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摘要:samantha mumba 史蔓德.曼巴是一位带着非洲血统,来自爱尔兰首都”都柏林“的歌手。samantha mumba16岁开始在夜总会扮作美国歌手唱歌。后来瓦尔什(louis walsh)慧眼识英才,把她收到了旗下。
Always come back to your love
歌手:Samantha Mumba
Written by Mikkel S.E/Hallgeir Ruston
Yeah, check it out
What, what, what, what
Uh, you like that? Uh
Come on yeah
Uh, no doubt
Break it
I've been up and down (uh, what)
Been going round and round (uh)
I've been all over town (wha-what,uh)
But I'll never ever find somebody new for sure
(Yes, yes you are, left to right, yes
Yes you are and rock you all night)
Show me where I belong tonight (all night)
Give me a reason to stay
No matter if I go left or right (left to right)
I always come back to your love
I've been high and low (uh)
I don't know where to go (no, baby)
Because I love you so (you like that)
And I'll never ever find someone like you for sure
(Yes, yes you are, left to right, yes
Yes you are and rock you all night)
Show me where I belong tonight (all night)
Give me a reason to stay (I need a reason, yeah)
No matter if I go left or right (left to right)
I alwa
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如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么,我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。下面是读文网小编为大家带来英语经典美文:记住我们为什么做某事 。希望大家喜欢!
Remembering why we are doing something
记住我们为什么做某事
Sometimes I forget why I’m doing, what I’m doing.
有时候我忘了为什么我在做,我在做什么。
Have you ever done that?
你曾有过这种经历吗?
I’m not just talking about a memory problem, although that’s possible too.
我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。
I have called someone because I want to tell them something.
我曾经打电话给某人,因为我想告诉他们什么。
And then, after just choosing the place for a while, not talking about anything particular.
然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。
Well, I forget why I called that person in the first place.
哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
That’s a memory problem.
这是一个记忆问题。
I guess that counts too.
我想那很重要。
But I’m talking about a deeper problem, a bigger, why?
但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?
At one point, there was a reason we do something.
在某一个时期, 我们做某事会有一个理由。
For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason.
对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。
It’s always could to ask ourselves why.
总是可以问问自己为什么。
Why did I start to learn a language?
为什么我开始学习一种语言?
Why did I join this club?
为什么我加入这个俱乐部?
Why my friend was this person?
为什么我的朋友是这个人?
Why did I get married?
为什么我要结婚?
If we get lost in the doing, in the living, in the everyday of being, then we can not say why.
如果我们迷失在做什么,在生命中,在每天的存在,那么我们不能说为什么。
I think we need indeed remind us of why.
我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。
Or else it’s tough to finish what we started.
否则很难完成我们所开始的。
We stop starting. We quit the club.
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。
We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged.
我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。
There’s nothing wrong with asking why.
问为什么没什么问题。
In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and help we appreciate what you have and what you are doing.
事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
Talk about it.
谈论下面的话题:
Is there something you are doing but you’ve forgotten why you starting it?
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
Is it a kind of distant memory?
它是一种遥远的记忆?
Did you ever forget why you are doing something...
你曾经忘记你为什么做某事……
How do you remind yourself why you are doing something?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
Do you write memos?
你写备忘录吗?
Does your mind ever go blank and yourself may forget what you are doing?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?
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其实,生命中太多的障碍,皆是由于过度的固执与愚昧的无知所造成。下面是读文网小编为大家带来英语经典美文:上帝会来救我们的,希望大家喜欢!
In a small village, under a very large storm, floods submerged the whole village began, a priest in the church to pray and watch the flood he has a knee knees.Lifeguard driving a sampan came to church with the priest said: "Father, come as soon as possible on! Otherwise you will drown in the flood!" The priest said: "No!I am confident that God will save me, you go Well to save others."在某个小村落,下了一场非常大的雨,洪水开始淹没全村,一位神父在教堂里祈祷,眼看洪水已经淹到他跪着的膝盖了。一个救生员驾着舢板来到教堂,跟神父说:“神父,赶快上来吧!不然洪水会把你淹死的!”神父说:“不!我深信上帝会来救我的,你先去救别人好了。”
But soon enough, the floods have Father's chest, the priest stood on the altar of choice.At this time, and a police speedboat drove over with the priest said: "Father, fast up, otherwise you really will be drowned!" The priest said: "No, I would like to keep my church, I believe that God must will save me. You'd better start to save others."过了不久,洪水已经淹过神父的胸口了,神父只好勉强站在祭坛上。这时,又有一个警察开着快艇过来,跟神父说:“神父,快上来,不然你真的会被淹死的!”神父 说:“不,我要守住我的教堂,我相信上帝一定会来救我的。你还是先去救别人好了。”又过了一会,洪水已经把整个教堂淹没了,神父只好紧紧抓住教堂顶端的十字架。
And after a while, floods have submerged entire church, the priest had no choice but to firmly grasp the top of the Cross Church.A helicopter flying over slowly, after the pilot dropped a rope ladder shouting: "Father, fast up, this is the last chance, we do not want to see you can be drowned by the flood!" Father or strong willed said: "No, I would like to keep my church!God will save me.you or someone else to save it.God will be with me were in the!!" rolling in the flood, the priest was finally stubborn…一架直升飞机缓缓的飞过来,飞行员丢下了绳梯之后大叫:“神父,快上来,这是最后的机会了,我们可不愿意见到你被洪水淹死!!”神父还是意志坚定的说: “不,我要守住我的教堂!上帝一定会来救我的。你还是先去救别人好了。上帝会与我共在的!!”洪水滚滚而来,固执的神父终于被淹死了……
Father drowned on the heaven, God was very angry to see the question: "Lord, ah, I give their life, the fear serve you, why do you refuse to help me!" God said: "I refuse to put out how you? the first time, I sent a sampan to rescue you, you do not, I think you are worried about the risk sampan; the second time, I sent a speedboat to go, you do not; the second time, I am Ambassador of etiquette when you send a helicopter to rescue you, you are unwilling to accept the results. Therefore, I thought you wanted to hurry back to my side, you can make good with me"。神父上了天堂,见到上帝后很生气的质问:“主啊,我终生奉献自己,战战兢兢的侍奉您,为什么你不肯救我!”上帝说:“我怎么不肯救你?第一次,我派了舢板来救你,你不要, 我以为你担心舢板危险;第二次,我又派一只快艇去,你还是不要;第二次,我以国宾的礼仪待你,再派一架直升飞机来救你,结果你还是不愿意接受。所以,我以为你急着想要回到我的身边来,可以好好陪我。”
In fact, too many obstacles in life, chiefly because of excessive stubbornness and ignorance caused by ignorance。
其实,生命中太多的障碍,皆是由于过度的固执与愚昧的无知所造成。
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摘要:在某一个时期,我们做某事会有一个理由。对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。为什么我开始学习一种语言?为什么我要结婚?我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。否则很难完成我们所开始的。
Sometimes I forget why I’m doing that stuff and what I’m doing. Have you ever done that? I’m not just talking about a memory problem, although that might be too. I have called my friends because I want to tell them something. And then, when I picked up a place for a while and haven’t talked about anything particular, Well, I forgot why I called that person in the first place.
That’s a memory problem. I guess that counts too. But I’m talking about a deeper bigger problem, why? At one point, there was a reason why we do something. For long-term projects, we need to remind ourselves of that reason. Why did I start to learn a language? Why did I join this club? Why was my friend this person? Why did I get married? I think we need indeed remind us of why. Or else it’s tough to finish what we started.
有时候我忘了我做这件事情的原因,我所做的事情时什么。你曾有过这种经历吗?我并不仅仅是在谈论记忆问题,虽然那也是有可能的。我曾经打电话给我朋友,因为我想告诉他们一些事情。然后,在选择合适的地方后,还没有谈论什么特别的东西的时候。哦,我忘记了自己为什么要首先给那人打电话。
这是一个记忆问题。我想那很重要。但我在谈论一个更深层次的问题,而且更为重要,那就是为什么?在某一个时期,我们做某事会有一个理由。对于长期项目,我们需要提醒自己原因。为什么我开始学习一种语言?为什么我要结婚?我想我们需要确实提醒自己为什么。否则很难完成我们所开始的。
记住我们做一件事情的原因
We stop starting. We quit the club. We end our friendships. Our marriages get damaged. There’s nothing wrong with asking why. In fact, sometimes I think it can be very healthy and helpful to appreciate what you have and what we are doing
我们停止开始。我们退出俱乐部。我们结束我们的友谊。我们的婚姻出现裂痕。问为什么没什么问题。事实上,我认为有时候它会很健康的帮助我们珍惜所拥有的及正在做的事情。
Talk about it.
谈论下面的话题:
Is there something you are doing, but you’ve forgotten why you starting it?
你有过正在做某事但是你忘了为什么开始的经历吗?
Is it a kind of distant memory?
它是一种遥远的记忆?
Did you ever forget why you are doing something?
你曾经忘记你做某件事情的原因了吗?
How do you remind yourself of the reason why you are doing something?
你如何提醒自己为什么会做某事吗?
Do you write memos?
你写备忘录吗?
Does your mind ever go blank and you may forget what you are doing?
你有过头脑空空而自己也许忘记你正在做什么的经历吗?
What are some other methods for you to prevent yourself from forgetting?
还有其他的方法来防止你忘记吗?
What do you do when you see someone that you know, but have forgotten his name?
你看到认识的某人,却忘记了名字,这种情况下你会怎么办?
stuff n. 东西;材料 vt. 塞满;填塞;让吃饱
quit n. 离开;[计] 退出 vt. 离开;放弃;停止;使…解除
appreciate vi. 增值;涨价vt. 欣赏;感激;领会;鉴别
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摘要:现年52岁的拉哲特曼是新泽西州拉姆齐的一名护士。她说,如果是我做错了什么事,我希望有机会道歉,或者和她好好谈谈。相反,我却是在读了三本自助书,花了两年的时间后才让自己接受了这个事实──我以为是好朋友的人和我绝交了。
Linda Lajterman suffered one of the worst experiences of her life while on a cruise with herhusband and two other couples. Halfway through the trip, one of her friends stopped talking toher -- for good.
Ms. Lajterman says she has no idea what prompted the woman, who was one of her bestfriends, to cut her off. They helped take care of each other's kids, celebrated family eventstogether and shared confidences. After the cruise, which took place a few years ago, she calledher friend and asked for an explanation, but received none. She says she was devastated.
琳达·拉哲特曼(Linda Lajterman)在与丈夫和另外两对夫妇乘船游览的时候遭遇了她这辈子最不愉快的经历。半路上,她的一个朋友不理她了,而且永远不理她了。
拉哲特曼说,她不知道是什么事让最好的朋友和她绝交了。她们曾帮对方照看小孩,一起举办家庭庆祝活动,分享秘密。在旅行过后,她打电话给那个朋友,请她作出解释,不过对方什么也没说。这已经是几年前的事了。拉哲特曼说,她因此感到很伤心。
I would have welcomed the opportunity to apologize or discuss it if I did anything wrong,'says Ms. Lajterman, a 52-year-old nurse from Ramsey, N.J. 'Instead, it took me three self-helpbooks and two years to make peace with the fact that someone I thought was a good friendended our friendship.'
现年52岁的拉哲特曼是新泽西州拉姆齐的一名护士。她说,如果是我做错了什么事,我希望有机会道歉,或者和她好好谈谈。相反,我却是在读了三本自助书,花了两年的时间后才让自己接受了这个事实──我以为是好朋友的人和我绝交了。
There are 50 ways to leave your lover, according to Paul Simon. But how many ways are thereto leave a friend?
