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关于这场演讲:James Cameron的大笔预算(票房更庞大)的电影创造出想象的世界。在这个演讲中,他揭露了自己从小就喜欢奇幻体验的背景:阅读科幻小说,深海潜水,以及这一切如何转变成成功的巨片如《异形二》、《终结者》、《泰坦尼克号》与《阿凡达》。
I grew up on a steady diet of science fiction. In high school I took a bus to school an hour each way every day. And I was always absorbed in a book, science fiction book, which took my mind to other worlds, and satisfied, in a narrative form, this insatiable sense of curiosity that I had.
And you know that curiosity also manifested itself in the fact that whenever I wasn’t in school I was out in the woods, hiking and taking “samples”——frogs and snakes and bugs, and bringing them back, looking at them under the microscope. You know, I was a real science geek. But it was all about trying to understand the world, understand the limits of possibility.
And my love of science fiction actually seemed to mirrored in the world around me, because what was happening, this was in the late’ 60s, we were going to the moon, we were exploring the deep oceans. Jacques Cousteau was coming into our living rooms with his amazing specials that showed us animals and places and a wondrous world that we could never really have previously imagined. So, that seemed to resonate with the whole science fiction part of it.
And I was an artist. I could draw. I could paint. And I found that because there weren’t video games and this saturation of CG movies and all of this imagery in the media landscape, I had to create these images in my head. You know, we all did, as kids having to read a book, and through the author’s description put something on the movie screen in our heads. And so, my response to this was to paint, to draw alien creatures,alien worlds, robots, spaceships, all that stuff. I was endlessly getting busted in math class doodling behind the textbook. That was, the creativity had to find its outlet somehow.
And an interesting thing happened——Jacques Cousteau shows actually got me very excited about the fact that there was an alien world right here on Earth. I might not really go to an alien world on a spaceship someday. That seemed pretty darn unlikely. But that was a world I could really go to, right here on Earth, that was as rich and exotic as anything that I had imagined from reading these books.
So, I decided I was going to become an exotic scuba diver at the age of 15. And the only problem with that was that I lived in a little village in Canada, 600 miles from the nearest ocean. But I didn’t let that daunt me. I pestered my father until he finally found a scuba class in Buffalo, New York, right across the border from where we live. And I actually got certified in a pool in a YMCA in the dead of winter in Buffalo, New York. And I didn’t see the ocean, a real ocean, for another two years, until we moved to California.
Since then, in the intervening 40 years, I’ve spent about 3,000 hours underwater, And 500 hours of that were in submersibles. And I’ve learned that deep ocean environment, and even the shallow ocean, is so rich with amazing life that really is beyond our imagination. Nature’s imagination is so boundless compared to our own meager human imagination. I still, to this day, stand in absolute awe of what I see when I make these dives. And my love affair with the ocean is ongoing, and just as strong as it ever was.
But, when I chose a career, as an adult, it was film making. And that seemed to be the best way to reconcile this urge I had to tell stories, with my urges to create images. And I was, as a kid, constantly drawing comic books, and so on. So, film making was the way to put pictures and stories together. And that made sense. And of course the stories that I chose to tell were science fiction stories: Terminator, Aliens and The Abyss. And with The Abyss, I was putting together my love of underwater and diving, with film making. So, you know, merging the two passions.
Something interesting came out of The Abyss, which was that to solve a specific narrative problem on that film, which was to create this kind of liquid water creature, we actually embraced computer generated animation, CG. And this resulted in the first soft-surface character, CG animation that was ever in a movie. And even though the film didn’t make any money, barely broke even, I should say, I witnessed something amazing, which is that the audience, the global audience, was mesmerized by this apparent magic.
You know, it’s Arthur Clarke’s law that any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic. They were seeing something magical. And so that got me very excited. And I thought, “Wow, this is something that needs to be embraced into the cinematic art.” So, with Terminator 2, which was my next film, we took that much farther. Working with ILM, we created the liquid metal dude in that film. The success hung in the balance on whether that effect would work. And it did. And we created magic again. And we had the same result with an audience. Although we did make a little more money on that one.
So, drawing a line through those two dots of experience, came to, this is going to be a whole new world, this was a whole new world of creativity for film artists. So, I started a company with Stan Winston, my good friend Stan Winston, who is the premier make-up and creature designer at that time, and it was called Digital Domain. And the concept of the company was that we would leap-frog past the analog processes of optical printers and so on, and we would go right to digital production. And we actually did that and it gave us a competitive advantage for a while.
But we found ourselves lagging in the mid’90s in the creature and character design stuff that we had actually founded the company to do. So, I wrote this piece called Avatar, which was meant to absolutely push the envelope of visual effects, of CG effects, beyond, with realistic human emotive characters generated in CG, and the main characters would all be in CG, and the world would be in CG. And the envelope pushed back. And I was told by the folks at my company that we weren’t going to be able to do this for a while.
So, I shelved it, and I made this other movie about a big ship that sinks. You know, I went and pitched it to the studio as Romeo and Juliet on a ship. It’s going to be this epic romance, passionate film. Secretly, what I wanted to do was I wanted to dive to the real wreck of “Titanic”. And that’s why I made the movie. And that’s the truth. Now, the studio didn’t know that. But I convinced them. I said, “We’re going to dive to the wreck. We’re going to film it for real. We’ll be using it in the opening of the film. It will be really important. It will be a great marketing hook.” And I talked them into funding an expedition.
Sounds crazy. But this goes back to that theme about your imagination creating a reality. Because we actually created a reality where six months later I find myself in a Russian submersible two and a half miles down in the north Atlantic, looking at the real “Titanic” through a view port, not a movie, not HD, for real.
Now, that blew my mind. And it took a lot of preparation, we had to build cameras and lights and all kinds of things. But, it struck me how much this dive, these deep dives was like a space mission. Where it was highly technical, and it required enormous planning. You get in this capsule, you go down to this dark hostile environment where there is no hope of rescue if you can’t get back by yourself. And I thought like, “Wow. I am like living in a science fiction movie. This is really cool.”
And so, I really got bitten by the bug of deep ocean exploration. Of course, the curiosity, the science component of it. It was everything. It was adventure. It was curiosity. It was imagination. And it was an experience that Hollywood couldn’t give me. Because, I could imagine a creature and we could create a visual effect for it. But I couldn’t imagine what I was seeing out that window. As we did some of our subsequent expeditions I was seeing creatures at hydrothermal vents and sometimes things that I had never seen before, sometimes things that no one had seen before, that actually were not described by science at the time that we saw them and imaged them.
So, I was completely smitten by this, and had to do more. And so, I actually made a kind of curious decision. After the success of Titanic, I said, “Okay, I’m going to park my day job as a Hollywood movie maker, and I’m going to go be a full time explorer for a while.” And so, we started planning these expeditions. And we wound up going to the Bismark, and exploring it with robotic vehicles. We went back to the “Titanic” wreck. We took little bots that we had created that spoolled a fiber optic. And the idea was to go in and do an interior survey of that ship, which had never been done. Nobody had ever looked inside the wreck. They didn’t have the means to do it, so we created technology to do it.
So, you know, here I am now, on the deck of “Titanic”, sitting in a submersible, and looking out at planks that look much like this, where I knew that the band had played. And I’m flying a little robotic vehicle through the corridor of the ship. When I say, I’m operating it, but my mind is in the vehicle. I felt like I was physically present inside the shipwreck of “Titanic”. And it was the most surreal kind of deja vu experience I’ve ever had, because I would know before I turned a corner what was going to be there before the lights of the vehicle actually revealed it, because I had walked the set for months when we were making the movie. And the set was based as an exact replica on the blueprints of the ship.
So, it was this absolutely remarkable experience. And it really made me realize that the telepresense experience that you actually can have these robotic avatars, then your consciousness is injected into the vehicle, into this other form of existence. It was really really quite profound. And may be a little bit of a glimpse as to what might be happening some decades out as we start to have cyborg bodies for exploration or for other means in many sort of post-human futures that I can imagine, as a science fiction fan.
So, having done these expeditions, and really beginning to appreciate what was down there, such as at the deep ocean vents where we had these amazing animals. They are basically aliens right here on Earth. They live in an environment of chemosynthesis. They don’t survive on sunlight based system the way we do. And so, you’re seeing animals that are living next to a 500 degree Centigrade water plumes. You think they can’t possibly exist.
At the same time I was getting very interested in space science as well, again, it’s the science fiction influence, as a kid. And I wound up getting involved with the space community, really involved with NASA, sitting on the NASA advisory board, planning actual space missions, going to Russia, going to the pre-cosmonaut biomedical protocols, and all these sorts of things, to actually go and fly to the international space station with our 3D camera systems. And this was fascinating. But what I wound up doing was bringing space scientists with us into the deep. And taking them down so that they had access astrobiologists, planetary scientists, people who were interested in these extreme environments, taking them down to the vents, and letting them see, and take samples and test instruments, and so on.
So, here we were making documentary films, but actually doing science, and actually doing space science. I’d completely closed the loop between being the science fiction fan, as a kid, and doing this stuff for real. And you know, along the way in this journey of discovery, I learned a lot. I learned a lot about science. But I also learned a lot about leadership. Now you think director has got to be a leader, leader of, captain of the ship, and all that sort of thing.
I didn’t really learn about leadership until I did these expeditions. Because I had to, at a certain point, say, “What am I doing out here? Why am I doing this? What do I get out of it?” We don’t make money at these damn shows. We barely break even. There is no fame in it. People sort of think I went away between Titanic and Avatar and was buffing my nails someplace, sitting at the beach. Made all these films, made all these documentary films for a very limited audience.
No fame, no glory, no money. What are you doing? You’re doing it for the task itself, for the challenge —— and the ocean is the most challenging environment there is, for the thrill of discovery, and for that strange bond that happens when a small group of people form a tightly knit team. Because we would do these things with 10-12 people working for years at a time. Sometimes at sea for 2-3 months at a time.
And in that bond, you realize that the most important thing is the respect that you have for them and that they have for you, that you’ve done a task that you can’t explain to someone else. When you come back to the shore and you say, “We had to do this, and the fiber optic, and the attentuation, and the this and that, all the technology of it, and the difficulty, the human performance aspects of working at sea, you can’t explain it to people. It’s that thing that maybe cops have, or people in combat that have gone through something together and they know they can never explain it. Creates a bond, creates a bond of respect.
So, when I came back to make my next movie, which was Avatar, I tried to apply that same principle of leadership which is that you respect your team, and you earn their respect in return. And it really changed the dynamic. So, here I was again with a small team, in uncharted territory doing Avatar, coming up with new technology that didn’t exist before. Tremendously exciting. Tremendously challenging. And we became a family, over a four and half year period. And it completely changed how I do movies. So, people have commented on how, well, you brought back the ocean organisms and put them on the planet of Pandora. To me it was more of a fundamental way of doing business, the process itself, that changed as a result of that.
So, what can we synthesize out of all this? You know, what are the lessons learned? Well, I think number one is curiosity. It’s the most powerful thing you own. Imagination is a force that can actually manifest a reality. And the respect of your team is more important than all the laurels in the world. I have young film makers come up to me and say, “Give me some advice for doing this.” And I say, “Don’t put limitations on yourself. Other people will do that for you, don’t do it to yourself, and don’t bet against yourself. And take risks.”
NASA has this phrase that they like: “Failure is not an option.” But failure has to be an option in art and in exploration, because it’s a leap of faith. And no important endeavor that required innovation was done without risk. You have to be willing to take those risks. So, that’s the thought I would leave you with, is that in whatever you’re doing, failure is an option, but fear is not. Thank you.
