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哈佛大学(Harvard University),简称哈佛,坐落于美国马萨诸塞州剑桥市,是一所享誉世界的私立研究型大学,是著名的常春藤盟校成员。下面读文网小编分享了福布斯哈佛经典演讲稿,希望你喜欢。
You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says
This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.
I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
The first story is about connecting the dots.
I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl.
So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out.
And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this.
I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts.
And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
My second story is about love and loss.
I was lucky – I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation - the Macintosh - a year earlier, and I had just turned 30.
And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly.
I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me – I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world.
In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love.
And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
My third story is about death.
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notion
Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous. Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
Thank you all very much.
“好学若饥、谦卑若愚”
福布斯说:很荣幸和大家一道参加这所世界上最好的一座大学的毕业典礼。我大学没毕业,说实话,这是我第一次离大学毕业典礼这么近。今天我想给大家讲三个我自己的故事,不讲别的,也不讲大道理,就讲三个故事。
Jobs说,你必须要找到你所爱的东西。
这是苹果公司和Pixar动画工作室的CEO Steve Jobs于2005年6月12号在斯坦福大学的毕业典礼上面的演讲稿。
我今天很荣幸能和你们一起参加毕业典礼,斯坦福大学是世界上最好的大学之一。我从来没有从大学中毕业。说实话,今天也许是在我的生命中离大学毕业最近的一天了。今天我想向你们讲述我生活中的三个故事。不是什么大不了的事情,只是三个故事而已。
第一个故事是关于如何把生命中的点点滴滴串连起来。
我在Reed大学读了六个月之后就退学了,但是在十八个月以后——我真正的作出退学决定之前,我还经常去学校。我为什么要退学呢?
故事从我出生的时候讲起。我的亲生母亲是一个年轻的,没有结婚的大学毕业生。她决定让别人收养我, 她十分想让我被大学毕业生收养。所以在我出生的时候,她已经做好了一切的准备工作,能使得我被一个律师和他的妻子所收养。但是她没有料到,当我出生之后,律师夫妇突然决定他们想要一个女孩。
所以我的生养父母(他们还在我亲生父母的观察名单上)突然在半夜接到了一个电话:“我们现在这儿有一个不小心生出来的男婴,你们想要他吗?”他们回答道:“当然!”但是我亲生母亲随后发现,我的养母从来没有上过大学,我的父亲甚至从没有读过高中。她拒绝签这个收养合同。只是在几个月以后,我的父母答应她一定要让我上大学,那个时候她才同意。
在十七岁那年,我真的上了大学。但是我很愚蠢的选择了一个几乎和你们斯坦福大学一样贵的学校, 我父母还处于蓝领阶层,他们几乎把所有积蓄都花在了我的学费上面。在六个月后, 我已经看不到其中的价值所在。我不知道我想要在生命中做什么,我也不知道大学能帮助我找到怎样的答案。
但是在这里,我几乎花光了我父母这一辈子的所有积蓄。所以我决定要退学,我觉得这是个正确的决定。不能否认,我当时确实非常的害怕, 但是现在回头看看,那的确是我这一生中最棒的一个决定。在我做出退学决定的那一刻, 我终于可以不必去读那些令我提不起丝毫兴趣的课程了。然后我还可以去修那些看起来有点意思的课程。
但是这并不是那么罗曼蒂克。我失去了我的宿舍,所以我只能在朋友房间的地板上面睡觉,我去捡5美分的可乐瓶子,仅仅为了填饱肚子, 在星期天的晚上,我需要走七英里的路程,穿过这个城市到Hare Krishna寺庙(注:位于纽约Brooklyn下城),只是为了能吃上饭——这个星期唯一一顿好一点的饭。但是我喜欢这样。我跟着我的直觉和好奇心走, 遇到的很多东西,此后被证明是无价之宝。让我给你们举一个例子吧:
Reed大学在那时提供也许是全美最好的美术字课程。在这个大学里面的每个海报, 每个抽屉的标签上面全都是漂亮的美术字。因为我退学了, 没有受到正规的训练, 所以我决定去参加这个课程,去学学怎样写出漂亮的美术字。
我学到了san serif 和serif字体, 我学会了怎么样在不同的字母组合之中改变空格的长度, 还有怎么样才能作出最棒的印刷式样。那是一种科学永远不能捕捉到的、美丽的、真实的艺术精妙, 我发现那实在是太美妙了。
当时看起来这些东西在我的生命中,好像都没有什么实际应用的可能。但是十年之后,当我们在设计第一台Macintosh电脑的时候,就不是那样了。我把当时我学的那些家伙全都设计进了Mac。那是第一台使用了漂亮的印刷字体的电脑。
如果我当时没有退学, 就不会有机会去参加这个我感兴趣的美术字课程, Mac就不会有这么多丰富的字体,以及赏心悦目的字体间距。那么现在个人电脑就不会有现在这么美妙的字型了。当然我在大学的时候,还不可能把从前的点点滴滴串连起来,但是当我十年后回顾这一切的时候,真的豁然开朗了。
再次说明的是,你在向前展望的时候不可能将这些片断串连起来;你只能在回顾的时候将点点滴滴串连起来。所以你必须相信这些片断会在你未来的某一天串连起来。你必须要相信某些东西:你的勇气、目的、生命、因缘。这个过程从来没有令我失望(let me down),只是让我的生命更加地与众不同而已。
我的第二个故事是关于爱和损失的。
我非常幸运, 因为我在很早的时候就找到了我钟爱的东西。Woz和我在二十岁的时候就在父母的车库里面开创了苹果公司。我们工作得很努力, 十年之后, 这个公司从那两个车库中的穷光蛋发展到了超过四千名的雇员、价值超过二十亿的大公司。在公司成立的第九年,我们刚刚发布了最好的产品,那就是Macintosh。我也快要到三十岁了。
在那一年, 我被炒了鱿鱼。你怎么可能被你自己创立的公司炒了鱿鱼呢? 嗯,在苹果快速成长的时候,我们雇用了一个很有天分的家伙和我一起管理这个公司, 在最初的几年,公司运转的很好。但是后来我们对未来的看法发生了分歧, 最终我们吵了起来。当争吵不可开交的时候, 董事会站在了他的那一边。所以在三十岁的时候, 我被炒了。在这么多人的眼皮下我被炒了。在而立之年,我生命的全部支柱离自己远去, 这真是毁灭性的打击。
在最初的几个月里,我真是不知道该做些什么。我把从前的创业激情给丢了, 我觉得自己让与我一同创业的人都很沮丧。我和David Pack和Bob Boyce见面,并试图向他们道歉。
我把事情弄得糟糕透顶了。但是我渐渐发现了曙光, 我仍然喜爱我从事的这些东西。苹果公司发生的这些事情丝毫的没有改变这些, 一点也没有。我被驱逐了,但是我仍然钟爱它。所以我决定从头再来。
我当时没有觉察, 但是事后证明, 从苹果公司被炒是我这辈子发生的最棒的事情。因为,作为一个成功者的极乐感觉被作为一个创业者的轻松感觉所重新代替: 对任何事情都不那么特别看重。这让我觉得如此自由, 进入了我生命中最有创造力的一个阶段。
在接下来的五年里, 我创立了一个名叫NeXT的公司, 还有一个叫Pixar的公司, 然后和一个后来成为我妻子的优雅女人相识。Pixar 制作了世界上第一个用电脑制作的动画电影——“”玩具总动员”,Pixar现在也是世界上最成功的电脑制作工作室。
在后来的一系列运转中,Apple收购了NeXT, 然后我又回到了Apple公司。我们在NeXT发展的技术在Apple的复兴之中发挥了关键的作用。我还和Laurence 一起建立了一个幸福的家庭。
我可以非常肯定,如果我不被Apple开除的话, 这其中一件事情也不会发生的。这个良药的味道实在是太苦了,但是我想病人需要这个药。有些时候, 生活会拿起一块砖头向你的脑袋上猛拍一下。不要失去信心。我很清楚唯一使我一直走下去的,就是我做的事情令我无比钟爱。你需要去找到你所爱的东西
。对于工作是如此, 对于你的爱人也是如此。你的工作将会占据生活中很大的一部分。你只有相信自己所做的是伟大的工作, 你才能怡然自得。如果你现在还没有找到, 那么继续找、不要停下来、全心全意的去找, 当你找到的时候你就会知道的。就像任何真诚的关系, 随着岁月的流逝只会越来越紧密。所以继续找,直到你找到它,不要停下来!