正如保罗·西蒙(Paul Simon)在歌中唱到的,离开情人的方法有50种。不过,离开朋友的方法有多少种呢?
I know, it's a terrible question. But think about it: Some of the worst breakups in our lives arenot with romantic partners. They are with friends -- the people with whom we often share ourdeepest thoughts. Friends provide guidance, encouragement, laughter and a refuge. Losinga good friend can be one of the saddest experiences in life.
我知道,这个问题很可怕。不过好好想想:我们人生中最糟糕的分手经历有些并不是和情人之间。有些是和朋友──那些我们经常分享自己内心深处想法的人。朋友能够给你指引、鼓励、欢笑和避风港。失去一个好朋友有可能是一辈子最让人难过的经历之一。
And yet, many friendships just don't last. Some simply fizzle out, victims of routine life eventssuch as moves, job changes, divorce or a divergence of interests.
不过,很多友谊就是无法持久。有些是无疾而终,成为搬家、工作变动、离婚和兴趣不同等普通人生过程的牺牲品。
Others end badly. Rob Wilson, 53, a writer in Atlanta, saw a 12-year friendship abruptly endafter he mentioned he was voting for George W. Bush in the 2004 presidential election. ArthurNewton, 46, a hotel manager from Austin, Texas, had a female friend tell him she couldn't hangout with him anymore because her husband was jealous.
有些则是不欢而散。53岁的罗伯·威尔逊(Rob Wilson)是亚特兰大的一位作家。在2004年的总统大选中,他向朋友提到自己投了布什(George W. Bush)的票,之后两人之间12年的友谊就戛然而止了。得克萨斯州奥斯汀46岁的酒店经理亚瑟·牛顿(Arthur Newton)的一个女性朋友告诉他,因为她丈夫嫉妒,所以她无法继续和他做朋友了。
Michael Hassard watched a good friend run away from him -- literally. He had heard his pal hadbegun dating his ex-girlfriend, so Mr. Hassard, 39, a NASA engineer from Muscle Shoals, Ala.,approached him in church one day to ask about it. But before he could speak, his friend turnedand fled down a hallway, out the door and into his car. He and his former buddy never spokeagain.
迈克尔·哈萨德(Michael Hassard)眼睁睁地看着他的一个好朋友从他身边跑掉了。哈萨德39岁,是驻阿拉巴马州的一名美国国家航空及太空总署(NASA)工程师。他听说朋友开始与自己的前女友约会,所以有一天他在教堂见到他时,想上前问个究竟。可是还没等他开口,朋友就转身沿着走廊跑掉了,跑到门外之后进了自己的车。两人从此再没说过话。
Friendships are such a nuanced and intriguing relationship that we even follow celebrity friendbreakups, as we do their romances. Why else would we care about Mariana Pasternak but forher tell-all book about her former friendship with Martha Stewart, which ended after Ms.Pasternak testified at Ms. Stewart's 2004 trial.
友谊是一种微妙而动人的关系,我们甚至会像关注名人情侣分手一样关注名人朋友分手。如果不是玛丽安娜·巴斯特纳克(Mariana Pasternak)那本有关她和“家政女皇”玛莎·斯图尔特(Martha Stewart)从前友谊的“全揭秘”书,我们又怎么会关注她呢?2004年斯图尔特受审时,巴斯特纳克曾出庭作证,之后两人的友谊就结束了。
'It's a myth that friendships last forever,' says Irene S. Levine, a psychologist, professor ofpsychiatry at New York University's medical school and author of 'Best Friends Forever:Surviving a Breakup with Your Best Friend.' We are tied to our family by blood and our spousesby law, so we are often more attentive to those relationships. 'Friendships are relationships ofchoice, so we tend to overlook them,' she says.
纽约大学医学院精神病学教授、心理学家艾琳·莱文(Irene S. Levine)说,友谊地久天长的说法纯粹是天方夜谭。她曾著有《永远都是好朋友》(Best Friends Forever: Surviving a Breakup with Your Best Friend)一书。她说,我们与家人之间靠血缘关系维系,和配偶之间靠法律关系维系,所以我们对家人和配偶更用心;友谊则是你选择的,所以我们往往会忽视。
As a result, many friendships die from neglect, Dr. Levine says. And this in itself poses a verysticky problem in friendship breakups: How do you know if you're being neglected -- ordumped? What if your friend is always too busy to get together but always seems to have agood excuse? What if she never calls you, but seems happy enough to hear from you when youcall?
莱文说,结果就造成很多友谊因为忽视而告终。这本身就给朋友之间的分手带来了一个非常棘手的问题:你如何知道自己被忽视了,或被“抛弃”了?如果你的朋友总是看起来忙得无法和你见面,又总是看起来有很好的理由怎么办?如果她从来不给你打电话,但在你打给她的时候看起来很高兴呢?
And there's the rub. There are no rules or even societal norms for friendship breakups. Friendswho want to split don't go to counseling or get a mediator or a lawyer, as divorcing couplesdo. And there typically aren't a bunch of nosy relatives willing to intervene and relaymessages, as there are when a split is within a family.
问题是,对于朋友之间的分手,并没有什么规则可言,甚至没有社交惯例可循。要分手的朋友不会像离婚的夫妻一样去找顾问咨询,或是找个调解人或律师。与夫妻分手不同的时,朋友分手通常也没有一大群叽叽喳喳的亲戚想要干预或在中间传话。
Also, dissolving a friendship is harder than ever these days, with so many digital ties holding ustogether, from social-networking Web sites like Facebook to stored numbers in cellphones.
此外,与朋友分手如今变得比以往更难了,因为有那么多的数字纽带将我们连在一起,从Facebook等社交网站到手机上存储的电话号码。
Dave Nadkarni can tell you all about it. When he decided to end a relationship a few years agowith a close female friend he felt was spreading rumors about him, he stopped returning hercalls, defriended her on Facebook, blocked her on his instant-message list, stopped followingher on Twitter and changed her name in his cellphone to 'Do Not Pick Up.' 'It was cathartic,' hesays.
大卫·纳德卡尼(Dave Nadkarni)对此深有感触。几年前他决定和一位他觉得说自己坏话的红颜知己绝交的时候,他不回她的电话,在Facebook不再把她列为好友,在即时消息名单上把她屏蔽掉,不再关注她的“推文”,把手机中她的名字改成了“不要接听”。他说,这真像是来了一场大扫除。
But it didn't work. His friend got the hint and stopped calling him, and he has successfullyavoided seeing her in real life. But he still runs into her constantly online, every time a mutualfriend retweets her Twitter posts or she leaves a comment on a mutual Facebook friend'sstatus update.
不过却没有用。他的那个女性朋友明白了他的暗示,不再给他打电话,现实生活中他也成功地得以避免再见到她。不过他仍会经常在网上碰到她,比如每次他们共同的朋友把她的“推文”转给他,或是她在共同的Facebook朋友的状态更新中留言的时候。
'It sucks,' says Mr. Nadkarni, 29, a sales rep for a security company in Las Vegas. 'It's like thedog that's stuck on your leg that you can't shake off.'
现年29岁的纳德卡尼是拉斯维加斯一家安保公司的销售代表。他说,太糟糕了,就像是一只咬着你腿不放、你怎么都摆脱不掉的狗。
So how do you finish off a friendship? Are some ways better than others?
你是如何结束一场友谊的?有没有什么好的分手方法?
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摘要:“我们正在读一本书的第一章第一行,这本书的页数是无限的……”
"We are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a bookwhose pages are infinite..."
Yeah,no pains , no gains . We are all in the position of thefarmer. If we plant a good seed, we reap a good harvest. If ourseed is poor and full of weeds, we reap a useless crop. If weplant nothing at all, we harvest nothing at all.
“我们正在读一本书的第一章第一行,这本书的页数是无限的……”
毕业了,才是我们人生的开始
是的,一分耕耘一分收获。我们每个人都像是农夫。洒下良种将有丰收,播下劣种或生满野草便将毁去收成。没有耕耘则会一无所获。
The past is gone and static. Nothing we can do will change it. The future is before us and dynamic.Everything we do will affect it. Each day brings with it new frontiers, in our homes and in ourbusiness, if we only recognize them. We are just at the beginning of the progress in every field ofhuman endeavor.
往昔已逝,静如止水;我们无法再作改变。而前方的未来正生机勃勃;我们所做的每一件事都将会影响着它。只要我们认识到这些,无论是在家中还是在工作上,每天我们的面前都会展现出新的天地。在人类致力开拓的每一片领域上,我们正站在进步的起跑点。
Just remember tomorrow will be better.I want the future to be better than the past. I don’t wantit contaminated by the mistakes and errors with which history is filled. We should all be concernedabout the future because that is where we will spend the remainder of our lives.
记住明天会更好。我希望未来比过去更加美好,希望未来不会沾染历史的错误与过失。我们都应举目向前,因我们的余生要用未来书写。#p#副标题#e#
Don't let yesterday to limit your tomorrow.
别让昨天限制了你的明天。
I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. – Thomas Edison
我并没有失败。我只是找到了1万个不成功的方法。——托马斯·爱迪生
Failure defeats losers, failure inspires winners. – Robert T. Kiyosaki
失败可以打击输家,也可以启发赢家。——罗伯特·T·清崎
Some people dream of great accomplishments, while others stay awake and do them. – Anonymous
有人梦想伟大的成就,但有人一直清清楚楚地在做。——无名氏
I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure, which is: Try to please everybody. - Herbert B. Swope
我不能给你成功的计算公式,但我可以给你失败的计算公式,那就是:试着取悦每个人。——赫伯特·B·斯沃普
If you have always done it that way, it is probably wrong. - Charles Kettering
如果你一直用这种方法做事,那它很可能是错误的。——查尔斯·凯特宁
Being different is one of the most beautiful things on earth. - Anonymous
与众不同是世界上最美好的事情之一。——无名氏
Creativity is intelligence having fun. – Albert Einsten
创造力是智力的乐趣。——艾尔伯特·爱因斯坦
The expert in anything was once a beginner. – Helen Hayes
任何领域的专家也曾经是一名初学者。——海伦·海斯
You must be the change you wish to see in the world. – Mahatma Gandhi
要想改变世界,就先改变自己。——穆罕达斯·甘地
There is no substitute for hard work. – Thomas Edison
任何事情都无法代替努力工作。——托马斯·爱迪生
A journey to a thousand miles begins with a single step. – Lao Tzu
千里之行,始于足下。——老子
Today a reader, tomorrow a leader. – Margaret Fuller
今天是读书的人,明天是领军的人。——玛格丽特·福勒
I believe that every person is born with talent. – Maya Angelou
我相信每个人都有与生俱来的天赋。——马娅·安杰卢
Always desire to learn something useful. – Sophocles
人应始终有着学习新事物的渴望。——索福克勒斯
Wake up every morning with the thought that something wonderful is about to happen. - Anonymous
每天早晨醒来,都期待将会有美妙的事情发生。——无名氏
The difference between ordinary and extraordinary is that little extra. - Anonymous
平凡与非凡的差异是那一点点额外努力。——无名氏
Learning is not a spectator sport. – D. Blocher
在学习中不能做一个旁观者。——D·布洛彻
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我们,常用代词,有“包括自己在内的若干人”等含义。那么,你知道我们的的英文怎么说吗?
我们的假日过得好无聊,每天都下雨。
We had a mouldy holiday - it rained every day.
我们在黑暗中摸索。
We groped amid the darkness.
我们都喜欢乡村生活的宁静。
We all like the tranquility of the country life.
我们很快就吃完了巧克力蛋糕。
We soon despatched the chocolate cake.