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詹姆斯•卡梅隆
TED大会上的演讲
2010年2月
在我成长过程中,科幻小说一直是我的精神食粮。高中时我每天搭巴士上下学,单程要一小时。坐公车时,我总是沉浸在科幻小说里,仿佛被带入另一个世界,书中讲述的一个个故事极大地满足了我无休无止的好奇心。
事实上,在课余时间,我常常在好奇心的驱使下,去徒步旅行,钻进树林去采集“标本”——青蛙、蛇、昆虫之类,把它们带回家,放在显微镜下观察。我是个真正的科学怪人,总是想尽可能的去了解这个世界,去揭示它可能存在的极限。
我非常热爱科幻小说,因为它们似乎就是现实的写照,书中的一切都确实发生在我们身边,60年代末期,人类登上了月球,探索了深海。电影摄影师雅克.格斯特让我们在电视上看到了神奇的海洋生物,向人类展示了从未想象到的动物,竟和奇妙的水下世界。这似乎与科幻小说中的构想遥相呼应。
我还是个画家,能绘画,能创作。那时的我接触不到电视游戏,缺乏登峰造极的CG电影技术,连多媒体领域的素材库都没有,所以我不得不在脑海中臆造这些形象。就像孩子们读书时会想象书中的场景那样,我们读小说时,作者所描绘的影像就会脑海中不断放映。这些影像一出现,我就会把它们画下来,于是我开始画外星人、外星世界、机器人、宇宙飞船等等。老师不止一次在数学课上逮到我在课本后面乱涂乱画,因为我得给我的想象力开启一扇让其肆意奔涌的闸门。
然而一件有趣的事——雅克.格斯特的电视节目的播出,着实让我兴奋不已,我相信地球上就存在一个外星世界。虽然我可能永远无法进入这个世界,因为这确实不现实。但是我能游历水下世界,它就在地球上,富饶又充满异星情调,就像我读了科幻小说后所幻想的那样。
所以15岁时,我决定成为一个潜水员,去探索神秘的海洋。唯一的问题是,我生活在加拿大的一个小山村,距离最近的海也有600英里。但我没有因此气馁,而是缠着父亲,而是缠着父亲,直到他同意让我参加在边境纽约州布法罗市——需要从我家穿过美加国界线——的一个潜水培训班。于是在一个寒冬,我在布法罗基督教青年会的一个泳池里获得了潜水证书。然而,直到两年后,我们全家搬到了加利福尼亚,我才见到了真正的大海,进行真正的潜水。
从那时算起到现在的40年间,我在海底潜水共约3000小时,其中500小时是在潜水艇里度过的。无论是深海还是浅海环境,大海都丰富多彩,充满奥秘,超乎我们想象。比起人类的想象力,自然的想象力更加浩瀚。直到今天,每次下潜时,我仍旧对眼中的海洋世界充满敬畏,而我与大海的不解情缘仍在延续着,上演着。
但成年后,我并没有以潜水为职业,而是选择了电影摄制作为自己的事业。孩提时,我就喜欢画漫画,画很多东西。我喜欢讲故事,画图画,而要把它们结合起来,电影摄制是再合适不过的工作了。电影摄制将图片和故事有机结合,并赋予它们更深刻的意义。当然,我选来拍成电影的都是科幻故事,比如《终结者》、《异型》、《深渊》。 拍摄《深渊》时,我把自己对水下世界的爱、对潜水活动的爱融入其中,把对这两件事的激情融合到了一起。
拍摄《深渊》时,又出现了些有趣的事:我们要塑造一个水状的生物,为了解决这一特效上的问题,我们使用了“计算机生成动画”技术,即CG。电影史上第一个软表面的电脑绘制形象在此技术下诞生了。虽然这部电影没让公司赚到一分钱,还差点亏本,我还是得说,我看到了令人惊奇的一幕,全世界的观众都为这种像魔法一般的新技术神魂颠倒。
根据亚瑟•克拉克定律——任何非常先进的技术,初看都与魔法无异。很多观众都像是看到了神奇的魔法。这让我非常兴奋。我想CG技术也应该用到电影艺术中去。所以,在下一部电影《终结者2》中,我们把这种技术又推进了一步。和工业光魔特效制作公司一起,创造了一个液态金属人。这部电影能否大放异彩就要看特效了。事实证明,特效不负众望。我们又一次施展了魔法,观众们依旧为之疯狂。尽管这部电影还是没让我们没赚到什么钱。
这两次经历是一条分界线,对电影大师们来说,这意味着一个全新的、充满想象与创造的世界即将诞生。于是我和好友斯坦•温斯顿——拍摄前几部电影时的首席特效化妆和角色设计师——创立了“数字领域”公司。这个名字意味着,我们要跳过光学影印模拟制作过程直接进入数字电影制作。实际上,我们也确实是这么做的,这使得我们在一段时间内有了一定的竞争优势。
虽然我们确实已经组建了公司进行造型设计,但在90年代中期,我发现我们有些落后了。 我写了《阿凡达》这部电影,想要以此大力推动视觉效果和CG效果,用CG生成具有真实人类情感的角色,完全用CG诠释主要角色和世界。但这电影不得不延期拍摄,因为公司员工告诉我,我们一时半会还没有能力做到这点。
于是我把《阿凡达》搁到一边,转而制作了另一部电影,这部电影主要描述了一艘巨轮——“泰坦尼克号”——的沉没。 我告诉电影制片方,我把它定位为巨轮上的《罗密欧与朱丽叶》,一部关于爱情的电影,就像罗密欧与朱丽叶的故事一样凄美动人。而实际是因为我想潜入海底寻找真正的“泰坦尼克号”的残骸,所以我才要做这部电影。但制片方并不知道这一真相。为说服他们,我说:“我们要潜入海底,寻找真正的“泰坦尼克号”,这样可以拍摄真实的画面。如果把这个片段用在首映式上,会引起很大的轰动,也会有良好的市场反响的。”我真的说服了制片方组建了一支探险队呢。
虽然这听起来有些疯狂,但这就回到了“想象创造现实”的主题。因为我们确实创造了现实,6个月后,我乘一艘俄罗斯潜艇,在北大西洋2.5英里深的水下,从观察舱里看到了真实的“泰坦尼克号”,不是电影里的,也不是高清屏幕上的,而是真实的“泰坦尼克号”。
《泰坦尼克号》的拍摄着实让我兴奋。我们做了很多准备工作,搭建相机、设置灯光及各种设备。但令我震惊的是,这次深海拍摄就像是一次太空任务,需要尖端的科技和周全的计划。我乘坐潜水艇潜入深海,那里漆黑又充满危险,如果无法靠自己返回水面,其他人也无法开展营救工作。我想:“这就像生活在科幻电影中似的,真是太酷了。”
不过,我真的热衷于海底探险。当然,探求科学的那种好奇心才是最重要的,科学需要冒险,需要好奇心,也需要想象力。只是在好莱坞拍电影是无法体验到这些经历的。我能够想象出一个生物并为它创造出视觉效果。但是透过潜艇窗户看到的那些生物,这是我永远想象不到的。在随后的探险中,我在深海热泉里看到了一些无人见过、无人知晓的生物,实际上,我们看到它们并拍下照片时,它们还没有科学记载。
这一切让我感到非常震撼,我必须做的更多。为了满足自己的好奇心,我做了一个决定。 在《泰坦尼克号》成功后,我决定暂别好莱坞导演这一主业,做一段时间全职探险家。于是我们开始计划一些探险,一行人兴致勃勃的去了俾斯麦海域,在自动探测车帮助下,对这一海域展开了探索。然后我们重回“泰坦尼克号”的残骸We took little bots that we had created that spooled a fiber optic.我们决定进到“泰坦尼克号”内部做一次内部调查,这是史无前例的,从没有人看过沉船内部,因为他们无计可施,然而我们想出了办法。
我坐在潜水艇里,到了“泰坦尼克号”的甲板上,看着这些厚木板,感觉这里很像当年船上的乐队演奏的地方。我操控着自动探测仪在穿廊间穿梭,操作仪器时,我的思想像是跟着它走了。我感觉我自己真的到了泰坦尼克号,这艘遇难船的内部。这种似曾相识的感觉像梦一样,从未有过。假如我想转弯,没等探测器的灯光照到那,我就能知道接下来会看到什么。这是因为还在拍电影的时候,我就在“泰坦尼克号”的模型上工作了数月,而那个模型恰恰是根据它的设计图制作的精确复制品。
这是一次不同寻常的体验。这次远程控制的经历让我清楚的认识到,我们可以把自己的意识注入这些机器化身中,它们是另一种形式上的生命存在。这种体验意义重大。如管中窥豹,可见未来一斑,或许我们马上就能用机器生命体进行科学探索,或者为未来的人类做各种事情,只要是我这个科幻小说迷能想到的。
在这些探险之后,我开始真正欣赏那些海底生物,比如我们在深海热泉所见到的那些神奇生物。这些生物虽生活在地球上,但基本可以称为外星生物。它们生活在一个化学合成的环境中。它们无法像我们一样在太阳为生命基础的体系下生存。在海底,还能看到生活在500摄氏度水汽下的动物。你无法相信它们能在那生存。
与此同时,因为从小受科幻小说影响,我对太空科学也非常有兴趣。我迫不及待的加入了空间社,真正参与到NASA中,同咨询委员会一起,策划真实的太空任务,我们前往俄罗斯,参加前天体生物医学会的研讨等等诸如此类的任务,让宇航员带着3D摄像机进入国际空间站。这令人着迷,但我急切的想让这些太空专家同我们一起潜入深海,天体生物学家,行星专家,都对特殊环境充满兴趣,带他们去深海热泉,观察深海生物,取一些样本,测试仪器等等。
所以我们既是在拍纪录片,也在研究科学,更确切的说是在研究空间科学。I'd completely closed the loop between being the science fiction fan, as a kid, and doing this stuff for real.在探索发现的旅途中,我学到了很多,不仅仅是科学知识,还有领导能力。很多人认为导演就是领导者,像船长或者其他领导者一样。
没进行这些探险以前,我并不真正了解领导力的内涵。因为有时我会问自己,我到底在这干什么呢?为什么要做这些节目? 我从中得到了什么? 我们并没有从这些见鬼的节目中赚到钱,还差点破产。我也没有赚到名声。很多人以为我拍了《泰坦尼克号》、《阿凡达》后,就在沙滩上修磨着指甲,享受生活呢。 其实,我拍了这些电影,这些记录片,只换来了为数不多的观众。
得不到名声,等不到荣耀,也得不到金钱,我问自己,你在做什么呢?其实只是为了任务本身,是为了挑战——海洋就是现在最具挑战性的环境了;是为了探索发现时的惊喜;也为了一个小而紧密的团队所产生的那种不可思议的团队感。我们这10到12人在一起共事多年。有时要在海里一起工作两三个月。
在这个团队中,我发现最重要的东西就是互相尊重。每个人做的工作都无以言表。我回到海边告诉其他人,我们必须这样做,用光学纤维,用这种技术那种技术,各种技术,战胜一切困难,考虑演员在海里的表现。这种互相配合并肩作战的默契是无法言明的,这些事情只有警察或者参加过战斗的人经历后才能明白,他们知道这是无法向他人表达的。我们必须建立起这种默契,建立起互相尊重的默契。
所以,我开始拍摄接下来的电影《阿凡达》时,试着运用了这种领导原则,我尊重我的团队,他们也很尊重我。这让团队变得很有活力。所以,这次我也带了一支小团队,在未经探索的地区拍摄《阿凡达》,创造前所未有的新技术,这非常有意思,也颇具有挑战性。在这四年半多的时间里,我们就像一家人一样。这完全改变了我拍电影的方式。 有人评论说,卡梅隆只是把一些海洋生物放到了潘多拉星球上。但我来说,建立这种互相尊重的默契不仅仅是做商业电影的基本法则,而是过程本身改变了事情的结果。
我能从这些经历中总结出什么,又能学到什么?首先要有好奇心,这是你拥有的最强大的东西;其次要有想象力,这是你展现现实的力量;第三:尊重团队,这是比世界上一切荣誉都更为重要。 有不少年轻电影导演向我讨教成功经验,我告诉他们:“不要作茧自缚。别人会束缚你,但你自己不要作茧自缚。不要说自己不行,要敢于承担风险。”
NASA里流行一句话:“只能成功,不能失败”但是,在艺术领域和探索发现时是允许失败的,因为这是需要运气的。只有冒险,创新,才能成功。你必须愿意承担风险,这就是我给你们的建议,无论你做什么,可以失败,不能畏惧。
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军人属于祖国,祖国赋于军人以神圣的使命。读文网小编为大家整理了一分钟军人励志演讲稿4篇,欢迎大家阅读。
军人与使命同在,军人因履行使命而展现价值。我军的性质和宗旨,是在献身使命中体现的;我军的凝聚力和战斗力,是在献身使命中形成的;我军的地位和作用,是在献身使命中确立的。新世纪新阶段我军担负的历史使命,承载了党的重托、人民的福祉和国家的安全,也对当代军人的价值追求提出了新的要求。作为军人,尤其要把思想境界定位在献身使命的人生追求上,以使命为重,用生命来维系使命,用忠诚来支撑使命,用血肉之躯来践行使命。
以使命为重,就是要有使命意识。不讲使命,就是不讲政治。作为一名军人,一定要牢固树立使命重于泰山、使命高于生命的强烈忧患意识、责任意识,克服和平麻痹思想和松懈自满情绪,时时讲使命、想使命、谋使命,真正做到忠于使命、献身使命、不辱使命。
以使命为重,就是要履职尽责。履职尽责是军人的天职,是履行使命的基本标准。作为军人,要不辱使命、不负重托,就不能坐而论道,而要以党的事业和人民的利益为重,把岗位作为履行使命之本,把事业作为人生价值坐标,把使命任务的要求与立足本职实实在在的行动结合起来,爱岗敬业,恪尽职守,扎扎实实干工作,默默无闻作奉献,在平凡的岗位上创造不平凡的业绩,在履职尽责中书写人生的壮丽篇章。
以使命为重,就要作出牺牲奉献。献身使命是一种职责,献身使命是一种荣光,献身使命也意味着牺牲奉献。人生的价值在于坚定的信仰、崇高的追求。我们一定要正确对待名利地位,正确对待个人得失和生命困难,把个人追求融入履行使命的伟大实践,把勇于担当使命、敢于献身使命、矢志不辱使命的坚强决心和顽强意志,内化为当代革命军人的价值理念和人生追求,转化为应对危机、谋求打赢、提高履行使命能力的实际行动,在各种考验中显本色,有效履行好党和人民赋予的光荣使命。
军人神圣的名字,令世上人羡慕敬仰;训练场个个意志坚强,忠心报国杀贼寇保家乡;青春奉献在绿色国防,生命谱写人生辉煌。留下壮丽篇章。
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励志是集中心思致力于某种事业,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些励志的经典你眼睛,希望对大家有所帮助。
I choose the poverty of our poor people.
But I am grateful to receive (the Nobel Prize) in the name of the hungry, the naked, the homeless, of the crippled, of the blind, of the lepers, of all those people who feel unwanted, unloved, uncared-for throughout society, people that have become a burden to the society and are shunned by everyone."
Also as soon as she learned about the plan for a dinner on her honor she politely asked for the dinner to be cancelled to save the money to feed the poor.
As we have gathered here together to thank God for the Nobel Peace Prize, I think it will be beautiful that we pray the prayer of St. Francis of Assisi which always surprises me very much . We pray this prayer every day after Holy Communion, because it is very fitting for each one of us.
And I always wonder that 400-500 years ago when St. Francis of Assisi composed this prayer, they had the same difficulties that we have today as we compose this prayer that fits very nicely for us also. I think some of you already have got it - so we pray together: Let us thank God for the opportunity that we all have together today, for this gift of peace that reminds us that we have been created to live that peace, and that Jesus became man to bring that good news to the poor.
He, being God, became man in all things like us except in sin, and he proclaimed very clearly that he had come to give the good news. The news was peace to all of good will and this is something that we all want - the peace of heart. Ad God loved the world so much that he gave his son - it was a giving: it is as much as if to say it hurt God to give, because he loved the world so much that he gave his son. He gave him to the Virgin Mary, and what did she do with him?
As soon as he came in her life, immediately she went in haste to give that good news, and as she came into the house of her cousin, the child - the child in the womb of Elizabeth, lept with joy. He was, that little unborn child was, the first messenger of peace. He recognized the Prince of Peace, he recognized that Christ had come to bring the good news for you and for me.
And as if that was not enough - it was not enough to become a man - he died on the cross to show that greater love, and he died for you and for me and for that leper and for that man dying of hunger and that naked person lying in the street not only of Calcutta, but of Africa, and New York, and London, and Oslo - and insisted that we love one another as he loves each one of us.
And we read that in the Gospel very clearly: "love as I have loved you; as I love you; as the Father has loved me, I love you." And the harder the Father loved him, he gave him to us, and how much we love one another, we too must give to each other until it hurts. It is not enough for us to say: "I love God, but I do not love my neighbor." Saint John says that you are a liar if you say you love God and you don't love your neighbor.
How can you love God whom you do not see, if you do not love your neighbor whom you see, whom you touch, with whom you live? And so this is very important for us to realize that love, to be true, has to hurt. It hurt Jesus to love us. It hurt him. And to make sure we remember his great love, he made himself the bread of life to satisfy our hunger for his love - our hunger for God - because we have been created for that love. We have been created in his image.
We have been created to love and to be loved, and he has become man to make it possible for us to love as he loved us. He makes himself the hungry one, the naked one, the homeless one, and he says: " You did it to me". he is hungry for our love, and this is the hunger that you and I must find. It may be in our own home. I never forget an opportunity I had in visiting a home where they had all these old parents of sons and daughters who had just put them in an institution and forgotten, maybe.
And I went there, and I saw in that home they had everything, beautiful things, but everybody was looking towards the door. And I did not see a singe one with a smile on their face. And I turned to the sister and I asked: How is that? How is that these people who have everything here, why are they all looking towards the door? Why are they not smiling? I am so used to see the smiles on our people, even the dying ones smile. And she said: "This is nearly every day.
They are expecting, they are hoping that a son or daughter will come to visit them. They are hurt because they are forgotten." And see - this is where love comes. That poverty comes right there in our own home, even neglect to love. Maybe in our own family we have somebody who is feeling lonely, who is feeling sick, who is feeling worried, and there are difficult days for everybody. Are we there?
Are we there to Receive them? Is the mother there to receive the child? I was surprised in the West to see so many young boys and girls given into drugs. And I tried to find out why. Why is it like that? And the answer was: "Because there is no one in the family to receive them." Father and mother are so busy they have no time. Young parents are in some institution and the child goes back to the street and gets involved in something.
We are talking of peace. These are things that break peace. But I feel the greatest destroyer of peace today is abortion, because it is a direct war, a direct killing, direct murder by the mother herself. And we read in the scripture, for God says very clearly: "Even if a mother could forget her child, I will not forget you. I have curved you in the palm of my hand." We are curved in the palm of his hand; so close to him,that unborn child has been curved in the hand of God.
And that is what strikes me most, the beginning of that sentence, that even if a mother could forget, something impossible - but even if she could forget - I will not forget you. And today the greatest means, the greatest destroyer of peace is abortion. And we who are standing here - our parents wanted us. We would not be here if our parents would do that to us. Our children, we want them, we love them.
But what of the other millions. Many peopleare very, very concerned with the children of India, with the children of Africa where quite a number die, maybe of malnutrition, of hunger and so on, but millions are dying deliberately by the will of the mother. And this is what is the greatest destroyer of peace today. Because if a mother can kill her own child, what is left for me to kill you and you to kill me? There is nothing between. And this I appeal in India, I appeal everywhere - "Let us bring the child back" - and this year being the child's year: What have we done for the child?
At the beginning of the year I told, I spoke everywhere and I said: let us ensure this year that we make every single child born, and unborn, wanted. And today is the end of the year. Have we really made the children wanted? I will tell you something terrifying. We are fighting abortion by adoption. We have saved thousands of lives. We have sent word to all the clinics, to the hospitals, police stations: "Please don't destroy the child; we will take the child".
So every hour of the day and night there is always somebody - we have quite a number of unwedded mothers - tell them: "Come, we will take care of you, we will take care of the child from you, and we will get a home for the child". And we have a tremendous demand for families who have no children, that is the blessing of God for us. And also, we are doing another thing which is very beautiful. We are teaching our beggars, our leprosy patients, our slum dwellers, our people of the street, natural family planning.
And in Calcutta alone in six years - it is all in Calcutta - we have had 61 273 babies less from the families who would have had them because they practice this natural way of abstaining, of self-control, out of love for each other. We teach them the temperature method which is very beautiful, very simple. And our poor people understand. And you know what they have told me? "Our family is healthy, our family is united, and we can have a baby whenever we want".
So clear - those people in the street, those beggars - and I think that if our people can do like that how much more you and all the others who can know the ways and means without destroying the life that God has created in us. The poor people are very great people. They can teach us so many beautiful things. The other day one of them came to thank us and said: "You people who have evolved chastity; you are the best people to teach us family planning because it is nothing more than self-control out of love for each other."