我的第三个故事是关于死亡的。
当我十七岁的时候, 我读到了一句话:“如果你把每一天都当作生命中最后一天去生活的话,那么有一天你会发现你是正确的。”这句话给我留下了深刻的印象。从那时开始,过了33年,我在每天早晨都会对着镜子问自己:“如果今天是我生命中的最后一天, 你会不会完成你今天想做的事情呢?”当答案连续很多次被给予“不是”的时候, 我知道自己需要改变某些事情了。
“记住你即将死去”是我一生中遇到的最重要箴言。它帮我指明了生命中重要的选择。因为几乎所有的事情, 包括所有的荣誉、所有的骄傲、所有对难堪和失败的恐惧,这些在死亡面前都会消失。我看到的是留下的真正重要的东西。你有时候会思考你将会失去某些东西,“记住你即将死去”是我知道的避免这些想法的最好办法。你已经赤身裸体了, 你没有理由不去跟随自己的心一起跳动。
大概一年以前, 我被诊断出癌症。我在早晨七点半做了一个检查, 检查清楚的显示在我的胰腺有一个肿瘤。我当时都不知道胰腺是什么东西。医生告诉我那很可能是一种无法治愈的癌症, 我还有三到六个月的时间活在这个世界上。我的医生叫我回家, 然后整理好我的一切, 那就是医生准备死亡的程序。那意味着你将要把未来十年对你小孩说的话在几个月里面说完.;那意味着把每件事情都搞定, 让你的家人会尽可能轻松的生活;那意味着你要说“再见了”。
我整天和那个诊断书一起生活。后来有一天早上我作了一个活切片检查,医生将一个内窥镜从我的喉咙伸进去,通过我的胃, 然后进入我的肠子, 用一根针在我的胰腺上的肿瘤上取了几个细胞。我当时很镇静,因为我被注射了镇定剂。但是我的妻子在那里, 后来告诉我,当医生在显微镜地下观察这些细胞的时候他们开始尖叫, 因为这些细胞最后竟然是一种非常罕见的可以用手术治愈的胰腺癌症。我做了这个手术, 现在我痊愈了。
那是我最接近死亡的时候, 我还希望这也是以后的几十年最接近的一次。从死亡线上又活了过来, 死亡对我来说,只是一个有用但是纯粹是知识上的概念的时候,我可以更肯定一点地对你们说:
没有人愿意死, 即使人们想上天堂, 人们也不会为了去那里而死。但是死亡是我们每个人共同的终点。从来没有人能够逃脱它。也应该如此。 因为死亡就是生命中最好的一个发明。它将旧的清除以便给新的让路。你们现在是新的, 但是从现在开始不久以后, 你们将会逐渐的变成旧的然后被清除。我很抱歉这很戏剧性, 但是这十分的真实。
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演讲能力是不断积累学习的,我们要多向那些演讲大师学习,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些超级演说家经典演讲稿,希望对大家有所帮助。
首先我要跟大家坦白我是一个非常自恋的人,我自恋到哪种程度呢?每天晚上我洗完脸,我看着镜子里面的自己我觉得这男孩长的白白净净、眉清目秀,真的特别值得被爱。我甚至认为我的朋友应该为拥有我感到无比的骄傲和自豪,因为我是上天送给他们的礼物。无数次我对我自己发自肺腑的表达我爱我自己,所以今天在这个舞台上我决定当着大家的面好好夸夸我自己。
首先我爱我自己的乐观,我爱我自己脸皮够厚,用我朋友的话说我就是“死猪不怕开水烫”,我记得很多年前我参加了一个比赛,比完赛之后评委和选手坐在一张桌子上吃饭,其中有一个老师他对我的态度一直都是批判性的,他说“肖骁,你不是幽默,你是滑稽,你就是这桌上的一盘花生米,有没有你我根本不会去在意。”他说完之后,本来其乐融融的氛围一下子尴尬了,我也是第一次了解到时空凝结是一种什么样的感觉。于是我点头,我微笑,我忍你。吃完饭之后,我回到酒店把我准备好的稿子从头到尾的改了一遍,完了之后我就像一个神经病一样又哭又笑的在房间里排练了一整个晚上,结果第二天的比赛我拿了第一名。当然,指责我的那名老师他作为去掉一个最高分、去掉一个最低分的那个最低分,他被去掉了,但是我依然相信他看到了我的不可替代,我依然相信我让他看到了一盘花生米的价值。而且偷偷告诉大家,酒桌上没有花生米伤胃。
我还喜欢我自己的真实,我喜欢我自己的不做作,就算我今天站在超演的舞台上我依然敢坦白的告诉大家我想拿冠军,就算我今天面对我的导师鲁豫老师,我依然直言不讳,我看着她的眼睛我告诉她“老师,我觉得我就是你最好的学员。如果有一人可以代表我们战队笑到最后,那个人应该是我。”我们对自己的爱是自私的,是盲目的,是与生俱来的,我们包容我们自己的缺点,当我们和别人发生争执的时候,我们觉得自己永远是对的,这是根上的。但是慢慢的,因为现实的打击,因为周遭的质疑,我们甚至会因为遇见了比我们更加优秀、更加成功的人而产生自卑这种可怕的情绪。这种可怕的情绪它会让我们一次又一次的质问自己,我到底行不行,但其实我们干嘛要抢着去做别人生活里的配角,我们干嘛总想着去复刻别人的成功,因为我们每个人就像掌纹一样,是这个世界上最特别的存在,我们应该为我们自己的独一无二感到无比自豪,我们对爱我们的人负责,对憎恨我们的人包容,对贫者关怀,对弱者友爱,其实仔细想想我们都挺棒的,不是吗?
所以没事多夸夸自己,我们要学会和自己表白,我们要时刻提醒我们自己到底有多棒。所以今天最后,我要对我自己说:“肖骁,我爱你,我爱你的乐观积极,我爱你的自信勇敢,我爱你的脸皮够厚,我爱你爱你,我爱死你。”我爱我自己,你呢?
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老师们、同学们:
早上好!我讲话的题目是《诵读经典,同沐书香》。
同学们,书卷气是一个人最好的气质,书香气是一个校园最好的氛围。有人说:“世界上最自得的一幕,是在读书时那会心的微笑。”因为书籍是人类智慧的结晶,书中有着永世不朽的精神。
背诵经典,可以帮我们积累知识;感悟经典,可以帮我们涵养品性;吟诵经典,可以帮我们滋润心灵;演绎经典,可以帮我们增加智慧。经典诗文一旦在我们的灵魂深处沉淀下来,就会成为我们今后人生旅途上的精神养料,成为我们生命历程中最靓丽的风景。
同学们,请你坚持每天大声诵经典读吧,让诵读感悟从心灵流向笔尖,课间多和同学交流诵读感受,回家多与父母畅谈诵读心得,你一定更能领略学习的乐趣,明白什么是忘我,什么是充实;你也一定能感悟到更多做人的道理;你的生活中会多一些儒雅的谈吐,少一些粗浅的行动;多一些含蓄幽默,少一些词穷木讷;你更会养一些“富贵不能淫,贫贱不能移,威武不能屈,”的浩然正气;得一些“先天下之忧而忧,后天下之乐而乐”的胸怀;守一些“勿以恶小而为之,勿以善小而不为”的准则。
亲爱的同学们,我们正处于记忆的黄金阶段,让我们抓紧当前,沉下心来,诵读经典!让我们的心灵沐浴书香,让我们的校园充满朝气,把经典诵读融入每一天!谢谢!
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尊敬的老师,同学们:
大家好!
感恩,富有深刻含义的两个字。
以前我并不知感恩,但从我读了一个故事后,我明白了。
在一所小镇的学校有个非常不起眼的男生,从小父母离异,生活在单亲家底,家境不富裕,他的爸爸外打工,每天五元钱是他的伙食费,衣服没人洗,很脏,身体同样也很脏,但是教他们语文课的班主任老师,总是在每天放学后,不经意的拉一下他那脏兮兮的手,他在心底里说要感恩。
有一次老师在圣诞节让孩子们在黑板上画自己感觉最好的礼物。
老师选中了小男孩,大家都猜想他会画什么,有的说是火鸡,有的说是蛋糕……,没想到的是小男孩却在黑板上画了一只手,一只很漂亮的手。大家又七嘴八舌的讨论起来,有的说这是老师的手,因为她用这只手教给我们知识;有的说这是农夫的手,他用这只手喂养火鸡,但是只有老师知道小男孩的用意上。
从那以后我知道了感恩,感恩,二心,心连心形成感恩。
谢谢!
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懂得感恩,才能拥有,怀着感恩的心,世界也才会美好!你们想知道更多的励志经典的演讲稿?下面就让读文网小编给大家分享一些经典的演讲稿吧,希望能对你有帮助!
尊敬的校领导、老师、亲爱的同学们:
大家早上好,我发言的题目是:青春的呐喊。
春回大地,万物吐露生机。高考的脚步和春天一起悄悄地想我们走来,在这明媚的春光里,我们已经进入高考冲刺阶段。
"逝者如斯夫,不舍昼夜。"的确,时光如流水般,一泻而过,转眼间,三年高中只剩下的不足百日。但是现在还有大部分人耽于玩乐,沉溺于网吧,私心杂念丛生,精神恍恍惚惚,生命只剩下了躯壳。浪掷青春虚度近三年。而不同的是另一部分同学勤奋拼搏近三年。前后两种的不同的高中生活,能折射出不同的人生前途。玩弄人生的人会被人生所戏弄。也许是被所谓的儿女私情/花前月下/出身贵贱/基础好坏等等因素所影响。同学们:所谓的花前月下,只是短暂的潇洒,迅速来临的失败,回让你在成功者面前沮丧。不要悲叹较低的的人生起点,不要悲感出生的贫贱,不要抱怨过去的基础不好。往前看吧,人生的道路可以逆转,时光的脚步只能向前。请你相信未来/相信自己/相信一分耕耘一分收获/相信皇天不负有心人/相信改变命运的只有自己。
暂时放下那些悲观的观念,暂时放下那些所谓的"我不行"去努力拼搏最后的90天。如果我们做与不做,都会有人笑;如果做不好与做得好,还会有人笑。那么我们索性就做的更好来给人笑吧!而今这百日冲刺在有些同学眼里觉得很无聊,很痛苦。而整日玩些无聊的游戏看小说/上课睡觉或说话……来虚度这百日冲刺,之所以感觉如此,是因为没有把心放在学习上,没有把自己融入到这百日冲刺之中,再说对考学倍感无力。。同学们:只要我们想上学,只要我们还愿意走这条路,对这条路还有信心,不怕这一路的荆棘,我们就有学上。古人云:“宝剑锋从磨砺出,梅花香自苦寒来”我们也耐的住寂寞,承受的起艰难。我们定能学业有成!
十年铸剑,只为炉火纯青。一朝出鞘,定当倚天长鸣。其中定有铸剑的艰难与寂寞,然而他们承受了。所以他们能铸成绝世好剑。十年寒窗寂寞伴,一朝成名幸福随。这也能说明,不付出何来回报。含笑播种的人,一定会含笑收获。也正是如此。
问苍忙大地,谁主沉浮?我们应当主宰我们自己的世界,我们的地盘我们做主。我们的人生我们自己走。风华正茂,书生义气。有谁能阻挡我们青春的脚步。鲁迅曾说:"真的猛士,是敢于直面惨淡的人生,敢于正视淋漓的鲜血。我们要向青春呐喊,不做艰难的奴隶,要做青春的主人/真的猛士。我们年轻,我们怕什么/怕就怕自己甘心忍受现存的生活。不敢拼,不敢做。这不是我们现代青年应有的。百日冲刺应一"两耳不闻窗外事,一心只读圣贤书。"为准则。努力搞好自己的学习任务。我们要以最饱满的热情,最昂扬的斗志,为三高创造奇迹,为三高树立一面大旗,为学弟学妹们树立一个奋斗的方向。
壮怀激烈,批荆斩棘。敢叫日月换新天,意气风发,批波斩浪,直挂云帆济沧海。十载寒窗,百日苦练,何等英才夺桂冠。一腔热血,万丈豪情。我辈健步登金榜。呕心沥血。卧薪尝胆,定将折桂涉蟾宫。百练成钢,十年一剑。宝剑今朝试锋芒。百日拼搏一战成功,少年自有少年狂,战舰扬帆,雄鹰展翅。誓圆大学梦!此新不改此行无撼!