我们将按月分期付款买房。
We will pay for houses by monthly installments.
他给我们讲了一个我们都听了很多次的老掉牙的笑话。
我们的英文怎么读
He told us a hoary old joke that we'd all heard many times before.
我们一定不能动摇我们的信仰,我们要坚持我们的信念,哪怕是经历许多失败,我们仍要坚持信仰。
We must not dream of unbelief but hold to our faith even to seventy times seven.
在文华东方,我们深信我们的员工是我们酒店的栋梁,我们亦为我们的员工引以为荣。
Our people are the bedrock of our company and we are immensely proud of them.
我尊重我们所有的对手并且我们知道我们不得不把我们最好的状态表现出来。
We respect all of our opponents and we know we have to give our best effort.
我们大家都应该去。
All of us ought to go.
除他以外,我们都去了。
We all went except him.
在这一点上我们跟他们看法不同。
We differ with them on this point.
感谢你们对我们照顾得如此周到。
Thank you for looking after us so well.
我们应该对任何应急情况有所准备。
We should be prepared for any contingency.
我们没有什么可发牢骚的。
We have nothing to complain of.
你建议我们做什么?
What do you propose we do?
他认为我们该走了。
He fells that we should go.
我们是在和你一起笑,而不是在嘲笑你。
We are laughing with you,not at you.
天呀!我们下步该怎么办?
Well! What shall we do next?
她比我们先到了那里。
She got there before us.
我们不能撇下他不管。
We should not ignore him.
他命令我们离开这所房子。
He ordered us out of the house.
在这些事情上我们都听她的。
We all defer to her in these matters.
你怎么让她和我们一起工作?
How do you herd her with us working?
我们都是一事。
We are all together.
考虑一下,看是否能和我们一起去。
See if you can go with us.
我们已经把你算进去了。
We have counted you in.
我们应该记住所有那些先驱者。
We should remember all those who have gone before us.
你跟我们去吗?当然去了!
Will you go with us? Sure!
我们经常与他打交道。
We often deal with him.
我们对他抱着很大的期望。
We have great expectations of him.
我们骑着自行车向前滑行。
We coasted along on our bicycles.
这是我们所拥护的。
This is what we support.
我们使他说出了这个秘密。
We drew out the secret from him.
她的网球比我们打得都好。
She excels all of us at tennis.
谁告诉你我们已经离婚了?
Who told you we have split up?
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摘要:我无比希望年轻的时候学到足够多的东西,好好理解,好好利用。然而,关乎智慧以及人生课堂,往往都是在事过境迁之后的反思中才能得以领悟。我们这些过来人也十分愿意与你们分享经历,以及我们领悟到的人生课。
There are so many lessons I wish I had learned while I was young enough to appreciate and apply them. The thing with wisdom, and often with life lessons in general, is that they’re learned in retrospect, long after we needed them. The good news is that other people can benefit from our experiences and the lessons we’ve learned.
1. Money will NEVER solve your real problems
我无比希望年轻的时候学到足够多的东西,好好理解,好好利用。然而,关乎智慧以及人生课堂,往往都是在事过境迁之后的反思中才能得以领悟。我们这些过来人也十分愿意与你们分享经历,以及我们领悟到的人生课。
钱不能解决你的实际问题
Money is a tool; a commodity that buys you necessities and some nice “wants,” but it is not the panacea to your problems. There are a great many people who are living on very little, yet have wonderfully full and happy lives… and there are sadly a great many people are living on quite a lot, yet have terribly miserable lives.
金钱只是个工具,能买到生活所需和一些不错的“必需品”,但不是解决你问题的万能药。有很多人虽然没有很多钱,但仍然过着充实愉快的生活,相反,有些人十分富有,却活得并不幸福。
Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some creature comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness, and the “happiness” it brings is only fleeting and not the kind that really and truly matters. Happiness is not for sale. If you’re expecting the “stuff” you can buy to “make it better,” you will never be happy.
30岁前我们都应该学会的十堂人生课
钱能买来好房子、好车子、漂亮的鞋子,以及一些安全感和舒适度,但却无法修复一段破碎的关系,无法治愈孤独,它所带来的幸福感转瞬即逝也并不实在。幸福不能靠钱来买。如果你总是希望考买什么来获得幸福,你永远都不会幸福。
2. Pace yourself
放慢脚步
Often when we’re young, just beginning our adult journey we feel as though we have to do everything at once. We need to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, find true love, figure out our life’s purpose, and do it all at the same time.
年轻的时候,我们总觉得成人之路刚刚开始,总想一次把所有事都完成。我们需要为所有事作出决定,进行人生规划,体验所有的事情,达到顶峰,找到真爱,发现我们人生的目标,所有的都同时完成。
Slow down—don’t rush into things. Let your life unfold. Wait a bit to see where it takes you, and take time to weigh your options. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation. Allow yourself time to think, to mull a bit. Taking action is critical. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.
慢点吧,别太着急。慢慢开始自己的生活,等等看看自己到了什么地方,花点时间去衡量一下自己的选择。享受每一口食物,花点时间看看周围,让别人完成他们的倾诉。给自己点时间去思考和沉思。行动是十分关键的。朝着你的目标前进,为未来做出规划的确很值得有用,但全速前进似乎是张单程票,让你无法回头,还会让你错失路边的风景。
3. You can’t please everyone
你无法取悦每个人
“I don’t know the secret to success, but the secret to failure is trying to please everyone” – Bill Cosby
我不知道成功的秘诀是什么,我只知道失败的秘诀是去讨好每个人——比尔·科斯比
You don’t need everyone to agree with you or even like you. It’s human nature to want to belong, to be liked, respected and valued, but not at the expense of your integrity and happiness. Other people cannot give you the validation you seek. That has to come from inside. Speak up, stick to your guns, assert yourself when you need to, demand respect, stay true to your values.
你不需要让所有人都赞同抑或喜欢你。希望获得认可、喜欢、尊重和重视,这是人之常情,但别以牺牲你的正直和幸福为代价。你在追寻的肯定感,其他人给不了,这需要来自你的内心。大声说出来,坚持自己的想法,必要时捍卫自己的立场,要求得到尊重,忠于自己的价值观。
4. Your health is your most valuable asset
健康是最宝贵的财富
Health is an invaluable treasure—always appreciate, nurture, and protect it. Good health is often wasted on the young before they have a chance to appreciate it for what it’s worth. We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to. Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health now, or you’ll regret it later on.
健康是无价之宝——要一直重视、呵护和保护它。年轻人往往在最值得呵护健康的年纪大肆挥霍,我们把健康当成理所当然的一件事,因为它就在那里。我们不想要担心,所以也从未真正关注过它,直到健康出现问题。心脏病、骨质疏松、哮喘和癌症——这个清单很长,这些病实际上也都是可以预防的,所以好好呵护自己的健康吧,免得以后后悔。
5. You don’t always get what you want
你不可能一直得到自己想要的东西
“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” – John Lennon
当我们正在为生活疲于奔命时,生活已离我们而去。——约翰·列侬
No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s ok. We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our minds mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.
无论你多么仔细的规划和努力,有时候事情总是不按照你的计划发展,没关系,我们都有些许期待,对理想的生活有一定的设想,但这并不是我们真正的生活。也许有时我们的梦想无法实现,或是中途改变了想法。有时我们不得不放弃而去追求正确的事物,而有时我们需要在找到正确方向时经历其他的东西。
6. It’s not all about you
世界不是围着你转的
You are not the epicenter of the universe. It’s very difficult to view the world from a perspective outside of your own, since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want? It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective.
你不是宇宙的核心。的确用你以外的视角来看世界有点难,我们都太过于专注自己生活里的一切,我今天需要干什么?这对我、我的工作和生活又意味着什么?我想要什么?对自己生活中发生的一切了如指掌无可厚非,但你也需要关心周围发生了什么,你生活中类似的事情又是如何影响到你周围的人的。这样会让你看待事物更加客观。
7. There’s no shame in not knowing
不知为不知
No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection. We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life. Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable.
没有人知晓所有事,没有人知道所有问题的答案。所以说不知道根本不是什么丢脸的事。装着完美只会让你不完美。还会让你看上去像一个神经过敏的伪完美艺术品罢了。我们必须知道,有时需要承认我们的无知和不确定,我们不可能知道所有的事情。我们都会犯错,还会弄砸一些事情。边走边学,这就是人生。再说了,没有人喜欢万事通。一些无知反而能让你更加人性化,更易接近哦。
8. Love is more than a feeling; it’s a choice
爱不仅仅是感觉,而是选择
That burst of initial exhilaration, pulse quickening love and passion does not last long. But that doesn’t mean long-lasting love is not possible. Love is not just a feeling; it’s a choice that you make every day. We have to choose to let annoyances pass, to forgive, to be kind, to respect, to support, to be faithful. Relationships take work. Sometimes it’s easy and sometimes it’s incredibly hard, but it is up to us to choose how we want to act, think and speak in a relationship.
迸发的愉悦,让你心跳加快的爱情和激情都无法持久,但这并不是说长久的爱情并不存在。爱与感觉无关,是一个你每天都需要做的选择。我们需要选择忘记烦恼,去原谅,去友善、尊敬、支持以及忠贞。感情需要经营,有时很容易有时似乎无比艰难。这都取决于我们自己的选择,到底想在这段感情中如何表现、思考和说话。
9. Perspective is a beautiful thing
远见很美妙
Typically, when we’re worried or upset, it’s because we’ve lost perspective. Everything that is happening in our lives seems so big, so important, so do or die, but in the grand picture, this single hiccup often means next to nothing. The fight we’re having, the job we didn’t get, the real or imagined slight, the unexpected need to shift course, the thing we wanted, but didn’t get. Most of it won’t matter 20, 30, 40 years from now. It’s hard to see long term when all you know is short term, but unless it’s life-threatening, let it go, and move on.
往往失去远见时,我们就会变得焦虑和低落。我们生活里发生的每件事都那么重大那么重要,不做好就会死,但长远来看,这一件小事似乎根本就微不足道。我们经历的冲突,没有得到的工作,或有或无的轻蔑,突如其来的改变航向,我们想要却没有得到的东西。20、30、40年之后,大部分都会变得微不足道。当你的眼光只放在近期,那么很难去看得长远。所以除非是威胁到生命的事情,否则其他的就放下吧,继续前进。
10. Don’t take anything for granted
别把任何事当做理所当然
We often don’t appreciate what we have until it’s gone: that includes your health, your family and friends, your job, the money you have or think you will have tomorrow. When you’re young, it seems that your parents will always be there, but they won’t. You think you have plenty of time to get back in touch with your old friends or spend time with new ones, but you don’t. You have the money to spend, or you think you’ll have it next month, but you might not. Nothing in your life is not guaranteed to be there tomorrow, including those you love.
很多东西直到失去我们才会懂得珍惜,这包括健康、家人和朋友、工作,现有或未来会有的金钱。年轻的时候,父母一直在身边,但他们不能一直陪伴下去;你总觉得有充足的时间,和老朋友们保持联系或是花时间和新朋友玩乐,但实际并没有;你有钱花,然后觉得下个月也会有钱花,其实也许没有。你生活中所有的事情明天都不一定还存在着,包括那些你爱的。
This is a hard life lesson to learn, but it may be the most important of all: Life can change in an instant. Make sure you appreciate what you have, while you still have it.
这些人生课很难学习,但却是至关重要的:生活可以瞬间万变。只要好好珍惜现在所拥有的就足够了。
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摘要:与其试着避免犯错,不如看看这些关于爱情年轻的你应该知道的事。每个人都会有这样的经历,而我们最终会好起来,这样想就舒服多了。
Who doesn’t love love? It’s one of the best, purest emotions out there. This means, of course, that it has the most drama connected to it. Everyone worries about collecting a lot of relationship baggagewhile they’re young, but the truth is it’s going to happen regardless of how you try to avoid it.
