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IT HAD been hard for him that spake it to have putmore truth and untruth together in few words, thanin that speech, Whatsoever is delighted in solitude,is either a wild beast or a god. For it is most true,that a natural and secret hatred, and aversationtowards society, in any man, hath somewhat of thesavage beast; but it is most untrue, that it shouldhave any character at all, of the divine nature;except it proceed, not out of a pleasure insolitude, but out of a love and desire to sequestera man's self, for a higher conversation: such as isfound to have been falsely and feignedly in some of the heathen; as Epimenides the Canadian,Numa the Roman, Empedocles the Sicilian, and Apollonius of Tyana; and truly and really, indivers of the ancient hermits and holy fathers of the church. But little do men perceive whatsolitude is, and how far it extendeth. For a crowd is not company; and faces are but a galleryof pictures; and talk but a tinkling cymbal, where there is no love. The Latin adage meeteth withit a little: Magna civitas , magna solitudo; because in a great town friends are scattered; so thatthere is not that fellowship, for the most part, which is in less neighborhoods. But we may gofurther, and affirm most truly, that it is a mere and miserablesolitude to want true friends;without which theworld is but a wilderness; and even in this sense also of solitude,whosoever in the frame of his nature and affections, is unfit for friendship, he taketh it of thebeast, and not from humanity.
A principal fruit of friendship, is the ease and discharge of the fulness and swellings of theheart, which passions of all kinds do cause and induce. We know diseases of stoppings, andsuffocations, are the most dangerous in the body; and it is not much otherwise in the mind;you may take sarza to open the liver, steel to open the spleen, flowers of sulphur for thelungs, castoreum for the brain; but no receipt openeth the heart, but a true friend; to whomyou may impart griefs, joys, fears, hopes, suspicions, counsels, and whatsoever lieth upon theheart to oppress it, in a kind of civil shrift or confession.
“喜欢孤独的人不是野兽便是神灵”。说这话的人若要在寥寥数语之中,更能把真理和邪说放在一处,那就很难了。因为,若说一个人心里有了一种天生的、隐秘的、对社会的憎恨嫌弃,则那个人不免带点野兽底性质,这是极其真实的;然而要说这样的一个人居然有任何神灵底性质,则是极不真实的。只有一点可为例外,那就是当这种憎恨社会的心理不是出于对孤独的爱好而是出于一种想把自己退出社会以求更崇高的生活的心理的时候;这样的人异教徒中有些人曾冒充过,如克瑞蒂人埃辟曼尼底斯罗马人努马西西利人安辟道克利斯和蒂安那人阿波郎尼亚斯是也;而____会中许多的古隐者和长老则确有如此者。但是一般人并不大明白何为孤独以及孤独底范围。因为在没有“仁爱”的地方,一群的人众并不能算做一个团体,许多的面目也仅仅是一列图画;而交谈则不过是铙钹丁令作声而且。这种情形有句拉丁成语略能形容之:“一座大城市就是一片大荒野”;因为在一座大城市里朋友们是散居各处的,所以就其大概而言,不像在小一点的城镇里,有那样的交情。但是我们不妨更进一步并且很真实地断言说,缺乏真正的朋友乃是最纯粹最可怜的孤独;没有友谊则斯世不过是一片荒野;我们还可以用这个意义来论“孤独”说,凡是天性不配交友的人其性情可说是来自禽兽而不是来自人类的。
友谊底主要效用之一就在使人心中的愤懑抑郁之气得以宣泄弛放,这些不平之气是各种的情感都可以引起的。闭塞之症于人底身体最为凶险,这是我们知道的;在人底精神方面亦复如此:你可以服撒尔沙以通肝,服钢以通脾,服硫华以通肺,服海狸胶以通脑,然而除了一个真心的朋友之外没有一样药剂是可以通心的。对一个真心的朋友你可以传达你底忧愁、欢悦、恐惧、希望、疑忌、谏净,以及任何压在你心上的事情,有如一种教堂以外的忏悔一样.
It is a strange thing to observe, how high a rate great kings and monarchs do set upon thisfruit of friendship, whereof we speak: so great, as they purchase it, many times, at the hazardof their own safety and greatness. For princes, in regard of the distance of their fortune fromthat of their subjects and servants, cannot gather this fruit, except (to make themselvescapable thereof) they raise some persons to be, as it were, companions and almost equals tothemselves, which many times sorteth to inconvenience. The modern languages give untosuch persons the name of favorites, or privadoes; as if it were matter of grace, orconversation. But the Roman name attaineth the true use and cause thereof, naming themparticipes curarum; for it is that which tieth the knot.And we see plainly that this hath beendone, not by weak and passionate princes only, but by the wisest and most politic that everreigned; who have oftentimes joined to themselves some of their servants; whom boththemselves have called friends, and allowed other likewise to call them inthe same manner; usingthe word which is received between private men.
L. Sylla, when he commanded Rome, raised Pompey (after surnamed the Great) to that height,that Pompey vaunted himself for Sylla's overmatch. For when he had carried the consulship fora friend of his, against the pursuit of Sylla, and that Sylla did a little resent thereat, and beganto speak great, Pompey turned upon him again, and in effect bade him be quiet; for that moremen adored the sun rising, than the sun setting. With Julius Caesar, Decimus Brutus hadobtained that interest as he set him down in his testament, for heir in remainder, after hisnephew. And this was the man that had power with him, to draw him forth to his death. Forwhen Caesar would have discharged the senate, in regard of some ill presages, and specially adream of Calpurnia; this man lifted him gently by the arm out of his chair, telling him he hopedhe would not dismiss the senate, till his wife had dreamt a better dream. And it seemeth hisfavor was so great, as Antonius, in a letter which is recited verbatim in one of Cicero's Philippics,calleth him venefica, witch; as if he had enchanted Caesar. Augustus raised Agrippa (though ofmean birth) to that height, as when he consulted with Maecenas, about the marriage of hisdaughter Julia, Maecenas took the liberty to tell him, that he must either marry his daughter toAgrippa, or take away his life; there was no third way, he had made him so great. With TiberiusCaesar, Sejanus had ascended to that height, as they two were termed, and reckoned, as a pairof friends. Tiberius in a letter to him saith,Haec pro amicitia nostra non occultavi; and the wholesenate dedicated an altar to Friendship, as to a goddess, in respect of the great dearness offriendship, between them two. The like, or more, was between Septimius Severus andPlautianus. For he forced his eldest son to marry the daughter of Plautianus; and would oftenmaintain Plautianus, in doing affronts to his son; and did write also in a letter to the senate, bythese words: I love the man so well, as I wish he may over-live me.Now if these princes hadbeen as a Trajan, or a Marcus Aurelius, a man might have thought that this had proceeded ofan abundant goodness of nature; but being men so wise, of such strength and severity ofmind, and so extreme lovers of themselves, as all these were, it proveth most plainly that theyfound their own felicity (though as great as ever happened to mortal men) but as an half piece,except they mought have a friend, to make it entire; and yet, which is more, they were princesthat had wives, sons, nephews; and yet all these could not supply the comfort of friendship.