历史的使命已经把年轻的我们推向时间的最前言,高考成功舍我其谁。我们应以十足的信心,百倍的决心,万分的恒心,将具有人生转折意义的高考进行到底,让我们年轻的生命在火热的六月尽情的燃烧吧!
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经典演讲稿会吸引很多人的关注。下面就是读文网小编给大家整理的经典演讲稿开场白,希望对你有用!
Opening Statement
mr. chairman, senator thurmond, members of the committee, my name is anita f. hill, and i am a professor of law at the university of oklahoma. i was born on a farm in okmulgee county, oklahoma, in 1956. i am the youngest of 13 children. i had my early education in okmulgee county. my father, albert hill, is a farmer in that area. my mother's name is irma hill. she is also a farmer and a housewife.
my childhood was one of a lot of hard work and not much money, but it was one of solid family affection, as represented by my parents. i was reared in a religious atmosphere in the baptist faith, and i have been a member of the antioch baptist church in tulsa, oklahoma, since 1983. it is a very warm part of my life at the present time.
for my undergraduate work, i went to oklahoma state university and graduated from there in 1977. i am attaching to this statement a copy of my resume for further details of my education.
i graduated from the university with academic honors and proceeded to the yale law school, where i received my jd degree in 1980. upon graduation from law school, i became a practicing lawyer with the washington, dc, firm of ward, hardraker, and ross.
in 1981, i was introduced to now judge thomas by a mutual friend. judge thomas told me that he was anticipating a political appointment, and he asked if i would be interested in working with him. he was, in fact, appointed as assistant secretary of education for civil rights. after he had taken that post, he asked if i would become his assistant, and i accepted that position.
in my early period there, i had two major projects. the first was an article i wrote for judge thomas' signature on the education of minority students. the second was the organization of a seminar on high-risk students which was abandoned because judge thomas transferred to the eeoc where he became the chairman of that office.
during this period at the department of education, my working relationship with judge thomas was positive. i had a good deal of responsibility and independence. i thought he respected my work and that he trusted my judgment. after approximately three months of working there, he asked me to go out socially with him.
what happened next and telling the world about it are the two most difficult things -- experiences of my life. it is only after a great deal of agonizing consideration and sleeplenumber -- a great number of sleeplenights tha(t i am able to talk of these unpleasant matters to anyone but my close friends.
i declined the invitation to go out socially with him and explained to him that i thought it would jeopardize what at the time i considered to be a very good working relationship. i had a normal social life with other men outside of the office. i believed then, as now, that having a social relationship with a person who was supervising my work would be ill-advised. i was very uncomfortable with the idea and told him so.
i thought that by saying no and explaining my reasons my employer would abandon his social suggestions. however, to my regret, in the following few weeks, he continued to ask me out on several occasions. he pressed me to justify my reasons for saying no to him. these incidents took place in his office or mine. they were in the form of private conversations which would not have been overheard by anyone else.
my working relationship became even more strained when judge thomas began to use work situations to discuse-x. on these occasions, he would call me into his office for reports on education issues and projects, or he might suggest that, because of the time pressures of his schedule, we go to lunch to a government cafeteria. after a brief discussion of work, he would turn the conversation to a discussion of se-xual matters.
his conversations were very vivid. he spoke about acts that he had seen in pornographic films involving such matters as women having se-x with animals and films showing group se-x or rape scenes. he talked about pornographic materials depicting individuals with large penises or large breasts involved in various se-x acts. on several occasions, thomas told me graphically of his own se-xual prowess.
because i was extremely uncomfortable talking about se-x with him at all and particularly in such a graphic way, i told him that i did not want to talk about these subjects. i would also try to change the subject to education matters or to nonse-xual personal matters such as his background or his beliefs. my efforts to change the subject were rarely successful.
throughout the period of these conversations, he also from time to time asked me for social engagements. my reaction to these conversations was to avoid them by eliminating opportunities for us to engage in extended conversations. this was difficult because at the time i was his only assistant at the office of education -- or of
fice for civil rights.
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KTV是现在大家都常去的地方,那么就让我们一起去了解一下KTV员工的这些经典的演讲稿吧!下面就让读文网小编给大家分享一些经典的演讲吧,希望能对你有帮助!
尊敬的各位领导,尊敬的员工朋友们
大家下午好!鼓乐阵阵,爆竹声声。值此中华民族传统节日——春节来临之际,我们在这里欢聚一堂,辞旧迎新,共庆新春佳节,共商发展大计,共话美好未来。冬去春归,新春将至,在此,我谨代表恒达酒店全体管理人员及我本人,向一年来在工作岗位上默默奉献,为酒店发展付出辛勤劳动的全体员工,表示衷心的感谢和亲切的问候!大家辛苦了!谢谢你们!同时,向酒店全体员工及其家属,向所有曾经在恒达酒店奋斗过,现在仍奋斗在一线的管理人员和员工们拜个早年!祝大家在新的一年里工作顺利,身体健康,生活幸福,万事如意!20XX年,是旅游饭店业经受严峻考验的一年,20XX年开始不断蔓延的国际金融危机和20XX年下从半年通货膨胀的扩展使星级酒店的经营经历了前所未有的严峻考验。作为酒店业的一份子,我们同样经历了这一艰难历程。为了应对挑战,我们在年初的工作会议中就重点提出了20XX年工作的基本思路,并要求在新的一年里,我们要以更加饱满的热情,认认真真做好每一项工作,踏踏实实完成每一项任务,在不断完善自身的同时,还要认清形势,明确目标,整合队伍,团结奋战,争取创造更好的业绩。一年以来,在公司领导的正确指导下,酒店上下一心,团结奋战,努力拼搏,使我店的各项经营管理工作都能够有序运行,取得了良好的效果,共创营业收入约XXXX万元,实现利润约XXX万多元。
值此辞旧迎新之际,有必要回顾总结过去一年的工作、成绩、经验及不足,以利于扬长避短,奋发进取,在20XX年里努力再创佳绩。
一、立足武宣,做好服务立足武宣,作为XXX唯一一家四星级旅游饭店,服务XX是我们的本职工作,我们也一直以此为核心,进行各项工作的开展。不管是接待县里举行的会议,还是XXX举行的各种活动,我们都非常认真地开展服务工作。20XX年,我们紧紧围绕“搞好武宣服务工作”这个核心任务开展各项工作,认真完成各项接待任务,做好县委县政府的后勤保障。
一年来,我们先后接待了XX县人大、政协会议,XXXX接待及XXXXXX和XXXX会议,全市quduwen会议及各企事业单位的年会等几次大型会议接待工作,我们都非常重视,并根据接待规格召开专题会议,本着确保服务周到、确保安全可靠、确保代表满意的原则,提前安排好各项议程,做好各项接待准备工作,因此保证了各项会议的顺利进行,几次接待任务都圆满完成,赢得了与会领导的广泛好评。由于接待工作落实得好,XXX的很多大型会议都慕名而来,为酒店带来可观的经济效益和社会效益。
二、与时俱进,提升发展,酒店突显改观与时俱进,提升发展,酒店领导班子率先垂范,组织指导各级管理人员及员工,认真学习酒店知识,如通过市旅游局邀请专家到酒店内部的日常培训等等。并结合酒店经营、管理、服务等实际情况,与时俱进,提升素质,转变观念。在市场竞争的浪潮中求生存,使整个酒店范围突显了可喜的改观。主要表现在酒店各区的环境卫生和员工精神状态积极向上。我们大会、小会反复强调,管理人员及员工要有紧迫感,应具上进心,培养“精气神”。酒店的管理服务不是高科技,没有什么深奥的学问。
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史蒂夫·乔布斯是发明家、企业家、美国苹果公司联合创办人、前行政总裁。今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇乔布斯经典哈佛演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says
Jobs说,你必须要找到你所爱的东西。
This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.
这是苹果公司和Pixar动画工作室的CEO Steve Jobs于2005年6月12号在斯坦福大学的毕业典礼上面的演讲稿。
I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
我今天很荣幸能和你们一起参加毕业典礼,斯坦福大学是世界上最好的大学之一。我从来没有从大学中毕业。说实话,今天也许是在我的生命中离大学毕业最近的一天了。今天我想向你们讲述我生活中的三个故事。不是什么大不了的事情,只是三个故事而已。
The first story is about connecting the dots.
第一个故事是关于如何把生命中的点点滴滴串连起来。
I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
我在Reed大学读了六个月之后就退学了,但是在十八个月以后——我真正的作出退学决定之前,我还经常去学校。我为什么要退学呢?