And I think they said a beautiful sentence. And these are people who maybe have nothing to eat, maybe they have not a home where to live, but they are great people. The poor are very wonderful people. One evening we went out and we picked up four people from the street. And one of them was in a most terrible condition. And I told the sisters: "You take care of the other three; I will take care of this one that looks worse." So I did for her all that my love can do. I put her in bed, and there was such a beautiful smile on her face.
She took hold of my hand, as she said one word only: "thank you" - and she died. I could not help but examine my conscience before her. And I asked: "What would I say if I was in her place?" And my answer was very simple. I would have tried to draw a little attention to myself. I would have said: "I am hungry, I am dying, I am cold, I am in pain", or something. But she gave me much more - she gave me her grateful love.
And she died with a smile on her face - like that man who we picked up from the drain, half eaten with worms, and we brought him to the home - "I have lived like an animal in the street, but I am going to die like an angel, loved and cared for." And it was so wonderful to see the greatness of that man who could speak like that, who could die like that without blaming, without cursing anybody, without comparing anything. Like an angel - this is the greatness of our people.
And this is why we believe what Jesus has said: "I was hungry; I was naked, I was homeless; I was unwanted, unloved, uncared for - and you did it to me." I believe that we are not really social workers. We may be doing social work in the eyes of people. But we are really contemplatives in the heart of the world. For we are touching the body of Christ twenty-four hours. We have twenty-four hours in his presence, and so you and I. You too must try to bring that presence of God into your family, for the family that prays together stays together.
And I think that we in our family, we don't need bombs and guns, to destroy or to bring peace - just get together, love one another, bring that peace, that joy, that strength of presence of each other in the home. And we will be able to overcome all the evil that is in the world. There is so much suffering, so much hatred, so much misery, and we with our prayer, with our sacrifice are beginning at home. Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do, but how much love we put in the action that we do.
It is to God almighty - how much we do does not matter, because he is infinite, but how much love we put in action. How much we do to him in the person that we are serving. Some time ago in Calcutta we had great difficulty in getting sugar. And I don't know how the word got around to the children, and a little boy of four years old, a Hindu boy, went home and told his parents: "I will not eat sugar for three days.
I will give my sugar to Mother Teresa for her children." After these three days his father and mother brought him to our house. I had never met them before, and this little one could scarcely pronounce my name. But he knew exactly what he had come to do. He knew that he wanted to share his love. And this is why I have received such a lot of love from all. From the time that I have come here I have simply been surrounded with love, and with real, real understanding love.
It could feel as if everyone in India, everyone in Africa is somebody very special for to you. And I felt quite home, I was telling Sister today. If feel in the convent with the Sisters as if I am in Calcutta with my own Sisters. So completely at home here, right here. And so here I am talking with you. I want you to find the poor here, right in your own home first. And begin love there. Be that good news to your own people. And find out about your next-door neighbor.
Do you know who they are? I had the most extraordinary experience with a Hindu family who had eight children. A gentleman came to our house and said: "Mother Teresa, there is a family with eight children; they have not eaten for so long; do something". So I took some rice and I went there immediately. And I saw the children - their eyes shining with hunger. I don't know if you have ever seen hunger. But I have seen it very often.
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这世上的一切都借希望而完成,农夫不会剥下一粒玉米,如果他不曾希望它长成种粒;单身汉不会娶妻,如果他不曾希望有孩子;商人也不会去工作,如果他不曾希望因此而有收益,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些励志英语经典演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
The only thing we have to fear is fear itself — nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror, which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance.
我们唯一害怕的 是害怕本身——这种难以名状、失去理智和毫无道理的恐惧,把人转退为进所需的种种努力化为泡影。
President Hoover, Mister Chief Justice, my friends:
胡佛总统,首席法官先生,朋友们:
This is a day of national consecration, and I am certain that on this day, my fellow Americans expect that on my induction in the Presidency I will address them with a candor and a decision which the present situation of our people impels. This is preeminently the time to speak the truth, the whole truth, frankly and boldly. Nor need we shrink from honestly facing the conditions facing our country today. This great nation will endure as it has endured, will revive and will prosper. So first of all, let me express my firm belief that the only thing we have to fear is fear itself-nameless, unreasoning, unjustified terror, which paralyzes needed efforts to convert retreat into advance. In every dark hour of our national life, a leadership of frankness and vigor has met with that understanding and support of the people themselves, which is essential to victory. And I am convinced that you will again give that support to leadership in these critical days.
今天,对我们的国家来说,是一个神圣的日子。我肯定,同胞们都期待我在就任总统时,会像我国目前形势所要求的那样,坦率而果断地向他们讲话。现在正是坦白、勇敢地说出实话,说出全部实话的最好时刻。我们不必畏首畏尾,不老老实实面对我国今天的情况。这个伟大的国家会一如既往地坚持下去,它会复兴和繁荣起来。因此,让我首先表明我的坚定信念:我们唯一不得不害怕的就是害怕本身--一种莫名其妙、丧失理智的、毫无根据的恐惧,它把人转退为进所需的种种努力化为泡影。凡在我国生活阴云密布的时刻,坦率而有活力的领导都得到过人民的理解和支持,从而为胜利准备了必不可少的条件。我相信,在目前危急时刻,大家会再次给予同样的支持。
In such a spirit on my part and on yours, we face our common difficulties. They concern, thank God, only material things. Values have shrunken to fantastic levels; taxes have risen, our ability to pay has fallen; government of all kinds is faced by serious curtailment of income; the means of exchange are frozen in the currents of trade; the withered leaves of industrial enterprise lie on every side; farmers find no markets for their produce, and the savings of many years and thousands of families are gone.
我和你们都要以这种精神,来面对我们共同的困难。感谢上帝,这些困难只是物质方面的。价值难以想象地贬缩了;课税增加了;我们的支付能力下降了;各级政府面临着严重的收入短缺;交换手段在贸易过程中遭到了冻结;工业企业枯萎的落叶到处可见;农场主的产品找不到销路;千家万户多年的积蓄付之东流。
More important, a host of unemployed citizens face the grim problem of existence, and an equal and great number toil with little return. Only a foolish optimist can deny the dark realities of the moment.
更重要的是,大批失业公民正面临严峻的生存问题,还有大批公民正以艰辛的劳动换取微薄的报酬。只有愚蠢的乐天派会否认当前这些阴暗的现实。
And yet, our distress comes from no failure of substance, we are stricken by no plague of locusts. Compared with the perils which our forefathers conquered, because they believed and were not afraid, we have so much to be thankful for. Nature surrounds us with her bounty, and human efforts have multiplied it. Plenty is at our doorstep, but a generous use of it languishes in the very sight of the supply. Primarily, this is because the rulers of the exchange of mankind’s goods have failed, through their own stubbornness and their own incompetence, have admitted their failure and have abdicated. Practices of the unscrupulous money changers stand indicted in the court of public opinion, rejected by the hearts and minds of men.
但是,我们的苦恼决不是因为缺乏物资。我们没有遭到什么蝗虫的灾害。我们的先辈曾以信念和无畏一次次转危为安,比起他们经历过的险阻,我们仍大可感到欣慰。大自然仍在给予我们恩惠,人类的努力已使之倍增。富足的情景近在咫尺,但就在我们见到这种情景的时候,宽裕的生活却悄然离去。这主要是因为主宰人类物资交换的统治者们失败了,他们固执己见而又无能为力,因而已经认定失败了,并撒手不管了。贪得无厌的货币兑换商的种种行径。将受到舆论法庭的起诉,将受到人类心灵理智的唾弃。
True, they have tried, but their efforts have been cast in the patten of an outworn tradition. Faced by a failure of credit, they have proposed only the lending of more money. Stripped of the lure of profit by which they induce our people to follow their false leadership, they have resorted to exhortation, pleading tearfully for restored confidence. They only know the rules of a generation of self-seekers. They have no vision, and when there is no vision, the people perish.
是的,他们是努力过,然而他们用的是一种完全过时的方法。面对信贷的失败,他们只是提议借出更多的钱。没有了当诱饵引诱人民追随他们的错误领导的金钱,他们只得求助于讲道,含泪祈求人民重新给予他们信心。他们只知自我追求者们的处世规则。他们没有眼光,而没有眼光的人是要灭亡的。
Yes, the money changers have fled from their high seats in the temple of our civilization. We may now restore that temple to the ancient truths. A measure of that restoration lies in the extent to which we apply social value, more noble than mere monetary profits.
如今,货币兑换商已从我们文明庙宇的高处落荒而逃。我们要以千古不变的真理来重建这座庙宇。衡量这重建的尺度是我们体现比金钱利益更高尚的社会价值的程度。
Happiness lies not in the mere possession of money, it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative efforts, the joy and moral stimulation of work no longer must be forgotten in the mad chase of evanescent profits.These dark days, my friends, will be worth all they cost us, if they teach us that our true destiny is not to be ministered on to, but to minister to ourselves, to our fellow men.
幸福并不在于单纯地占有金钱;幸福还在于取得成就后的喜悦,在于创造努力时的激情。务必不能再忘记劳动带来的喜悦和激励,而去疯狂地追逐那转瞬即逝的利润。如果这些暗淡的时日能使我们认识到,我们真正的天命不是要别人侍奉,而是为自己和同胞们服务,那么,我们付出的代价就完全是值得的。
Recognition of the falsity of material wealth as the standard of success goes hand in hand with the abandonment of a false belief that public office and high political position are to be valued only by the standards of pride of place and personal profits, and there must be an end to our conduct in banking and in business, which too often has given to a sacred trust the likeness of callous and selfish wrong-doing. Small wonder that confidence languishes, for it thrives only on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of our obligation, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance. Without them it cannot live.
认识到把物质财富当作成功的标准是错误的,我们就会抛弃以地位尊严和个人收益为唯一标准,来衡量公职和高级政治地位的错误信念;我们必须制止银行界和企业界的一种行为,它常常使神圣的委托混同于无情和自私的不正当行为。难怪信心在减弱,信心,只有靠诚实、信誉、忠心维护和无私履行职责。而没有这些,就不可能有信心。
Restoration calls, however, not for changes in ethics alone. This nation is asking for action, and action now.
但是,复兴不仅仅只要改变伦理观念。这个国家要求行动起来,现在就行动起来。
Our greatest primary task is to put people to work. This is no unsolvable problem if we take it wisely and courageously. It can be accomplished in part by direct recruiting by the government itself, treating the task as we would treat the emergency of a war, but at the same time, through this employment, accomplishing greatly needed projects to stimulate and reorganize the use
of our great natural resources.
我们最大、最基本的任务是让人民投入工作。只要我信行之以智慧和勇气,这个问题就可以解决。这可以部分由政府直接征募完成,就象对待临战的紧要关头一样,但同时,在有了人手的情况下,我们还急需能刺激并重组巨大自然资源的工程。
Hand in hand with that, we must frankly recognize the overbalance of population in our industrial centers and by engaging on a national scale in a redistribution in an effort to provide better use of the land for those best fitted for the land.
我们齐心协力,但必须坦白地承认工业中心的人口失衡,我们必须在全国范围内重新分配,使土地在最适合的人手中发表挥更大作用。
Yes the task can be helped by definite efforts to raise the value of the agricultural product and with this the power to purchase the output of our cities. It can be helped by preventing realistically, the tragedy of the growing losses through fore closures of our small homes and our farms. It can be helped by insistence that the federal, the state, and the local government act forthwith on the demands that their costs be drastically reduce. It can be helped by the unifying of relief activities which today are often scattered, uneconomical, unequal. It can be helped by national planning for, and supervision of all forms of transportation, and of communications, and other utilities that have a definitely public character. There are many ways in which it can be helped, but it can never be helped by merely talking about it. We must act, we must act quickly.
明确地为提高农产品价值并以此购买城市产品所做的努力,会有助于任务的完成。避免许多小家庭业、农场业被取消赎取抵押品的权利的悲剧也有助于任务的完成。联邦、州、各地政府立即行动回应要求降价的呼声,有助于任务的完成。将现在常常是分散不经济、不平等的救济活动统一起来有助于任务的完成。对所有公共交通运输,通讯及其他涉及公众生活的设施作全国性的计划及监督有助于任务的完成。许多事情都有助于任务完成,但这些决不包括空谈。我们必须行动,立即行动。
And finally, in our progress toward a resumption of work, we require two safeguards against the return of the evils of the old order; there must be a strict supervision of all banking and credits and investments; there must be an end to speculation with other people’s money; and there must be provisions for an adequate but sound currency.
最后,为了重新开始工作,我们需要两手防御,来抗御旧秩序恶魔卷土从来;一定要有严格监督银行业、信贷及投资的机制:一定要杜绝投机;一定要有充足而健康的货币供应。
These, my friends, are the lines of attack. I shall presently urge upon a new Congress in special session, detailed measures for their fulfillment, and I shall seek the immediate assistance of the 48 states.
以上这些,朋友们,就是施政方针。我要在特别会议上敦促新国会给予详细实施方案,并且,我要向18个州请求立即的援助。
Through this program of action, we address ourselves to putting our own national house in order, and making income balance outflow. Our international trade relations, though vastly important, are in point of time and necessity secondary to the establishment of a sound national economy. I favor as a practical policy the putting of first things first. I shall spare no effort to restore world trade by international economic readjustment, but the emergency at home cannot wait on that accomplishment.
通过行动,我们将予以我们自己一个有秩序的国家大厦,使收入大于支出。我们的国际贸易,虽然很重要,但现在在时间和必要性上,次于对本国健康经济的建立。我建议,作为可行的策略、首要事务先行。虽然我将不遗余力通过国际经济重新协调所来恢复国际贸易,但我认为国内的紧急情况无法等待这重新协调的完成。
The basic thought that guides these specific means of national recovery is not narrowly nationalistic. It is the insistence, as a first consideration upon the inter-dependence of the various elements in all parts of the United States of America – a recognition of the old and the permanently important manifestation of the American spirit of the pioneer. It is the way to recovery, it is the immediate way, it is the strongest assurance that recovery will endure.
指导这一特别的全国性复苏的基本思想并非狭隘的国家主义。我首先考虑的是坚持美国这一整体中各部分的相互依赖性--这是对美国式的开拓精神的古老而永恒的证明的体现。这才是复苏之路,是即时之路,是保证复苏功效持久之路。
In the field of world policy, I would dedicate this nation to the policy of the good neighbor. The neighbor who resolutely respects himself, and because he does so, respects the rights of others. The neighbor who respects his obligation, and respects the sanctity of his agreement, in and with, a world of neighbor.
在国际政策方面,我将使美国采取睦邻友好的政策。做一个决心自重,因此而尊重邻国的国家。做一个履行义务,尊重与他国协约的国家。
If I read the temper of our people correctly, we now realize what we have never realized before, our inter-dependence on each other, that we cannot merely take, but we must give as well. That if we are to go forward, we must move as a trained and loyal army, willing to sacrifice for the good of a common discipline, because without such discipline, no progress can be made, no leadership becomes effective. We are all ready and willing to submit our lives and our property to such discipline because it makes possible a leadership which aims at the larger good. This, I propose to offer, we are going to larger purposes, bind upon us, bind upon us all, as a sacred obligation with a unity of duty, hitherto evoked only in times of armed strife.
如果我对人民的心情的了解正确的话,我想我们已认识到了我们从未认识的问题,我们是互相依存的,我们不可以只索取,我们还必须奉献。我们前进时,必须象一支训练有素的忠诚的军队,愿意为共同的原则而献身,因为,没有这些原则,就无法取得进步,领导就不可能得力。我们都已做好准备,并愿意为此原则献出生命和财产,因为这将使志在建设更美好社会的领导成为可能。我倡议,为了更伟大的目标,我们所有的人,以一致的职责紧紧团结起来。这是神圣的义务,非战乱,不停止。
With this pledge taken, I assume unhesitatingly, the leadership of this great army of our people dedicated to a disciplined attack upon our common problems. Action in this image, action to this end, is feasible under the form of government which we have inherited from my ancestors. Our constitution is so simple, so practical, that it is possible always, to meet extraordinary needs, by changes in emphasis and arrangements without loss of a central form, that is why our constitutional system has proved itself the most superbly enduring political mechanism the modern world has ever seen. It has met every stress of vast expansion of territory, of foreign wars, of bitter internal strife, of world relations.