许多伟大的人主帝王对于我们所说的友谊底效用之重视在我们看起来实为可异。他们之重视友谊,至于往往不顾自己底安全与尊荣以求之。盖为人君者,由于他们与臣民之间地位上的距离的原故,是不能享受友谊的——除非他们(为使自己能享受友谊起见)把某人擢升到他们底伴侣或侪辈底地位,然而这样做底结果往往是有不便的。像这样的人现代语叫做“宠臣”或“私人”;好像他们之所以能到这种地位仅仅是由于主上底恩意或君臣之间的亲近似的。然而罗马语中的字眼才能算是把这种人底真正用途及其擢升之由表达出来了;罗马语把这种人叫做participes curarum“分优者”;因为真能使君臣之间结如斯之友谊者,正即此事也。我们又可以看到像这样的事情并不限于懦弱易感的君主,即从来最有智有谋的君主,亦往往有与臣下中某人结交,呼之为友,并使旁人亦以君王之友人称之者;君臣之间所用的这种称谓就和普遍私人之间所用的一样。
苏拉,当他为罗马底独裁者的时候,把庞拜(即后来被人称为“伟大的”庞拜者)擢升到很高的地位以至庞拜自诩为苏拉所不及。因为有一次庞拜为他底一位朋友争执政官之职,与苏拉所推举之人竞选,竟而获胜。在苏拉对此表示不满而开始争吵的时候,庞拜简直反唇相向,叫他不要多言,“因为拜朝日的人多过拜夕阳的人”。在恺撒则有代西玛斯·布鲁塔斯,其影响之巨,竟使恺撒在遗嘱中立他为次承继人,仅次于恺撒底孙外甥。而这人也就是有能力诱致恺撒于死地的人。因为在恺撒为了一些不祥的预兆,尤其是克尔坡尼亚底一场噩梦的原故而想使参议院先行散会,改期再开的时候,布鲁塔斯拉着他底胳膊,轻轻地把他从椅子上拉了起来,并告诉他说,他希望恺撒不要叫参议院散会,等恺撒底夫人做一场好一点的梦之后再行开会。安东尼在一封信里(这封信在西塞罗底攻击演说之一中曾经一字不移地引用过)曾呼代西玛斯·布鲁塔斯为“妖人”,好像他用邪术迷惑了恺撒似的,他底得宠之深可见矣。阿葛瑞帕虽然出身微贱,但是奥古斯塔斯却把他升到很高的地位,以致后来当奥古斯塔斯以他底女儿玖利亚底婚事问麦西那斯的时候,麦西那斯竟敢说“他必须把女儿嫁给阿葛瑞帕,否则就必须把阿葛瑞帕杀了。再没有第三条路可走,因为他把阿葛瑞帕已造就得如此之伟大了”。在泰比瑞亚斯一方面西亚努斯升到很高的位置,竟至他们二人被称并被认为一双朋友。泰比瑞亚斯在致西亚努斯的一封信里写道:“为了我们底友谊的原故,我没有把这些事对你隐瞒”,并且整个的参议院给“友谊”特造了一座杂坛(就好像“友谊”是一位女神一样)以表扬他们二人之间的很亲爱的友谊。此类或胜乎此的例子又可于塞普谛米亚斯·塞委拉斯与普劳梯亚努斯底友谊中见之。因为塞委拉斯竟强迫他底儿子娶普劳梯亚努斯之女为妻;并且往往袒护普劳梯亚努斯种种欺凌皇子的行为;他并且以这样的言辞下诏于参议院:“朕爱其人如此之深,愿其能后朕而死也”。假如这些君王是图拉真或马喀斯·奥瑞利亚斯一流的,那末我们可以认为像上述的举动乃是出自十分良善的心田的;但是这些君王都是很有智谋,精神强健而严厉,并且是极端爱己的,然而他们竟然如此,这就可以证明他们底幸福虽然已达人间之极峰,但是他们对之,仍不满意,觉得若无朋友使之圆满,则这种幸福终是残缺不全也。犹有甚者,这些君主都是有妻有子有甥侄的人,然而这些人竟不能使他们有朋友之乐.
It is not to be forgotten, what Comineus observeth of his first master, Duke Charles theHardy,namely, that he would communicate his secrets with none; and least of all, thosesecrets which troubled him most. Whereupon he goeth on, and saith that towards his lattertime, that closeness did impair, and a little perish his understanding. Surely Comineus moughthave made the same judgment also, if it had pleased him, of his secondmaster, Lewis theEleventh, whose closeness was indeed his tormentor. The parable of Pythagoras is dark, buttrue; Cor ne edito; Eat not the heart. Certainly, if a man would give it a hard phrase,those thatwant friends, to open themselves unto,are carnnibals of their own hearts. But one thing is mostadmirable (wherewith I will conclude this first fruit of friendship), which is, that thiscommunicating of a man's self to his friend, works two contrary effects; for it redoubleth joys,and cutteth griefs in halves. For there is no man, that imparteth his joys to his friend, but hejoyeth the more; and no man that imparteth his griefs to his friend, but he grieveth the less.So that it is in truth, of operation upon a man's mind, of like virtue as the alchemists use toattribute to their stone, for man's body; that it worketh all contrary effects, but still to thegood and benefit of nature. But yet without praying in aid of alchemists, there is a manifestimage of this, in the ordinary course of nature. For in bodies, union strengtheneth andcherisheth any natural action; and on the other side, weakeneth and dulleth any violentimpression: and even so it is of minds.
The second fruit of friendship, is healthful and sovereign for the understanding, as the first isfor the affections. For friendship maketh indeed a fair day in the affections, from storm andtempests; but it maketh daylight in the understanding, out of darkness, and confusion ofthoughts. Neither is this to be understood only of faithful counsel, which a man receiveth fromhis friend; but before you come to that, certain it is, that whosoever hath his mind fraughtwith many thoughts, his wits band understanding do clarify and break up, in thecommunicating and discoursing with another; he tosseth his thoughts more easily; hemarshalleth them more orderly, he seeth how they look when they are turned into words:finally, he waxeth wiser than himself; and that more by an hour's iscourse, than by a day'smeditation. It was well said by Themistocles, to the king of Persia, That speech was like cloth ofArras, opened and putabroad; whereby the imagery doth appear infigure; whereas in thoughtsthey lie but as in packs. Neither is this second fruit of friendship, in opening the understanding,restrained only to such friends as are able to give a man counsel; (they indeed are best;) buteven without that, a man learneth of himself, and bringeth his own thoughts to light, andwhetteth his wits as againsta stone, which itself cuts not. In a word, a man were better relatehimself to a statua, or picture ,han to suffer his thoughts to pass in smother.
康明奈亚斯关于他底第一位主上,“勇敢的”查理公爵,所说的话是不可忘的,就是,他不肯把他底秘密与任何人共之,尤其不肯把那最使他为难的秘密告人。于是康明奈亚斯继续又说道:“到公爵底末日将近的时候这种秘而不宣的性情不免稍损他底理智”。其实,如果康明奈亚斯乐意的话,他对于他底第二位主上,路易十一,也大可下同样的断语,因为路易十一底好隐秘确是他自己底灾星。毕达哥拉斯底格言是难解而真确的;他说,“不要吃你底心”。确实地;说得厉害一点,没有朋友可以向之倾诉心事的人们可说是吃自己底心的野人。有一件事却是很值得惊奇的(我把它说了出来就此结束关于友谊底第一种功效的话语),那就是,一个人向朋友宣泄私情的这件事能产生两种相反的结果,它既能使欢乐倍增,又能使忧愁减半。因为没有人不因为把自己底乐事告诉了朋友而更为欢欣者,也没有人因为把自己底忧愁告诉了朋友而不减忧愁者。所以就实际的作用而言,友谊之于人心其价值真有如炼金术士常常所说的他们底宝石之于人身一样;这宝石,依术土们底话,是能产生种种互相反对的效力,然而总是有利于天禀的。然而,即令不借助于术士,在普通的自然现象中,也可以看到这种情形很明显的肖象。因为物体相合则足以助长并滋养任何天然的作用,又可以削弱并挫折任何暴烈的外来打击也:物体如此,人心亦是如此。
友谊底第二种功用就在它能卫养并支配理智,有如第一种功用之卫养并支配感情一样。因为友谊在感情方面使人出于烈风暴雨而入于光天化日,而在理智方面又能使人从黑暗和乱想入于白昼也。这不仅指一个人从朋友处得来的忠谏而言;即在得到这个之前,任何心中思虑过多的人,若能与旁人通言并讨论,则他底心智与理解力将变为清朗而有别;他底思想底动作将更为灵活;其排列将更有秩序;他可以看出来把这些思想变成言语的时候它们是什么模样;他终于变得比以往的他聪明,而要达到这种情形,一小时底谈话比一天底沉思为效更巨——这些都是没有疑义的。塞密斯陶克立斯对波斯王的话说得极是。他说:“言语有如张挂展览的花毡,其中的图形都是显明的;而思想则有如卷折起来的花毡”。友谊底这第二种功用(就是启发理智),也不限于那些能进忠言的朋友(他们当然是最好的朋友了),即令没有这样的朋友,一个人也能借言谈底力量自己增长知识,把自己底思想使之明白表现,并且把自己底机智磨厉得更为锋利,如磨刃于石,刃锐而石固不能割也。简言之,一个人,与其使他底思想窒息而灭,毋宁向雕像或图画倾诉一切之为愈也。
Add now, to make this second fruit of friendship complete, that other point, which lieth moreopen, and falleth within vulgar observation; which is faithful counsel from a friend. Heraclitussaith well in one of his enigmas, Dry light is ever the best. And certain it is, that the light that aman receiveth by counsel from another, is drier and purer, than that which cometh from hisown understanding and judgment; which is ever infused, and drenched, in his affections andcustoms.So as there is as much difference between the counsel, that a friend giveth, and thata man giveth himself, as there is between the counsel of a friend, and of a flatterer. For thereis no such flatterer as is a man's self; and there is no such remedy against flattery of a man'sself, as the liberty of a friend. Counsel is of two sorts: the one concerning manners, the otherconcerning business. For the first,the best preservative to keep the mind in health, is thefaithful admonition of a friend. The calling of a man's self to a strict account, is a medicine,sometime too piercing and corrosive. Reading good books of morality, is a little flat and dead.Observing our faults in others, is sometimes improper for our case. But the best receipt(best, I say, to work, and best to take) is the admonition of a friend. It is a strange thing tobehold, what gross errors and extreme absurdities many (especially of the greater sort) docommit, for want of a friend to tell them of them; to the great damage both of their fame andfortune: for, as St. James saith, they are as men that look sometimes into a glass, andpreently forget their own shape and favor. As for business, a man may think, if he win, that twoeyes see no more than one; or that a gamester seeth always more than a looker-on; or that aman in anger, is as wise as he that hath said over the four and twenty letters; or that amusket may be shot off as well upon the arm, as upon a rest; and such other fond and highimaginations, to think him self all in all. But when all is done, the help of good counsel, is thatwhich setteth business straight. And if any man think that he will take counsel, but it shall beby pieces; asking counsel in one business, of one man, and in another business, of anotherman; it is well (that is to say, better, perhaps, than if he asked none at all); but he runneth twodangers: one, that he shall not be faithfully counselled; for it is a rare thing, except it be froma perfect and entire friend, to have counsel given, but such as shall be bowed and crooked tosome ends, which he hath, that giveth it. The other, that he shall have counsel given, hurtfuland unsafe (though with good meaning), and mixed partly of mischief and partly of remedy;even as if you would call a physician, that is thought good for the cure of the disease youcomplain of, but is unacquainted with your body; and therefore may put you in way for apresent cure, but overthroweth your health in some other kind; and so cure the disease, andkill the patient. But a friend that is wholly acquainted with a man's estate, will beware, byfurthering any present business, how he dasheth upon other inconvenience. And thereforerest not upon scattered counsels; they will rather distract and mislead, than settle and direct.
