伤的一件事是你遇到了一个对你来说很重要的人,但却最终发现你们有缘无份,因此你不得不放手。
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with,never say a word,and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
最好的朋友就是那种能和你促膝而坐,彼此不说只字片语,分别时却感到这是你有过的最好的一次交流!
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.
的确只有当我们失去时才知道曾拥有的是什么,同样,只有当我们拥有了才知道曾经失去了什么。
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,an hour to like someone,and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
迷上某人只需一分钟,喜欢上某人需要一小时,爱上某人则要一天,然而,忘记某人却是一辈子的事情。
Don't go for looks;they can deceive. Don't go for wealth;even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
别倾心于容貌,因为它具有欺骗性,也别倾心于财富,它也会消散,倾心于那个能带给你笑容的人吧,因为一个笑容能使漫漫长夜如白昼般明亮。
Dream what you want to dream;go where you want to go;be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
做你想做的梦吧,去你想去的地方吧,成为你想成为的人吧,因为你只有一次生命,一个机会去做所有那些你想做的事。
Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you,it probably hurts the person too.
要设身处地的为别人着想, 如果一双鞋你穿着夹脚, 别人的感觉可能也一样。
A careless word may kindle strife;a cruel word may wreck a life;a timely word may level stress;a loving word may heal and bless.
无心快语可能引发争执,无情之词可能折损生命,适时温语可能消弭压力,而关爱之声可能治愈心灵。
The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
幸福之人并非拥有一切,只是尽力享受生活的赐予。
Love begins with a smile,grows with a kiss,ends with a tear. When you were born,you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
爱情以笑开始,以吻转浓,以泪结束。当你哭着降临人世时,身边的每个人都在为此欢笑,好好生活吧,这样你就能含笑离开人世,而身边的每个人都在为此哭泣。
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To remember that success lies within myself; in my own brain, my own ambition, my own courage and determination. To expect difficulties and force my way through them, to turn hard experiences into capital for future struggles.
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Finally, to take a good grip on the joy of life; to play the game like a gentleman; to fight against nothing so hard as my own weakness, and endeavor to grow in business capacity, and as a man, with the passage of every day of time.
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I’ve opened the curtain of my east window here above the computer, and I sit now in a holy theater before a sky-blue stage. A little cloud above the neighbor’s trees resembles Jimmy Durante’s nose for a while, then becomes amorphous as it slips on north. Other clouds follow: big and little and tiny on their march toward whereness. Wisps of them lead or droop because there must always be leading and drooping.
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I close the curtain now, feeling broader, fresher. The act is over. Applause is sweeping through the trees.
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Nobody could ever replace you.
谁也替代不了你。
I love the man isn't my lover.
( 我爱的人不是我的爱人 )
I want along with you
“我想和你在一起”
“我想要两颗西柚。” “什么?”
“I want to see you.”
You don't laugh tears away.
[你别笑了眼泪都掉了]
Put you in my heart
[把你放在我心里]
When we lose, just know oneself
当我们失去的时候,才知道自己曾经拥有
We just met not to start
(我们只是相遇未曾开始)
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