It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife. Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and thatmy father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers. She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
故事从我出生的时候讲起。我的亲生母亲是一个年轻的,没有结婚的大学毕业生。她决定让别人收养我, 她十分想让我被大学毕业生收养。所以在我出生的时候,她已经做好了一切的准备工作,能使得我被一个律师和他的妻子所收养。但是她没有料到,当我出生之后,律师夫妇突然决定他们想要一个女孩。 所以我的生养父母(他们还在我亲生父母的观察名单上)突然在半夜接到了一个电话:―我们现在这儿有一个不小心生出来的男婴,你们想要他吗?‖他们回答道:―当然!‖但是我亲生母亲随后发现,我的养母从来没有上过大学,我的父亲甚至从没有读过高中。她拒绝签这个收养合同。只是在几个月以后,我的父母答应她一定要让我上大学,那个时候她才同意。
And 17 years later I did go to college. But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
在十七岁那年,我真的上了大学。但是我很愚蠢的选择了一个几乎和你们斯坦福大学一样贵的学校, 我父母还处于蓝领阶层,他们几乎把所有积蓄都花在了我的学费上面。在六个月后, 我已经看不到其中的价值所在。我不知道我想要在生命中做什么,我也不知道大学能帮助我找到怎样的答案。 但是在这里,我几乎花光了我父母这一辈子的所有积蓄。所以我决定要退学,我觉得这是个正确的决定。不能否认,我当时确实非常的害怕, 但是现在回头看看,那的确是我这一生中最棒的一个决定。在我做出退学决定的那一刻, 我终于可以不必去读那些令我提不起丝毫兴趣的课程了。然后我还可以去修那些看起来有点意思的课程。
It wasn't all romantic. I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
但是这并不是那么罗曼蒂克。我失去了我的宿舍,所以我只能在朋友房间的地板上面睡觉,我去捡5美分的可乐瓶子,仅仅为了填饱肚子, 在星期天的晚上,我需要走七英里的路程,穿过这个城市到Hare Krishna寺庙(注:位于纽约Brooklyn下城),只是为了能吃上饭——这个星期唯一一顿好一点的饭。但是我喜欢这样。我跟着我的直觉和好奇心走, 遇到的很多东西,此后被证明是无价之宝。让我给你们举一个例子吧:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decidedto take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this. I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
Reed大学在那时提供也许是全美最好的美术字课程。在这个大学里面的每个海报, 每个抽屉的标签上面全都是漂亮的美术字。因为我退学了, 没有受到正规的训练, 所以我决定去参加这个课程,去学学怎样写出漂亮的美术字。我学到了san serif 和serif字体, 我学会了怎么样在不同的字母组合之中改变空格的长度, 还有怎么样才能作出最棒的印刷式样。那是一种科学永远不能捕捉到的、美丽的、真实的艺术精妙, 我发现那实在是太美妙了。
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac. It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or
proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
当时看起来这些东西在我的生命中,好像都没有什么实际应用的可能。但是十年之后,当我们在设计第一台Macintosh电脑的时候,就不是那样了。我把当时我学的那些家伙全都设计进了Mac。那是第一台使用了漂亮的印刷字体的电脑。如果我当时没有退学, 就不会有机会去参加这个我感兴趣的美术字课程, Mac就不会有这么多丰富的字体,以及赏心悦目的字体间距。那么现在个人电脑就不会有现在这么美妙的字型了。当然我在大学的时候,还不可能把从前的点点滴滴串连起来,但是当我十年后回顾这一切的时候,真的豁然开朗了。
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
再次说明的是,你在向前展望的时候不可能将这些片断串连起来;你只能在回顾的时候将点点滴滴串连起来。所以你必须相信这些片断会在你未来的某一天串连起来。你必须要相信某些东西:你的勇气、目的、生命、因缘。这个过程从来没有令我失望(let me down),只是让我的生命更加地与众不同而已。
My second story is about love and loss.
我的第二个故事是关于爱和损失的。
I was lucky – I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two ofus in a garage into a billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation - the Macintosh - a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out. When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
我非常幸运, 因为我在很早的时候就找到了我钟爱的东西。Woz和我在二十岁的时候就在父母的车库里面开创了苹果公司。我们工作得很努力, 十年之后, 这个公司从那两个车库中的穷光蛋发展到了超过四千名的雇员、价值超过二十亿的大公司。在公司成立的第九年,我们刚刚发布了最好的产品,那就是Macintosh。我也快要到三十岁了。在那一年, 我被炒了鱿鱼。你怎么可能被你自己创立的公司炒了鱿鱼呢? 嗯,在苹果快速成长的时候,我们雇用了一个很有天分的家伙和我一起管理这个公司, 在最初的几年,公司运转的很好。但是后来我们对未来的看法发生了分歧, 最终我们吵了起来。当争吵不可开交的时候, 董事会站在了他的那一边。所以在三十岁的时候, 我被炒了。在这么多人的眼皮下我被炒了。在而立之年,我生命的全部支柱离自己远去, 这真是毁灭性的打击。
I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley. But something slowly began to dawn on me – I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
在最初的几个月里,我真是不知道该做些什么。我把从前的创业激情给丢了, 我觉得自己让与我一同创业的人都很沮丧。我和David Pack和Bob Boyce见面,并试图向他们道歉。我把事情弄得糟糕透顶了。但是我渐渐发现了曙光, 我仍然喜爱我从事的这些东西。苹果公司发生的这些事情丝毫的没有改变这些, 一点也没有。我被驱逐了,但是我仍然钟爱它。所以我决定从头再来。
I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
我当时没有觉察, 但是事后证明, 从苹果公司被炒是我这辈子发生的最棒的事情。因为,作为一个成功者的极乐感觉被作为一个创业者的轻松感觉所重新代替: 对任何事情都不那么特别看重。这让我觉得如此自由, 进入了我生命中最有创造力的一个阶段。
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I retuned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's currentrenaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
在接下来的五年里, 我创立了一个名叫NeXT的公司, 还有一个叫Pixar的公司, 然后和一个后来成为我妻子的优雅女人相识。Pixar 制作了世界上第一个用电脑制作的动画电影——―‖玩具总动员‖,Pixar现在也是世界上最成功的电脑制作工作室。在后来的一系列运转中,Apple收购了NeXT, 然后我又回到了Apple公司。我们在NeXT发展的技术在Apple的复兴之中发挥了关键的作用。我还和Laurence 一起建立了一个幸福的家庭。
I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
我可以非常肯定,如果我不被Apple开除的话, 这其中一件事情也不会发生的。这个良药的味道实在是太苦了,但是我想病人需要这个药。有些时候, 生活会拿起一块砖头向你的脑袋上猛拍一下。不要失去信心。我很清楚唯一使我一直走下去的,就是我做的事情令我无比钟爱。你需要去找到你所爱的东西。对于工作是如此, 对于你的爱人也是如此。你的工作将会占据生活中很大的一部分。你只有相信自己所做的是伟大的工作, 你才能怡然自得。如果你现在还没有找到, 那么继续找、不要停下来、全心全意的去找, 当你找到的时候你就会知道的。就像任何真诚的关系, 随着岁月的流逝只会越来越紧密。所以继续找,直到你找到它,不要停下来!
My third story is about death.
我的第三个故事是关于死亡的。
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
当我十七岁的时候, 我读到了一句话:―如果你把每一天都当作生命中最后一天去生活的话,那么有一天你会发现你是正确的。‖这句话给我留下了深刻的印象。从那时开始,过了33年,我在每天早晨都会对着镜子问自己:―如果今天是我生命中的最后一天, 你会不会完成你今天想做的事情呢?‖当答案连续很多次被给予―不是‖的时候, 我知道自己需要改变某些事情了。
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death,leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.
―记住你即将死去‖是我一生中遇到的最重要箴言。它帮我指明了生命中重要的选择。因为几乎所有的事情, 包括所有的荣誉、所有的骄傲、所有对难堪和失败的恐惧,这些在死亡面前都会消失。我看到的是留下的真正重要的东西。你有时候会思考你将会失去某些东西,―记住你即将死去‖是我知道的避免这些想法的最好办法。你已经赤身裸体了, 你没有理由不去跟随自己的心一起跳动。
About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
大概一年以前, 我被诊断出癌症。我在早晨七点半做了一个检查, 检查清楚的显示在我的胰腺有一个肿瘤。我当时都不知道胰腺是什么东西。医生告诉我那很可能是一种无法治愈的癌症, 我还有三到六个月的时间活在这个世界上。我的医生叫我回家, 然后整理好我的一切, 那就是医生准备死亡的程序。那意味着你将要把未来十年对你小孩说的话在几个月里面说完.;那意味着把每件事情都搞定, 让你的家人会尽可能轻松的生活;那意味着你要说―再见了‖。
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy, where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
我整天和那个诊断书一起生活。后来有一天早上我作了一个活切片检查,医生将一个内窥镜从我的喉咙伸进去,通过我的胃, 然后进入我的肠子, 用一根针在我的胰腺上的肿瘤上取了几个细胞。我当时很镇静,因为我被注射了镇定剂。但是我的妻子在那里, 后来告诉我,当医生在显微镜地下观察这些细胞的时候他们开始尖叫, 因为这些细胞最后竟然是一种非常罕见的可以用手术治愈的胰腺癌症。我做了这个手术, 现在我痊愈了。
This was the closest I've been to facing death, and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
那是我最接近死亡的时候, 我还希望这也是以后的几十年最接近的一次。从死亡线上又活了过来, 死亡对我来说,只是一个有用但是纯粹是知识上的概念的时候,我可以更肯定一点地对你们说:No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
没有人愿意死, 即使人们想上天堂, 人们也不会为了去那里而死。但是死亡是我们每个人共同的终点。从来没有人能够逃脱它。也应该如此。 因为死亡就是生命中最好的一个发明。它将旧的清除以便给新的让路。你们现在是新的, 但是从现在开始不久以后, 你们将会逐渐的变成旧的然后被清除。我很抱歉这很戏剧性, 但是这十分的真实。
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of other's opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
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世界是我们的,未来是我们的
Someone said “we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite”. I don’t know who wrote these words, but I’ve always liked them as a reminder that the future can be anything we want it to be. We are all in the position of the farmers. If we plant a good seed ,we reap a good harvest. If we plant nothing at all, we harvest nothing at all.
We are young. “How to spend the youth?” It is a meaningful question. To answer it, first I have to ask “what do you understand by the word youth?” Youth is not a time of life, it’s a state of mind. It’s not a matter of rosy cheeks, red lips or supple knees. It’s the matter of the will. It’s the freshneof the deep spring of life.
A poet said “To see a world in a grain of sand, and a heaven in a wild flower, hold infinity in the palm of your hand, and eternity in an hour. Several days ago, I had a chance to listen to a lecture. I learnt a lot there. I’d like to share it with all of you. Let’s show our right palms. We can see three lines that show how our love.career and life is. I have a short line of life.
What about yours? I wondered whether we could see our future in this way. Well, let’s make a fist. Where is our future?
Where is our love, career, and life? Tell me.Yeah, it is in our hands. It is held in ourselves.
We all want the future to be better than the past. But the future can go better itself. Don’t cry because it is over, smile because it happened. From the past, we’ve learnt that the life is tough, but we are tougher. We’ve learnt that we can’t choose how we feel, but we can choose what about it. Failure doesn’t mean you don’t have it, it does mean you should do it in a different way. Failure doesn’t mean you should give up, it does mean you must try harder.
As what I said at the beginning, “we are reading the first verse of the first chapter of a book, whose pages are infinite”. The past has gone. Nothing we do will change it. But the future is in front of us. Believe that what we give to the world, the world will give to us. And from today on, let’s be the owners of ourselves, and speak out “We are the world, we are the future.”