有谁不喜欢爱情呢?这是一种最美好最纯洁的感情。当然,这也意味着它是最具有戏剧化的。每个人年轻的时候都担心自己会有很多感情上的麻烦,而事实是不管你多想努力避免,这种情况总会发生。
Instead of trying to prevent lots of missteps, read these tips and find out what you should know about love when you’re still young. Find comfort in knowing that everyone goes through these things, and we all make it out on the other side.
与其试着避免犯错,不如看看这些关于爱情年轻的你应该知道的事。每个人都会有这样的经历,而我们最终会好起来,这样想就舒服多了。
1. You can be selfish
你可以自私
It’s normal to be selfish when you’re young, because you need to figure out who you are and what you want from life. It’s acceptable to break up with someone over something that might seem a bit petty just because they don’t seem right for you – because they probably aren’t!
年轻的时候自私是正常的,因为你需要发现你是谁,你想要从生活中得到什么。和某些人因为某些琐事分手只是因为他们似乎不适合你,这也是可以接受的,因为他们也许真的不适合你。
When you’re in your teens and twenties, you need to focus on yourself, because you need to discover who you are and what your career will be. You need to work on things like this, including loving yourself, before you try to make a partnership work for the long haul.
年轻的时候,你需要专注于自身,因为你需要探寻你是谁,你的职业生涯会怎样发展。你需要为这些事情而忙碌,包括在发展一段长期的关系之前先爱自己。
2. You’ll make mistakes
你会犯错
It’s ok to make mistakes when you’re young – especially in love! Love isn’t a rational feeling, it’s something that makes you feel the highest of happiness during the good times, and the lowest of sadness during the bad times.
年轻的时候犯错是可以接受的,尤其是在爱情里。爱情不是理智的,好的时候它会让你体会最大的快乐,糟糕的时候则会让你感受最大的伤痛。
You’re going to date people you shouldn’t; you’re going to have arguments that aren’t worth having; and you’re going to say the wrong things during these fights. It’s ok because you’re going to learn from each of these mistakes, and that will make your true love that much sweeter.
你会爱上不该爱的人,你会为了不值得的事情争吵,在争吵时你会出口伤人。这都是可以接受的,因为你会从这些错误里学习,让你真正的爱情更加甜蜜。
3. You can be single
你可以单身
And you should be! Too many young people think they always need to be in a relationship. If you have this mindset, then you’re more likely to date people who are bad for you just so you’ll be with someone. It’s ok to be single! No one is watching you and keeping track of how long you’re single versus how long you’re in a relationship.
而且你应该单身!很多年轻人认为他们需要恋爱,如果你有这种心态,你很有可能为了找个伴而和不合适的人约会。单身没什么不可以!没有人会盯着你,记录你单身的时间和恋爱的时间哪个更长。
It’s important to be single so you can focus on your own life; when you do find that special someone, your relationship will be that much better because it will be special. You’ll be a well-rounded person, and you won’t have a history of hopping from relationship to relationship with no substance.
单身也是重要的,这样你就可以专注于自己的生活。当你真的找到那个特别的人时,你们的关系会更好,因为它会很特别。你会非常圆满,而且你不会留下一段毫无意义不断更换恋爱对象的历史。
4. You’ll fall in love with the wrong person
你会爱上错的人
This is the hardest lesson to learn, because people rarely seem wrong for you at the start of a relationship. When you feel the sparks and the butterflies, you can’t imagine that someone could be bad for you. But they can be, and they will be, and you need to learn how to identify this in others
这是最难学会的一课,因为在恋爱的开始,人们看起来都没什么问题。当你感觉到火花时,你无法想象这个人可能并不适合你。但他们真的可能是错的人,而你需要学会如何辨别。
They can be kind and still be wrong — for you. You should be with someone who brings out the best in you, who is sweet and encouraging and compatible with you, not who you think you should be with to make anyone else happy.
他们可以是好人,但对于你来说,依然是错的人。你应该和一个能让你自己最好一面显露出来的人在一起,他/她应该非常贴心,善于鼓励,和你非常相配。不要为了取悦别人而勉强和谁在一起。
5. It’s ok to fall in love
陷入爱情里是正常的
So you’ve met the wrong person, and maybe you kind of even know they’re wrong for you, but you can’t help it — you’re falling in love. That’s ok! It’s good to let yourself feel things for others. If you’re too hesitant to fall in love, then you might never let loose enough to find your special someone. Love is a beautiful feeling, and it’s never wrong to feel it for someone as long as you believe it’s true.
你遇到了一个错的人,也许你甚至知道他/她不适合你,但你就是陷入爱中无法自拔。这也是正常的。让你自己去感知他人是好的,如果你过分犹豫不敢恋爱,你也许永远不会释放自己,找到那个对的人。爱情是一种美好的感觉,只要你相信这是真的,和某人陷入爱中就永远不会错。
6. Live and love in the moment
活在当下,爱在此刻
Never chastise yourself for falling in love. When you feel something in the moment, you need to let yourself feel that emotion completely. Fall in love, daydream about your future, and, as hard as it may be to do, let yourself get hurt. You’ll learn from all of these moments and all of these emotions.
永远不要因为恋爱而惩罚自己。此刻当你有所感觉,你需要让自己完全投入去感受这种情感。陷入爱河,幻想未来,也许还会让自己受伤。你会从所有这些时刻和情感中学会很多。
It seems like you’d look back and kick yourself for having a crush on someone who was so obviously wrong for you, but you’ll see the past through rose-colored glasses and be glad that you experienced as much as you did.
也许当你回头看,会责备自己怎么会爱上一个明显是错的人,但这段过去依然带着浪漫的玫瑰色彩,你会很欣慰自己曾经尽力去体验。
7. You don’t need to have a timeline
你没有必要制定时间表
When you’re young, you get so used to people asking what you’re majoring in or what you want to be when you grow up that you start planning out your whole life. It seems more stable to think “I should be married by the time I’m 25 so I can have kids before I’m 30,” than to fly by the seat of your pants.
年轻的时候,你很习惯别人询问你的专业,或者你长大后想做什么。然后你开始规划你的人生。“我应该25岁时结婚这样我在30岁之前就可以生孩子了”之类的想法似乎比随遇而安更稳定。
But the truth is, those timelines rarely work out. If they do, it might just because you feel pressured to stick to them. What if you’re dating the wrong person when you’re 25, but still feel like you have to get married to meet your goal? Scrap any timeline you have in mind. Life is going to throw you curveballs whether you have plans or not, so see who you meet, who you fall in love with, and go with the flow.
而事实是,这些时间表基本没用。如果有用,也许只是因为你感觉到了压力而刻意遵循。如果你在25岁时爱上了一个错的人,却依然觉得为了实现目标你必须结 婚,会怎样?丢掉你脑中的所有时间表。不论你有没有计划,生活都会照常进行。所以等着瞧,看你会遇见谁,爱上谁,顺其自然。
8. Don’t put others before yourself
不要总优先满足他人的需要
When you’re older and in a committed relationship or marriage, there will be times when you need to put your own wants on the back burner and let your spouse reach some of their personal goals. It’s ok to put others before yourself if you’re being supportive and not letting your own needs and wants fall to the wayside, but it shouldn’t become a habit.
当你成长了、结婚了,有时候你需要把自己的需求放在一边,让你的另一半实现他/她的目标。如果你有足够的支持,也不会让自己的需求丢在一旁,优先考虑他人是可以的,但这不应该成为一种习惯。
If you’re in a relationship where your partner constantly needs to be the center of attention and won’t let you have interests of your own or time to yourself, you need to get out of that. Realize that it’s not only acceptable to put yourself first, but it’s necessary when you’re young and still have so much growing and learning to do.
如果在你的恋爱关系中,你的另一半总是想成为关注的焦点,而不能让你拥有自己的兴趣或者时间,你就应该结束这段关系。要明白,优先为自己考虑不仅可以接受,而且在年轻的时候是必须的,因为你还有很多成长空间,还可以学会很多。
9. Love yourself
爱你自己
You’ll fall in love with good people and you’ll fall in love with bad people, but above all, you need to love yourself. If you love who you are, then you’ll be more open to loving others. Love is always a great thing to share, but loving yourself also means you won’t have to find that love in others. You can love someone without needing something from them to feel validated. Loving yourself is the most powerful love you can experience.
你会爱上好人,也会爱上坏人,但最重要的是你要爱自己。如果你爱自己,你就会更加包容地去爱别人。爱永远是值得分享的好东西,但爱自己也意味着你不需要从别人那里获取爱。你可以爱上某个人而不需要从他/她那里得到什么来确保爱的感受。爱自己是你所能经历的最强大的爱。
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大学恋情——纯情而唯美。毕业生不得不面临六月的来临,也就是向心爱的人道别的时刻。当前途与爱情一同遭遇未来,该如何取舍?下面是读文网小编整理的双语美文:毕业了,该分手了,欢迎大家阅读!
We Have to Say Goodbye
No rose, no diamond ring, that's the simple and romantic love stories in college. The graduateshave to face the approaching of June, a time to farewell their beloved. When their future isconfronted with love, which one is more important? What will the lovers do in June?
没有玫瑰的芬芳,没有钻戒的世俗,这就是大学恋情——纯情而唯美。毕业生不得不面临六月的来临,也就是向心爱的人道别的时刻。当前途与爱情一同遭遇未来,该如何取舍?六月里的恋人会怎么做呢?
Don't cry, my baby
There are so many love stories in college. If the lovers met each other by note passed, the storywas called “note love”; if they knew each other in fast food restaurant, then “fast food love”; if theybecame lovers in a picnic, then “picnic love”. Liu Bing got to know Xiao Yu through QQ chat, andthey got the so-called “QQ love”.
Their love story started at the end of 2nd Grade. Liu failed again in CET4 test and felt very upset. Sohe entered an Internet cafe near the school to kill time. While he was roaming about on the net, astranger asked him through QQ, “May I chat with you?” Then he began chatting with him or her. Liupoured his trouble out and the other side appeased him patiently and asked him not to bediscouraged, for there was still chance. After that, they promised to come to chat at 8 every dayand it lasted for a week. Liu felt very happy. On the seventh day, the other side asked him, “Do youwant to see me?” Liu typed “Yes!” without any hesitation. “Then you can turn your head back.”And Liu saw a lovely girl, whose name is Xiao Yu.
However, with the approaching graduation they also face a difficult choice. Xiao Yu is a local girl andher home is in Wuhan. While Liu Bing comes from Xi'an. They are both the only child in their family.Their parents aren't against their being together, but both wish their kid being at home. Theyquarreled about the orientation furiously and the focus of their conflict always was which city theywould choose. Xi'an or Wuhan? They were up a gum tree and couldn't come to terms.
Finally, Liu and Xiao Yu went to the Internet cafe and they were still back to back this time. When Liutyped out “Let's break up”, Xiao Yu couldn't restrain her tears any more.
Still a long way to go
Chen Li has been unhappy recently. With the coming of graduation, she's become even moredepressed. She and her boyfriend Jia Hao don't have a special story; they got to know each otherin the library. Both of them enjoy learning and staying in the library. They would go to cinema orwalk on the streets at weekends. Three years have passed quietly. They promised to take thepostgraduate exam to Beijing at the 3rd grade. Unfortunately, Chen Li failed because of 2 pointsmargin in English.