现在,为充分说明友谊底这第二种功用起见,我们再一谈那个显而易见的、流俗之人也可以注意到的那一点,就是朋友底忠言。赫拉克里塔斯在他底隐语之一中说得很好,“干光永远最佳”。一个人从另一个人的净言中所得来的光明比从他自己底理解力,判断力中所出的光明更是干净纯粹,这是无疑的:一个人从自己底理解力与判断力中得来的那种光明总不免是受他底感情和习惯底浸润影响的。因此,在朋友所给的诤言与自己所作的主张之间其差别有如良友底净言与谄佞底建议之间的差别一样。因为谄谀我者无过于我;而防御自谄自谀之术更无有能及朋友之直言者也。诤言共有两种:一是关于行为的,一是关于事业的。说到第一种,最能保人心神之健康的预防药就是朋友底忠言规谏。一个人底严厉自责是一种有时过于猛烈,蚀力过强的药品。读劝善的好书不免沈闷无味。在别人身上观察自己底错误有时与自己底情形不符。最好的药方(最有效并且最易服用的)就是朋友底劝谏。许多人(尤其是伟大的人们)因为没有朋友向他们进忠告的缘故,做出大谬极误的事来,以致他们底名声和境遇均大受损失,这种情形看起来是很可惊异的。这些人是,有如圣雅各所说,“有时看看镜子,而不久就会忘了自己底形貌的”。讲到事业方面,一个人也许以为两只眼所见的并不多于一只眼所见的;或者以为局中人之所见总较旁观者之所见为多;或者以为一个在发怒中的人和一个默数过二十四个字母的人一般地聪明;或者以为一枝旧式毛瑟枪,托在臂上放和托在架上放一样地得力;他可以有许多类此的愚蠢骄傲的妄想,以为自己一身就很够了。然而能使事业趋于正轨者还数忠言。又,假如有人想采纳别人底忠告,而愿意零碎采纳,在某一件事上问某一人,在另一件事上问另一人,这样的办法也好(这就是说,总比他全不问人的或者好一点);可是他冒着两种危险;一是他将得不到忠实的进言;因为所进的言论必须是来自一位完全诚心的朋友的才好,否则鲜有不被歪屈而倾向于进言人之私利者也。另一种危险是他所得的进言,将为一种有害而不安全的言论(虽然用意是好的)一半是招致祸患的而一半是救济或预防祸患的;有如你生病请医,而这位医生是虽被认为善治你所患的病症,却是不熟悉你底体质的;因此他也许会使你目前的疾病可以痊愈而将危害你健康的另一方面;结果是治了病症而杀了病人。一个完全通晓你底事业境遇的朋友则不然,他将小心注意,以免因为推进你目前的某种事业而使你在别的方面突受打击。所以最好不要依靠零零碎碎的忠告;它们扰乱和误引底可能多于安定和指导底可能也。
After these two noble fruits of friendship (peace in the affections, and support of thejudgment), followeth the last fruit; which is like the pomegranate, full of many kernels; I meanaid, and bearing a part, in all actions and occasions. Here the best way to represent to life themanifold use of friendship, is to cast and see how many things there are, which a man cannotdo himself; and then it will appear, that it was a sparing speech of the ancients, to say, that afriend is another himself; for that a friend is far more than himself. Men have their time, and diemany times, in desire of some things which they principally take to heart; the bestowing of achild, the finishing of a work, or the like. If a man have a true friend, he may rest almost securethat the care of those things will continue after him. So that a man hath, as it were, two lives inhis desires. A man hath a body, and that body is confined to a place; but where friendship is,all offices of life are as it were granted to him, and his deputy. For he may exercise them by hisfriend. How many things are there which a man cannot, with any face or comeliness, say or dohimself? A man can scarce allege his own merits with modesty, much less extol them; a mancannot sometimes brook to supplicate or beg; and a number of the like. But all these thingsare graceful, in a friend's mouth, which are blushing in a man's own. So again, a man's personhath many proper relations, which he cannot put off. A man cannot speak to his son but as afather; to his wife but as a husband; to his enemy but upon terms:whereas a friend may speakas the case requires, and not as it sorteth with the person. But to enumerate these thingswere endless; I have given the rule, where a man cannot fitly play his own part; if he have not afriend, he may quit the stage.
在友谊底这两种高贵的功效(心情上的平和与理智上的扶助)之后还有那最末的一种功效:这种功效有如石榴之多核。这句话的意思就是朋友对于一个人底各种行为,各种需要,都有所帮助,有所参加也。在这一点上,若要把友谊底多种用途很显明生动地表现出来,最好的方法是计算一下,看看一个人有多少事情是不能靠自己去办理的:这样计算一下之后,我们就可以看得出古人所谓“朋友者另一己身也”的那句话是一句与事实相较还很不够的话;因为一个朋友比较一个人底己身用处还要大得多。人底生命有限,有许多人在没有达到最大的心愿——如子女底婚事,工作之完成,等等——之前就死了。要是一个人有了一位真心的朋友,那末他就大可安心,知道这些事件在他死后还是有人照料的。如此,一个人在完成心愿上简直是有两条性命了。一个人有一个身体,而这个身体是限于一个地方的;但是假如他有朋友,那末所有的人生大事都可算是有人办理了。就是他自己不能去的地方,他底朋友也可以代表他的。还有,有多少事是一个人为了颜面底关系,不能自己说或办的!一个人不能自承有功而免矜夸之嫌,更不用说是不能表扬自己底功绩了;他有时也不能低首下心地去有所恳求;诸如此类的事很多。但是这一切的事,在一个人自己底嘴里说出来未免赧颜的,在朋友嘴里说出来却是很好。类此,一个人还有许多身份上的关系,是他不能弃置不顾的。例如,一个人对儿子讲话,就不能不保持父亲底身份;对妻子讲话就不能不保持丈夫底身份;对仇敌讲话就不能不顾虑自己底体面:但是一个朋友却可以就事论事,而不必顾虑到人底方面。这一类的事情要--列举出来是说不完的;要之,一个人若是有某种事自己不能很得体地去做时,我对他有一条规则可说,就是,他如果没有朋友的话,那末他只有“下台”之一法
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摘要:能在短时间内建立起友谊当然是件很棒的事情,但我们要知道,有很多友谊建立的过程相对缓慢,并且这种友谊往往会随着时间的推移而越发美妙。
Friendships that happen in an instant are awesome,but there are many friendships that develop at amore leisurely pace and become just as awesomeover time. Some of us are may be slower to open upto new relationships. Our reasons may vary quitewidely, but may include, among others, poor earlymodeling by parents, past experiences of being hurt,innate shyness, or simple social insecurity.Regardless of your personal reasons, it is stillpossible to build new relationships. However, thismay require that you step outside of your comfortzone, as well as risk rejection.