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一个人的好口才是日积月累的过程,口才不是天生的是后天训练的结果,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些幽默口才经典句子,希望对大家有所帮助。
1. 下辇子要做筷子,就不孤单了!
2. 当你知道迷惑时,并不可怜, 当你不知道迷惑时,才是最可怜的。
3. 一切的和谐与平衡,健康与健美,成功与幸福,都是由乐观与希望的向上心理产生与造成的。
4. 内练一口气,外练一口屁。
5. 男人的话就像老太太的牙齿,有多少是真的?!
6. 没有医保和寿险的,天黑后不要见义勇为……
7. 若无宽恕,生命将被无休止的仇恨和报复所控制。我真的无意伤害你,真的很想与你和好如初,请原谅我吧。
8. 问:你喜欢我哪一点?答:我喜欢你离我远一点!
9. 保持乐观的心境,对生活中的酸甜苦辣,悲欢离合不必太注意,太苛求,更不可怨天尤人。因为世界上让所有人都注意的事情太少了。
10. 一人行,必会发情,二人行,必会激情,三人行,必有奸情。
11. 嫦娥和后羿的故事教育我们:一个嗑药的女人,和一个喜欢在外面乱射的男人,是不会有结果的。
12. 如今多少大洋彼岸的金发碧眼眉清目秀的贵族千金哭着喊着要拿中国的绿卡,奋不顾身的投入到央视春晚未婚男性的怀抱。
13. 贱也是一种艺术,让我们一起将这门艺术搞好吧!
14. 信任就像一枚娇嫩的雪花,千万不要用手去玩弄它。
15. 偷吃不是我的错,是我嘴巴的寂寞。
16. 我不知道流星能飞多久,值不值得追求;我不知道樱花能开多久,值不值得等侯;但我知道我们的感情能象烟花般美丽,象恒星般永恒,值得我用一生去保留
17. 狂妄的人有救,自卑的人没有救。
18. 初中的体育老师说:谁敢再穿裙子上我的课,就罚她倒立。
19. 长个包子样就别怨狗跟着!
20. 我的人生一半是倒霉,另一半是处理倒霉的事。
21. 我之所以高贵,是因为你们在下面跪着!
22. 八戒求悟空介绍女友,悟空说:如果上天能够给你一个再来一次的机会,你会对那个女孩子说三个字,八戒:我爱吃!
23. 某某大学,星光璀璨。走进一看,破破烂烂。十个老师,九个笨蛋。还有一个,神经错乱。
24. 唐伯虎画了一幅图,旖旎迷人;徐悲鸿画了一幅图,奔放迷人;毕加索画了一幅图,梦幻迷人;你也画了一幅图……天哪,好熏人!怎么又尿床了?
25. 老大:朋友就是用来利用的;兄弟就是由出卖的;老大我就是这样混出来的。
26. 格式化自己,只为删除你。
27. 为了祖国下一代,再丑也要谈恋爱,谈到世界充满爱……拉拉拉……
28. 在爱情的道路上,俄总是走走停停,妈妈说俄腿脚不行。
29. 就算再想哭,也要微笑着说一句:你大爷的!
30. 清明节,买朵鲜花,祭奠那死去的爱情。
31. 我曾经跟一个人无数次的擦肩而过,衣服都擦破了,也没擦出火花。
32. 你永远要感谢给你逆境的众生。
33. 你淡定是因为你不怕死,我比你淡定是因为我不怕你死。
34. 原谅我吧!我知道我错了,你若不能原谅我的话,那就不断的打电话骂我吧!我愿意被你骂到老!
35. 老子不但有车,还是自行的……
36. 我深信,会有一个男人是为受我的折磨而来到这世上的。
37. 穿棉袄了是因天气冷了;撑起伞了是因天下雨了;给你短信了是因我错了,能原谅我吗?
38. 生存还是死亡,是一个问题;上qq还是bbs,是一个问题;去追一个mm还是等一个mm来追,是一个问题,而且还是一个大问题!( 励志天下 www.lizhi123.net )
39. 荷兰一家旅行社刊出一则广告:“请飞往北极度蜜月吧!当地夜长24小时。”
40. 明星脱一点就能更出名,我脱的光光的却被抓起来了!
41. 福报不够的人,就会常常听到是非;福报够的人,从来就没听到过是非。
42. 这风真猥琐,把我的嘴都亲干了。
43. 青年应当接替我们老年人。青年应当举起我们的旗帜直到胜利的终点。
44. 不攀比,不嫉妒。只要我们尽了力,发了光,问心无愧,虽然所处的境况还大有改进的余地,也有信心加以改进,但也怡然自得。要学会幽默和自嘲。
45. 人生不能像做菜、把所有的料都准备好才下锅!
46. 人的欲望犹如风筝,既要放飞它,也要控制它。
47. 女人愿意付帐的原因:一、她是他太太;二、她刚刚收到男人一份名贵的礼物,所以良心发现,获利回吐;三、他是她的旧情人,她要向他炫耀她生活得比他好;四、这个男人妄想追求她,她要挫一挫他的自尊心;五、如果一男一女争着付帐,则他们不可能是情侣。
48. 花好不常开,青春不常在,趁你还年轻,抓紧谈恋爱。
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拥有一张会说话的嘴,良好口才就等于为自己赢得了一次成功的机会,就等于使自己拥有了一个美好非凡的前程。下面读文网小编整理了口才训练方法经典句子,供你阅读参考。
1、当你快乐时,你要想,这快乐不是永恒的。当你痛苦时你要想这痛苦也不是永恒的。
2、认识自己,降伏自己,改变自己,才能改变别人。
3、不要浪费你的生命,在你一定会后悔的地方上。
4、你什么时候放下,什么时候就没有烦恼。
5、每一种创伤,都是一种成熟。
6、当你知道迷惑时,并不可怜,当你不知道迷惑时,才是最可怜的。
7、狂妄的人有救,自卑的人没有救。
8、你不要一直不满人家,你应该一直检讨自己才对。不满人家,是苦了你自己。
9、你要包容那些意见跟你不同的人,这样子日子比较好过。你要是一直想改变他,那样子你会很痛苦。要学学怎样忍受他才是。你要学学怎样包容他才是。
10、承认自己的伟大,就是认同自己的愚钝。
11、说话不要有攻击性,不要有杀伤力,不夸已能,不扬人恶,自然能化敌为友。
12、一个常常看别人缺点的人,自己本身就不够好,因为他没有时间检讨他自己。
13、是非天天有,不听自然无,是非天天有,不听还是有,是非天天有,看你怎么办?
14、如果你真的爱他,那么你必须容忍他部份的缺点。
15、要克服对死亡的恐惧,你必须要接受世上所有的人都会死去的观念。
16、虽然你讨厌一个人,但却又能发觉他的优点好处,像这样子有修养的人,天下真是太少了。
17、诚实的面对你内心的矛盾和污点,不要欺骗你自己。
18、因果不曾亏欠过我们什么,所以请不要抱怨。
19、我们确实有如是的优点,但也要隐藏几分,这个叫做涵养。
20、人之所以痛苦,在于追求错误的东西。
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很多以青春为主题的励志演讲稿,对于我们的青年学生们具有很好的激励作用。下面是小编整理的青春励志演讲稿范文,分享给大家!
大家好,今天,我演讲的题目是《生命在平凡中闪光》
朋友们,我曾听过这样的感叹:我生不逢时,没赶上英雄时代,要不我也会扬名天下!我也听到类似的抱怨:我时运不佳,没摊上一个好岗位,否则咱也能露露脸!
是啊,和平年代,普通工作,我们很平凡。但我要说,伟大正寓于平凡之中,平凡的我们一样能高扬精神的风帆,因为平凡中,我们一样能够奉献!
在我们的身边,有这样一位普通共产党员,他没有豪言壮语,没有惊天动地的事迹,有的只是无私无畏,默默奉献。在鲜红的党旗下,他履行着共产党员神圣的义务和职责,从我做起,塑造着新时期×××广电人的光辉形象。
他中等身材,四方脸,黑红的脸膛,双目炯炯有神,他就是×××广播电视局物管中心保卫科长,一名普通但又是优秀的共产党员。
××年,伴着新世纪的钟声,×××告别了与之相伴×年之久的绿色军营,打起背包,转业至××广播电视局物管中心保卫科工作。说起广播电视,外人首先想到的是无冕之王——新闻记者,还有公众人物——名播音、名主持,在这样一个颇具几分吸引力和神奇色彩的单位里,保卫科的工作岗位,实在是最基层、最平凡、最累而又最不起眼的工作。有的朋友甚至戏谑地对×××说,堂堂的连职转业干部,咋就看起了电视台的大门呢?可×××却说“广电事业的发展需要名主持、名记者,可也离不开像我们这样的普通一员。在广电这棵参天的大树上,做一片默默无闻的绿叶又何妨。”就这样,在一个平凡得不能再平凡的岗位上,赵光文用自己的赤诚和真情牢牢地扎下了根。
×年里,有多少个节假日、公休日,他是在工作中度过的,他数不清;×年里,不分白天黑夜,随叫随到地干了多少事,他说不清;×年里,他关了多少窗,关了多少水龙头,关了多少灯,他记不清。而他数得清的是广电中心大楼纵横交错的消防管道;他说得清的是大楼里密密麻麻的电线电缆布置线路;他说得清的是中心大楼里每一位工作人员的姓名和上班作息规律!