有了这样的誓言,我将毫不犹豫地承担领导伟大人民大军的任务,致力于对我们普遍问题的强攻。这样的行动,这样的目标,在我们从祖先手中接过的政府中是可行的。我们的宪法如此简单,实在。它随时可以应付特殊情况,只需对重点和安排加以修改而不丧失中心思想,正因为如此,我们的宪法体制已自证为是最有适应性的政治体制。它已应付过巨大的国土扩张、外战、内乱及国际关系所带来的压力。
And it is to be hoped that the normal balance of executive and legislative authority will be fully equal, fully adequate to meet the unprecedented task before us. But it may be that an unprecedented demand and need for undelay ction may call for temporary departure from that normal balance of public procedure.
而我们还希望行使法律的人士做到充分的平等,能充分地担负前所未有的任务。但现在前所未有的对紧急行动的需要要求国民暂时丢弃平常生活节奏,紧迫起来。
We face the arduous days that lie before us in the warm courage of national unity, in the clearest consciousness of seeking all and precious moral values, with the clean satisfaction that comes from the stern performance of duty by old and young alike, we aim at the assurance of a rounded, a permanent national life.
让我们正视面前的严峻岁月,怀着举国一致给我们带来的热情和勇气,怀着寻求传统的、珍贵的道德观念的明确意识,怀着老老少少都能通过克尽职守而得到的问心无愧的满足。我们的目标是要保证国民生活的圆满和长治久安。
We do not distrust the future of essential democracy. The people of the United States have not failed. In their need, they have registered a mandate that they want direct, vigorous action. They have asked for discipline, and direction under leadership, they have made me the present instrument of their wishes. In the spirit of the gift, I take it.
我们并不怀疑基本民主制度的未来。合众国人民并没有失败。他们在困难中表达了自己的委托,即要求采取直接而有力的行动。他们要求有领导的纪律和方向。他们现在选择了我作为实现他们的愿望的工具。我接受这份厚赠。
In this dedication, in this dedication of a nation, we humbly ask the blessings of God, may He protect each and every one of us, may He guide me in the days to come.
在此举国奉献之际,我们谦卑地请求上帝赐福。愿上帝保信我们大家和每一个人,愿上帝在未来的日子里指引我。
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不执着的意思是我们可以控制自己感情,欣赏自己的喜怒哀乐,但不会被它冲昏头,使自己顺其自然。今天读文网小编给大家分享一些励志演讲稿,希望对大家有所帮助。
我自己个人体会就是,如何能够把生意做得更成功的几个要点:第一要点,如何尽可能把自己的长期目标和短期目标结合起来,我们要先分清楚,哪些事情是我们想一辈子干的事情,哪些事情是一下子干完了我们就可以不用干的事情。中国有句话叫做急事慢做,你越着急的事情,你做得越仔细越认真,越能把事情做好,而你越着急的事情做得越快,反而越做得七零八落。我把这个急事也把它叫做大事,比如说你要想一辈子掌握很高的英文水平,你说我用三个月,每天学十二个小时,你是绝对不可能,三个月,你的英文水平会得到很大的提高,但是三个月以后你不学了,再过三个月,你的英文水平就忘记了。第二个要素,就是要决定自己一辈子干什么,那么还有一个我觉得非常重要的就是平时做事情的时候,对时间的计划性,一个人是非常能动的,我在十几年前做新东方的时候,我就觉得时间不够用,我忙得手脚朝天,最后还发现事情做不完,我现在二十四小时做出来的事情,跟我那个十几年前二十四小时手忙脚乱做出来的事情,是不可同日而语的。那么为什么还能忙得过来呢,道理很简单,因为在你忙不过来的时候,你就知道如何去筹划你的时间了,千万记住一点的是,任何事情的时间,一定都是能够挤出来的,那么还有一个非常重要的,叫做成功就要你自我约束的,我是在五年前学滑雪的,刚上去的时候,就上雪地就摔上雪地就摔,后来我就发现不行,我得学会停,大家知道滑雪两种停法,初学滑雪的人是外八字的停法,但是当这个滑雪的坡度,到达一定坡度的时候,这个八字形就完全不管用了,一定是要两个滑雪板侧过来侧停,所以我就用了整整一个星期的时间,我就没练滑雪,我就专门练停来着,我发现我的停已经做得非常好的时候,我就直接扛着滑雪板上了高级道,我有一个朋友,他觉得你能上我也能上,他这个滑雪道一边是山坡,一边是悬崖峭壁,结果他下去的时候,他由于停不住,就直接往悬崖峭壁那个地方冲过去了,冲过去他不就害怕吗,害怕以后他就开始强行扭过来,一扭过来,一个脚扭过来了,另外一个脚没扭过来,结果两个脚一下就被撕开了,韧带就被彻底拉断了,任何时候,当你前面面对一个巨大的诱惑,和其他任何可能产生诱惑的时候,如果你自己觉得自己停不下来,您千万别去追那个东西,因为你追了那个东西停不下来,最后栽跟头的一定就是你!
of my own personal experience is how business is more successful a few key points: the first point, and how, as far as possible, to combine their long-term goals and short-term goals, we must first distinguish what things we want to life doing things, which things are suddenly finish the things we can not dry. China we have a saying hurry slow to do, the more anxious you things, you are done more carefully and more seriously, the more we can do a good job, and the more anxious you do things the faster, but more to do to pieces. I hurry to call it a major event, for example, you want to be a lifetime to master a high level of English, you say three months, learn twelve hours a day, you are absolutely impossible, three months, and you English level will be greatly improved, but three months later, you do not learn that in another three months, forget your English level. The second element is to determine their own life to do, then I think very important is usually to do things when the time plan, a person is very dynamic, and I do more than ten years ago, the New Oriental I feel that the time is not enough, I'm too busy hands and feet the air, finally found something to finish, I twenty-four hours to do things, out of things to do with more than a dozen years ago my twenty-four hours running around in circles , is quite different. So why can busy over it, the reason is very simple, because you busy when you know how to plan your time, do remember that, no matter the time, and certainly are able squeezed out, then there is a very important, called the success of the necessary self-restraint, I ski five years ago, just up on the snow to fall on the snow fell, but then I found that it does not work, I have to learn to stop, we know that skiing two parked method of beginner ski toe stop method, but when the ski slope to reach a certain slope, this eight regardless of use, to the two skis side over side stop, so I spent a whole week's time, I have not practiced skiing, I come with specialized training to stop, stop I found I have done a very good time, I directly carrying snowboard a senior Road, I have a friend, he felt that you can on that I can on his side of the ski trails is hillside, one side is cliffs, the results after him when he could not stop. directly rushed to the cliffs that have passed, rushed past that he is not afraid of you, afraid he began forcibly Niuguo Lai Niuguo Lai a foot Niuguo Lai, the other feet did not Niuguo Lai, results of two feet ripped ligament was completely pulled off at any time, when you're in front of the face of a huge temptation, and any other temptation may arise, if you feel not stop, you do not go chase that thing, because you chase that thing can not stop himself, and finally come a cropper necessarily you!
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陈明是体育杂志《第五频道》的主编,今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇陈明的精彩演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
各位小伙伴们,大家下午好,我是陈明。非常感谢“一刻talks”给我提供这样的平台,让我们来聊一聊跑步这件事。
我今天要和大家分享“如何做一个失败的跑者”。其实跑步真的没有失败,但你如果想给自己冠上一个跑者的名字,那你就要面对很多的问题,很多的挫折,以及很多你想做到,却没做到的事情。因为“者”这个字,在我们汉语可能是有一些尊称的,比如说孙行者、尊者、智者之类的。
在开始讲之前,我想先跟大家分享两张图片,我特别喜欢的图片。第一张这是一个俯拍的马拉松的图片,我把它叫做“上帝视角”。其实你看这张图片你会想到什么?我的感觉是,我像回到了小时候我们蹲在地上看蚂蚁搬家,强壮的蚂蚁从这头搬到那头,无止无休。其实我觉得,可能我们人对于蚂蚁来说,我们就是造物主,哪怕一个3岁的小孩他一抬脚就可以碾死蚂蚁。
但是对于我们的造物主来说,我们可能才是一只蚂蚁。而我们跑马拉松的人我觉得就像是蚂蚁,奔跑的蚂蚁。我们一年无休的从这个起点跑到那个终点,又跑到下一个终点。有时候我想,这样的跑步有什么意义?我的感觉是,我们先天的设定,就是我们是一些有想法、而且能运动的生命。所以你说,生命在于运动也对,生命在于静止也对。
我们每个人从出生下来,其实我们的归宿只有一个,就是死亡。按照热力学的定律,我们所有人最后都会湮灭在宇宙中,我们唯一能做的,就是怎么样做好这个过程,我们是静坐着过一生呢?还是跑着过一生?那当然我想就是跑着过一生。
下面的这个图片其实是我自己的一些奖牌,乱七八糟的,其中有一些是全马的,有一些不是。我有一个3岁的儿子,他现在拿着我的奖牌当作他最好的玩具,每次我出门他都说,爸爸你拿奖牌了吗?到现在他也认为,这个手势代表的不是2,这个代表的手势是“victory”,他特别喜欢说,爸爸victory。所以我给自己立了一个原则,就叫做”贼不走空”,我只要出门参加比赛,无论如何,一定要给儿子带块奖牌回去。
但是在收集这些奖牌的过程中,我会发现自己会遇到一些瓶颈,就每次作为一个自检的调查问卷,也有这些问题。
1、你跑的够好吗?
我在这里向大家提供一个特别简单的判断的方法。就是说同样一场比赛,如果你的成绩是在冠军的时间的两倍之内,那说明你非常好,可以说我们现在去操场上跑一个5公里,但是大家知道5公里的男子的世界纪录12分钟多,也就意味着如果说你5公里能够破25分,那非常不错。如果我们跑一个10公里,男子世界冠军应该是26分钟多,就是你10公里能跑进52分钟非常不错。而全马的世界纪录现在是2小时2分。如果说你是一个全马破4(指全程4个小时)的跑者,我觉得那是真正的跑者。
2、你跑步的目的达到了吗?
我跑步这两年,我见到了各种各样的跑人,有的人跑步是为了减肥,比如我这样,当然我减肥不太成功,到现在很多人不相信,说你80多公斤的体重怎么能跑全马,我也说了,如果我在一个160斤以上的马拉松比赛我可能会拿名次。
也有的人是为了增肥,有的人是因为失恋了,有的人是因为找到了女朋友,而女朋友让他跑步,所以他才跑步。然后有的人是因为生活太无聊了,有的人是因为生活太忙没有意思了,所以有各种各样的状况。我想说,你判断自己是否是一个成功的跑者,主要是看你的目的有没有达到?
3、你是否是一个“严肃”的跑者?
其实与它相对应的是不严肃的跑者。严肃是一种attitude,在跑圈里其实有这样的一群人,我特别佩服他们。他们真的是把跑步当作一个严肃的事业来做,他们像运动员一样给自己制定了严格的训练计划,给自己制定了严格的比赛计划。比如北京马拉松,他会在马拉松开始之前两个月,就自己跑步或者骑车或者开车把路线全都走一遍,然后研究它们每一个补给点,研究上面每一个小小的起伏。比赛开始前一天晚上他也不会和朋友们吃喝玩乐,就躺在酒店的房间,默默等待第二天比赛的到来。
还有一种是不严肃的跑者,我就是其中一个,完全是把跑步当做一种娱乐,一种吃喝玩乐。比如说我前一天飞到那儿,然后可能晚上跟朋友们吃夜宵,一直吃到第二天凌晨,然后回去睡两个小时,然后第二天早上被闹钟叫起,然后想一想,我为什么要这么苦逼的来到这个地方?然后第二天就带着痛苦去比赛。
我就是这种非严肃的跑者,其实这样的跑者都是可以的,但是有个问题,就是我在想,如果你真想跑出成绩,你就必须要做一个严肃的跑者。因为跑成这样,你6小时的选手,5小时的选手、4小时的选手、3小时的选手,你所感觉到的马拉松完全不一样。5个小时跑过,4小时我也跑过,4小时的我就感觉自己要成为世界之王,而6小时的感觉是我真的很能撑,完全不同的两种感受。
4、你对跑步的热爱纯粹吗?
其实在去年10月的一天早上,就是北京马拉松早上,所有报名北京马拉松的选手都面临着一个哲学上难题,就是跑还是不跑?跑的话也许会损害身体,因为外面雾霾指数已经到达400多,每个人都需要做出一个选择。我家住的离天安门特别近,我当时就不停的在想这个问题,后来我得出一个结论来,如果你把跑步当做你的工作,你的事业,比如说联想的总裁杨元庆带着联想集团的人去跑步,那他必须去,天上下刀子大家都得去。
但是如果你对于跑步纯粹只是你的热爱,并不是你的工作,也不牵扯到任何合同任何企业,我建议你乖乖回去睡觉。因为你对跑步的热爱也是对你自己身体负责任,没必要因为跑马拉松,而晚上回来从鼻子里面往外抠出黑色的东西这是对你自己和对你的家人不负责任。
事实上我有很多小伙伴,因为大家都是中国人,所以采取的特别折中的办法,他们赶到起点,然后各种作秀,带着自己的跑团,在起点冲出去,然后两个小时之后从跑道上消失了,作秀开心一下。
另外一点我想说的是,你跑步是真的爱跑,还是为了借跑步来搭建朋友圈,其实我们中国的跑步热是跟社交网络的兴起还是紧密相关的。因为后来据我了解,在社交网络兴起之前,其实我们中国跑步的前辈们,已经跑完100个马拉松的人太多了,跑步横穿中国的人太多了,只是他们都没有发出消息来。
而我们现在年轻人,很多都是全身上下几千块钱装备,然后跑5公里,拍张朋友圈,你觉得这是真正的跑步吗?还有一些人,他追求跑步并不是热爱跑步,因为他特别热爱比赛,我就是这样子。
但是热爱比赛,并不一定本身热爱跑步,我觉得真正热爱跑步的人,就真的在凌晨4点跑步,在北京的街道默默的跑,或者说一看到北京的冬天,说今天有5级大风,但是没有沙尘,天气会非常好。有许多人就默默的掏出跑鞋出门了,这种人我觉得是你真的很棒。
5、你敬畏跑步吗?
敬畏跑步我觉得分两点,第一个是你认可跑步很伟大,但最重要的是你不要神话跑步。马拉松它其实是一个非对抗的耐力项目,但它不是极限项目。因为这两年,我做媒体的我知道,民间有很多登山家死在山上,我觉得他们才真的战士,他们真是把脑袋别在裤腰带上去拼。
但是对于我们跑者来说,大部分时候我们是没有任何危险的,就是从一个点到另一个点,时间过了6个小时,你过去就可以了。所以跑步是耐力运动,而且它不是一个对抗性的项目,不会像有打拳击或者跆拳道那样。所以我的意见就是,敬畏跑步,但是不要神话跑步。
6、你有带动别人跑步吗?
其实别人,或者把别人换作你的亲人,或者你的爱人,你们可以去试一下。如果你的爸爸妈妈,老婆孩子,他们没有跑步的习惯,你可以试着拉他们出去跑一跑,你会发现特别难,而且你要付出极大的耐心、爱心,并不是说你爱我,你爱我你去跑吧。其实每个人要战胜自己的惰性,迈出第一步,这是非常难的。因为在这一点上,我有切肤之痛,我始终没法带动别人跑起来,所以我觉得有的时候挺失败的。
7、你遵从了跑步的价值观吗?