Jia Hao wanted Chen to go to Beijing with him and take exam there. Considering the economiccondition, Chen thought it would be better to stay on campus. On the one hand, the living expenseis lower here. On the other hand, she is familiar to the surroundings and can set her heart at studies.
At night, thinking that her lover would leave for Beijing, Chen Li's tears fell down her cheeks silently,making her pillowslip wet all over. Although Jia Hao encouraged her over and over again that shewould succeed at the second try and they would reunion in Beijing, however, he said so at the lasttime. Will their love still go on in case she fails?
A new life for us
Different from those sorrowful lovers, Ye Qing is like a happy bird flying in and out of her dormitory.She and her boyfriend were in the same class in high school. Fortunately they both came to Beijingthough not in the same university. They're not far from each other, although they can't be verymuch in love every day like other love birds. Ye Qing feels contented that they can spend weekendstogether. Sometimes, Ye Qing would call her boyfriend and asked him to see her in half an hour andbring some snacks passingly.
Her boyfriend majors in the pop Communication. He has been employed by a well-knowncommunicating corporation in Shenzhen. Ye Qing hasn't found a satisfying job, but they've planedthat she also goes to Shenzhen to hunt a job. As a major in Economic and Trade English, Ye thinks itnot difficult in finding a job such as secretary or assistant. As far as buying house and car, she toldus secretly, “He promised that I needn't consider that kind of things.”
To the moment they have enough time to wile away. Ye has decided it was time to make up for thepast 4 years' loss of romance. Now they've been shopping around, going to movies and playingbadminton every day. Seeing her boyfriend being “tortured”, Ye felt as happy as a princess in fairytales.
Point of view
Hu Juan, graduate of 2002
My love came to the end with the coming of graduation. Nobody could taste my sorrow at thattime. I felt I lost the man I loved most in the world. Such is not the fact. I worked, fell in love withanother guy and then got married. Looking back on my love in college, I found that we were just inthe same camp on entertainment. While my husband and I are living our lives.
Liu Xiaoming, graduate of 2003
I've been married. Of course, my wife was my girlfriend in the university. We had been in love for 3years. Compared with other husband and wife, we feel it a superiority to own each other's past.We would talk about our university life and recall dribs and drabs. Whenever we recollect together,we could feel each other's heartbeat. And the expression in our eyes would become very gentle.The beautiful memory will always nourish our marriage.
Li Rong, senior
It's enough that each love starts with a beautiful beginning. As for whether it will come to an end, Ifeel it unnecessary to think too much. Love out of campus doesn't always have a happy ending.Therefore, when love comes, we should enjoy the pleasure of loving. When love comes to an end,we could also taste its grief of parting. Tears taste sweet as long as you love your life.
Wang Qin, senior
I don't have a boyfriend, but some boys are wooing me. I feel they're not my cup of tea, so Irefused. I have a wish that they could give me a hug before I leave by train when I graduate. Iadmire those who are in love on campus and at the same time I felicitate myself on not choosing atrandom. During the four years in university, as long as you live in earnest, you won't regret,whether you own love or not, whether your love has future or not.
宝贝,别哭
校园里上演着那么多的爱情故事。如果恋人通过纸条表白爱情,就被称为“白条之恋”;如果他们在快餐店里相识、相恋,就叫“快餐之恋”;如果是在野炊时相爱,当然就是“野炊之恋”了。刘冰是通过QQ聊天认识小雨的,也就是所谓的“QQ之恋”。
他们的故事开始于大二下半学期。刚开学,刘冰在四级考试中挂了,没有通过,他非常沮丧,就来到学校附近的网吧打发时间。正当他在网上神游时,突然QQ上有人问a他:“可以和你聊聊吗?”刘冰就和她聊了起来,其实他还不知道对方是男是女。刘冰将自己的苦恼一倾而出,对方就耐心地开导他,说别灰心,还有机会呢。此后,有一个星期,他们约定每天8点来聊天,刘冰觉得很开心。到了第7天,对方问刘冰:“想见面吗?”刘冰没有任何犹豫地打下一个字:“想!”对方说:“那你就回头吧!”于是,刘冰转身就看到了那个可爱的女孩,小雨。
然而,面对毕业,他们却不知道如何选择。小雨的家就在武汉本地,而刘冰来自于西安。作为家里的独生子女,双方父母不反对他们在一起,但都希望儿女能回到自己的身边。他们俩为了毕业后的去向问题吵翻了天,矛盾的焦点是“要留在哪个城市?”。选择西安,还是选择武汉,两人犯难了,而且谁都不肯让步。
最后,刘冰和小雨又去网吧上网聊天,依然是背对背。当刘冰打出“我们分手吧”几个字后,小雨的眼泪再也忍不住了。
路漫漫其修远兮
晨丽最近郁郁寡欢,看着毕业的日子一天天逼近,越来越无精打采。她和男朋友贾皓的故事没有什么特别的,就是在图书馆认识的。两个爱学习的人,最大的乐趣就是泡图书馆,然后在周末去看看电影,逛逛街。三年下来,倒也平淡。大三时他们就约定一起考研到北京,然而晨丽却因英语2分之差落榜了。
贾皓鼓励晨丽和他一起去北京,然后在北京专职考研。然而考虑到两人的经济状况,晨丽还是觉得留在学校再考比较合适,一方面这里的生活费用相对较低,再者自己也熟悉这里的环境,能安心学习。
夜里想着自己心爱的人就要远赴北京了,晨丽的眼泪就无声无息地流出来了,枕巾被打湿了一大片。尽管贾皓一再鼓励她,说她第二次一定会考上的,那时他们就会在北京相聚。可是,第一次考研时贾皓就是这么鼓励她的,万一她第二次还没考上,那么他们的爱情会怎么样呢?
新生活在向我们招手
和那些悲伤的恋人不同,叶晴快乐地像只小鸟,整天从宿舍飞进飞出。她和男友是高中同学,虽然高考没考到同一所学校,但幸运的是都考到了北京,而且两个学校也相距不远。虽然不能像别的恋人一样天天卿卿我我,但能在一起快乐地度过周末,对叶晴来说已经很满足了。有时候,实在忍不住,叶晴就给男友打电话,让他半小时内立即赶到,并且带点零食过来。
男友学的是炙手可热的通讯工程,已经被深圳一家有名的通讯企业录取。虽然叶晴还没有找到工作,但他们已经计划好了,就是叶晴也去深圳,然后在深圳找工作。由于学的是经贸英语,叶晴相信找个秘书、助理之类的工作还是没有问题。至于以后买房子、买车子,她偷偷告诉我们:“他已经答应不用我考虑了!”
正好毕业前这一段时间有大把的时间可以挥霍,叶晴决定把过去4年的浪漫损失弥补回来,天天拉着男友逛商场、看电影、打羽毛球,看着男友被折磨的样子,叶晴幸福得像传说中的公主。
◆ 观点
扈娟 02届毕业生
我的爱情随着毕业而终结,当时的感伤没有人能体会,感觉天底下最爱的人就这样失去了。事实上不是这样的,我工作了,然后恋爱、结婚。现在回过头来审读大学时代的感情,发现那时的我与他,不过是“玩乐”上的志同道合;而与现在的先生,则是生活上的志同道合。
刘小明 03届毕业生
我已经结婚了,老婆当然是大学热恋三年的女友了。我觉得我们比起其他夫妻最大的优势就是拥有对方的过去,隔段时间我们不由自主就会去谈论大学时光,回忆那时的点点滴滴。每当此时,都能感应到对方的心跳,彼此注视的眼神也变得格外柔软。美好的回忆,将滋养我们以后的婚姻之花。
李蓉 大四学生
每一段恋情都以美好开端,这就够了。至于有没有结果,我觉得没必要想那么多。社会上的爱情,也不一定因为美好就有结果啊。所以,爱情来了,我们就享受爱的欢乐;爱情走了,我们就体验爱的离愁。只要热爱生活,泪水也是甜的。
王琴 大四学生
我没有男朋友,不过追求我的男生倒有几个,我觉得他们不适合我,所以一直拒绝着。我有一个奢望,希望毕业时上车的那一刻,能得到他们的一个拥抱。我羡慕那些拥有校园爱情的同学,也为我自己的宁缺勿滥喝彩。大学四年,用心去过了,就无怨无悔,不论有没有爱情,不论爱情有没有未来。
心酸的浪漫
1.不管你曾经多么内向,你一定要在全班同学面前,认认真真地讲一次话,或者唱一支歌,即使你和开学时一样,再介绍一回你自己。
2.拜访一回你最尊敬的老师,在毕业时,认真地记住一条关于人生的经验。
3.在一个太阳还没有升起来的早晨,去操场跑一次步,和那些生猛的大一新生们比较一下懒觉睡多了后体力上的差距。
4.在宿舍里不要有类似于写“某某到此一游”的行为。
5.下定决心,班集体的活动这次一定不会借故溜走——如果还有的话。
6.很认真地穿一次西装(套装),看看自己和4年前,变化的地方在哪里?
7.花一个下午的时间,认真地整理一次自己的书箱,哪些是可以留的,哪些是不要了的。在某本书里,是不是看见了一张陌生已久的纸条,或者是某人的名字。
8.男生整理衣柜的时候,记得把你的球衣送给你的学弟,CD送给学妹,游戏碟记得自己带走。
9.记得留下每一个你觉得应该是朋友的联系方式,然后把你新单位的电话给他们。
10.终于要走了,再剪一次发,让自己崭崭新新地离开,然后,崭崭新新地开始。
11.记得归还你的证件,陪伴了你4年的桌子、椅子和凳子——我们不提倡你宁愿罚钱也要留下你的图书证、学生证、医疗证、食堂饭卡……但我们对此表示理解。
12.论文答辩可能是你人生当中最后一次的课堂作业了,请你认真地书写每一个字。
13.和你一起睡了4年的床,一定要记得和它合一张影。
14.尽可能地送走每一个你能送的同学,你要明白,他们是你4年的同学,他们中的某人,也许是你最后一次能见到了。
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摘要:分手后,你身边多了一堆几乎能丢弃到阁楼的东西:手机上、电脑上、邮箱里,到处都是它们的身影。它们曾经是对你而言很重要的东西,现在依旧是。它们是能勾起你眼泪的东西,也是你曾爱过的东西。你该拿它们怎么办?
After the split, you're left with an abandoned attic'sworth of stuff: on your phone and hard drive, in your inbox. It's stuff that used to matter, andstill does. It's stuff that hurts. It's stuff you loved. What do you do with it?
It's impossible to plow through a committed relationship in an industrialized nation withoutpiling up an abundant digital record. You'll have chat transcripts, tagged photos on Facebook,beautiful photos from a DSLR, email letters, Skype call screenshots, texts—so, so many texts.Your first instinct will be to throw it all away。
分手后,你身边多了一堆几乎能丢弃到阁楼的东西:手机上、电脑上、邮箱里,到处都是它们的身影。它们曾经是对你而言很重要的东西,现在依旧是。它们是能勾起你眼泪的东西,也是你曾爱过的东西。你该拿它们怎么办?