夏天,职工们在蚊蝇成群、臭气熏人的下水道口,见到的是疏通堵塞、排放积水的×××;冬天,在寒冷刺骨的风雪里,职工们见到的是忙着扫雪清障的×××;每天最早到班的是他,最迟下班的也是他……事实上,凡他认为是他分内的工作,哪怕再苦、再累、再险,他都会主动请缨,说干就干。但当他高烧39度要住院挂水时,他却一拖再拖;陪妻子孩子逛公园,他总是没时间;好容易有个星期天,他又忙碌在结对帮扶对象的家中……
××同志曾经说过:“在平凡的岗位上,在人们认为没有前途的地方,一样会出英雄人物;在人们认为有前途的工作岗位上,也不见得会成为英雄。”我想,这句话套用在×××身上是再适合不过的。因为他有着这样的信念:“世上三百六十行,行行都得有人干,既然干了这一行,就要对这一行负起责任。”应着这句“负起责任”的宣言,×××用他的行动给我们作了最有力的证明。那是一个夏日暴雨的凌晨,×××在睡梦中被电话惊醒,广电中心地下室浸水、配电房告急。×××立即冒着滂沱大雨,赶到现场。当时由于雨量太大,地下室的水位迅速上涨,距离配电柜仅有3、4公分的高度差距,按照当时水势的蔓延速度,只要再过十几分钟,积水就将淹没配电柜,引发大面积的短路,进而造成地下室两台变压器爆炸,在现场抢险的同志们将面临生命危险。面对死神的威胁,×××没有退缩,他镇定自若地带领闻讯赶来的消防官兵,趟着齐腰深的积水,一面堵住进水口,一面寻找最佳位置,抢排积水。分分秒秒间,×××与洪水进行着一场生死较量,一分钟、两分钟……半小时、一小时……水位终于止住了上涨的脚步,险情排除了,配电房保住了。“为人民服务,再苦再累再危险我也甘心”——这是他的行动,更是他的心声。
对工作,×××有着一股夏天般的火热激情,对同志,×××则始终象春天一样温暖。保卫科有一位同志一直认为保安工作低人一等,加之性格倔强,脾气暴躁,执勤时经常与人发生争吵,甚至顶撞领导。为了帮助这位同志摆脱“自暴自弃”的消极状态,×××主动地在工作上给予他指导和督促,在生活上给予关心和帮助,通过以身作则帮助他逐步树立“干一行、爱一行”的思想,这种以心交心、春风化雨般的真诚很快感动了这位同志,使他的工作态度有了彻底转变,重新找到了生活的坐标。就这样,×××的真诚和关爱化作一股凝聚力和感召力,将保卫科十多位同志的心紧紧连在一起,人人争先,乐于奉献也随之在全科上下蔚然成风。
心血、汗水、辛劳和热忱,终于为×××换来了一系列的荣誉:×××市新长征突击手、优秀共产党员、消防工作先进个人……那一张张奖状是他辛勤工作的结晶,那一本本证书是他创新求实的写照!这就是×××——安于平凡,耐得住寂寞,而又积极进取,乐于奉献。×××是平凡的,但谁又能否认,那样一份无私、一份奉献同样也是是一道亮丽而夺目的风景呢?
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哈佛大学是美国历史最悠久的高等学府,亦是常春藤盟校成员之一,也是北美最古老的法人机构,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些哈佛经典沟通,希望对大家有所帮助。
反思一下人们在沟通中面临的种种障碍,尤其是由于个人背景、经历和动机的差异而造成的沟通障碍,我们就会发觉,双方能克服障碍相互理解简直就是个奇迹。在老板与下属的沟通中,问题尤为突出。当人们的看法不同、设想不同,价值观也不同时,他们之间的沟通是如何进行的呢?
对于这一问题,有两种理论:一种理论认为,甲和乙沟通失败,是因为乙认为甲所说的话与事实不符、不真实,或者不正确,因此沟通的目的就是设法使乙同意甲所表达的意见或者观点,或者接受甲所提供的事实或者信息。
另一种理论则截然不同,它认为沟通失败的原因在于,乙担心甲不会接受自己的看法,所以不愿意向甲自由地表达自己的感受。只有当甲或乙,或者双方都愿意表达各自的观点,并接受对方的不同观点时,沟通才可以顺利进行。
为了说明这个问题,让我们假设某个叫比尔的员工正在老板的办公室里听训。老板说:“比尔,我认为这才是你完成工作的最好方法。”听到此话,比尔的回答是:“哦,是吗?”
根据第一种理论,这种回答是沟通失败的信号。比尔不知道什么是完成自己工作的最好方法。为了改进沟通效果,老板就有责任向比尔解释,为什么他的方法,而非比尔的方法,才是完成该项工作的最佳选择。
但是根据第二种理论,比尔的回答并不能表明沟通已经成功或者失败,它实际上是一种不确定的信息。但是老板可以利用这一机会了解比尔到底想说什么。假使老板确实决定这么做,他就会设法让比尔继续就自己的工作提出看法。
现在我们把代表第一种理论的老板叫做史密斯,把代表第二种理论的老板叫做琼斯。虽然环境相同,两人的做法却会有天壤之别。史密斯选择解释自己的想法;而琼斯选择倾听对方的想法。根据我的经验,琼斯的做法会产生更好的效果,因为就与比尔之间的沟通问题来看,她的认识要比史密斯更为准确。
“哦,是吗?”
史密斯认为,他明白比尔为什么要说“哦,是吗?”,所以也没有必要去查证自己的理解是否正确。他敢肯定,比尔不明白为什么他提出的方法是最好的,所以他必须向比尔解释清楚。
假设在这一解释过程中。史密斯确实逻辑缜密、思路清晰、表达准确,完美地阐释了各种事实和证据,但是,唉,比尔就是不相信。那么史密斯该怎么办昵?由于他事先已经假定,他和比尔之间的谈话完全是逻辑问题的推敲,因此,史密斯的结论只能是:他讲得还不够清楚,或者比尔太笨,根本听不懂他的话。二者必居其一。结果昵?他要么选择用更简单的语言,把自己的观点逐字逐句地再解释一遍,要么选择放弃。史密斯不是那种轻言放弃的人,因此他会继续解释下去。事情会如何发展昵?
史密斯越是无法让比尔理解他的意思,就越会感到失望和激动,他的逻辑思辩能力也因此受到了干扰。原本史密斯自认为是一个逻辑清晰、通情达理的人,但眼前的尴尬让他忍无可忍。因此,他更容易将比尔视为一个不愿合作,或者愚蠢之极的人。这种态度自然又会对史密斯的言行产生极大的影响。
在这些压力之下,史密斯越来越倾向于以自己的价值观来评价比尔,认为比尔无足轻重,从本质上否认比尔的独特性和差异性。其结果是,在史密斯眼中,比尔成了一个毫无主见、思维混乱的人。
我们可以说得再明确一些。史密斯并没有意识到自己产生了这些情绪。他激动地在信封背面胡乱划拉着,试图向比尔解释为什么他的方法才是最好的。确实,史密斯是在尽力帮助比尔,他并无恶意,只是想帮比尔纠正自己的想法。史密斯对自己及其行为的初衷就是这样看的,也正因为如此,比尔的回答“哦,是吗?”才让史密斯感到怒不可遏。
史密斯的态度是:“这家伙怎么这么笨!”而且不幸的是,比尔从他的言谈中听到的也正是这种态度,而不是他善意的初衷。比尔感觉自己并没有被理解。在他看来,史密斯不是要助他一臂之力,而是要摧毁他的尊严和人格。面对这种威胁,比尔会不顾一切地捍卫自己。由于他不像史密斯那样口齿伶俐,因此在表达这种愿望时,比尔又一次采用了“哦,是吗?”
史密斯和比尔之间这种不幸的纠缠发展到最后,不是比尔怒气冲冲地离开史密斯的办公室,就是史密斯把比尔赶出自己的办公室。现在让我们暂时先把他们的问题放在一边,看看琼斯将会如何与比尔进行沟通。
请记住,当比尔说“哦,是吗?”时,琼斯并不认为自己真的明白他的意思,因此她必须设法弄清楚他的真实想法。同时她认为,比尔的回答并没有完全表达出自己的观点或者感受。比尔想说明的可能不仅仅是一个观点,而是多个不同的观点。因此琼斯决定继续听下去。
在这一过程中,琼斯根本不认为她和比尔的对话是纯粹逻辑问题的探讨,事实上,她明白,这场对话从本质上看将是两种感受的互动。因此,她不但不会无视比尔的感受,反而会关注比尔的感觉对她的影响,或者她的感觉对比尔的影响。换句话说,她不会忽略她和比尔的关系,更不会认为这种关系对比尔在沟通中的想法和感受毫无影响。
因此,琼斯会非常关注那些被史密斯忽视的因素。她会周全地考虑到比尔的感受、自己的感受以及二者之间的互动。
所以,当琼斯说“比尔,我认为这才是你完成工作的最好方法”时,她会意识到,她的话可能会伤害比尔的感情。因此,她不是设法让比尔理解她的话,而是主动去理解比尔的想法。为此,她鼓励比尔实话实说。她并非告诉比尔他应该有何种感觉或者想法,而是会向比尔提出这样的问题:“你是这样想的吗?”“你是这样看的吗?”“你是这样假设的吗?”她不会把比尔的评判看成是无关的、无效的、不合理的或者是不正确的,而是会想方设法了解比尔所感受到的、所体会到的、所认可的事实。而当比尔开始开诚布公时,琼斯的好奇心也越来越强。
琼斯会想:“比尔并不是那么笨,他还是个蛮有意思的人嘛!”比尔无疑也将感受到这一信息,所以他会觉得自己的人格得到了理解,受到了尊重。这样一来,他会慢慢放下自己的戒备心理。而在这种思维状态下,他也能够更好地斟酌和反思自己的看法、感觉和假设。比尔开始毫无拘束地表达自己的不同观点。在此过程中,他认为琼斯会帮助他,能够尊重他的主张和意愿。对琼斯的好感也可能促使他鼓起勇气说:“琼斯,我不认为这是完成这项工作的最好方法,但是我会告诉你我将怎么做。我会按照你的方法试着做几天,然后再告诉你我的想法。”
我承认,在阐述上面提到的两种理论时,我可能还是在纸上谈兵,现实情况不会这么简单。首先,比尔可能会以其他方式回答史密斯的话。他甚至可能会说:“好的,老板,我同意您的意见,您的方法就是完成这项工作的最好方法。”但此时,史密斯可能依然无法了解比尔的真实感受,或者比尔是否真的会改变自己的工作方法。同样,比尔可能也会以不同的方式回应琼斯。
尽管琼斯抱着开放的态度,比尔可能依旧不愿意在老板面前表露自己的真实想法。尽管如此,这些例子还是可以作为我下结论的可靠依据:
史密斯的观点代表了沟通中的一种常见误解。误解的原因并非史密斯不善于表达自己的观点,而是因为他对两人的沟通做出了错误的评判。
史密斯对人际沟通过程的误解是基于以下常见的假设:(a)任何对话都是纯逻辑问题的探讨;(b)任何话语都只需从字面意思理解,与说话者没有任何关系;(c)沟通的目的就是让比尔从史密斯的角度来看待问题。
这些假设会引发一连串的错误认知和负面情绪,阻碍沟通的顺利进行。由于史密斯忽视比尔的感觉,而自以为处处有理,他忘记了自己和比尔的关系同样也是影响他们之间沟通的重要因素之一。结果,相比史密斯的逻辑说教,比尔对其言辞间流露的态度更为敏感。比尔觉得自己的独特性遭到了否定。面对这种威胁,他的戒备和攻击心理大大增强,这就让史密斯更为沮丧了。史密斯会认为比尔愚蠢之至,而此时他的言辞和举动则会进一步强化比尔的戒备心态。