我见过很多世界上优秀的跑者,有职业的,有跑马拉松,也有跑山路的。他们总结了一些价值观,差不多有几十条吧。但后来我发现,他们最共通的有几条,第一是尊重,他们特别尊重别人,也特别尊重跑步本身这件事,特别尊重科学。
一个跑者生活是怎样的?我觉得跑步生活,就是在给你的生活做减法。如果说你的生活像一串散落在地上的念珠,有大有小,而跑步就像一条绳子,把你能串的念珠全都串起来。你串不进,自己解决不了的,或者特别丑陋的,你就会直接把他们都扔掉。跑者大都因为他们身体素质好,所以穿衣服一般很少,他们要保持体型,所以他们一般吃得都很少,每天就吃点蔬菜,吃点一般的面食,他们的娱乐也很少,每天就拎着跑鞋出去跑。
跑者还有一个共同价值观,我印象特别深刻,就是谦逊,他站在你面前决不会张扬。一般都跑得越多人,说的越少,像今天就说得有点太多了。我最后把它的价值观只是节选了一部分,如果大家有兴趣回头可以找我。
这就是我今天的分享,我唯一的希望就是大家听完后,能够选一个比较凉快的地方跑起来,只要你能跑起来,我就是一个很成功的跑者,谢谢你们。
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曾接到一个学生的恐怖电话:王老师,你老实回答我:台湾什么时候打战啊。我问他为什么问这个问题。他说打战我就不用读书了。可想他对读书的恐惧啊。你们为什么会对读书那么恐惧呢?因为你们面对太多的考试,太多的练习,太多的功课,你们觉得很累啊。今天,我给你们减减负。你上来一下,掌声鼓励。
你们知道生命中所有的真理都来自于日常生活。我们来研究一下这位美丽的天使。
贵姓。吴。吴小姐,把你的手表给我用一下。请问你的手表上是不是有一时针分针秒针。秒针是不是嘀嗒嘀嗒在走啊,请问这秒针一年内嘀嗒多少次啊。我替你算过了:秒针一年内嘀嗒约32万次。假如你是秒针,我跟你说:可怜的秒针啊,你一年内要嘀嗒32万次,你觉得怎么样?累。假如我跟你说:亲爱的秒针啊,你每次只要嘀嗒一下,你觉得怎么样?很轻松。你知道什么意思吗?秒针一年内要嘀嗒32万次,就相当于你们高中三年内要做很多的练习,考很多的考试,复习很多的功课一样,很累。但秒针每次只要嘀嗒一下,就相当于你们每时每刻,只要面对人生的一道难题就可以了。是不是这样。是。你真聪明,祝你高考成功,掌声鼓励她。
今年三月四月五月,三个月我要做180场演讲,很多老师认为我是一个超人,我现在告诉你:超人是怎么来的。我从来不是去想我要做180场演讲。当我一想到我要做180场演讲时,我会晕倒的。我想到的只是今天我在金清中学演讲,这是我生命中唯一的一次演讲,所以每次演讲我都很投入,很开心,很快乐。各位你懂我意思吗?
中国国产汽车,目前卖得最好的一个品牌:奇瑞。他的创始人显然学过心理学,动员大会是这样开的:朋友们,为了创造我们的民族品牌,我们必须奋斗五十天。大家很努力地跟他干了五十天后,他说:我们再干五十天。我们继续奋斗五十天,结果奋斗了五百天。如果一开始,他宣布:为了创造我们的民族品牌,我们必须奋斗五百天。估计一百多人都逃掉了。因为五百天太难了,各位你懂我意思吗?
你们的父亲有时活着很累?他在想:我儿子今年要高考了,他这个分数能考第几批啊,应该报什么专业呢?这个专业能找到工作吗?一个月能有多少工资,一千多块钱,什么时候买得起房子,连房子都没有,谁会嫁给他啊。他为什么会那么累,因为他的目标太远了。
生命中什么目标是最重要的呢?对
我要求你们每天临睡前把第二天的目标写下来,并且分解成每一个小时。
目标是很重要的。马路上有两辆出租车,一辆车是空车,一辆车载满了客人,你们认为哪一辆车容易发生车祸啊。
空车。
正确。
因为满车司机有个明确的目标:我要把这些人送到金清中学,而空车司机拼命在找:我的上帝在哪里?
但目标最重要的是:第二天的目标,并且要分解成一小时的目标。所有的目标能不能完成就成于一小时的目标能不能完成。
我现在学一门手艺:萨克斯,培养一点艺术家的气质。第一天吹萨克斯时,有三个邻居敲门就想打架:这么难听的噪音。第五天只有一个邻居敲门了:王老师,你们家死人了,这音乐很悲哀,总算有点音乐的感觉了。每天只吹一个小时,从不超过一小时,每天吹每天吹,从不间断,一年以后,两年以后就可以上台献艺了。
爱因斯坦说过:任何一件你喜欢的事,只要每天干一个小时,每天干,连续干上五年后,你就可以成为最专业的人才。
有个理科学生说:王老师,我的理综成绩不错,语文英语比较差,最后我强补语文英语,理综下降了。为什么下降了。因为你把理综放下了。有人问:王老师,高一高二时英语不错,高三阅读理解完形填空越来越差为什么?请问你有没有保持高一高二每天读两篇的习惯啊。没有。还有人问:为什么每次考试时间都不够用,速度上不去。英语选择题AB已经排除了,CD不知道应该排除哪一个?难道你每道题目都要这么做吗?很多题目是不需要思考的,靠什么?直觉。直觉来自于哪里?
持续的练习。
很多同学数理化学不好什么原因?是因为太努力练习做得太多了,一高兴做三个小时,心情不好一题也不做。
直觉不来自于数量,而来自于持续性。
还有几天就要高考了,我要求你们每天做点基础题,每天做一点,保持感觉,每天做每天做,直到高考结束,高考一结束,你不准备再读了,你就把所有的卷子统统地捐献给希望工程。但你必须持续到高考。高考临近了,只有两个忠告:弱课再补补,强课保持惯性。
永嘉中学有一学生上来提问:王老师,我听了你的演讲挺激动的,但我还得面对现实。我问怎么了。他说难道你不知道这次月考我考砸了吗?请问他这句话说对了没有啊。当你想到这次模拟考考砸了你的心情怎样?很糟糕,而且你不知道下一步该怎么办?我问他月考考几门。六门。把六门的分数写出来。是不是语文和物理比较差,其它还可以。对。请问是语文和物理考差了吗?是。把物理卷子打开。请问是不是这些题目做错了,这些是对的。是啊。语文考砸了,这只是一种现象,模拟考考砸了,这只是一种现象,永远不要关注现象。关注现象只会让自己变得很消极。你们要学会关注事实。事实的本质是物理当中有些章节,有些题目做错了,查漏补缺就从这些错题开始。正确的题目你已经拥有正确的直觉,错误的题目说明这些知识点你还没有完全掌握。立刻回归教课书,重新整理这些知识点。整理两次,修正直觉需要两次以上重复。有位学生苦恼地说:高考临近了,怎么能做错题呢?那会打击我的自信心的。没想到你们那么脆弱。请问你们是成人吗?是。那今天我就给你讲讲什么是成人,我不讲学习,讲讲人生。你们知道什么叫失败吗?
失败正确的定义是六个字:
失败就是暂时的不成功。
我今天成为一个青年演说家,我的生命中有三次重大的失败,转折点。
第一次高考,我的第一志愿不好意思说:北大心理系。分数一出来,痛苦了两个月活下来了。现在想明白了,没考上也好啊。考上了我很有可能是一个科研工作者,或出国了。正因为没考上,害得我不得不艰辛创业,变得有点魅力。
第二次大学毕业,我在大学学得专业也很恐怖,麻醉。我在大学定了个目标:成为中华第一麻。我打麻药真的很好。我一边打麻药一边跟病人沟通,一沟通病人就睡着了。院长一看心理学大师,准备把我留在他们医院工作,有个条件:交三万块钱。94年,我父亲种了七亩水稻,我母亲养了两头小猪。怎么可能有三万块钱呢?没有。我不得不回到家乡的一个卫生院工作,那医院实在太小,没有病人让我麻醉。有老师问我:假如当初留在嘉兴工作会不会下海?我回答两点:第一:生活没有假如,我们所必须有的是面对生活的勇气。第二:如果留在嘉兴,很有可能出不来了,因为那工作环境很轻松很舒服,我为何要那么辛苦出来呢?你知道人有时是有惰性的,你们同意吗?同意。所以到今天我很感谢我父母亲,正因为他们的贫穷,造就了一个伟大的演说家。
第三次,99年我被香港汇融集团聘为最年青的职业经理人,干了三个月,被辞退了,辞退的理由也只有一条:据公司全体员工反映:你这个人只会说不会做。于是从99年下半年开始我就只说不做的工作,演讲。到现在快六年了,据说取得了一定的成功。
各位,那是失败吗?不,那只是暂时的不成功。
人生没有失败,只有两个字:放弃。只要生命延续,你一定会找到一条适合你自己的成长道路。
我现在根本不关心你们考多少分数,你必须面对它,决不能放弃。
你们台州有个学生,数学成绩很好,每次都是第一名。又怎样了呢?那一年高考数学特别的难,考完数学跳下来没了。为什么。因为他在数学中从来没有碰到过挫折。什么叫挫折。
闹钟的钟摆,向左摆向右摆,周而复始。请问当钟摆向左摆时,是不是在积蓄一种向右摆的能量?表面向左,能量向右。这就是人生,失中有得,得中有失。失败的同时就是成功的开始。希尔顿说过:
当一扇门向你关闭时,必有另一扇门向你打开。
有同学焦急地问:高一高二我成绩不错,为什么一模考二模考成绩很差。我告诉你这决不是坏事。这只是对你的提醒,告诉你哪些知识点你还得再掌握一下,避免你在高考中失败。
你们只有现在碰到更有的困难,你们才能更快地成为一个男人,一个女人。
有人说:王老师,关键只有十一天了,一切都来不及了。我已经堕落两年多了,人家已经是宝马奔驰车了,我还是手扶拖拉机。假如你是一辆拖拉机,送你两个字:借力。借助外地,你就能跑得更快。曾有个老板,有天开着辆奔驰车在路上跑,发现前面有个求救信号。原来是辆拖拉机坏了,拖拉机手说:能不能帮个忙啊。没问题。奔驰车老板拿出一根绳子,把它的尾巴与拖拉车的产头连在一起,拖着拖拉机前进。拖拉机手很谦虚地说:你要慢慢拖,我的性能不太好哦。没问题,我慢慢拖。突然之间有辆红色的宝马,里面做着一个红衣少女,从旁边飙过去了。奔驰车老板生气了,敢飙我的车,于是油门加下去了。警察一看吓坏了。公路上有三辆车有飙车,一辆是宝马车,一辆是奔驰车,还有一辆是拖拉机。请问:谁是你们的奔驰车。那就是你们的老师。
碧莲中学有位学生找我:王老师,我数学成绩不太好,能不能帮我。我说找我干嘛,找你们数学奔驰车。她说了一句让全中国人民伤心的话:我们数学老师有偏见,他只喜欢成绩好的同学,对我们成绩差的同学缺少爱。
各位你们别忘了:奔驰车与拖拉车中间有一根绳子。这根绳子是什么。两个字:主动。
在这个世界上没人会主动来帮你的,除非你主动要求帮助。
你们班里有多少学生啊。50个,数学老师几个。一个。一辆奔驰车要拉五十辆那个车来得及吗?
有同学说:关键是我脸皮比较薄哦。你还有脸说出来。据卡内基研究:每个人都有人性的弱点。只要你们一找你们老师,百分百的老师在想一个问题:小张啊,我在金清中学等你三年了,你总算认识到我的价值了,坐。
看了“"王国权关于高考的励志演讲"”
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一次成功的演讲离不开精彩的演讲稿。写演讲稿必须要经历充分的知识储备和情感储备,因此提前布置学生搜集有关演讲、写演讲稿的信息。那么中学生励志演讲稿有哪些呢?下面是由读文网小编分享的中学生励志演讲稿,希望对你有用。
同学们,你喜欢自己吗 你对自己满意吗?你很羡慕某些人,甚至愿意自己也成为他吗?如果你对自己有疑惑,那么我来告诉你:就像每一片叶子都有它独特的形状,每一朵花儿都有它独特的香味,我们每一个人都是世上独一无二的个体,在这个世界上,没有两个人是完全一样的。我们每一个人的存在,都有自己的价值与意义,别人可以比我好,也可以比我差,但没有人可以取代我。美国少年天使肯尼,一出生就因为身体畸形截掉双腿,后来又发现切口的根部被癌细胞侵入,只好把腰部以下的身体全部切除。但是,肯尼并没有向病魔低头,他在家人的帮助下向自己的生命挑战,拼命练习生存技能,使得自己日渐独立,能跟常人一样上学,甚至还学会了溜滑板、溜冰。肯尼的生命是美丽的、动人的。
有时候我们以为遭遇到的危机使我们走投无路了,却在事后发现这是生命的转机。美丽的生命在于勇于更新,且愿意努力学习。化蛹为蝶,才能使生命焕然一新。人的一生也需要蜕变才能成长。每一次蜕变都回带你走进人生的新领域、新境界,使你获得新的感受、新的惊喜。
健康的我们,更要学会容忍自己的不足和缺点。俗话说人无完人。正因为这样,我们才要不断学习、不断提高自己。如何在正视不足和缺点的前提下,采取积极的行动来弥补不足、克服缺点呢?一方面要正确和别人做比较,认识到自己在群体中处于什么样的位置,寻找以后努力的方向;另一方面要正确认识自己。不要只从不同的方面平价自己,却看不到自己的优点,老觉得“某某的学习比我好,某某的书法比我好,某某的琴比我弹得好”,而实际上每个人身上都有自己的闪光点:学习好的可能体育不如你,书法好的可能学习不如你,不要一味给自己挑毛病。既能够看到闪光点,也能够看到不足之处,对自己的认识才会全面,才能更好的取长补短。
台湾著名作家琼瑶,小时候除了语文外,其他学科成绩并不好。有一次,数学考试她只考了20分,学校发给她一张“通知单”,要她拿回去给父母盖章。捱到深夜,她鼓足勇气拿着通知书交给母亲。母亲整个脸色都阴暗下去,将他好好责骂了一顿。她绝望的给母亲写了一封长信,服毒自杀,幸亏抢救及时,才没有造成终身的遗憾。从死神手中逃回来的她,分析了自己的长处与短处,下决心取长补短,专心写作。父母默认了她的追求,她开始发挥自己写作方面的长处,真正追求自己的事业,最终取得了令人羡慕的成就。
所以我们要多鼓励自己:“成绩单不漂亮没关系,只要我努力,就是一名好学生!”“基础不好没关系,只要我每天都有进步,就是一种成功!”“我的生活是充满阳光的,努力的我最美丽!”这样自信的度过每一天,你会越来越体验到:我的人生是非常有价值的,我是最棒的!
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很多以青春为主题的励志演讲稿,对于我们的青年学生们具有很好的激励作用。下面是小编整理的青春励志演讲稿范文,分享给大家!
大家好,今天,我演讲的题目是《生命在平凡中闪光》
朋友们,我曾听过这样的感叹:我生不逢时,没赶上英雄时代,要不我也会扬名天下!我也听到类似的抱怨:我时运不佳,没摊上一个好岗位,否则咱也能露露脸!
是啊,和平年代,普通工作,我们很平凡。但我要说,伟大正寓于平凡之中,平凡的我们一样能高扬精神的风帆,因为平凡中,我们一样能够奉献!
在我们的身边,有这样一位普通共产党员,他没有豪言壮语,没有惊天动地的事迹,有的只是无私无畏,默默奉献。在鲜红的党旗下,他履行着共产党员神圣的义务和职责,从我做起,塑造着新时期×××广电人的光辉形象。
他中等身材,四方脸,黑红的脸膛,双目炯炯有神,他就是×××广播电视局物管中心保卫科长,一名普通但又是优秀的共产党员。
××年,伴着新世纪的钟声,×××告别了与之相伴×年之久的绿色军营,打起背包,转业至××广播电视局物管中心保卫科工作。说起广播电视,外人首先想到的是无冕之王——新闻记者,还有公众人物——名播音、名主持,在这样一个颇具几分吸引力和神奇色彩的单位里,保卫科的工作岗位,实在是最基层、最平凡、最累而又最不起眼的工作。有的朋友甚至戏谑地对×××说,堂堂的连职转业干部,咋就看起了电视台的大门呢?可×××却说“广电事业的发展需要名主持、名记者,可也离不开像我们这样的普通一员。在广电这棵参天的大树上,做一片默默无闻的绿叶又何妨。”就这样,在一个平凡得不能再平凡的岗位上,赵光文用自己的赤诚和真情牢牢地扎下了根。
×年里,有多少个节假日、公休日,他是在工作中度过的,他数不清;×年里,不分白天黑夜,随叫随到地干了多少事,他说不清;×年里,他关了多少窗,关了多少水龙头,关了多少灯,他记不清。而他数得清的是广电中心大楼纵横交错的消防管道;他说得清的是大楼里密密麻麻的电线电缆布置线路;他说得清的是中心大楼里每一位工作人员的姓名和上班作息规律!