在这个发达的工业化国家,一段认真的感情结束后必然会留下大量的数字记录。你们的聊天记录、Facebook上标着名字的合影、数码相机里的美丽合照、邮件往来、Skype网络电话的截图、手机短信……大量的手机短信。你的第一想法肯定是把它们全扔光、删光吧。
That's not a reflex to be ashamed of—just like you wouldn't want to stare at a framed photo ofyour ex while you're hurting, you don't want to look at hundreds of messages and JPEGsdetailing that person either. We're all hypersensitive when it happens, and we're living in an ageof hyper-info. There are more grains of salt to catch in your heart wound than ever before. Thisisn't easy—but let's try。
分手后照片短信删不删
有这种想法不必羞愧。当你正在伤心的时候,不想看到那个前任的照片;抑或是不想看到跟ta之间的数百条短信、各种亲密照一样,这些都可以理解。分手后我们都会变得极度敏感,尤其身处这个充斥着过度信息的时代。对于我们来讲,心上的伤口会被洒更多的盐巴。这不是件容易事儿。但是让我们来试着应对吧。
Wait
等待
Wait a month. Wait longer. Wait until you can look at his or her Facebook profile without feelingsomething bad in your chest, or the urge to throw your laptop. No good decision, in thiscentury or any other, has ever been made in the fresh wake of a breakup. Please, please don'tthrow your laptop。
等一个月,或更久。直到你可以坦然直视ta的Facebook主页而不会感到阵阵心痛,或有种直接想扔了笔记本的冲动。从古到今,没有什么正确的决定是在刚分手的时候做出的。请千万遏制住那种冲动,别扔了笔记本。
Photos
照片
Don't delete these. Really, don't. You'll regret it if you do. Not because maybe someday you'llget back together and be so glad you kept it all. You probably won't. But these pictures aren'tjust small monuments to a failed romance, they're high-resolution instants from your life,recorded forever, unfading. It's not just your ex's smile that you miss and wish you couldhave back, it's the way you were at a particular moment a shutter snapped and a digitalsensor touched light. It's your dog, your apartment, your haircut, your vacation, your job,your old bike—everything that was you for that moment, regardless of who you were datingand who you loved. This is matter you'll want years and decades from now—don't be rash andtrash it。
别删了它们。真的别这样做,否则你会后悔的。并不是说以后你们还有复合的可能,到时候你就会庆幸没有删了它们,因为你们很可能不会复合了;而是因为这些照片不仅是一段失败恋情的纪念,同时也是你人生某些时刻的缩影和记录,它们是永久的不可磨灭的记忆。它们对你来讲,不仅仅装着你迷恋的前任恋人的微笑(你多么希望能让这笑容再次回到你身边),它是每一个快门声后对你人生的光影记录。它里面记录了你的狗、你的公寓、你的发型、你的假期、你的工作、你的老单车——所有你在那一刻的模样,而无论你在和谁约会,又在爱着谁。这是你会想要去珍惜一辈子的东西,不要因为一时冲动而把它们都删掉。
Instead, vault it. Copy everything that's too much to look at onto an external hard drive orsome remote backup system, and then delete it from your machine. Put that hard drive in asock drawer or under your bed. Give it to a friend. Place it where it won't distract and won'tharm, but, when you're ready, can provide a vivid reminder of who you used to be. That'sincredibly powerful! Don't destroy it on a whim。
把它珍藏起来。把那些不忍看的东西复制到外接硬盘或移动储存设备上,然后把电脑里的都删了。把硬盘锁进装袜子的抽屉,或是塞到床下。交给朋友保存也行。总之,把它放在一个不会让你分心和伤心的地方,然后等你恢复过来的时候,它便能重放过去那个栩栩如生的你。这可棒极了!千万别冲动之下毁掉它。
Playlists
播放列表
Yeah, toss these. All leftover playlists will do is smear heartbreaking meaning and nostalgiaover songs you'd otherwise enjoy. Remember, you made this playlist explicitly for your ex—you tailored songs you both love in an order you thought might make them smile and missyou. And all those memories could swamp you based on nothing but this otherwise innocuouslist of MP3s. So get rid of the list. Keep the songs though。
没错,扔了它们。所有那些你们曾经喜欢过的歌曲,都会在下一次播放的时候,提醒你那些心碎的过往并唤起你的追忆之心来。记住,这些歌曲列表是你为前任专门设置的,它们是你俩都喜欢的歌,你曾为了让ta开心和想念你而特意排列了顺序。这些回忆能让你凭空悲伤,所以把这些播放列表删掉吧,但歌可以保留。
Emails
邮件
Emails can be as banal and brief as any text message, but there are plenty of exceptions: longones penned while abroad, or traveling, mail with attachments, breakup letters, I Miss Youletters. Rather than sift through everything, archive it all. Do a search for his or her email,select all, and pack it away into a folder. Remember: this email is part of your life history. Itincludes details you won't remember by the time you're long over the breakup, and you'll begrateful for them。
电子邮件有时候就跟手机短信一样乏味而简洁,不过也有例外:比如出国或旅游时写的长邮件、带附件的邮件、以及分手信和思念信。与其筛遍所有邮件,不如全部归档。然后把和ta有关的邮件找出来,全选并放到一个专属文件夹。记住:邮件也是你的生活记录。它们包含了那些你在分手很久以后会忘记的细节,而到时候你会庆幸自己保留了它们。
Texts
手机短信
Delete—this is just an invitation to wallow and/or leap back into ill-advised contact. Both arebad for you。
删了吧。这些短信只会让你沉溺于悲伤或诱使你去联系那个不该再联系的人。无论怎样都对你没好处。
Facebook tags
Facebook的圈人标记
Again, an opportunity to wallow, a web browser shortcut to melancholy. And who wants afuture prospect to see a bunch of pictures with your ex?
这个也是诱使你沉溺于往事的坏东西,而且还是个浏览器的捷径。任何希望有个光明未来的人都不会想看到一堆自己和ex的合影的!
There should be a pattern emerging here. It's difficult, but you need to discern what baggageis going to be useful even after all the heavy, horrible, hurtful emotions wear off. What are thebytes that'll have significance on their own, without the love connection? What stuff will remindyou about your life in some broader sense than a relationship that occupied some months oryears of it? What'll be that GIF or TXT you wish to hell you hadn't erased, because who knowswhat it might've reminded you of about the way you used to be?
但要懂得区分。尽管这很难,但你需要分辨出那些在你消化掉沉重、恐惧和心碎感后,仍能带来作用的东西。哪些是抹去爱情痕迹后依旧意义重大的照片?哪些是能体现你生命印记而非仅仅记录你爱情长跑的照片?哪些是你删除以后必定会后悔的东西?无论是gif还是txt格式的东西,它们之中总有些能唤醒你对过去的记忆。
Those things deserve backup. The rest was just noise all along。
这些东西值得备份。其他的都只是浮云。
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世界上的很多事情我们都没有选择,譬如分手,任何分手的本质都是不爱了。今天读文网小编在这里为大家分享一些关于分手的英文句子,欢迎大家阅读!
1、I won't hurt you anymore.
我不会再伤害你了。
2、Don't you know how much I love you?
难道你不晓得我有多爱你吗?
3、Facts show we are not a good match.
事实证明我们合不来。
4、I don't want to part with you.
我不想和你分手。
5、I know it's all my fault. I'll never break your heart again. Please forgive me.
我知道都是我的错。我再也不会伤你的心。请原谅我。
6、Don't call me any more.
你再也不要给我打电话了。
7、Please give me one more chance.
请再给我一次机会。
8、Don't leave me, please.
求你不要离开我。
9、I wanted to part from you long ago.
我早就想和你分手了。
10、I can't live without you.
没有你我活不下去。
11、If those who have broken up can still be friends,they've never been in love,otherwise they are still in love.
如果分手的恋人还能做朋友,要不从没爱过,要不还在爱着。
12、Why are you driving me away?
你为什么赶我走?
13、Let's part.
咱们分手吧。
14、My life would be miserable without you.
没有你我的生活会很凄惨的。
15、Only breakup can stop us from quarrelling.只有分手才能停止我们之间的争吵。
对于无奈的你,我只能选择离开。
For the helpless you, I can only choose to leave.
你爱我我爱你,后来你不爱了,而我却碍你。
You love me, I love you, then you do not love, and I do not hinder you.
我还没有刚强到,可以本身来抗全部犯下的错。
I have not been strong, to be able to fight against all the mistakes I have made.
爱得痛苦,爱得累,爱是一场空。
Love is painful, love tired, love is nothing.
把你放在心底,用回忆把你埋葬。
Put you in the bottom of my heart, and bury you with the memory.
可供怀念的时光,都已经死掉了。
Can be used to miss the time, have died.
分手以后很久,发现心里还是有你。
After breaking up for a long time, I found that there are still in your heart.
一人走,一人睡,一人哭,一人笑,终是一人。
A person go, a person to sleep, a person cry, a person laugh, the end is a person.
别离太久,思念太深,常常失落于无边的期待;冬夜的灯下,过去的故事,总撩起我无尽的幽思。
Departure time is too long and my missing for you is too deep.l am often loss in endless expectation; under the lamp in the winter night, the story happened in the past years often pull up endless thoughts.
人生路漫漫,你我相遇又分离。相聚总是短暂,分别却是久长,惟愿彼此的心儿能紧紧相随,永不分离。
A long way of life makes us meet and part. The union is ephemeral, but the separation is long. May our hearts be closely together and inseparable for ever.
你的身影是帆,我的目光是河流,多少次想挽留你,终不能够,我知道人世间难得的是友情,更宝贵的却是自由。
Your image is sail and my eyes are river. How many time l want to urge you to stay but I can't.I know the valuable thing is friendship and the more valuable thing is freedom.
别离的泪水,为记忆的长河增添新的浪花;别离的祝福,为再—次相聚拉开了序幕。
Tears upon parting add new waves to the long river of memory; wishes for departure are prelude to another meeting.
找一个值得死心塌地的人,好好爱。
Find a worthy hell-bent person, love.
我失恋了,你怎么可以把我弄丢了。
I lost my love, how can you make me lost.
怎么赶不走失恋的苦恼。我知道我无可救药。
How to get away from the misery of love. I know my past hope.
顺着泪痕一点一点擦净,然后一句话也不说就走。
Tears down a wipe, and then without a word to go.
分手了心痛了是时间在捉弄我们吗?
Broke up the heartache is the time to make fun of us?
心会累爱会冷,这是感情必经的过程。
Heart will be tired, love will be cold, this is the feeling of the necessary process.
在我能写歌时,第一首歌是写给自己的心情。
I can write in, the first song is for their own mood.
喜欢他,我为什么没有快、只有痛苦。
Like him, why I did not fast, only pain.
冬日的阳光,纵然在辉煌光耀也暖和不到心脏。
The winter sun, even in the brilliant warm to the heart.
我那卑微的等待,何时才能被你发现。
My humble waiting, when can you find.
你被我磨得没有了棱角,所以我会一直包围着你。
You have been worn by me without edges and corners, so I will always be around you.
不宽恕众生,不原谅众生,是苦了你自己。
Do not forgive all sentient beings, do not forgive all sentient beings, is suffering from your own.
凶残的人也有善良的心,不顾一切的玩命。
A ferocious man also has a good heart, fling caution to the winds of your life.
谁会为谁奋不顾身,谁会为谁执着一生。
Who is who who who is regardless of personal danger, persistent life.
到底从什么时候开始、听到一首老歌就会流泪。
In the end what time from the beginning, I heard an old song weeps.
每个人都有一条难看的伤疤,只是那条伤疤已经除不去了。
Everyone has an ugly scar, but the scar has been removed.
希望每晚星亮入梦时,有人来代替我,吻你。
I hope every night star bright dream, someone to replace me, kiss you.
我的心不是二十四小时营业的,不能随时欢迎你光临。
My heart is not open twenty-four hours, can not always welcome you to visit.
在你最回味的旅程里,我才能给你的独家微笑。
In your most memorable journey, I can give you the exclusive smile.
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下面是读文网小编推荐的双语美文:《真爱教会我们的17堂课》,欢迎大家阅读!