能在短时间内建立起友谊当然是件很棒的事情,但我们要知道,有很多友谊建立的过程相对缓慢,并且这种友谊往往会随着时间的推移而越发美妙。有些人在敞开心扉建立一段新关系方面的节奏会往往会比较慢。这么做的理由往往差别很大,但不外乎这几种:由于父母的原因在早期形成的不太好的行为模式、曾经过伤的经历、内心深处的羞怯或者仅仅是因为在社交方面存在不安全感。不管你个人的理由是什么,都还是有可能建立起一段新的关系的。但这要求你要从内心舒适区走出来,并且要承担被决绝的风险。
Four Easy Steps for Building a Friendship that Provides Enduring Warmth
四步建立起一段可以维持恒温的友谊。
Step 1: Gather the Wood
If you are tired of being lonely or feel like you are in need of new, more relevant friends, thefirst step is widening the pool of potential friends. Is there an online “meet-up” you would liketo attend? An upcoming opening of a new art gallery? A 5K for a charity about which youcare? A new exercise class or writer’s group? A community enrichment class? A new churchgroup? If the people you generally have around you are not likely candidates for buildingfriendships, you must find a way to meet new people – friendships cannot happen in a vacuum!
第一步:收集木材
如果你厌倦了孤单或者感觉自己需要一些新的、更加亲密的朋友,那么第一步就是扩展潜在朋友的圈子。你愿意参加在线聚会吗?一个即将开放的艺术馆?一个你所关心的5公里远的慈善机构?一个新的健身课程或者作家小组?一个社区课程?一个新的教堂小组?如果你平时经常来往的人群中没有可以成为朋友的人选,那么你就必须要找到一个认识新人群的方式——在封闭的环境下是不可能建立起友谊的。
Step 2: Lay the Fire
The next step is beginning a conversation with a potential friend. If you are painfully shy, lookfor someone else who seems to be on the periphery of the group. This person may berelieved, or even thrilled, that you made the first move. Make a comment about the event youare at or the setting you are in. For instance, you might open with something like “Wow, theinstructor sure makes eagle pose look easy!” or “I’ve only run in one 5K before – how manyhave you completed?” or "This book was a tedius read at first, but I really got into the storymidway through."
第二步:准备生火
下一步就是开始与潜在的朋友展开交往。如果你是个非常羞涩的人,那就选择那些似乎处于该组织外围的人来交往。这种人是放松的,或者甚至是紧张激动的,所以你就可以采取主动了。对你目前所经历的事或你目前所处的环境进行评价。例如,你可以这样开始一段谈话:”哇,这个教练做二式栖息鹰的动作看起来好轻松哦!“或者"我之前只跑过一个5公里,你完成了多少呀?“或者”我起初看这本书时,觉得好乏味啊,但是读到一半时,我就深深被它所吸引了。“
Step 3: Strike the Match
If the potential friend responds warmly and you believe you are both enjoying the small talk,you may want to take another step. If you are in a class or other setting in which you will bemeeting again, you might wait until the next meeting before trying to fan the flame of afriendship. If this is a one-time deal, and your gut tells you this might be a friendship in themaking, you may use a different tactic. Find a way to determine if this person shares yourinterest in the type of event you are at and then assess whether you feel that you would like tobegin building a friendship. For instance, you might say, “Wow, this has been fun! Are there anyother cool art exhibits around town now?” or “I am so glad that I was able to fit this "craftfest/salsa night/event name" into my schedule this week! Do you often attend these, too?”
第三步:点燃火柴
如果这个潜在的朋友对你进行了热情的回应,那么你就能相信你们都在享受这个简短的交谈,这时你就可以进行下一步了。如果你与这个潜在的朋友上的是同一个课程或者处于别的可以再次遇见的场合,你可以等到再次遇见时再尝试燃起友谊的火花。如果你与这个潜在的朋友就只见这么一次,并且你的直觉告诉你这也许是一段可以建立的友谊的话,你就要使用一个不同的策略了。想办法搞清楚这个人对你正在经历的这个事情是否与你一样感兴趣,然后搞清楚你自己是否想要开始建立起一段友谊。例如,你可以说:”哇,这个真棒!目前城里还有别的什么精彩的艺术展览吗?“或者”我很高兴这周我有时间去参加工艺节/萨尔萨舞会等(事件名称),你也经常参加这些活动吗?“
Step 4: Keep the Friendship Flame Burning
第四步:将友谊之火燃起
If you and the potential friend feel a mutual willingness to take the relationship a little deeper,tentatively mention a potential second meeting. Or, perhaps, continue the first meeting. Saysomething like, “So many cool ideas were shared at this writer’s club, do you want to go getcoffee and continue our conversation?” If you get rejected, you can cover with something like, “Yeah, you’re right – I didn’t realize how late it was! Maybe we can touch bases again nextmonth? Or we could meet up before that meeting?” You are showing your interest in continuingthe conversation and establishing a friendship, but not pressuring the potential friend.
如果你和你潜在的朋友彼此都有意愿将这个关系进行地更深一些,那么就可以试探性地开启一个别的见面的契机。或者,也许,继续之前的会面也不错。你可以这样说:”这个作家俱乐部分享了这么多的精彩的观点,你想出去喝杯咖啡继续谈谈吗?“如果你被拒绝了,你可以这样说:”嗯,你是对的——我没意识到时间已经这么晚了!我们下个月再联系?或者我们可以在下次聚会之前见一面?“这样说既表达了你想要继续这段关系并且将其发展为朋友关系的意愿,同时也没有给这位潜在的朋友施加什么压力。
If the “continued conversation” happens and you still have good vibes about the potentialfriend, allow yourself to reveal a new layer of yourself. Friendships grow as the investment ofinterest and shared self-disclosure deepen. Don't rush in, however. This can overwhelmsome people. Coming across as being "needy" is a quick way to scare off potential friends. Becool, be confident. Know that we are born to crave companionship, and let others into yourworld at an appropriate pace.
如果你们开始继续交往,通过交往,你对这个潜在的朋友依旧感觉很好,那么就展示出自己全新的一面给这个人。友谊会随着双方兴趣的投入和不断深入的自我展示而逐渐加深的。但是,不要着急。否则会把某些人给吓到。以一个急切的方式去结识对方会很快地把潜在的朋友给吓跑。淡定一点,自信一点,要知道我们是天生渴望友谊的,让别人以一个恰当的节奏进入你的世界。
If the Fire Doesn't Burn
If the potential friend doesn't return your warmth or interest in a friendship and then falls backinto the “acquaintance” or “stranger” category, that is OKAY! Not everyone is going to beyour new best friend. Some salespeople remind themselves that it can take 10 “No’s” to get toa single “Yes.” So, tell yourself that you are one person closer to your next new friend!
Whether you and a new friend hit it off instantly or build a relationship over time, the value ofgood friends never diminishes. Be willing to take risks. Accept that while rejection can bepainful, it is not a permanent condition. Keep your momentum moving forward and rememberthat not everyone can be your friend, but that good friendships are worth the risk.
如果火焰没有燃烧起来
如果这个潜在的朋友没有对你的热情作出回应或者并不想和你交朋友,那么把这个人放回”熟人“或者”陌生人“的行列,这就行了!并不是每个人都会成为你的新的最好的朋友。销售人员总是这样提醒自己:10次“不”总会换来一次“是”。所以,告诉你自己你离你的下一个新朋友已经很近了。
无论你和你的新朋友属于一见面就很投缘或者属于经历了一段时间才建立起一段关系,好朋友的价值永远不会缩水的。你要敢于承担风险,接受这样一个事实,即:虽然被拒绝是令人难过的,但难过也只是暂时的。始终保持你前进的势头并且要记住:不是每个人都会成为你的朋友,但真正的好朋友是值得你冒险的。
Without friendship,one can not be happy though he is well off.Friendship is one of the greatest pleasures that people can enjoy.It is very difficult to find a better definition of friendship than given by the philosipher Aristotle in these words:"Two bodies inhabited by one soul."True friends find pleasure in each other's joy and share sorrow in each other'sgrief.In times of trial,they will offer their help without hesitation.
Since friendship is so valuable,we should be eager to find friends.We must choose those who have very good character,superior ability and kind heart.On the other hand,we should avoid those shallow people who can be easily estranged by adversity or misfortune.Of course,we must endeavoue at the same time to cultivate all those good qualities in ourselves,so that we will be true friends of others.Such friendship will never be broken up,because the foundation on which it is set up is quite firm and strong.
没有友谊,一个人尽管富有,他绝不可能幸福。友谊是人们享有的最大乐趣之一,很难找到一个比哲学家亚里士多德关于友谊所给出的更好的定义:“生有一个灵魂的两个躯体。”真正的朋友同甘共苦。在考验面前,他们会毫不犹豫地给予帮助。
既然友谊这样有价值,我们应当急于找一些朋友。我们必须选择那些具有良好的品质、卓越的能力和心地善良的人。另一方面,我们应避开那些遇到逆境或不幸很容易疏远的肤浅的人。当然,我们必须同时努力培养我们自身的良好品质,以便成为他人的真正朋友。这种友情不会破裂,因为建立这种友谊的基础是相当牢固的。
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1、The best mirror is an old friend.