琼斯的一系列假设则完全不同:(a)她与比尔之间的沟通是一种感性的互动;(b)真正表达思想的是比尔,而不是他所说的那些话语本身;(c)互动的目的是为比尔提供一个表达个人想法的机会。
这些假设所引发的心理反应是,它强化了某些积极的感情或看法,进而改善了比尔和琼斯之间的沟通。当琼斯从比尔的角度理解比尔的感觉和看法时,比尔会发觉自己被理解了,作为一个具有独立个性的人被接受了,于是他愿意自由地表达自己的不同观点。比尔把琼斯看成一个能帮助他的人,而琼斯则把比尔看成一个有趣的人。这样一来,比尔也更乐意与她合作了。
如果我所总结的这些常见人际沟通模式合情合理,那么我们就可以进而得到如下假说:
·琼斯的沟通方法胜过史密斯的方法,并非因为她会魔法,而是因为她对人际沟通过程有着更好的了解。
·实施琼斯的方法不仅仅需要智慧。琼斯必须有能力、有意愿去面对不同的观点,接受不同的观点,并在面对面的沟通中展示出这种意愿。这是情感与智慧共同作用的成果。它一部分源于琼斯对自身的了解,另一部分则源于技巧的训练。
·尽管大学教育试图教会学生至少在理智上欣赏不同的观点,却很少有人帮助他们把这种开明的思想运用到简单的面对面的关系中去。学生们被要求做到逻辑严密、表达清晰,但是没人教给他们倾听的技巧。因此,在受过教育的人群里,史密斯太多,琼斯太少。人与人之间的最大隔阂就在于他们不能明智、宽容、有技巧地倾听。这一问题在现代社会中无所不在,令人担忧。我们需要做出更大的努力,教会人们有效地沟通——从本质上说,也就是教会人们如何倾听。
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有口才的人说话具有“言之有物、言之有序、言之有理、言之有情”等特征,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些经典口才句子,希望对大家有所帮助。
1、第一要有志,第二要有识,第三要有恒。
2、尽人事以听天,吾唯日日谨慎而已。
3、须有宁拙毋巧之意,而后可以持久。
4、不深思则不能造于道。不深思而得者,其得易失。
5、以爱妻子之心事亲,则无往而不孝。以责人之心责己,则寡过。以恕己之心恕人,则全交。
6、轻财足以聚人,律己足以服人,量宽足以得人,身先足以率人。
7、惟正己可以化人,惟尽己可以服人。
8、遇诡诈人变幻百端,不可测度,吾一以至诚待之,彼术自穷。
9、处事速不如思,便不如当,用意不如平心。
10、人之处于患难,只有一个处置。尽人谋之后,却须泰然处之。
11、学而废者,不若不学而废者。学而废者恃学而有骄,骄必辱。不学而废者愧己而自卑,卑则全勇多于人谓之暴,才多于人谓之妖。
12、省事是清心之法,读书是省事之法。
13、功不独居,过不推诿。
14、智慧愈苦而愈明。
15、常常提其朝气为要。
16、天下事未有不由艰苦中来,而可大可久者也。
17、不可轻率评讥古人。
18、凡天下事,虑之贵,详行之贵,力谋之贵,众断之贵独。
19、今日所说之话,明日勿因小利害而变。
20、责己厚而责人薄耳。
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国王的演讲这部影片获得金球奖、美国制片人公会、导演公会和影视演员公会奖等多项提名和奖项。今天读文网小编给大家分享一些国王的演讲经典句子,希望对大家有所帮助。
1.King George VI: [Logue is sitting on the coronation throne] Get up! Y-you can't sit there! GET UP!
Lionel Logue: Why not? It's a chair.
King George VI: T-that... that is Saint Edward's chair. Lionel Logue: People have carved their names on it.
【罗格端坐在加冕典礼宝座上】
乔治六世:给我起来!你不能坐哪儿!快起来 莱诺·罗格:为啥不行?不就是一椅子么。
乔治六世:呐……那……那是圣爱德华的椅子。 莱诺·罗格:人家都随便刻了名字上去了。
2.Lionel Logue: Do you know any jokes?
King George VI: ...Timing isn't my strong suit.
【第一次看诊】 莱诺·罗格:你会说笑话么?
乔治六世:……掌控时间,不是我强项。
3.King George VI: L-listen to me... listen to me!
Lionel Logue: Why should I waste my time listening to you? King George VI: Because I have a voice! Lionel Logue: ...yes, you do.
【两个人的争执】
乔治六世:听……听我说……听我说! 莱诺·罗格:凭啥我要浪费时间听你说话? 乔治六世:就因为我说的话举足轻重。 莱诺·罗格:……没错,的确如此。
4.Stanley Baldwin: Your greatest test... is yet to come!
【首相辞职】 斯坦利·鲍德温:你最大的考验……即将到来。
5.Queen Elizabeth: My husband's work involves a great deal of public speaking. Lionel Logue: Then he should change jobs. Queen Elizabeth: He can't.
Lionel Logue: What is he, an indentured servant? Queen Elizabeth: Something like that.
【伊丽莎白王后第一次匿名登门造访罗格】
伊丽莎白王后:我丈夫的工作涉及大量公众演说。 莱诺·罗格:还是换个工作比较靠谱。 伊丽莎白王后:能换早换了。 莱诺·罗格:难不成是个受人摆布的奴仆? 伊丽莎白王后:也差不多啦。
6.Logue: What was your earliest memory?
King George VI: I'm not... -here to discuss... -personal matters. Lionel Logue: Why are you here then?
King George VI: Because I bloody well stammer!
【依旧是第一次看诊】 莱诺·罗格:你最早的记忆是什么?
乔治六世:我不是……到这里来讨论……个人隐私的。 莱诺·罗格:那你干嘛到这里来?
乔治六世:因为我口吃得要死行了吧。
7.Lilibet: What's he saying? [watching a clip of Hitler speaking]
King George VI: I don't know but... he seems to be saying it rather well.
【看希特勒的演说影像】 伊丽伯特:他在说什么?
乔治六世:我不知道,不过……貌似说得很有煽动力。
8.Myrtle Logue: Will their Majesties be staying for dinner?
Queen Elizabeth: We would love to, such a treat, but alas... a previous engagement. What a pity.
【罗格太太提前回家,撞到了国王和王后陛下】 梅顿·罗格:敢问陛下是否留下共进晚餐?
伊丽莎白王后:我们很乐意,盛情难却,不过……早有安排在先。甚为遗憾。
9.King George VI: If I am King, where is my power? Can I declare war? Form a government? Levy a tax? No! And yet I am the seat of all authority because they think that when I speak, I speak for them.But I can't speak.
【宣战演说之前】 乔治六世:如果我是国王,我的权力又在哪里?我能宣战么?我能组建政府?提高税收?都不行!可我还是要出面坐头把交椅,就因为整个国家都相信…我的声音代表着他们。但我却说不来。
10.King Edward VIII: Sorry, I've been terribly busy. King George VI: Doing what? King Edward VIII: Kinging.
【王室兄弟之间的争论】
爱德华八世:不好意思啊,最近超忙。 乔治六世:忙着干嘛?
爱德华八世:忙着当国王呗。
11.[As King George is lighting a cigarette] Lionel Logue: Please don't do that. King George VI: I'm sorry?
Lionel Logue: I believe sucking smoke into your lungs will kill you. King George VI: My physicians say it relaxes the throat. Lionel Logue: They're idiots.
King George VI: They've all been knighted. Lionel Logue: Makes it official then.
【罗格禁止国王抽烟】 莱诺·罗格:请不要那样做。 乔治六世:啥? 莱诺·罗格:抽烟吸到肺里相当于自杀。 乔治六世:我的医生说那样会放松喉部。 莱诺·罗格:他们是白痴。
乔治六世:他们都被授了爵位了。 莱诺·罗格:那就是官方白痴咯。
12.[Talking to Churchill about the influence that Wallis Simpson seems to have on Edward VIII]
Queen Elizabeth: Apparently she has certain skills - acquired at an establishment in Shanghai.