Love. It makes the world go ‘round, right? Well, at least that’s the how the saying goes. But is it true? It should be, but so many people confuse love with things like jealousy or possessiveness. True love isn’t either of those things. But these 17 things are. So here are the lessons that real love teaches us:
有句话叫做“爱让世界转动”,果真如此么?应该是吧。可是,很多人却把嫉妒或占有误以为是爱。真爱既不是嫉妒也不是占有。但下面这17个蕴意却能阐释爱。请看真爱能教会我们什么吧:
1. Love doesn’t play the victim role or blame others
爱没有“玻璃心”,也不会苛责对方
Love works together. It takes responsibility. It forgives and allows other people’s actions to be their journey. Love doesn’t take things personally.
爱是同心协力,是同舟共济,是宽容对方并放手让对方启程。爱不会狭隘地斤斤计较。
2. Love is focusing on quality, not quantity
爱注重质量而非数量
Love focuses on the quality of your relationship, not its longevity. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “It’s better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?” Just because your relationship lasts a long time doesn’t mean that you have true love. Real love can be very brief. Therefore, quality and quantity of love are not the same things.
爱重在彼此关系的质量,而非相处了多长时间。相信你肯定听说过这句话——宁愿去爱去迷失,也总比不曾爱过的好。就算你们已经相处很长时间,也不表示你们就是真心相爱。真爱可以很短暂。所以说,爱质量和爱数量完全是两码事。
3. Love doesn’t require you to continue a relationship
爱不勉强维持
You may love someone very much. But you may not be compatible with them. Or they may drive you crazy with their continued disregard for your feelings. You can still love them, but that doesn’t mean you have to be with them. Love doesn’t mean that you have to stay, and stay, and stay. You can leave the relationship and love them anyway.
或许你非常爱他,可你们根本就性格不投;或者他总漠视你的情感,让你痛苦纠缠。当然,你仍然可以爱着他,但这不表示你必须陪在他身边。爱不是强作维持无奈停留。你可以选择离开,但在心里仍然爱着对方。
4. Love has no room for jealousy
爱没有嫉妒
Like possession, jealousy doesn’t equal love. We think that if we’re not jealous of our loved ones that it means that we don’t love them. True love has confidence in the quality of the relationship. It knows that the other person is happy and content coming back to you, and only you.
和占有欲一样,嫉妒也不是爱。我们以为要是不嫉妒吃醋,就表示我们根本不爱对方。其实,真爱完全相信彼此关系多么可靠,确信那个人会很开心地选择你——而且只有你。
5. Love includes letting go
爱也是放手
Love doesn’t equal possession. Just as the saying goes, “If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it’s yours. If it doesn’t, then it never was.” There is truth to that. Love allows people their freedom. It doesn’t hold tightly and crush their wings in attempt to keep them. True love doesn’t want to possess. It is willing to set you free if you want to be.
爱不等于占有。常言道:“如果你喜欢它,就请给它自由。它若能再回来,便是你的;若不愿回来,那么它永远也不会属于你。” 确实如此呵!爱会给对方自由。爱不应紧紧拽着对方,不应为了留住对方而折断他的翅膀。真爱不是占有,而是如你所愿地给你自由。
6. Love makes you feel good, not bad
爱让你情绪愉悦,而非低落
Many people confuse being in a relationship with love. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean there is true love present. If there is jealousy, possessiveness, constant fighting, abuse (verbal, emotional, or physical), that is not love. Refer back to #6. Those are fear-based emotions and actions.
许多人分不清相处和爱。两人相处并不一定就是真心相爱。如果伴有嫉妒、占有、经常性争吵,甚至口头、情感或身体上的暴力,那根本就不是爱。正如前面第6条所言,这些都是恐惧类的情绪和行为。
7. Love is the absence of fear
爱没有恐惧
You can put all emotions on a continuum. On one end, you have love. Then appreciation. After that, it’s joy, happiness, contentment, and satisfaction. On the opposite end of the continuum of love is fear. Other fear-based emotions include, hatred, insecurity, jealousy, or greed.
将所有情绪排列顺序,从头开始是爱、感恩、喜悦、快乐、知足、满意,而排在最末尾的便是恐惧。恐惧类情绪还有憎恶、不安、嫉妒或贪婪。
8. Love means letting go of expectations
爱意味着抛开期望
Sure, we all want people to behave the way we want them to. We want them to be more affectionate. Or more outgoing. Or smarter. Or more ambitious. All of these things are expectations. Expectations are just your requirements for “acceptability” of loving someone. But true love has no expectations. It simply loves “as is.”
自然,我们都希望别人能成为我们所期望的那样。我们要求他们更柔情、更阳光、更聪明或更有抱负。所有这些都是期望,而期望就是你“愿意”爱上某人的条件。可是,真爱并不尽是期望——真爱是能够接受对方本来的样子。
9. Love is an action, not just a feeling
爱不只是感觉,更是行动
Humans tend to be addicted to intense emotion – especially when it feels good. So when we’re in love, we want to feel that way forever. But guess what? That higher than “Cloud 9” feeling goes away after a while. That doesn’t mean you don’t love the other person anymore, it just means that it’s not new anymore. So that’s where the action needs to kick in. Show the person you love them. Don’t just assume they know.
人们总是难以抗拒热烈的情感——尤其是在感觉良好的时候。所以一旦陷入爱,我们就总希望能一直那样美好。但实际上呢,那种飘飘欲仙的感觉稍纵即逝。当然,这并不表示你不再爱他,只能说新鲜劲儿过去了而已。这时就得拿出行动来证明你爱他。不要只在心里想当然认为他知道你爱他。
10. Love is unconditional
爱是无条件的
The word ‘unconditional’ means that there are no expectations or limitations set. To love unconditionally is a difficult thing, and most humans aren’t good at that. But true love really does love without trying to change the other person.
“无条件”是指没有期望或设定限制。无条件去爱不是件容易的事情,大部分人也都做不到这一点。但是,真正的爱确实不需要试图去改变对方。
11. Love means putting other people’s needs equal to – or before – your own
爱意味着“忧他人之忧”
While people may be inherently selfish for survival purposes, this does not serve us well in relationships. If you don’t put other people’s needs at least equal to your own, they will grow resentful. Real love truly, genuinely cares about other people’s happiness and will go to great lengths to make people feel valued.
为了生存,人性难免自私;但自私却不利于培养感情。如果你没能把对方的需求当成自己的事情,那么对方或许会心怀不满。真正的爱会不容置疑地“乐他人之乐”,并且尽量让对方感到受重视。
12. Love is not needing and wanting
爱不是需求和渴望
One of the things we try to teach kids is that there is a clear difference between a want and a need. Needing someone is a feeling based in fear. You fear that you can’t live without them, so you need them. And remember, fear is the opposite of love. Wanting someone in your life gives them the freedom to leave, but still shows them you love them.
我们经常教导子女:渴望和需求是不一样的。你需要某人,那是因为你心藏恐惧:你害怕没了他你就无法生活,所以你需要他。可是别忘了,恐惧和爱是对立的。如果你渴望生活中出现某个人但又愿意给他离开的自由,那你才是爱他的。
13. Love requires attention
爱需要关注
Love doesn’t ignore. It doesn’t look the other way. It wants to be present and be together. When people are in love, sometimes they think that they don’t have to “do any more work.” But real love actually enjoys giving attention to another person. It feels good, and doesn’t see giving attention to another person as a chore.
爱不可视而不见,不可心有旁骛;爱需要即时即刻在一起。有些人以为相爱时无需“多此一举”,但真正的爱其实是需要给予对方关注的。关心对方会让你感到开心,而且一点也不觉得琐碎麻烦。
14. Love understands and accepts differences
爱理解并接受差异
Let’s face it. We’re all different. Even identical twins aren’t exactly the same. They have different experiences and outlooks about the world. Real love doesn’t make other people wrong for being different. When people truly love another person, they accept their differences.
事实上人各有异。即便是长得相似的双胞胎也并不完全一样,他们也会有不同的经历和世界观。真正的爱不会因为对方不同而加以指责。若是真心相爱,人们会接受各自的差异。
15. Love is the highest vibration emotion that there is
爱是世界上最易波动的感情
Science has proven that emotions like love and fear have very different vibrations. They can actually measure them. Love vibrates very fast, whereas fear-based emotions (think jealousy, possessiveness, hatred, greed, etc.) vibrate very slowly. When you love completely and unconditionally, there is no fear involved. The vibrations of love make you feel good at all times.
科学表明,爱和恐惧具有截然不同的波动率。这种波动率可以实际测量出来:爱波动得非常快,而恐惧类情绪(如嫉妒、占有、憎恶、贪婪等)却波动得极其缓慢。如果你是全身心无条件去爱的话,恐惧是不存在的。起伏的爱会让你一直心情高昂。
16. Love varies in how it is expressed and accepted
表达与接受方式不同,爱也随之各异。
What makes us “feel loved” varies. In the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman, he explains the different ways people give and receive love: (1) Words (2) Acts of Service, (3) Giving Gifts, (4) Spending Time Together, and (5) Touch. It’s important to discover other people’s love language so you can understand each other and give love in a way that the other person recognizes it.
人们陷入爱的方式各有不同。在《爱的五种语言》一书中,盖瑞-恰普曼阐释了人们给予并接受爱的不同方式:(1)言语,(2)提供帮助,(3)赠送礼物,(4)共享时光,(5)肢体接触。因此,观察对方的爱语言很重要,这样你就能了解彼此,并以对方能够接受的方式表达爱意。
17. Love has empathy
爱能产生同感共鸣
Empathy is the ability to put yourself into another person’s shoes and see a situation from his/her point of view. Love has deep empathy. “When you hurt, I hurt.” People who truly love one another don’t want to hurt them. They want them to feel good. They care about their feelings and try everything they can to make them feel valued and worthy.
同感共鸣就是你要能站在对方立场并从对方角度看待情况。爱能产生强烈的共鸣。“你痛,我也痛。”所以真正相爱的人不忍伤害对方。他们希望看到对方开开心心,他们关心对方的情绪,愿意做任何事情让对方感到被重视。
Remember, love is happiness, appreciation, and feeling good. Anything other than that is not love. If we all loved one another as ourselves, the world would be a better place!
请记住:爱是快乐,是感恩,是心情愉悦。除此之外则并非爱。如果我们都能以爱己之心去爱他人,这个世界将会变得更加美好!
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分手的时候总是比较让人伤感的,毕竟曾今相爱的两个人从此形同陌路。今天读文网小编在这里为大家分享一些伤感的分手的英文句子,欢迎大家阅读!
1One word frees us of all the weight and pain in life.That word is love.
有一个词可以让我们摆脱生活中所有的负担和痛苦,那就是"爱情"。
2Precious things are very few in this world. That is the reason there is just one you.
在这世上珍贵的东西总是罕有,所以这世上只有一个你。
3Sweet love you, precious, I disdained the situation with regard emperors swap
你甜蜜的爱,就是珍宝,我不屑把处境跟帝王对调。
4there’s slim hope that in the maze of dark and disordered tuins a luxury haunting love will be discovered.
在迷宫般黑暗混乱的废墟里,发掘那奢华凄美的爱情,希望渺茫。
5To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one u love go freely.
宽恕,原谅并不代表忘记,也不代表赦免,而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系,而是有没有住在你的心里。
6to live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. do you know that no one can replace you in my heart?
生活在没有你的世界,比任何一种惩罚都要痛苦,你 知道吗,对我而言,你是任何人都无法取代的。
7to love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly.
暗恋一个人的心情,就像是瓶中等待发芽的种子,永远不能确定未来是否是美丽的,但却真心而倔强的等待着。
7、A heart that loves is always young.