最好的镜子是老朋友。
2、Between friends all is common.
朋友之间不分彼此。
3、A life without a friend is a life without a sun.
人生在世无朋友,犹如生活无太阳。
4、The friendship of a gentleman is insipid as water.
君子之交淡如水。
5、Set great store by friendship.
情意重千斤。
6、Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
你真正的朋友会让你振作起来,原本黯淡、空虚的世界顿时变得明亮和充实。
7、Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,the sad times,and the confused times.
你真正的朋友会与你一同度过困难、伤心和烦恼的时刻。
8、A friend in need is a friend indeed.
患难见真情
9、Old friends and old wine are best.
陈酒味醇,老友情深。
10、Fire is the test of gold, adversity of friendship.
烈火试真金,苦难试友情。
11、Friendship cannot stand always on one side.
友谊是双方的事。
12、A friend to everybody is a friend to nobody.
广交友,无深交。
13、Friendship is like wine---the older the better.
友谊像美酒, 越陈越醇厚。
14、Friends are like wine; the older, the better.
朋友象酒,越久越淳。
15、There is no friend so faithful as a good book.
最忠实的朋友莫过于一本好书
16、A friend is easier lost than found.
得朋友难,失朋友易。
17、True friendship lasts forever.
真正的友谊恒久不变。
18、He who mistrusts most should be trusted least.
最不信任别人的人最不应该得到信任。
19、A bosom friend afar brings a distant land near.
海内存知己,天涯若比邻。
20、A friend is not so soon gotten as lost.
交友慢,失友快。
21、A friend in need is a friend indeed.
在你最需要时出现 朋友上一真正的朋友。
22、A father is a treasure, a brother is a comfort, but a friend is both.
父亲是财富,兄弟是安慰,朋友兼而有之。
23、A frie nd is a second self.
朋友是另一个我。
24、Be slow in choosing a friend; slower in changing.
选择朋友要审慎,摒弃更要审又慎。
25、A friend exaggerates a mans virtue, an enemy his crimes.
朋友宣扬人的美德,敌人夸大人的罪过。
26、A friend is best found in adversity.
患难见真友。
27、One tree does not make a forest.
独木不成林。
28、To find friendship offer friendship.
以友谊换友谊。
29、A man is known by his friends.
什么人交什么朋友。
30、Life without a friend is death without a witness.
没有朋友的生活等于孤独一人死去。
31、A friend is never known till a man has need.
不到患难时,永远不能认识真正的朋友。
1、We can live without our friends, but not without our neighbours.
生活可无友,邻居不能无。
2、A friend is not so soon gotten as lost.
交友慢,失友快。
3、Choose an author as you choose a friend.
选书如择友。
4、Friends must part.
天下无不散之筵席。
5、A good book is a best friend who never turns his back upon us.
一本好书,莫逆之交。
6、Better lose a jest than a friend.
宁可不说一句俏皮话,以免得罪朋友们。
7、A friend exaggerates a man's virtue, an enemy his crimes.
朋友宣扬人的美德,敌人夸大人的罪过。
8、A friend in court is better than a penny in purse.
囊中有钱,不如朝中有友。
9、Friendship the older it grows the stronger it is.
友谊地久天长。
10、Although I are each to rush the thing with you, I will not disappear now with your friendship.
虽然我和你各奔东西,但是我和你的友情不会就此消失。
11、A joke never gains an enemy but often loses a friend.
开玩笑总不能化敌为友,反而有时会失去朋友。
12、Hunger knows no friend.
饥难周友。#p#副标题#e#
13、We are good friend forever.
我们永远都是好朋友
14、We can live without a brother, but not without a friend.
我们生活中可以没有兄弟,但不能没有朋友。
15、Trust not the praise of a friend, nor the contempt of an enemy.
不要信赖朋友的赞扬,也不要仇敌的轻蔑放在心上。
16、A friend without faults will never be found.
没有缺点的朋友是永远找不到的。
17、A true friend is known in the day of adversity.
疾风知劲草,患难见真情。
18、Friends may meet, but mountains never greet.
朋友可相逢,高山永分离。
19、I've had a great life because I've got you ae a real friend.
我的生活精采因为有了你这个朋友
20、You are the best friend becuase you always can listen to what I don't say!
你是那位可以听到我心里深处的朋友!
21、Thy friend has a friend and thy friend's friend has a friend so be discreet.
你的朋友有朋友,朋友的朋友又有朋友,所以要谨慎小心。
22、An empty purse frightens many friends.
囊中无分文,亲友不上门。
23、When a friend asks, there is no tomorrow.
朋友的要求不要拖。
24、Better an open enemy than a false friend.
明枪易躲,暗箭难防。
25、A FRIEND is a 'gift' if of our heart treasures. Thank you forbeing the treasure in my heart.
朋友是心里的一个宝物!
26、A faithful friend is hard to find.
益友难得。
27、A friend is best found in adversity.
患难见真友。
28、Friendship multiplies joys and divides griefs.
友谊可以增添欢乐,可以分担忧愁。
29、Without a friend the world is a wilderness.
没有朋友,世界就等於一片荒野。
30、A thou(www.lz13.cn)sand friends are few, one enemy is too many.
朋友千人尚觉少,仇敌一人犹嫌多。
31、A bosom friend afar brings distant land near.
海内存知己,天涯若比邻。
32、A ready way to lose friend is to lend him money.
失友皆从借钱起。
33、A true friend is one soul in two bodies.
真正的朋友好似两个身子长着一颗心。
34、Friendship is love with understanding.
友谊是爱加上谅解。
35、A life without a friend is a life without a sun.
人生在世无朋友,犹如生活无太阳。
36、Books, like friends, should be few and well chosen.
书籍如朋友,应该少而精。
37、He is rich enough who has true friends.
有真朋友的人是富翁。
38、Everything is good when new, but friend when old.
东西新的好,朋友老的好。
39、Familiar paths and old friends are the best.
熟路好遵循,老友最可珍。
40、When we meet difficults,we can lean on each other.Then we will be okay!
遇困难时,让我们互相扶持!
41、Friendship cannot stand always on one side.
来而不往非礼也。
42、Be slow in choosing a friend; slower in changing.
选择朋友要审慎,摒弃更要审又慎。
43、Between friends all is common.
朋友之间不分彼此。
44、He that has a full purse never wants a friend.
只要袋里有,不愁没朋友。
45、God defend me from my friends; form my enemy I can defend myself.
防友*天,防敌*己。
46、Admonish your friends in private, praise them in public.
在私底下要忠告你的朋友,在公开场合又表扬你的朋友。
47、You the real friend who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
谢谢你是那位全世界都遗弃我时还在我身边的朋友!
48、Life without a friend is death without a witness.
在世无朋友,死后无证人。
49、A friend is a second self.
朋友是另一个我。
50、A friend in need is a friend indeed.
患难见真交。
51、A friend is never known till a man has need.
不到患难时,永远不能认识真正的朋友。
52、Always my a pair comity is constant.
我俩友谊永不变。
53、Friendship ---- one soul in two bodies.
友谊是两人一条心。
54、A father is a treasure, a brother is a comfort, but a friend is both.
父亲是财富,兄弟是安慰,朋友兼而有之。
55、A friend to everybody is a friend to nobody.
广交友,无深交。
56、A near friend is better than a far-dwelling kinsman.
远亲不如近邻。
57、To preserve a friend three things are required: to honour him present, praise him absent, and assist him in his necessities.
维持友谊需要三点∶当面尊重他,背后赞扬他,需要时帮助他。
58、Friends are like fiddle-strings, they must not be screwed too tight.
朋友像琴弦,不能太拧紧。
59、In time of prosperity, friends will be plenty; In time of adversity, not one amongst twenty.
富在深山有远亲,穷在闹市无人。
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下面是读文网小编整理的初中英语友谊作文,以供大家学习参考。
In our daily life, if we get on harmoniously with our friends, we’ll feel more joyous. But we’ll feel lonely without friends.When our friends feel upset or get ill, we shouldn’t ignore them or look down upon them. On the contrary, we ought to calm them down, show our love and concern to them and try our best to help them overcome the hardships. Sometimes we may have some misunderstandings or disagreements with our friends, thus we had better have a discussion with them and try to accept their good ideas instead of quarreling with them. As long as we can follow these good suggestions, we’ll find it easy to make more friends.
在日常生活中,如果我们跟朋友相处融洽,我们的心情也会更加愉悦。然而若是没有朋友则会觉得孤单。当我们的朋友忧伤或是生病时,我们不应冷落或轻起他们,相反地,我们要帮他们平抚心情,尽自己最大的努力关心他,帮助他渡过难关。有时候我们会与朋友产生误会,发生分歧,这时我们最好是跟朋友好好谈谈而不要争吵,尽量理解他的好的想法。只要我们遵循这些建议,我们会发现想要结交更多的朋友很简单。
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下面是读文网小编整理的初中友谊英语作文,欢迎大家阅读!