夏天,职工们在蚊蝇成群、臭气熏人的下水道口,见到的是疏通堵塞、排放积水的×××;冬天,在寒冷刺骨的风雪里,职工们见到的是忙着扫雪清障的×××;每天最早到班的是他,最迟下班的也是他……事实上,凡他认为是他分内的工作,哪怕再苦、再累、再险,他都会主动请缨,说干就干。但当他高烧39度要住院挂水时,他却一拖再拖;陪妻子孩子逛公园,他总是没时间;好容易有个星期天,他又忙碌在结对帮扶对象的家中……
××同志曾经说过:“在平凡的岗位上,在人们认为没有前途的地方,一样会出英雄人物;在人们认为有前途的工作岗位上,也不见得会成为英雄。”我想,这句话套用在×××身上是再适合不过的。因为他有着这样的信念:“世上三百六十行,行行都得有人干,既然干了这一行,就要对这一行负起责任。”应着这句“负起责任”的宣言,×××用他的行动给我们作了最有力的证明。那是一个夏日暴雨的凌晨,×××在睡梦中被电话惊醒,广电中心地下室浸水、配电房告急。×××立即冒着滂沱大雨,赶到现场。当时由于雨量太大,地下室的水位迅速上涨,距离配电柜仅有3、4公分的高度差距,按照当时水势的蔓延速度,只要再过十几分钟,积水就将淹没配电柜,引发大面积的短路,进而造成地下室两台变压器爆炸,在现场抢险的同志们将面临生命危险。面对死神的威胁,×××没有退缩,他镇定自若地带领闻讯赶来的消防官兵,趟着齐腰深的积水,一面堵住进水口,一面寻找最佳位置,抢排积水。分分秒秒间,×××与洪水进行着一场生死较量,一分钟、两分钟……半小时、一小时……水位终于止住了上涨的脚步,险情排除了,配电房保住了。“为人民服务,再苦再累再危险我也甘心”——这是他的行动,更是他的心声。
对工作,×××有着一股夏天般的火热激情,对同志,×××则始终象春天一样温暖。保卫科有一位同志一直认为保安工作低人一等,加之性格倔强,脾气暴躁,执勤时经常与人发生争吵,甚至顶撞领导。为了帮助这位同志摆脱“自暴自弃”的消极状态,×××主动地在工作上给予他指导和督促,在生活上给予关心和帮助,通过以身作则帮助他逐步树立“干一行、爱一行”的思想,这种以心交心、春风化雨般的真诚很快感动了这位同志,使他的工作态度有了彻底转变,重新找到了生活的坐标。就这样,×××的真诚和关爱化作一股凝聚力和感召力,将保卫科十多位同志的心紧紧连在一起,人人争先,乐于奉献也随之在全科上下蔚然成风。
心血、汗水、辛劳和热忱,终于为×××换来了一系列的荣誉:×××市新长征突击手、优秀共产党员、消防工作先进个人……那一张张奖状是他辛勤工作的结晶,那一本本证书是他创新求实的写照!这就是×××——安于平凡,耐得住寂寞,而又积极进取,乐于奉献。×××是平凡的,但谁又能否认,那样一份无私、一份奉献同样也是是一道亮丽而夺目的风景呢?
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王鑫是75后知名电影人、影评人,成名的过程堪称“人在囧途”现实版,今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇王鑫的精彩演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
我是一刻talks的讲者王鑫,很高兴在这里跟大家分享。
我是一个宁夏人,当初一时冲动买了一张车票来到北京,就用大戏里说的话是,我到京城去挣功名。
其实我是有一点交流障碍症的,我曾经严重到几乎没有办法直视跟我交谈的人,怎么改变它呢?我买了一张北京地图来到天安门广场,开始给人指路,当然是不收费的。我被很多人驱赶,甚至有些人认为我是神经病。但是我确实需要这样一个机会来锻炼我自己。其实这是一个很科学的方法,你要在最短的时间内夺得对方的信任,并且让他认为你不是骗子,而且你要在很短的时间内,把他想要去的地方,很干脆、很直接、很明确的告诉他。一个星期之后,我觉得我应该可以去正视我自己、甚至正视跟我一起交谈的人。
我也曾经在北京,像大家一样,开始找工作,很不幸的是,基本上都被人PASS掉了。后来一度让我自己失去信心了,我又找到了一个办法,那就是我去关注所有的招聘信息,把它们都记下来,不管我能做的和不能做的,我都去应聘。我那段时间疯狂的在应聘,一到周六、周末的时候,基本上可以说每天有十几场应聘。刚开始一鞠躬汗就下来,到后来我坐在那里口沫横飞,再到后来我基本上把我的面试官都看羞了。
后来我就很自然的进到一家企业去工作,那个时候我记得我经常打电话给我爸妈我妈说,其实你是可以回来的;我爸说,你要腿勤腰软。这两句话,其实对我而言,我当时觉得受益匪浅。所以所有的事情我都很认真的去做,不管这个事情跟我有关系没关系。
其实我觉得我们被很多人教化的有一些错误的观念,很多人说你要做你擅长的事情,把你不擅长的事情放开。但是我觉得这是错的,如果做擅长的事情,我为什么要千里迢迢来到北京,如果要做擅长的事情,我可以在老家娶妻生子,开枝散叶,甚至我现在说不定运气好的话,还能当个科长。所以去做自己不擅长的事情吧,你可能不懂,可能不会,但是你承担了这件事情做下来了,那么你下次就会了,做赔了也没关系,反正不是你的公司,老板会给你买单的。心里有一个一直在躁动的声音,就告诉我说,你得知道你想要做什么,你想要干什么,甚至说你未来是什么样子。
就跟我们现在“一刻talks”这几个关键词一样,就是先要有思想。思想的意思就是说,你首先要明白你要做什么,你得醒过来,你的人生是睡着的,或者对你的周遭一切是麻木不知的。所以那个时候我就说好,给自己的未来做一个规划。当我开始有这个想法的时候,其实我的忧虑就开始了。
我们都知道,从一个城市到另外一个城市,可能有更多的不安全感,我会担心很多事情,担心有一天失业,担心有一天不能够温饱,担心有一天爱的人离我而去,担心有一天我被迫回到我原来那个城市的时候,我无法面对我身边的朋友和同学。我甚至就在想,我说如果这样我就混吃等死下去,会不会30岁以后还拿着简历到处给你投。。其实对于所有人来说,都可能会有这样那样的问题,不是什么事,但是我就不行,我会一件一件加在我身上,非常的忧虑,非常的没有安全感。
我曾经站在北京的天桥上,大晚上的大概11、12点多,看到车流的时候我想纵身一跳,这就是我自己,一事无成,庸庸碌碌,也许跟每天早上上班的地铁人流中,每天吞吐这60万人,我就是其中一个,没有脸、没有思想。
后来我说改变吧,一定要改变。
于是我就尝试着去了解一些我不清楚的东西,首先我得确定我要干嘛,我在30岁的时候对着镜子刮胡子,突然想到一个问题说,你到底爱什么?其实我真的是只有一个答案,我爱电影,真的爱电影。我会在我吃不饱饭的时候买盗版光盘,虽然这样是不对的,但是我看了更多的电影、去了解了很多很多。像个傻子一样,往那个遥不可及的方向前进,即便有一天我倒在途中,没关系。
确定了自己的目标和方向之后,紧接着就遇到一个很尴尬的事情,你怎么样像你的目标前进?我那个时候忧郁到,我住在一个很旧的小区,每天晚上下班之后把自己喂饱。然后到了夜深人静的时候失眠,想很多事,于是我就下到小区里去散步。以致于那个时候小区里的野猫和野狗都认识我。
那个时候我换了很多工作,我一个朋友说,你不行,你老跳槽,你说你这人能不能安安分分的做一件事情,你只要能安分做一件事情,以你的这个聪明才智是肯定可以的。其实我换工作、跳槽,一系列的东西不是说我是贪图新鲜感的人。我后来跟他讲了一个道理,说我们经常可以在路边看到车门打开,有人先伸出脚,他把脚先伸出车外,然后再站出来,很漂亮。但是有些人是先把脑袋伸出来的。那么先把脑袋伸出来,就像司机从后面踹了一脚,被踢出来一样。我是要换,我是要变,但我怎么去变,我用什么方法去变?这个变化中,我该怎么样去做?
后来我跟我的一些朋友在吃饭,那天喝了很多的酒,然后我对大家宣布说,我要做一名电影导演,以后我的电影首映的时候,我们在场的1、2、3个,都要陪我脱光上衣,站在那里唱《好汉歌》,我会把它作为一个非常好的环节。
宿醉完了第二天,我问朋友说,我说我昨天发生了什么事情?他说你想当导演。我说,对,我知道,我说其他的。他说,其他的,好像我们哥几个要不把你拉住的话,你就把那饭馆里玻璃缸养的牛蛙生吃了。我说,那我去从做编剧开始吧,我也去听了很多老师的课,我发现我听不明白。我也去认真的研究了一下理论,我连吉尔德勒兹的《时间影像》都看过了,后来发现好像不太适合我。于是我就有了自己的办法去解决它,很简单,我跟大家分享一下方法,做编剧确实挺难,后来我就开始从自己写东西,后来给人当枪手,当然也没有署我的名字,我也心甘情愿,但是至少他让我从一个行业到另外一个行业活下来了。
在《人在囧途》的时候,我是以资方的副总和项目总监的身份进入的。但是有不擅长的东西让我很崩溃,当初起《人在囧途》四个字的时候,我觉得自己还挺牛的。因为当初《人在囧途》的名字叫《爱回家》,结果后来被人改成《回家爱》,我实在不能去一出来带这么LOW的一个项目,这个名字就让我想死。后来我就把它叫《人在囧途》,因为我是70后嘛,我们小时候看过一个电视剧,叫《人在旅途》,然后把它改了一个字。
当我开始洋洋得意的时候,院线的老大告诉我说,就凭你这个名字,你以后就不要干电影圈了。我说为什么啊?名字起的挺好的呀。后来他说,买票的时候,怎么打出这个“?”。当初确实打不出来,然后我就跟媒体的朋友说,哥哥给你发个稿我也没法发,我只能发《人在口途》。
当时我就想切腹,这世界都塌掉了。你想,人去买票,打不出来,海报上打不出来。包括我们在电影临上映之前,我们的整个宣传团队集体辞职了。当时我哭的跟刘备似的,我说别走啊,我立军令状啊,立投名状啊,这个片子如果不过3千万的话,我就引咎辞职。但是很多东西都熬过来了。因为没有什么东西你可以控制的,你不能要求这个社会来适应你。那就从自己开始,从自己开始变。
我特别喜欢一句话,叫做生活本来太沉闷,但跑起来就有风。我一直觉得,自己能够和这个世界抗衡,可是发现最渺小的就是自己,所以就很努力的在做,一步两步三步。一直到后来,我自己的电影今年就要跟大家见面了。所以说,我来到北京将近十年的时间,经历了从天桥上要跳下去,经历了众叛亲离,经历了被人侮辱和嘲笑,但没事,我过来了,你们也可以的。
我今天在想,我说能有什么东西能跟大家去分享?又想起了我母亲当时跟我的一段对话,那个时候北京的房子已经涨到基本上五环以内很难找到很便宜的房子了,都很贵。我妈妈无限忧伤的坐在我的旁边,拉着我的手说“孩子,北京的房价太贵了,你可怎么办那?”其实她说的意思我明白,就是我的家庭帮不上我。后来我就安慰她,房价涨的再快也没人出息长的快。一直到后来,我把所有东西都解决了之后,我还跟我妈把这个当笑话讲,我说,那个时候其实你跟我说房价涨的很快的时候,其实我心里也是挺长草的。但是我妈说,挺好的,你那个时候说这句话的时候,我就知道你肯定能把所有东西你要买的买到。
我记得印象深刻的还有,就是当初我们在《人在?途》首映礼的时候,拷贝放反了。这个事情简直是天塌地陷。后来,经历了名字的改动,上映前政审的不通过,很多很多东西,一直到后来我们片子上映之后,首周的票房只有十万块,这怎么办?所以,想了很多的办法,最终让它成为当年的一匹黑马。
当你不顺的事情发生之后,你想办法去改变,认真的去调整自己,在这其中找到乐趣。我觉得这就是一个最好的方法,永远不要等,永远不要停留下来,永远不要被无数强大的对手打倒,永远要往前走。其实转身和回头都很简单,我可以回到宁夏,我可以进一家企业,就这样放弃我的电影梦想。也许我们生活经历的迷茫和焦虑,它们无时无刻不充斥在我们的身边,但是别把它当回事,谁都会遇到。你不能躺被窝里睡觉,忙起来,去看书,去跟人聊天,去跟朋友谈天说地,去看一些比自己更强的人的经历。往前走,别回头。
我们在经历着各种各样的变化,但是我们永远比它变化更快,当变化来的时候,我们利用好它,让自己前进。
我爸爸在北京三院,最终因为结肠癌去世前,他说了一句话,用家乡话说的,他说不怕慢就怕站。人慢了没关系,一步一步往前走吧,但是别站住。我们生命就像个陀螺一样,我必须得等着一鞭子一鞭子去抽打你,必须你得高速旋转。如果你停下来,你就不知道滚到哪个角落了。所以我们把自己得武装起来,用力的活下去。一鞭一鞭的让我们速度转的越来越快,我们总有一天能够实现我想要的。也许它很久,也许它很漫长,也许被所有人笑话,没什么问题,就这样没心没肺的活着吧,让自己开始去做任何你想做的事情。慢慢地,你就会找到一个答案。
我记得那时候我用了一个月的工资给他买了个山寨手机,装了一首歌叫《草原之夜》,放他枕头边上,因为我父亲是骑兵。他和母亲一起支援大三线,到了一个边陲的地方,一直到他退休。他躺在那,我放这首歌的时候,他眼泪就下来了,他已经没有意识,偶尔清晰偶尔糊涂。他后来跟我说,男人要有责任,照顾好妈妈。他跟我说,你要喜欢一件事情,你爱把它做完。
我躲在走廊哭的时候我就在想,人生没什么好怨言的,我总能做我自己想做的事情。做个愿意改变自己的傻子,一直往前走,人生就是不怕慢,就怕站。
谢谢大家。
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励志英语演讲是英语语言的激发力让人心潮澎湃,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些三分钟励志英语演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
so if we want to learn english well ,we must practice reading englisheveryday ,acturally practicing repeatly is the best way to succeed.whenyou speak ,don't care how poorly or how well you speak just care aboutcatching the chance to speak……
hello! ladies and gentlemen, it is so nice to meet you !i am gladthat you can spend this precious time having this class in thisafternoon.
now please allow me to introduce myself to you .my name is
wangjia and imajored in traffic engineering .baoji is my hometown it is verybeautiful. and the people are very friendly.
as we all knowen thingking is easy acting is difficult and to putone's thoughts into actions is the most difficult thing in the world.
so if we want to learn english well ,we must practice reading englisheveryday ,acturally practicing repeatly is the best way to succeed.whenyou speak ,don't care how poorly or how well you speak just care aboutcatching the chance to speak ,enjoy losing face or just forget your facebecause the more you speak the better your english will become,neverafraid ofmaking mistakes because the more mistakes you make the more progress you will make.as a man living in the world ,we must try our best to makeeach day our masterpiece and don't let our parents down ,don't ever letour country down ,most importantly don't let ourself down.
yesterday is a memory tommorrow is a dream so live for todayjust do it right now.i believe if you can dream it you can make it ,ifyou
do you will win if you don't you won't.believe in youselftrustyouself try your best. don't give up ,never give in, never lose hope ,never say impossible .the success is coming ! thank you !
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金语俊是韩国“DDANZI日报”社长,今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇金语俊在“青春Festival”节目上的励志演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
年轻人要明白的第一件事是:自己的欲望自己做主;要和自己一对一。
第二件事是:应该问自己:什么事情能让我兴奋,让自己幸福?