有爱的心永远年轻。
8、A person live in love, why reduced.
一个人好好过,何苦在爱情里沦落。
9、Ce n’est pas jamais, jamais oublier que, une fois.
到不了的就是永远, 忘不了的就是曾经。
10、Don‘t try to hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.
不要着急,最好的总会在最不经意的时候出现。
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1、答应我,不要冷淡的对待我。
2、让我心碎,你做得比谁都到位。
3、欠你的幸福、拿什么还。
4、我们都太好强,不肯忍让对方。
5、最好的幸福,就是你给的在乎。
6、给了她的心,你是否能收回。
7、戏子入画、一生天涯。
8、繁华奢庸,只撇下了一幕沧伤。
9、你若不珍惜,我又何必动情。
10、我过的好不好,和你有什么关系。
11、你不知道深夜的我,有多想你。
12、谁将烟焚散,散了纵横的牵绊。
13、放不下,不过是因为还爱着。
14、死亡,只能说明我存在过。
15、等候,是一生最初的苍老。
16、如果无能为力,那就顺其自然。
17、你平静孤独,我一场虚无。
18、你早已离戏,我却入戏太深。
19、除了青春我们一无所有。
20、枯叶残败、曾经一世的兴衰。
21、我们安静地走着,一切就很好。
22、擦肩而过,谁为谁而留恋。
23、我的天真,埋葬在你的绝情里。
24、一个人的想念,两个人的画面。
25、我的沉默,最后的心痛。
26、笑容背后,满是一颗疮痍的心。
27、我不知道,还会喜欢你多久。
28、就当是我让你走,别回头。
29、爱情似尖刀,伤人知多少。
30、我不愿意舍弃我的不甘心。
31、不要暗恋妹,妹只会让你心碎。
32、真正属于你的,永远不会错过。
33、我喜欢你。是我独家的记忆。
34、快乐太单纯,所以容易破碎。
35、迷雾散尽,一切终于变清晰。
36、我的心好痛,撕心裂肺的那种。
37、你别笑了,眼泪都掉了。
38、极度的烦躁,压抑的不行了。
39、你们耀眼的幸福刺的我生疼。
40、开始、只是一个多余的结局。
41、以后你无聊时,由我来陪。
42、如果离不开,那就拼命爱。
43、我的心受罪,你的美,我不配!
44、你忘了回忆,我忘了忘记。
45、所有过去的过去,只不过是过去。
46、现在的心痛,没人能体会。
47、也许,真的该离开了吧!
48、不喜欢走感情路,因为我怕输。
49、你好飘渺,风带走了你。
50、灰色的我怔怔留在没你的世界。
51、别在我离不开你的时候离开我。
52、是谁先说爱,又是谁先离开。
53、流水落花春去也,天上人间。
54、渐渐的明白,其实个人挺好的。
55、原先笑靥如花,后来满是伤疤。
56、快乐幸福满溢,我怕悲伤。
57、少了什么?我们都不清楚。
58、我们女人,自己也能过很好。
59、我相信,我的快乐会回来的。
60、睡自己的觉,让别人上课去吧!
61、我只要你相信我,这已足够。
62、我也曾后悔过,可转身你已不在。
63、思念。带来前所未有的甜蜜。
64、雨一直下,很多地方都被淹了。
65、你的沉默,我的无言。
66、这次我先走,你别回头。
67、昨天太近,明天太远。
68、我已经不需要你了!你走吧!
69、最初不相识,最终不相认。
70、你还是不懂俄有多想爱你。
71、我在没有光的墙角,寻找黑暗。
72、回忆告诉我,让我忘了你。
73、等失望攒够了,我就会离开。
74、与其庸人自扰,不如看淡点好。
75、我相信你、信到怀疑自己。
76、如果爱,怎么爱。
77、亲爱的,请允许我的任性妄为。
78、如果我们,爱下去会怎样。
79、我会试着去假装不在意你的一切。
80、最挫败的是我感动不了你。
81、你路过我心头,写下万顷清澈。
82、没有任何一种分离不让人心酸。
83、食言有助减肥,只要不是荤话。
84、一眼是童话,一眼是天涯。
85、你担心她孤单,却忘了我怕冷。
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摘要:一千个人眼中有一千个哈姆雷特。在这里给你换个角度另类解读这部每7年就火一次的纪录片——《人生七年》告诉我们的5条人生法则。
要记得时常感恩。
The most troubled and compelling participants in the series are the ones that are also among the most grateful for what they have.
纪录片中遇到麻烦最多、同时也最引人注目的角色,往往也是那些对自己所拥有的一切最懂得感恩的人。
Neil, for example, suffers severe mental illness and has been homeless and suicidal for long stretches of time. But Neil also provides the audience with many moments of grace, as when he recounts how grateful he is for long walks and conversations with friends.
比如说,影片中的尼尔患有严重的精神疾病,很长时间都流浪在外、犹豫在自杀的边缘。但尼尔带给观众的,还有很多优雅的镜头:回想起和朋友们的长途漫步、促膝而谈,他感到很满足。
This sense of gratitude contributes powerfully to the resilience self-cure of Neil. People who live a life of pervasive thankfulness really do experience life differently than people who cheat themselves out of life by not feeling grateful.
正是这种感恩的意识,促进了尼尔的恢复和自愈。对生活毫无感恩的人其实是欺骗了自己的生活,而对生活充满感恩的人、他们的生活体验真的与众不同。
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Nowadays, people like to go to the cinema to watch movies. They think the big screen and the incredible sound is a treat. Somehow, I think go to the theater to watch films has a lot of disadvantages. Sometimes, these shortcomings even overwhelm the pleasure of watching movies.
First, when you on your way to the cinema, you may stick in traffic jam and cannot arrive on time. If you make it, you may have problem of finding a parking spot. As you know, not every cinema has enough places for you to park. The time you have wasted on the road can do different kinds of things. If you choose to stay at home to watch movies, you don’t need to worry about these problems. You’re not only saving your precious time but also parking fees and gas.
Second, you may have to stand in line for hours just to buy yourself a ticket. It is annoying. If the tickets have sold out, you will wait another day. Sometimes you succeed in buying a ticket, but it was not the best seat. You might seat just in front of the screen or in the last row. When you’re watching the movie uncomfortably, you will be regret that you have made the wrong choice. Maybe you should seat in your own sofa to watch.
Last, the atmosphere of the theater is not always as good as you think. People around you allow eating anything they want, which means they will make a lot of noise while they’re chewing. What’s worse, you may seat next to the person who talks on the phone while you try really hard to listen to what the actress says, or a young couple who seat behind you happily discuss about how the movie will end. This is annoying, isn’t it?
Due to these reasons, I think people should reconsider whether it worth to go outside to watch a movie, while we have the condition to watch at home. The problems and the hazards can be avoided if we choose to stay at home. Thus, it’s more convenient and comfortable to stay at home to watch movies.
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摘要:我们每个人都有一定程度的抑郁风险。对于有些人来说,机会很小;对于另一些人来说几乎不可避免。
Each one of us has some risk for becoming depressed. For some the chance might be remote, while for others it can be almost inevitable.
We all have our own vulnerabilities for depression, based on our life experiences, health conditions, substance use, and genetic predisposition. A person's risk for becoming depressed at some point in his or her life ranges from low to high, based upon the interaction of all of these factors.
我们每个人都有一定程度的抑郁风险。对于有些人来说,机会很小;对于另一些人来说几乎不可避免。
对于抑郁,我们都有各自的薄弱点,这些可能和人生经历、健康情况、物质滥用和遗传易感性有关。在这些因素的共同作用下,一个人一生中的抑郁风险有高有低。
A good general way to think of the factors that lead to depression is with the two-hit hypothesis. This model suggests that people become depressed when the effects of their genetic composition—which itself puts them somewhere on a scale of low-to-high likelihood of eventually developing depression—combine with stressful life experiences.
采取“两步假设法”可以从宏观上了解这些因素是怎样导致抑郁的。这个模式认为,在基因组成(其本身也对产生抑郁影响有高低之分)和充满压力的生活的共同作用下,人们就抑郁了。
Even those individuals with a low genetic tendency for depression can become depressed when they experience extreme stress. On the other hand, people with strong genetic predispositions may become depressed without experiencing much stress. Naturally, the people with both high stress and strong genetic predispositions are the most likely to have a depressive disorder.
即便一个人抑郁的遗传倾向程度低,但是处于极度压力下的时候,这人也会抑郁;同样,抑郁的遗传倾向程度高的那些人,即使没处于压力环境中,也可能抑郁。自然地,那些高压力、高(遗传)基因易感性的人患抑郁症的可能性最大。
While the two-hit hypothesis is useful conceptually, making predictions for particular individuals is still a challenge. For example, because of their psychological characteristics, people respond to stress in different ways. Plus, the genetics of depression is not as simple as something like eye color.
虽然这“两步假设法”理论上行得通,可是要预测特定个体,依然是一个挑战。例如,心理特征不同的人对压力的反应不同。另外,抑郁的基因可不像决定眼睛颜色的基因那么简单。
What stressful conditions might contribute to someone developing depression?
有哪些充满压力的环境能让人们抑郁呢?
* emotional or physical abuse, especially when it continues over long periods
身心虐待,尤其是长期的
* sexual abuse
性虐待
* emotional and physical neglect
情绪或身体被忽视
* chaotic home environment
混乱的家庭环境
* chronic illnesses, especially during childhood
慢性疾病,尤其是在儿童时期
* substance abuse, including alcoholism
物质滥用,包括酗酒
* chronic insomnia and sleep deprivation
长期失眠和睡眠剥夺
How can stress early in life affect mood and brain functioning later on? There are several theoretical possibilities. One is that stress hormones influence the development of key areas of the brain related to mood and emotions.
人生早期的压力对随后的情绪、大脑运作有何影响?有一些理论对此进行了解释。其中一个理论认为压力荷尔蒙会影响和情绪、情感有关的关键大脑区域的发育。
Is there a depression gene?
有一种“抑郁基因"吗?
The genetics of depression are complex and not yet fully understood. A single depression gene locus has not been found; rather, several sections of the genome have been identified that are associated with a higher probability of having depression.
有关抑郁的基因研究很复杂,还没有被人们完全了解。尚未找到一个单一的抑郁基因位点;不过,已经发现一些基因组,它们和较易导致抑郁
You are at higher risk for depression if ...
下面的情况出现时,出现抑郁的风险更大......
* you have had significant difficulty due to depression in the past
抑郁曾为你带来巨大的困扰
* depression runs in your family, especially in close blood relatives
有抑郁家史,尤其是近亲中
* you have been exposed to chronic stressful circumstances
长期处于压力大的环境中
If you think that you are at high risk for depression, you should be alert for early signs of any symptoms of a mood disorder and you should then talk with your mental health specialist about possible treatments. Early treatment can have both short- and long-term benefits.
如果你认为自己是以为高抑郁风险者,那么对任何情绪紊乱的早期症状都要警觉,和心理健康专家探讨如何治疗。及早治疗会带来短期和长期的好处。
Of course, if you already have severe depressive symptoms, then seek help right away. If you are feeling suicidal, talk with someone about it immediately and consult your doctor, or else get to an emergency room fast.
当然,如果你已经有严重的抑郁症状,那么应寻求正确的帮助。如果你感到有自杀倾向,立刻和某个人说一说,咨询你的医生,或迅速前往急诊室。
Consider, too, the risks of your family and friends. You might play an important role in helping them get early treatment to prevent worse symptoms in the future.
同样,要考虑家人和朋友的抑郁风险。在帮助他们及早治疗、预防恶化的过程中,你可能会起到重要的作用。
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