In our daily life, if we get on harmoniously with our friends, we’ll feel more joyous. But we’ll feel lonely without friends.When our friends feel upset or get ill, we shouldn’t ignore them or look down upon them. On the contrary, we ought to calm them down, show our love and concern to them and try our best to help them overcome the hardships. Sometimes we may have some misunderstandings or disagreements with our friends, thus we had better have a discussion with them and try to accept their good ideas instead of quarreling with them. As long as we can follow these good suggestions, we’ll find it easy to make more friends.
在日常生活中,如果我们跟朋友相处融洽,我们的心情也会更加愉悦。然而若是没有朋友则会觉得孤单。当我们的朋友忧伤或是生病时,我们不应冷落或轻起他们,相反地,我们要帮他们平抚心情,尽自己最大的努力关心他,帮助他渡过难关。有时候我们会与朋友产生误会,发生分歧,这时我们最好是跟朋友好好谈谈而不要争吵,尽量理解他的好的想法。只要我们遵循这些建议,我们会发现想要结交更多的朋友很简单。
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友谊就像久酿的老酒,越久越香,关于友谊的英语写作也是经常出现的,今天读文网小编在这里为大家分享4篇关于友谊的英语作文,欢迎大家阅读!
Friendship Friends play an important part in our lives,and although we may take friendship for granted,we often dont clearly understand how we make friends.While we get on well with a number of people,we are usually friends with only a very few----for example,the average among students is about 6 per person.In all the cases of friendly relationships,two people like one another and enjoy being together.but beyond that,the degree of intimacy between them and the reasons for the shared interests vary enormously.As we get to know people we take into account things like age,race ,economic conditions,social position,and intelligence.Although these factors are not of prime importance,it is more difficult to get on with people when there is a marked difference in age and background.
Some friendly relationships can be kept on argument and discussion,but it is usual for close friends to have similar ideas and beliefs,to have attitudes and interests in commen ---they often talk about being on the same wavelength .it generally takes time to reach this point.And the more intimately involved people become,the more they rely on one another .people want to do friends favours and hate to break a promise.Equally,friends have to learn to put up with annoying habits and try to tolerate differencesof opinion.wWw.xiNgkoo.coMIn contrast with marriage ,there are no friendship ceremonies to strengthen the association between two persons.But the supporting and understanding of each other that results from shared experiences and emotions does seem to a powerful bond ,which can overcome differences in background ,and break down barriers of age, class or race.
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每当大雨冲刷这个世界时,彩虹都会出现在天空,让我们记住彼此要珍惜。下面是读文网小编为大家带来英语经典美文:友谊的颜色,希望大家喜欢!
Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel. All claimed that they were the best. The most important.The most useful.The favorite.
从前,世界上的各种颜色进行过一次争吵。每一种颜色都说自己是最好的,最重要的,最有用的,和最讨人喜欢的。
Green said: "Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority."
绿色说:“显然,我是最重要的。我是生命和希望的标志。我被选作青草,树木以及叶子的颜色。没有了我,所有的动物都会死去。展望田野吧,你会看到,到处都有我。”
Blue interrupted: "You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. Without my peace, you would all be nothing."
蓝色打断了它的话:“你只考虑了地上,想想天空和海洋吧。水才是生命的基础呀,云彩把水分从深邃的大海带到了天空。没有我的和平,你们将不复存在。”
Yellow chuckled: "You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, and the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun."
黄色咯咯地笑出了声:“你们都太严肃了。我给这个世界带来了笑声、欢乐和温暖。太阳是黄色的,月亮是黄色的,星星是黄色的,每一次你看向日葵的时候,整个世界都开始欢笑。没有我就没有快乐。”
Orange started next to blow her trumpet: "I am the color of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of you."
橙色马上开始自吹自擂:“我可是健康和力量的颜色。我可能比较稀少,但是我非常宝贵,因为我满足了人们生活的需要。我携带了大多数重要的维他命。想想胡罗卜、南瓜、柑橘、芒果和番木瓜。我并不经常出没在天空,但日出或日落我在天际登场时,我的美丽足以惊世,没有人还会想起你们。”
Red couldn't stand it no longer he shouted out: "I am the ruler of all of you. I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy.
红色再也忍不下去了,他喊道:“我,是你们所有人的主宰。我是血液——生命的血液!我是危险和勇敢的颜色。我愿意为了一个目标而斗争。我把烈火带入血液。没有了我,地球会象月亮一样变得空虚。我是激情和爱的颜色,是红玫瑰、猩猩木和罂粟。
Purple rose up to his full height: He was very tall and spoke with great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not question me! They listen and obey."
紫色站起身来:他非常高,说起话来风度十足:“我是王权和力量的象征。国王、酋长、主教都选择了我,因为我象征着权威和智慧。人们不会对我提出疑问,他们只能聆听和服从。”
Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as much determination: "Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace."
最后,靛青说话了,他的声音比其他人都轻,但却比其他人都斩钉截铁:“想想我吧。我是沉默的颜色。你们几乎注意不到我,但是如果没有我,你们全都会变得肤浅。我代表着思想和反省,代表者黎明的微光和深邃的海水。你们需要我来平衡和比较,来祈祷和获求内心的安宁。”
And so the colors went on boasting, each convinced of his or her own superiority. Their quarreling became louder and louder. Suddenly there was a startling flash of bright lightening thunder rolled and boomed. Rain started to pour down relentlessly. The colors crouched down in fear, drawing close to one another for comfort.
这样一来,颜色们就不停地自夸,每个人都深信自己无比优越。他们的争吵声越来越大。突然,电闪雷鸣。雨无情地倾盆而下。颜色们惊恐地蜷缩起来,彼此挤在一起捱过着恐怖的时刻。
In the midst of the clamor, rain began to speak: "You foolish colors, fighting amongst yourselves, each trying to dominate the rest. Don't you know that you were each made for a special purpose, unique and different? Join hands with one another and come to me."
在一片喧嚣声中,雨开始说话了:“你们这些愚蠢的颜色,彼此相互争斗,每个人都想支配别人。你们难道就不知道每个人都是天造地设,都是独一无二,彼此不同的吗?携起手来吧。”
Doing as they were told, the colors united and joined hands. The rain continued: "From now on, when it rains, each of you will stretch across the sky in a great bow of color as a reminder that you can all live in peace. The Rainbow is a sign of hope for tomorrow." And so, whenever a good rain washes the world, and a Rainbow appears in the sky, let us remember to appreciate one another.
颜色们按照着雨的话,团结在一起,携起手来。雨接着说:“从现在开始,每次下雨的时候你们都要变成一个巨大的彩色弓形横跨天空,以证明你们能够和平相处。彩虹就是未来希望的标志。”所以,每当大雨冲刷这个世界时,彩虹都会出现在天空,让我们记住彼此要珍惜。
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友谊之光像磷火,当四周漆黑之际最为显露。下面是读文网小编整理的关于友谊的英文段落,欢迎大家阅读!
if you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some actions. you must first go where there are people. you won’t make friends staying home alone. join a club or a group. taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. or join someone in some activities. many people are nervous when talking to new people. after all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. and it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown. most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves. we imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short, too this or too that. but don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease. you’ll both feel more comfortable.
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《友谊地久天长》是一首非常有名的的歌曲,相信很多人都有听过。今天读文网小编为大家带来《友谊地久天长》英文版,希望大家喜欢!
Should old acquaintance be forgot,
and never brought to mind ?
Should old acquaintance be forgot,
and old lang syne ?
For auld lang syne, my dear,
for auld lang syne,
we'll take a cup of kindness yet,
for auld lang syne. And surely you’ll buy your pint cup !
and surely I’ll buy mine !
And we'll take a cup o’ kindness yet,
for auld lang syne.
We two have run about the slopes,
and picked the daisies fine ;
But we’ve wandered many a weary foot,
since auld lang syne.
We two have paddled in the stream,
from morning sun till dine ;
But seas between us broad have roared
since auld lang syne.
And there’s a hand my trusty friend !
And give us a hand o’ thine !
And we’ll take a right good-will draught,
for auld lang syne..
心中能不怀想
旧日朋友岂能相忘
友谊地久天长
我们曾经终日游荡
在故乡的青山上
我们也曾历尽苦辛
到处奔波流浪
我们也曾终日消遥
荡桨在碧波上
但如今却劳燕分飞
远隔大海重洋
我们往日情意相投
让我们紧握手
我们来举杯畅饮
友谊地久天长
友谊万岁
友谊万岁
举杯痛饮
同声歌颂友谊地久天长
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下面读文网小编为大家带来表示友谊的英语句子,希望大家喜欢!