第三件事是:弄明白自己的欲望之后,最好的方法是:别废话了,开始先去做了。不要还没做就说:那事情多难呀,然后自己被自己劝服而放弃。
某一刻的幸福会在那一刻永远失去,所以,我们必须要立刻幸福。
概括起来讲,我们一定要思考我们什么时候是最幸福的,自己的欲望是什么,并且自己去面对。想要的东西要主动去寻找,不要去理睬他人的眼色,只管自己去做。但这并不代表一定会成功,也可能失败,也可能只收获小小的成功。不过,现在必须要付出行动。幸福,不像储蓄,日后可以支取。为什么不努力让现在幸福,而非要留到以后呢?过得好的人都是牛逼的人,但牛逼的人不一定过得好。
一项对40多岁的成功人士的调查发现其成功的共同点是:他们都不是从年轻时起就做一件事然后坚持到40岁才成功的,而是在年轻时毫无目的地做了很多无关的事,在35岁左右发现了自己最擅长的事,再用10年的时间专注做那件事,结果终于成功了。假如世上有神存在,会觉得人最可笑的就是做计划了。别做梦了吧。请活出当下的幸福。
我年轻时,去欧洲背包旅行,在巴黎街头看到一个西装店,就跟穿自个儿衣服似的,我瞅准一西装就往身上套,连衬衫、领带、皮鞋也统统拿下来穿上了。所有的一切,就发生在30秒以内,就跟来取衣服似的,一气呵成。
回头一看镜子,真尼玛帅!然后我才看的价钱,折合韩币大概是12万左右。当时我身上一共有120多万。当时就想直接买了,不过仔细一看,原来后面多个0 ,是120万……我平生买的所有衣服加起来,还TM没这贵。
但我实在没法儿脱下来,镜子里那小伙简直帅的掉渣,于是,我陷入苦恼,原本计划的行程还有2个月。每天省吃俭用,只花2万块钱,剩下的2个月我就不会饿肚子,还会有地儿住,先算上这60天分量的安全感。
这60天的安全感给我带来的幸福,能比现在把这件衣服买到手的幸福大吗?仔细一想,应该不会。1、算了,走吧。2、等哥到了30岁,再回到这里,买件最称心的西装吧。3、等等,后面的2个月,不是还没到吗?去你妹,当我想到第三项,就果断买下了那件西装,然后去公园露宿。后来才知道,那件西装的牌子叫做BOSS。
第二天早上一醒,我就开始发愁了,现在身上只有5万,咋整?我拿着这5万,去找了一个宾馆住了一晚,第二天早上,我边结账边说:老板,我去火车站拉过来3个客人,你就让我在这多住一晚吧。还有,如果我能拉过来5个人以上,就按人头给我提成吧,他说行。
当天,我只花了一个小时,就拉过来30多个住客。凭什么?因为哥穿着BOSS啊!仅仅一周,我们的关系逆转了,老板跪求我说,大神千万别走。我手中也有了足足50多万,当时就想到:哥这么牛逼,干嘛给你丫做生意呢?
当时在东欧国家,比较缺提供住宿的地方。我就去捷克,花了50万租了一套房子。然后直接去了火车站,我心想这次不要光做亚洲人的生意。我一把拉过来刚下火车的一个帅小伙,说:给你包吃住,跟我干吧!没理由不干吧?哥穿着“BOSS”呢!丫是个英国小子,真TM能干,生意直接爆棚了。接下来我又多雇了几个帅哥美女来拉客,生意越来越好。我在那当了一个月的皮包老板,吃得好,睡得香。然后,当我离开捷克的时候,兜里一共揣着1000多万。
这一切,是因为当时买了BOSS西装才有可能发生的。自那以后,我就有了一个一直遵守到现在的原则:“现在就要幸福!”人们通常认为,幸福像存款一样,可以日后拿出来用。但实际上,那是不可能的。
日后再幸福吧?扯谈!人生的每一个瞬间,只要过了那一刻就会永远消失。所以,现在就要幸福起来。世界上也没有什么比“计划”更可笑更坑爹的了。凡事绝对不可能按你的“计划”发展。
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励志是一门学问,这门学问大多数人都读不懂,学不精,进而形成了一个独立学科“成功学”。励志学,不仅仅是要激活一个人的财富欲望,更要激活一个人的生命能量,唤醒一个民族的创造热情。今天读文网小编给大家分享一些关于励志演讲稿,希望对大家有所帮助。
尊敬的老师、亲爱的同学们:
大家早上好!浓浓的秋风送走了教师节,也迎来了中秋节,在这里,我提前祝大家中秋节快乐!我是来自高二(8)班的xxx,今天我演讲的题目是《把握青春,守望未来》。
开学已经有一个星期了,在这新的学期里,高三学长学姐们逐渐被高考笼罩,高二的同学们想必也从对面那幢楼里隐约看见了自己的高三,不知高一的学弟学妹们是否已适应了高中生活呢?想必你们应该斗志昂扬地挑战高中的学习生涯吧?
我想,无论哪一个年级的同学都希望在那个充满阳光的六月放手一搏,用优异的成绩回报、父母的教导与期待,也对自己十几年读书生涯呈上一张满意的答卷!这也是我们身处思中的原因所在。
可是天上不会掉陷饼,即便是智商超群的天才也需要学习才能体现出其天才之处。我们在学习过程中也会遇到挫折,遇到这样那样的失败。我想,只要我们能专注与坚持,我们就能战胜挫折。
窗外世界太多彩,太让人期待,你无法将视线停留在黑板上,网络的吸引太强大,在磁场的作用下,你被它深深吸引,难以自拨;学习的乏味以及带给人的寂寞,你难以承受;老师,家长施加的压力太大,你只顾挣脱,早已忘记责任……太多太多的原因,或者可以说是太多太多的借口,你不能专注,你不能坚持,你只能放弃。也许颓废的你在父母哀求的眼神中想过专注,想过坚持、无奈,花花世界终将你驾驭。你投降了。也许未来的你只能说:“曾经的我是那样优秀,如果我能……”你会说什么呢?你能做什么呢?未来的你只能假设,不过幸运的是,现在我只是在假设。
所以,同学们,我们还有机会,我们还有大把的青春。永远不要后悔过去,在若干年后,你还能说青春无悔!你还能说我尽力了!可能你只比别人差一点点,别以为小小的差距微不足道,两条相交的直线在拥有一个交点后,一条直线永远只能仰视另一条直线。同学们,思中就是我们的交点,若干年后,你想要去仰视谁?还是想要被谁仰视?现在我们身处同一校园读书,未来呢?同学们,若不努力,就来不及了!你到底还剩多少时间?你还停留在只满足于对未来的想象中吗?理想是丰满的,现实是残酷的。生活在节奏越来越快的社会,再不赶上他人的脚步,你就只能成为被捕食的虾米。不要报怨学习带给你多少痛苦,扪心自问,你为学习付出了多少,一份耕耘,一份收获。如果你诚恳地面对学习,它永远不会亏待你的!
我来自高二(8)班,我来自高二年级的普通班,可是我始终坚持不到最后一刻我绝不承认自己普通,不到最后我绝不相信自己不会提高。我绝不承认自己长了一颗比别人差一等的脑袋,我绝不相信在高考这场战争中我会变成炮灰!我希望,我坚信,若干年后的我们会大声呼喊:“青春无悔”。
谢谢大家!
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励志英语演讲是英语语言的激发力除了让人心潮澎湃还能让人学到很多的英语知识,今天读文网小编给大家分享一些3分钟励志英语演讲稿,希望对大家有所帮助。
Dear teacher and classmates:
I am very glad to make a speech here in this class again! This time, I'd like to talk something about English.
I love English. English language is now used everywhere in the world. It has become the most common language on Internet and for international trade. Learning English makes me confident and brings me great pleasure.
When I was seven, my mother sent me to an English school. At there, I played games and sang English songs with other children . Then I discovered the beauty of the language, and began my colorful dream in the English world.
Everyday, I read English following the tapes. Sometimes, I watch English cartoons.
On the weekend, I often go to the English corner. By talking with different people there, I have made more and more friends as well as improved my oral English.
I hope I can travel around the world someday. I want to go to America to visit Washington Monument, because the president Washington is my idol. Of course, I want to go to London too, because England is where English language developed. If I can ride my bike in Cambridge university, I will be very happy.
I hope I can speak English with everyone in the world. I'll introduce China to them, such as the Great Wall, the Forbidden City and Anshan. I know, Rome was not built in a day. I believe that after continuous hard study, one day I can speak English very well.
If you want to be loved, you should learn to love and be lovable. So I believe as I love English everyday , it will love me too.
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王兴是人人网(原校内网)创始人,饭否网总裁,美团网创始人兼CEO。今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇王兴在2015GIF极客公园创新大会上的励志演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
刚才听了 Ray Kurzweil 非常精彩的演讲,多数人知道他是从《奇点临近》这本书,但是今天我想跟大家介绍一本让我非常有收获的书,它的名字叫《资源革命》,这本书让我从另一个角度思考我们过去几年做美团网以及看互联网的很多事情。
美团是一家非常年轻的公司,到现在不到 5 年的时间,从这个角度回头看过去的 4 年发生了很多事情,我们经历很大的指数增长,去年做到 460 亿的交易规模,积累 2 亿多的手机用户,我们在很多细分领域做得不错,但是《资源革命》提供不同的角度让我思考这件事情。
给大家举一个电影院的例子,电影在过去几年经历非常快速的发展。全国 2013 年底有 4600 家电影院,14 年底有 5600 家,增加了 22%,这是资源供给。从资源需求来看,2013 年全国票房 218 亿,2014 年底票房 296 亿,增加了 36%。
差别是怎么产生的?差别的背后是什么?资源使用效率提升了。之前的资源使用率非常低,大家可能不知道,全国的电影院虽然现在生意越来越好,但是总体的上座率只有 15% 左右,这里有巨大的资源浪费。
建一个电影院需要很大的空间,需要几层楼和设施以及幕布,资源投进去消耗很多。经济学上这些投入都是固定成本,多卖一张票、多去一个人看电影是边际成本,它增加的部分很小。我们能用各种方法,不管是美团还是别人来干,不管用互联网方法还是非互联网方法提升资源使用率,这能带来商业上的价值,同时在用户端和商户端。
把汽油车换成电动车的改进是有限的。电影是比较小的例子,这里面 15% 的资源使用率已经让人非常惊讶。但是我想举一个更夸张的例子,汽车。
北京的雾霾问题非常严重,PM2.5 令人讨厌,而且一部分来自汽车尾气排放,有些人认为如果能够把一部分汽车减少污染排放或者把内燃汽车变成电动车就可以解决很多问题,这当然是一部分。但很有趣的是我们看整个汽车行业时有可能最大的变革机会并不在汽车本身,不在于它是烧油还是用电池,而是在另一个更宏观的层面,也就是资源使用率的层面。
中国没有数据,但是美国有数据,一辆车生产出来后 95% 的时间被放在那里,只有 5% 在行驶,这 5% 里面再细分,只有 2.5% 是正常速度驾驶的,另外 0.8% 是在找停车位,还有0.5% 是堵在路上。
这里有巨大的提升机会。举个例子,如果人工智能有很大的进展,就不需要花费百分之零点几的时间找停车位,汽车可以少开很多路,可以少产生很多污染,不管汽油、柴油还是电池。另外,如果路上交通堵塞都没有的话我们可以再节省百分之零点几。
这里的变革技术不是汽车本身,跟轮胎 、方向盘、发动机完全没有关系,它需要的是更高层面的组织形式。如果车都联网了,如果位置信息都在中央系统有了,大家可以调度每个红绿灯、十字路口的车流和车的速度这样就不会堵塞了。堵塞是因为每个人在独立做决策,如果你把决策汇集到系统,能够很好的调度整个车群,那么交通堵塞就会少很多。
还有 95% 的停放时间,多么可怕,如果这时候这些汽车可以被使用起来,将创造多么大的价值。所以现在互联网上才有很火的共享经济,从所有权和使用权分离的层面能够改变车的使用模式,减少对资源的消耗。
互联网会根本改变所有行业,但不一定发生在最底层
我认为互联网能带来巨大的价值,互联网可能会很根本的很彻底的改变所有行业,但是这个根本的、彻底的改变往往不一定发生在最底层。就像大家讨论互联网汽车,可能最大的机会并不是在造车本身,并不是在造一辆更好的汽油车,也不是在把汽油车换成电动车,而是在怎么样自动驾驶,怎么样协同减少堵塞,怎么样用商业模式减少需要车的数量,让大家达到同样的目的需要更少的资源、需要更少的车。
很多人认为极客喜欢科技,但是事情最大的价值可能并不见得在最底层的技术上面,因为一个时代的进步它需要科技的变革,但也需要新的商业模式、的组织模式,而且有时候新的商业模式和新的组织模式很可能比底层的新科技本身创造更大的价值。
我举另一个例子,我们从另一个角度理解这个事情,并不是你做的事情不底层就 low 了。
科学分很多,有物理、化学、生物、社会学、经济学、心理学,如果你从最底层想的话这些事情都是回到物理上面,就那么几个基本的物理原理,如果足够大的计算机模型是不是就不需要化学了?因为你能准确计算出原子、点子的运动,而化学是基于物理的,你只要知道底层的物理原理,你有足够大的计算能力就能够把化学反应计算出来。
我们需要生物吗?除非你承认有超自然力量存在,否则某一个生物体就是化学的生化反应最后形成生物学,你把物理搞明白了,你把生化搞明白了,你有足够大的计算机,有无穷的计算 能力,你确实能够把每一个动物体最高的行为做出来。
有了个体的行为包括人的行为之后,你知道他的心理和生理之后我们还需要社会学吗?需要经济学吗?从某种角度来说不需要。
但事实上人类社会并不是这么组织的,所以我们需要不同层面的东西,我们需要有人研究物理,需要有人研究化学、生物 学、心理学、社会学、经济学各方面的东西,而且这些科学遇到的挑战和创造的价值不见得比解决最底层的问题更小。
今天我们在互联网上碰到类似的问题或者类似的机会,我始终相信互联网会改变一切,凡是一切没有被互联网改变的行业都即将被互联网改变,但是这个改变是根本、是彻底,但不一定是最底层的。
例如互联网对农业的改变,互联网对食品、对餐饮的改变,互联网对汽车的改变,它并不是改变你种的稻子,或者改变餐饮不是改变菜的好坏,造车也是这样的。
美团所从事的是移动比特辅助移动原子
世界分成原子和信息两个部分,原子是物质单位,比特是信息单位,互联网一个是用移动比特代替移动原子,一个用移动比特辅助移动原子。
如果信息本身就是目的,你看一个视频或者读一个电子书,你需要的不是那些介质,你需要的是信息。以前印书需要伐木、造纸、印刷,把它输送到你的手里去。一开始出现的是在互联网卖书,亚马逊、当当它是用移动比特辅助移动原子,你不用跑到书店去买书了,你直接网上把书寄到后面就好了。进展到后面,你根本不需要书了,你有 kindle 以后可以把书传过来,代替了移动原子。
但互联网还有很多方面,美团所从事的不是移动比特代替移动原子,我们干的是移动比特辅助移动原子的事情。因为不管互联网如何发达 、网速如何快、手机 CPU 如何高、屏幕如何好,它都不能代替你咀嚼一块牛肉或者按摩时候舒服的感觉。但是这里有用移动比特辅助移动原子的机会,就像美团干的事情,例如电影院已经建好了,资源已经消耗了,我们怎么样让大家能省钱省心买到更便宜的票、看到更好的电影,你还需要去电影院。
在餐饮方面更是如此,如果电影的将来很有可能被网络视频部分替代的话,餐饮在很长时间是看不到的,因为你最终还是需要吃饭,这里面物质无法被取代。但是你可以用移动比特辅助移动原子,让大家找到更好的餐馆,知道点什么菜更好,得到更好的折扣或者更好的服务。或者另一方面改变移动原子的方向,像美团一开始帮你找餐馆,后面你不想出去可以外卖送过来。
一个专门送外卖的速度效率是高于你自己的,你自己开车坐地铁去一个地方很零散,不如用外卖的方式,一个更系统组织的方式把食物送到你面前。换一个组织模式效率更高,对资源消耗率更少,总体资源使用率更高。
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李彦宏是百度公司创始人、董事长兼首席执行官,全面负责百度公司的战略规划和运营管理。今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇李彦宏的精彩演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
各位亲爱的同学们,很高兴我们又在一起了,你们开心吗?
每一次和大家相聚,我都非常开心。去年的8月,当我站在Summer Party的舞台上,看到同学们聚在一起,上万人的手臂一起挥舞,一起欢乐,庆祝。那一瞬间,我产生了一个强烈的愿望:那就是过年的时候,我们更应该热热闹闹地开个年会,庆祝我们百度十五周年。今天,就让我们一起欢聚,一起任性!