【同丘吉尔说起辛普森太太到底是怎么吸引住爱德华八世的】
伊丽莎白王后:显然她有她独到的……手段咯,想来是在上海练成的。
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练就好口才只能多花时间坚持,很多事情贵在坚持,下面读文网小编整理了口才训练经典句子,供你阅读参考。
1、尊严这个东西,其实是和欲望成反比的,你想得到一个东西,就会变得低三下四,死皮赖脸,而当你对眼前这个人,这件事无动于衷的时候,尊严就会在你心中拔地而起。
2、有些姑娘美丽而有才华,但总觉得,自己最好的一面,只应被所爱的人看到。所以她们总是坐在转角处,等待着爱人的经过。没有绚烂外表。这些爱坐在转角处的姑娘,也许是最勇敢。
3、有些话你可以不说,但是绝对不要撒谎,因为你的谎话一旦被我识破,我对你的信任该如何坚持?以后的以后,其实,我只是怕自己不相信你。
4、有些人善于跟别人相处,有些人善于跟自己相处,不必互相评价。能忍受孤独的,不会羡慕那些热闹的人际关系;拥有热闹人际关系的,也未必会羡慕独处的耐力,无所谓好坏。
5、人就像在爬高,你要看得远,你必须格局高;你要看到更美的风景,你就需要占上有利的位置。其实,最重要的是有谁陪伴,和每时每刻看风景的心情。
6、再唯美的爱情也掺杂着悲伤,再凄美的故事也有结局,世事何求完美。
7、再烦,也别忘微笑;再急,也要注意语气;再苦,也别忘坚持;再累,也要爱自己
8、有一个人,远近不是距离,举手投足皆波澜,咫尺天涯常相忆。在你心底某个角落,会时常被这个名字牵动,有时如江河汹涌,有时似涧溪淙淙。他让你拥有曼妙的回忆。
9、永远不要说这个世界上再也没有好男人了,或许明天,你就会遇到爱你的那个男人,在你眼里,他再坏也是好。其实,分手之后没必要记恨,更没必要自暴自弃。爱情不属于固定的两个人,而是合适的两个人。
10、一直想做个安静的行者,在最深的红尘里守着自己,守住最初的萌动和欣喜。
11、人生三大遗憾:不会选择;不坚持选择;不断地选择。
12、在过去的某一天,你遇到了一个人,他的出现教会了你什么叫做幸福,什么叫做安心,他的出现让你体会到什么叫做无忧无虑。在过去的某一天,有一个人在你耳边说我爱你,他会告诉你说,什么都不要想,一切都有我。
13、在人们的存折里,不管有多少个0,健康永远是前面那个1,没有那个1,后面有多少0都是没有意义的。
14、只要我遇到生命中的那个公主,我将有永不停止的动力,我的生活天天积极向上,充满阳光,我会为她改变,为她付出,充满上进心,为她拼搏事业,从此人生焕然一新。
15、最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质,而是陪伴在你身边的人。不能强迫别人来爱自己,只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人,其余的事情则靠缘分。
16、最远的旅行,是从自己的身体到自己的心,是从一个人的心到另一个人的心。
17、如果你想同时坐在两把椅子上,你可能会从椅子中间掉下去,生活要求你只能选一把椅子坐上去。
18、如果我还是你今生唯一爱的那个人,我一定会好好珍惜我们的缘分。
19、如果想照耀万人,请加点信心。如果想抱住情人,请吸取教训。如果想快乐做人,请敲敲你心。如果可磊落做人,你会更吸引。
20、若能一切随他去,便是世间自在人。人生一辈子,有时想想,还真是除了生死,什么都是闲事。没有一样是你带来的,也没有一样是你能带走的,来这世上颠一回,一切的拥有只不过是借来的,总有一天必须连本带利还回去。
21、世界上最富有的人,是跌倒最多的人。世界上最勇敢的人,是每次跌倒都能爬起来的人。
22、世上找不出两个完全相同的人。生得再平凡,也是限量版。别瞧不起自己。不论是否创造过巨额价值,爱你的人眼里,你都是奢侈品。要对得起自己。不论周围人如何的眼含轻蔑,都不该妨碍你冷艳高傲的活着。你很贵,要活得珍贵。
23、所谓生活质量,简单地理解就是找到一个最适合自己的环境,如鱼得水,如鸟在林。
24、太多的自由,便成了放纵;太多的约束,便成了禁锢。
25、天真的人,不代表没有见过世界的黑暗,恰恰因为见到过,才知道天真的好。
26、问奶奶,是什么让他们维护一份感情长达60年?奶奶说,那个年代什么东西坏了都会想要修,现在什么坏了都想着换。
27、我不是天使,但我拥有天堂;我没有翅膀,但我俯视阳光;我没有三叶草,但我手捧希望。因为我有你,我的朋友。
28、我宁愿我们像平行线,而不是交叉线。平行线至少能向同一个方向前进,至少一路有你相陪,我不会寂寞。可是交叉线确是越来越远,越来越远,从此再也不见。你要我如何能接受,再也见不到你的时光。
29、人生的许多寻找,不在于千山万水,而在于咫尺之间。一念起,天涯咫尺;一念灭,咫尺天涯。
30、人生就像一场梦,所有理由是假的,姿态是假的,需要才是真的。
31、我喜欢过你是因为我瞎了,你不懂珍惜是因为你瞎了,不过我现在康复了,而你还在瞎着。
32、我在等一个人,一个可以陪我听遍所有悲伤情歌,却不会让我想哭的人。
33、握不住的流沙,勉强别去牵挂。如果你懂我,定会留下并排走过的雪花。
34、心中有爱的人,会散发正能量,爱的超声波,就是你的召集令,有人正向着你寻声而来。
35、要确定自己是否喜欢一个人其实很简单:就是靠近她的时候,你想吻她。
36、一个年轻人问一个得道的老者:“智慧哪里来?”智者说:“精确的判断力。”年轻人又问:“精确的判断力哪里来?”智者说:“经验。”年轻人再问:“经验哪里来?”智者说:“错误的判断。”
37、人们宁愿去关心一个蹩脚电影演员的吃喝拉撒和鸡毛蒜皮,而不愿了解一个普通人波涛汹涌的内心世界。
38、年轻气盛的时候如果被人欺负了,总会恨恨地想以后一定要混出个名堂来,好让人刮目相看。可当真有这么一天的时候,却又想不起去恨了。原来真正的强大是宽容的,不是原谅别人,而是放过自己。
39、你越优秀,世界对你越苛刻。庸人犯了千百次错,都可以得到原谅,但是真正的精英,却经不起偶尔一次的闪失。
40、不闻不问不一定是忘记了,但一定是疏远了,彼此沉默太久就连主动都需要勇气。
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良好的口才是工作的敲门砖,能让你在办公室有良好的人际关系,推动你的事业发展,下面读文网小编整理了训练口才的经典句子,供你阅读参考。
1. 永远不要说这个世界上再也没有好男人了,或许明天,你就会遇到爱你的那个男人,在你眼里,他再坏也是好。其实,分手之后没必要记恨,更没必要自暴自弃。爱情不属于固定的两个人,而是合适的两个人。一直想做个安静的行者,在最深的红尘里守着自己,守住最初的萌动和欣喜。人生三大遗憾:不会选择;不坚持选择;不断地选择。在过去的某一天,你遇到了一个人,他的出现教会了你什么叫做幸福,什么叫做安心,他的出现让你体会到什么叫做无忧无虑。在过去的某一天,有一个人在你耳边说我爱你,他会告诉你说,什么都不要想,一切都有我。
2. 在人们的存折里,不管有多少个,健康永远是前面那个,没有那个,后面有多少都是没有意义的。只要我遇到生命中的那个公主,我将有永不停止的动力,我的生活天天积极向上,充满阳光,我会为她改变,为她付出,充满上进心,为她拼搏事业,从此人生焕然一新。最宝贵的东西不是你拥有的物质,而是陪伴在你身边的人。不能强迫别人来爱自己,只能努力让自己成为值得爱的人,其余的事情则靠缘分。最远的旅行,是从自己的身体到自己的心,是从一个人的心到另一个人的心。如果你想同时坐在两把椅子上,你可能会从椅子中间掉下去,生活要求你只能选一把椅子坐上去。
3. 如果我还是你今生唯一爱的那个人,我一定会好好珍惜我们的缘分。如果想照耀万人,请加点信心。如果想抱住情人,请吸取教训。如果想快乐做人,请敲敲你心。如果可磊落做人,你会更吸引。我宁愿我们像平行线,而不是交叉线。平行线至少能向同一个方向前进,至少一路有你相陪,我不会寂寞。可是交叉线确是越来越远,越来越远,从此再也不见。你要我如何能接受,再也见不到你的时光。人生的许多寻找,不在于千山万水,而在于咫尺之间。一念起,天涯咫尺;一念灭,咫尺天涯。人生就像一场梦,所有理由是假的,姿态是假的,需要才是真的。
4. 我喜欢过你是因为我瞎了,你不懂珍惜是因为你瞎了,不过我现在康复了,而你还在瞎着。出类拔萃不见得就是出人头地,但在某种意义上讲,一个有追求的人,就是出类拔萃的人。单身并不意味着脆弱,它意味着你足够坚强,去等待那个你值得拥有的人。当你是快乐时,悲伤便在一旁窥视;而当你是痛苦时,那随之而来的就是欢乐。到了最后,你会发觉,每一样都配得好好的,每一种痛苦与快乐,每一样你所得到的和失去的,好的与坏的,到了最后,你终会发现都是一样的。
5. 当你只渴望一种舒适的感情,这就是恋爱不幸的源头。真正的爱情里,或许辛苦更多于舒适。磨合体谅包容,每一样都是累活。磨难是为了让爱情长得更结实,也最容易让人半途而废。
6.很多人在感情中疲累不已,因此开始怀疑爱错了人。不,恰恰这才是爱情的真面目。繁华尽处,寻一无人山谷,建一木制小屋,铺一青石小路,与你晨钟暮鼓,安之若素。放下你的浮躁,放下你的懒惰,放下你的三分钟热度,放空你禁不住诱惑的大脑,放开你容易被任何事物吸引的眼睛,放淡你什么都想聊两句八卦的嘴巴,静下心来好好做你该做的事,该好好努力了!
7、心中有爱的人,会散发正能量,爱的超声波,就是你的召集令,有人正向着你寻声而来。8、要确定自己是否喜欢一个人其实很简单:就是靠近她的时候,你想吻她。
10. 请你用慈悲心和温和的态度,把你的不满与委屈说出来,别人就容易接受。
11. 创造机会的人是勇者。等待机会的人是愚者。
12. 能说不能做,不是真智慧。
13. 多用心去倾听别人怎么说,不要急着表达你自己的看法。
14. 同样的瓶子,你为什么要装毒药呢?同样的心理,你为什么要充满着烦恼呢?
15. 得不到的东西,我们会一直以为他是美好的,那是因为你对他了解太少,没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天,你深入了解后,你会发现原不是你想像中的那么美好。
16. 这个世间只有圆滑,没有圆满的。
17.活着一天,就是有福气,就该珍惜。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候,我发现有人却没有脚。
18. 多一分心力去注意别人,就少一分心力反省自己,你懂吗?
19. 欲知世上刀兵劫,但听屠门夜半声。不要光埋怨自己多病,灾祸横生,多看看横死在你刀下的众生又有多少?
20. 憎恨别人对自己是一种很大的损失。
21. 每一个人都拥有生命,但并非每个人都懂得生命,乃至于珍惜生命。不了解生命的人,生命对他来说,是一种惩罚。
22. 自以为拥有财富的人,其实是被财富所拥有。
23.情执是苦恼的原因,放下情执,你才能得到自在。
24. 随缘不是得过且过,因循苟且,而是尽人事听天命。
25. 不要太肯定自己的看法,这样子比较少后悔。
26. 当你对自己诚实的时候,世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。
27. 用伤害别人的手段来掩饰自己缺点的人,是可耻的。
28. 内心充满忌妒,心中不坦白,言语不正的人,不能算是一位五官端正的人。
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