I've had a great life because I've got you ae a real friend.
我的生活精采因为有了你这个朋友
You are the best friend becuase you always can listento what I don't say!
你是那位可以听到我心里深处的朋友!
When we meet difficults,we can lean on each other.
Then we will be okay!
遇困难时,让我们互相扶持!
You the real friend who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
谢谢你是那位全世界都遗弃我时还在我身边的朋友!
A FRIEND is a 'gift' if of our heart treasures. Thank you for
being the treasure in my heart. 朋友是心里的一个宝物!
A life without a friend is a life without a sun.
人生在世无朋友,犹如生活无太阳。
Be slow in choosing a friend; slower in changing.
选择朋友要审慎,摒弃更要审又慎。
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
患难见真交。
A father is a treasure, a brother is a comfort, but a friend is both.
父亲是财富,兄弟是安慰,朋友兼而有之。
A friend exaggerates a man's virtue, an enemy his crimes.
朋友宣扬人的美德,敌人夸大人的罪过。
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如果说友谊是一棵常青树,那么,浇灌它的必定是出自心田的清泉。今天读文网小编为大家带来有关友谊的英文名言,希望大家会喜欢这些友情的英文语录!
a ready way to lose friend is to lend him money。失友皆从借钱起。
friendship is love with understanding。友谊是爱加上谅解。
good fences make good neighbours。一篱间隔,友谊常青。
when a friend asks, there is no tomorrow。朋友的要求不要拖。
an empty purse frightens many friends。囊中无分文,亲友不上门。
a near friend is better than a far-dwelling kinsman。远亲不如近邻。
a life without a friend is a life without a sun。人生在世无朋友,犹如生活无太阳。
a bosom friend afar brings distant land near。海内存知己,天涯若比邻。
without a friend the world is a wilderness。没有朋友,世界就等於一片荒野。
a hedge between keeps friendship green。有一道隔墙会保持友谊常青。
a thousand friends are few, one enemy is too many。朋友千人尚觉少,仇敌一人犹嫌多。
be slow in choosing a friend; slower in changing。选择朋友要审慎,摒弃更要审又慎。
a friend is never known till a man has need。不到患难时,永远不能认识真正的朋友。
friends are like fiddle-strings, they must not be screwed too tight。朋友像琴弦,不能太拧紧。
there is no stronger bond of friendship than a mutual enemy。具有共通敌人的友谊最牢固。
when i think of you the miles between us disappear。当我想起你,相隔千里,如在咫尺。
we can live without our friends, but not without our neighbours。生活可无友,邻居不能无。
friends are like fiddle-strings, they must not be screwed too tight。朋友像琴弦,不能太拧紧。
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优美的文字于细微处传达出美感,并浸润着人们的心灵。通过英语美文,不仅能够感受语言之美,领悟语言之用,还能产生学习语言的兴趣。度过一段美好的时光,即感悟生活,触动心灵。下面是读文网小编为大家带来双语美文阅读,希望大家喜欢!
"Everything happens for the best," my mother said whenever faced disappointment. "If you can carry on, one day something good will happen. And you'll realize that it wouldn't have happened if not for that previous disappointment. " Mother was right, as I discovered after graduating from college in 1932. I had decided to try for a job in radio, Once upon a time the colors of the world started to quarrel. All claimed that they were the best. The most important.The most useful.The favorite.
从前,世界上的各种颜色进行过一次争吵。每一种颜色都说自己是最好的,最重要的,最有用的,和最讨人喜欢的。
Green said: "Clearly I am the most important. I am the sign of life and of hope. I was chosen for grass, trees and leaves. Without me, all animals would die. Look over the countryside and you will see that I am in the majority."
绿色说:“显然,我是最重要的。我是生命和希望的标志。我被选作青草,树木以及叶子的颜色。没有了我,所有的动物都会死去。展望田野吧,你会看到,到处都有我。”
Blue interrupted: "You only think about the earth, but consider the sky and the sea. It is the water that is the basis of life and drawn up by the clouds from the deep sea. Without my peace, you would all be nothing."
蓝色打断了它的话:“你只考虑了地上,想想天空和海洋吧。水才是生命的基础呀,云彩把水分从深邃的大海带到了天空。没有我的和平,你们将不复存在。”
Yellow chuckled: "You are all so serious. I bring laughter, gaiety, and warmth into the world. The sun is yellow, the moon is yellow, and the stars are yellow. Every time you look at a sunflower, the whole world starts to smile. Without me there would be no fun."
黄色咯咯地笑出了声:“你们都太严肃了。我给这个世界带来了笑声、欢乐和温暖。太阳是黄色的,月亮是黄色的,星星是黄色的,每一次你看向日葵的时候,整个世界都开始欢笑。没有我就没有快乐。”
Orange started next to blow her trumpet: "I am the color of health and strength. I may be scarce, but I am precious for I serve the needs of human life. I carry the most important vitamins. Think of carrots, pumpkins, oranges, mangoes, and papayas. I don't hang around all the time, but when I fill the sky at sunrise or sunset, my beauty is so striking that no one gives another thought to any of you."
橙色马上开始自吹自擂:“我可是健康和力量的颜色。我可能比较稀少,但是我非常宝贵,因为我满足了人们生活的需要。我携带了大多数重要的维他命。想想胡罗卜、南瓜、柑橘、芒果和番木瓜。我并不经常出没在天空,但日出或日落我在天际登场时,我的美丽足以惊世,没有人还会想起你们。”
Red couldn't stand it no longer he shouted out: "I am the ruler of all of you. I am blood - life's blood! I am the color of danger and of bravery. I am willing to fight for a cause. I bring fire into the blood. Without me, the earth would be as empty as the moon. I am the color of passion and of love, the red rose, the poinsettia and the poppy.
红色再也忍不下去了,他喊道:“我,是你们所有人的主宰。我是血液——生命的血液!我是危险和勇敢的颜色。我愿意为了一个目标而斗争。我把烈火带入血液。没有了我,地球会象月亮一样变得空虚。我是激情和爱的颜色,是红玫瑰、猩猩木和罂粟。
Purple rose up to his full height: He was very tall and spoke with great pomp: "I am the color of royalty and power. Kings, chiefs, and bishops have always chosen me for I am the sign of authority and wisdom. People do not question me! They listen and obey."
紫色站起身来:他非常高,说起话来风度十足:“我是王权和力量的象征。国王、酋长、主教都选择了我,因为我象征着权威和智慧。人们不会对我提出疑问,他们只能聆听和服从。”
Finally Indigo spoke, much more quietly than all the others, but with just as much determination: "Think of me. I am the color of silence. You hardly notice me, but without me you all become superficial. I represent thought and reflection, twilight and deep water. You need me for balance and contrast, for prayer and inner peace."
最后,靛青说话了,他的声音比其他人都轻,但却比其他人都斩钉截铁:“想想我吧。我是沉默的颜色。你们几乎注意不到我,但是如果没有我,你们全都会变得肤浅。我代表着思想和反省,代表者黎明的微光和深邃的海水。你们需要我来平衡和比较,来祈祷和获求内心的安宁。”
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友谊是大自然的一抹色彩,独具慧眼的匠师才能把它表现得尽善尽美。今天读文网小编为大家带来有关友谊的英语作文带翻译,希望大家会喜欢这些友情的美文!
In life, in school, if you don't have friends, what would you do? Change is me, I will feel life is very boring, not happy at all.
In school, if you have a good friend says, without a pen, a friend will lend it to you, no book friend will lend you, friends will play with you, by the time class is over have won't do topic, friends will teach you, have something sad, friends will comfort you. If you don't have friends, forget to bring something, no one to lend you, farewell is next class, can only be a person sitting next to look at it very happy to play with friends, this kind of mood is how uncomfortable! Without a friend, your life will be dull and boring.
Without a friend, when you are a person at home, finished my homework, you is how lonely, maybe you can only at home watching TV, but TV can't talk with you again, then how much do you need a bosom friend! Friendship is very precious. Friendship is the direction of the soul, friendship is sincere friend, friendship is the glow in the dark, friendship like a candle in the dark, they like the way forward.
Friendship and a ray of sunshine in the winter Yang, bring us warm. Friendship is a cup of cool water under heat, gives me a cool and pleasant. Believe that time is higher than wealth, above all is love, and friendship is the most precious love. Hope everyone the most want to cherish own friends, don't wait for friends leave you, just know to cherish.
在生活中,在学校里,如果你没有朋友,你会怎样?换做是我,我就会觉得生活非常无味,没有一点儿快乐。
在学校,如果你有好朋友的说,没有带笔,朋友会借给你,没有本子朋友会借给你,下课时,朋友会跟你玩,有不会做的题,朋友会教你,有伤心的事,朋友会安慰你。如果你没有朋友,忘了带东西,没人借给你,告别是下课时,只能一个人坐在旁边看着别人非常开心的跟朋友玩,这种心情是多么的难受啊!没有朋友,你的生活会单调、乏味。
没有朋友,当你一个人在家时,做完作业,你是多么的孤独,也许你只能在家里看电视,但电视又不能跟你谈心,这时你是多么需要一个知心朋友啊!友情是非常珍贵的。友情是灵魂的方向,友情是诚信的良友,友情是黑暗中的光芒,友情如黑暗里的一根蜡烛,照说宛们前进的道路。
友情和冬阳里的一缕阳光,带给我们温暖;友情是烈日炎炎下一杯清凉的泉水,带给我凉爽与惬意。相信,时间高于财富,高于一切的就是爱,而最珍贵的爱就是友情。希望每个人最要好好珍惜自己的朋友,不要等到朋友离开了你,才懂得珍惜。
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真正的友谊像磷火,虽微弱,但它会在你处于黑暗的时候,给你它全部的光亮。下面读文网小编为大家带来关于友谊高中英语作文范文,欢迎大家学习!
Coming down from the parental nest, we started looking for the emotional connection - the friendship between friends.
Friends such as open Windows, friendship, such as shine in sunshine, let's open the window of the soul with each other, hand in hand, share the youth, to mature. When we win, with the blessings of friends, will be more happiness; When we are in a smooth, have a friend's advice, can prevent the proud; When we encounter setbacks, have the support of a friend, will enhance the courage and confidence to overcome difficulties; When we are in pain, there is the comfort of a friend, can quickly free from sorrow. If a person lacks and the friendship between the classmate, no friends, just like living in the desolate island, feel lonely and sad.
True friendship is based on the principles. Therefore, when found students have fault, especially find good friend made a mistake, oh ah in line with the attitude of responsible for friends, both sincere to him.
Friends and friendship is the eternal topic of life. We are eager to friendship, looking for friends. To explore the true meaning of friendship. A friend is a shoulder, can let you rely on a cry; A friend is a wave, can make you the enthusiasm; A friend is a well, can let you comfortable talk to pain; A friend is a hands, can you pull out from despair.
Friends bring us warm, support and strength, let us experience the wonderful life, on the journey of life, friends with us, friendship road to light up our lives.
Friendship needs honesty and keep faith; Friendship needs to give and share; Friendship needs tolerance and acceptance; Friendship needs to share and listen.
从父母的羽翼下走来,我们开始寻找朋友之间的情感纽带——友谊。
朋友如打开的窗户,友谊如照射进来的阳光让我们彼此打开心灵之窗,携手并进,共享青春,走向成熟。当我们取得成绩的时候,有朋友的祝福,就会感到更加幸福;当我们处于顺利的时候,有朋友的忠告,就能防止骄傲;当我们遇到挫折的时候,有朋友的支持,就会增强战胜困难的勇气和信心;当我们陷入痛苦的时候,有朋友的安慰,就能很快的从悲伤中解脱出来。一个人要是缺少与同学之间的友谊,没有朋友,就像生活在荒凉的孤岛上一样,感到孤独和凄凉。
真正的友谊是建立在坚持的原则基础上的。因此,当发现同学有错误的时候,尤其是发现好朋友犯了错误,哟啊本着对朋友负责的态度,既诚恳地给他提出来。
朋友和友谊是人生的永恒话题。我们渴望友情,寻找朋友。探求友谊的真谛。朋友是肩膀,可以让你依靠着哭泣;朋友是巨浪,可以令你热情高涨;朋友是一口井,可以让你放心地倾诉痛苦;朋友是一双手,可以把你从绝望中拉出来。
朋友带给我们温暖、支持和力量,让我们感受生活的美好,在人生的旅途上,朋友伴我们同行,友谊照亮我们的生活之路。
友谊需要诚实与守信;友谊需要给予与分担;友谊需要宽容与接纳;友谊需要分享与倾听。
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真正的友谊像磷火,虽微弱,但它会在你处于黑暗的时候,给你它全部的光亮。下面读文网小编为大家带来关于友谊高中英语优秀范文,欢迎大家学习!
In life, in school, if you don't have friends, what would you do? Change is me, I will feel life is very boring, not happy at all.
In school, if you have a good friend says, without a pen, a friend will lend it to you, no book friend will lend you, friends will play with you, by the time class is over have won't do topic, friends will teach you, have something sad, friends will comfort you. If you don't have friends, forget to bring something, no one to lend you, farewell is next class, can only be a person sitting next to look at it very happy to play with friends, this kind of mood is how uncomfortable! Without a friend, your life will be dull and boring.
Without a friend, when you are a person at home, finished my homework, you is how lonely, maybe you can only at home watching TV, but TV can't talk with you again, then how much do you need a bosom friend! Friendship is very precious. Friendship is the direction of the soul, friendship is sincere friend, friendship is the glow in the dark, friendship like a candle in the dark, they like the way forward.
Friendship and a ray of sunshine in the winter Yang, bring us warm. Friendship is a cup of cool water under heat, gives me a cool and pleasant. Believe that time is higher than wealth, above all is love, and friendship is the most precious love. Hope everyone the most want to cherish own friends, don't wait for friends leave you, just know to cherish.
在生活中,在学校里,如果你没有朋友,你会怎样?换做是我,我就会觉得生活非常无味,没有一点儿快乐。
在学校,如果你有好朋友的说,没有带笔,朋友会借给你,没有本子朋友会借给你,下课时,朋友会跟你玩,有不会做的题,朋友会教你,有伤心的事,朋友会安慰你。如果你没有朋友,忘了带东西,没人借给你,告别是下课时,只能一个人坐在旁边看着别人非常开心的跟朋友玩,这种心情是多么的难受啊!没有朋友,你的生活会单调、乏味。
没有朋友,当你一个人在家时,做完作业,你是多么的孤独,也许你只能在家里看电视,但电视又不能跟你谈心,这时你是多么需要一个知心朋友啊!友情是非常珍贵的。友情是灵魂的方向,友情是诚信的良友,友情是黑暗中的光芒,友情如黑暗里的一根蜡烛,照说宛们前进的道路。
友情和冬阳里的一缕阳光,带给我们温暖;友情是烈日炎炎下一杯清凉的泉水,带给我凉爽与惬意。相信,时间高于财富,高于一切的就是爱,而最珍贵的爱就是友情。希望每个人最要好好珍惜自己的朋友,不要等到朋友离开了你,才懂得珍惜。
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友谊的小船说翻就翻是最近主流社交网络上非常流行的网络流行语。其寓意是指友谊经不起考验,说变就变。那么你知道友谊的小船说翻就翻用英语怎么说吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来友谊的小船说翻就翻的各种英语说法,欢迎大家阅读!
友谊的小船说翻就翻就是形容跟人翻脸。
在英语中一般用fall out with sb这个短语来表达,比如:
He has a hot-temper. He always falls out with people.
他是个急脾气,经常和人翻脸。
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人生最美丽的回忆就是他同别人的友谊,那么你想阅读一些有关友谊的英语美文吗?下面读文网小编为大家带来有关友谊英语美文,欢迎大家阅读!
"A friend walk in when the rest of the world walks out."
"别人都走开的时候,朋友仍与你在一起。”
Sometimes in life,
有时候在生活中,
You find a special friend;
你会找到一个特别的朋友;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
他只是你生活中的一部分内容,却能改变你整个的生活。
Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop;
他会把你逗得开怀大笑;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
他会让你相信人间有真情。
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it.
他会让你确信,真的有一扇不加锁的门,在等待着你去开启。
This is Forever Friendship.
这就是永远的友谊。
when you're down,
当你失意,
and the world seems dark and empty,
当世界变得黯淡与空虚,
Your forever friend lifts you up in spirits and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem bright and full.
你真正的朋友会让你振作起来,原本黯淡、空虚的世界顿时变得明亮和充实。
Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, and the confused times.
你真正的朋友会与你一同度过困难、伤心和烦恼的时刻。
If you turn and walk away,
你转身走开时,
Your forever friend follows,
真正的朋友会紧紧相随,
If you lose you way,
你迷失方向时,
Your forever friend guides you and cheers you on.
真正的朋友会引导你,鼓励你。
Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay.
真正的朋友会握着你的手,告诉你一切都会好起来的。
And if you find such a friend,
如果你找到了这样的朋友,
You feel happy and complete,
你会快乐,觉得人生完整,
Because you need not worry,
因为你无需再忧虑。
Your have a forever friend for life,
你拥有了一个真正的朋友,
And forever has no end.
永永远远,永无止境。
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