我们今天开会的地方,首都体育馆的斜对面,就是国家图书馆。我还记得在当年上大学的时候,在冬天冒着大风,骑着自行车,来这个图书馆借书的情形。而今天,百度索引的网页信息,已经相当于60,000多个中国国家图书馆。每个人不管他在哪儿,离信息和知识的距离,都是一样的。15年前,在创立百度的第一天,我们就确立了这样的一个使命:“让人们最平等便捷地获取信息、找到所求”。十五年来,我们其实也就只做了这一件事情,再过十五年也好,五十年也好,我们还会把这件事情继续做下去!这是我们值得为之奋斗一生的事业!
几天前,我收到一位小学校长给我发来的邮件,他感谢百度文库对他们的帮助。这所小学位于偏远的科尔沁草原。老师和孩子们害怕贫困,但是他们更害怕与世隔绝。由于地方太偏,几年来学校的年轻老师流失严重,教学几乎无法继续。这位小学校长坚信互联网能够帮老师和孩子们走出困境。他通过百度连上了文库。现在老师们可以随时找到最优秀的教学课件,让孩子们得到更好的教育,还能把自己的教学经验通过百度文库向全国来分享。校长告诉我,是百度帮助孩子们和老师们打开了心中连接世界的窗户,放飞属于他们的梦想!
十五年来,我们坚守使命、砥砺前行。
在PC搜索领域,我们从来不缺竞争对手,也从来不惧怕竞争对手。同学们,因为有你们,百度在搜索领域的地位永远不会被撼动;因为有你们,竞争对手抄袭的速度,永远都赶不上百度创新的速度!
移动云的同学们,你们用两年多的时间,打了一场艰苦而漂亮的大仗,帮公司顺利地实现了移动的转型!你们用行动向外界证明:百度人民很行!
百度地图的同学们,你们不仅获得了绝对领先的市场份额,而且改变了行业的规则,让全体的网民都用上了免费的导航软件,“出门就查百度地图”,我也是你们最忠实的用户!
还有我们贴吧的同学,你们创造了一个全新的世界,让亿万兴趣相投的人在这里相聚。2015,“上贴吧、找组织”——同学们,约吗?
还有你们,技术体系的同学们,百度大脑正在引领人工智能的方向,语音和图像识别技术已经与世界比肩。对此,我只想对你们说一个字:干得漂亮!
亲爱的百度同学,我特别想和你们一起欢呼!我为你们感到骄傲和自豪!
今天,我们也很高兴地邀请到部分百度同学的家人,来到年会现场。我要向所有百度家属表示最衷心的感谢!正是因为你们,让我们每一天辛苦的工作之后,能够回到一个温暖的港湾!让我们在遭受失败和挫折时,重新获取斗志与力量!是你们,让我们每天的奋斗变得更有意义,让我们把最热烈的掌声,献给我们的亲人们!
我还想在这里,向百度全体四万五千名员工提前拜年。不论你们在北京、上海、深圳、广州,还是在美国、日本、巴西、印尼、泰国、埃及、新加坡,不论你们是在现场,还是在收看直播,我们的欢乐在一起,我们的祝福在一起,我们的心在一起!
今天,台下还有一些亲切的面孔,他们在百度成长初期就加入了公司,为百度的发展做出了重大贡献。传说中的百度“创业七剑客”,今天到了6位。在百度论语的故事中,同学们都熟知他们的名字,他们是百度事业和文化最早的奠基者。让我们向他们致敬,让我们以最热烈的掌声,欢迎他们回来,与我们一起庆祝百度十五周岁的生日!
十五年的百度,风雨兼程。尤其是在过去两年,我们过得并不轻松。在PC领域,我们一度遭受了竞争对手的攻击。同时,移动互联网的大潮来得太快,面对迅猛的时代变迁,我们显得有点准备不足。
正因为这些现象,两年前,曾经有人说:百度不行了。然而,就像百度历史上所经历的每一个困难时期,无论有多难,我们从来没有放弃对未来的信心,我们每一次都能够众志成城地挺了过来,并再一次迎来全新的发展空间。
我们为什么能够survive?因为我们相信技术的力量。我们的团队,三分之一以上都是优秀的技术工程师。在最困难的时期,我们反而拿出更多经费,来加大研发投入。我们不断地扩充美国硅谷研发中心的规模,在人工智能、大数据、语音、图像识别等领域进行深入地布局。我们坚信,技术是我们在巨变的竞争环境中,超越一切对手的决定力量!
我们为什么能够survive?因为我们始终把简单可依赖的文化和人才成长机制当成百度最宝贵的财富。在我的百度云相册中,一直保存着这张照片。(现场大屏幕投放图片)那是2012年12月,一个寒冷的周末,很多年轻人冒着雨在百度大厦门口排起长长的队伍,等候参加入职考试。我相信今天在座的同学当中,肯定也有那天在排队的人。这么多人如此渴望加入这个公司,加入这个事业,我心里充满了感动。作为CEO,我有责任为大家创造更好的平台,让大家施展才华、快速成长。在这个平台上,我们吸引了吴恩达、王海峰、余凯、张潼、贾磊、吴华、吴韧等一批世界顶级的科学家,与大家在一起,共同实现技术的理想。同时我们在世界范围内建立研发中心并且开展业务,也将为同学们的发展提供最佳的舞台。作为CEO,我更有责任让优秀的人才在这个平台上脱颖而出,并且获得丰厚的回报。2014年的年底,我们拿出了历史上最大额度的奖金,奖励业绩突出的同学。我听说有一位同学,今年拿到的奖金,相当于他50个月的工资。我由衷地向他表示祝贺,同时我也要告诉大家:我们就是要打破平均主义,未来,我们还要拿出更多的钱,对于业绩突出的同学,我们的奖金没有上限!
是的,我们还没有夺取最终的胜利,但是在移动大潮到来的时候,我们已经站稳脚跟,为即将到来的冲锋积蓄了力量!
上午来首体的路上,我路过旁边的北大口腔医院,我知道那里每天都有在通宵排队的人等待挂号。生活服务的不便利、不平等,跟20年前人们获取信息、获取知识的不便利、不平等,本质上是一样的。每每想到这里,我就感到我们肩上的责任还很重,我们要走的路还很长。
我们要把握互联网和传统产业深度融合这一历史机遇,在移动时代,将我们的战略从“连接人与信息”延展到“连接人与服务”,我们已经花了十五年时间,让人们在信息和知识面前逐步平等。未来我们还要让人们在获取各种服务时也同样高效而平等,为了实现这样的目标,我们不惜再花十五年、甚至更长的时间!
我们已经和301医院这样的权威医疗机构展开合作。希望不久的将来,每一个普通患者通过互联网,都能获得最权威的医疗机构的救助。
我们已经在筹备全新的互联网金融业务,我们首先会专注于教育贷款。我们要让每一个积极向上的年轻人,在发展自己的道路上,不会因为付不起学费而放弃梦想。
连接人和服务,移动互联网广阔的战场就在我们面前。我们将改写行业规则,创造新的市场。人们的衣食住行,将通过百度而得到更大的便利!社会的经济运行效率,将通过百度而得到极大的提升!
现在,是我们发起进攻的时候了!在教育、医疗、金融、交通、旅游等行业,无数的机会在向我们挥手召唤。深耕每一个行业,我们都有机会创造一个个的百度!
现在,是我们引领未来的时候了!语音和图像将成为未来人们表达需求的主要方式,大数据和人工智能正在成为推动信息产业深刻变革的“核动力”,谁拥有这些技术,谁就会占领未来科技的制高点。我们要成为全球的创新中心!
现在,是我们改变世界的时候了!我可以预见,在这个战场上,一大批同学经受过战斗的考验之后,将成为中国乃至世界互联网真正的栋梁!
同学们,是时候了!
It is time!
It’s time to move forward!
It’s time to lead the future!
It’s time to change the world!
今天,我们斗志昂扬、奋勇向前,明天,我们就一定能够让胜利的旗帜飘扬在梦想的巅峰!
希望在下一个十五年,我们仍然能在一起。到那时,我们能够骄傲地说:是我们,续写了百度的荣耀!是我们,坚持了中国的梦想!是我们,改变了世界的未来!
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罗伯特.瓦尔丁格是哈佛大学医学院麻省总医院(MGH)精神科医师、精神分析治疗师,今天读文网小编给大家分享一篇罗伯特.瓦尔丁格教授的励志演讲,希望对大家有所帮助。
生命进程中,是什么让我们保持健康和幸福?如果你现在开始着手规划未来最好的人生,你会把时间和精力花在哪里?回答有很多种,我们已经被无以计数的有关生活中最重要事物的图景轰炸了。媒体上充斥着那些富有、高声望、建立起自己事业帝国的成功人士故事。并且我们对这些故事坚信不疑。有个最新的调查,询问1980-2000年生的年轻人,他们最重要的人生目标有哪些。超过80%的人说,他们主要的生活目标是要变富有。这群年轻人中,还有50%说他们另一个主要生活目标是成名。
What keeps us healthy and happy as we go through life? If you were going to invest now in your future best self, where would you put your time and your energy? There are lots of answers out there. We are bombarded with images, what’s most important in life. The media are filled with stories of people who are rich and famous and building empires at work. And we believe those stories. There’s a recent survey of millennials asking them what their most important life goals were. And over 80% said that the major life goal for them was to get rich. And another 50% of those same young adults said another major life goal was to become famous.
我们总是被告诫要投入工作,努力奋斗,完成更多。我们似乎觉得要生活得更好,这些就是我们需要追求的。可事实真是这样吗?这些真的是在人类生命历程中帮助他们保持幸福感的东西吗?
And we are constantly told to lean into work, and to push harder, and achieve more. We are given the impression that these are the things that we need to go after in order to have a good life. But is that true? Is that really what keeps people happy as they go through life?
人一生中所做的选择以及这些选择怎样影响他们,我们几乎无从得知。我们对于人生绝大多数的理解,是从他人的回忆中获得的。我们知道,人是不可能有完整清楚的记忆的。我们生命中大部分发生过的事情我们都遗忘了。有时我们记忆形成过程简直充满创造性。马克·吐温曾经说过类似的话。他说道,“我人生中一些最悲惨的事情根本就没发生过。” 研究显示,随着年龄的增长,我们实际上以一种更积极的方式在保存我们的记忆。我想起一张广告上说的:“任何时候开始拥有幸福的童年,都不算晚。”
Pictures of entire lives, of the choices that people make and how those choices work out for them,those pictures are almost impossible to get. Most of what we know about human life, we know from asking people to remember the past. And as we know,hindsight is anything but 20/20. We forget vast amounts of what happens to us in our lives. And sometimes memory was downright creative. Mark Twain understood this. He’s quoted as saying, “some of the worst things in my life never happened”.(Laughter) And research shows us that we actually remember the past more positively as we get older. And I’m reminded of a bumper sticker that says, ‘it’s never too late to have a happy childhood”. (Laughter)
但要是我们能够观察整个人生呢?要是我们能从人们青少年时期一直追踪到老年,去观察到底什么才是真正能够帮助人们保持幸福、健康的东西呢?我们已经做到了。
But, what if we could watch entire lives as they unfold through time? What if we could study people from the time that they were teenagers all the way into old age, to see what really keeps people happy and healthy? We did that.
哈佛成人发展研究可能是目前有关成年人生活研究中历时最长的。75年间,我们追踪了724位男性。年复一年,我们询问他们的工作、家庭生活、他们的健康状况,当然我们在询问过程中并不知道他们的人生将会怎样。
这样的研究极为稀少。几乎所有类似的研究都在10年内流产了,原因可能是失访率太高,或者没有足够的经费支撑,或者研究者兴趣点转移或去世以后没有其他人接手。但是多亏了运气以及几代研究者的坚持,这项研究成活下来了。
在最早的724名男性中,大约有60位还在世,并继续参与这项研究,他们绝大多数都已经超过90岁了。现在我们正开始研究他们总数超过2000个的孩子们。而我是这项研究的第四任领导者。
The Harvard Studyof Adult Development may be the longest study of adult life, that’s ever been done. For 75 years, we’ve tracked the lives of 724 men. Year after year asking about their work, their home lives, their health, and of course asking all along the way without knowing how their life stories were going to turn out.Studies like this are exceedingly rare. Almost all projects of this kind fallapart within a decade, because too many people drop out of the study or funding for the research dries up, or the researchers get distracted or they die and nobody moves the ball further down the field. But through combination of luck and persistence of several generations of researchers, this study has survived. About 60 of our original 724 men are still alive, still participating in the study, most of them in their nineties. And we are now beginning to study themore than 2000 children of these men. And I’m the 4th director of the study.
从1938年起,我们追踪了2组男性。第一组在加入研究时还是哈佛大学大二的学生。他们属于Tom Brokaw所说的“最伟大的一代”。他们都在第二次世界大战期间完成大学学业。之后绝大多数人为战争工作。
另外一组我们追踪的群体是波士顿最贫穷区域的男孩。正是因为他们来自于20世纪30年代波士顿麻烦最多、最底层的家庭,才被选入我们的研究。多数人都住在出租屋里,许多甚至没有热的或冷的自来水。当他们入选研究之后,所有的青少年都接受面谈和医学检查。我们去他们家里对他们的父母进行访谈。
后来这群青少年长大成人,进入社会各行各业。有的成了工厂工人,成了律师、泥瓦匠、医生,有一位成为美国总统。有的成了酒精依赖者,一些患上精神分裂症。有的从社会底层一路爬升到上流社会。而一些人却沿着相反的方向走过这段人生旅程。
Since 1938, we’ve tracked the lives of 2 groups of men. The first group started in the study when they were sophomores at Harvard College. They were from, what Tom Brokaw has called, the greatest generation. They all finished college during World War II. And then most went off to serve in the war. And the second group that we followed was a group of boys from the Boston’s poorest neighborhoods. Boys, who were chosen for this study specifically because they were from some of the most troubled and disadvantaged families in Boston of the 1930s. Most lived in tenements, many without hot and cold running water. When they entered the study, all of theseteenagers were interviewed, they were given medical exams. We went to their homes and we interviewed their parents. And then these teenagers grew up into adults who entered all walks of life. They became factory workers and lawyers and bricklayers and doctors, and one president of the United States. Some developed alcoholism. A few developed schizophrenia. Some climbed the social ladder from the bottom all the way to the very top. And some made that journey in the opposite direction.
这项研究的发起者无论如何也不可能想到,75年之后我能够站在这里,告诉你们这项研究仍然在继续。每两年,我们充满耐心和辛勤的研究人员打电话给我们的研究对象,询问是否能够再寄给他们一套有关他们生活的问卷。
波士顿城郊的许多研究对象问我们:“你们怎么总是不断地想要研究我?我的生活没什么意思啊。”而哈佛的毕业生从没问过这个问题。为了得到他们人生最清晰的画卷,我们不仅仅只是寄给他们问卷。我们在他们的客厅里对他们进行访谈。我们从他们的医生那里获取医疗记录。我们获取他们的血样,扫描他们的大脑。我们和他们的孩子们交谈。我们用摄像机记录他们和自己的妻子谈论最隐秘的担忧。大概十年前,我们终于询问他们的妻子们,是否愿意作为研究对象加入我们的研究。很多女士都说:“你知道,是时候了。”
The founders of this study would never, in their wildest dreams, have imagined that I would be standing here today, 75 years later, telling you that the study still continues. Every 2 years, our patient and dedicated research staff calls up our men and asked them whether we could send them yet one more set of questions about their lives. Many of the intercity Boston men ask us, “Why do you keep wanting to study me? My life just isn’t that interesting”. The Harvard men never asked that question. (Laughter) To get the clearest picture of these lives, we don’t just send them questionnaires. We interviewed them in their living rooms. We get their medical records from their doctors. We draw their blood. We scanned their brains. We talk to their children. We videotaped them talking with their wives about their deepest concerns. And when about a decade ago we finally asked the wives if they would join us as members of this study, many of the women said, “you know,it’s about time”. (Laughter)
那么我们学到了什么?我们从这些人生活中提取出来的长篇累牍的信息到底教会我们什么?其实,完全无关财富、名声或者拼命工作。我们从这项长达75年的研究中得到的最清晰的信息是:良好的关系让我们更快乐,更健康。就这样!
So what have we learned? What are the lessons that come from that tens of thousands of pages of information that we’ve generated on these lives. Well the lessons aren’t about wealth or fame or working harder and harder. The clearest message that we get from this 75-year study is this: good relationships keep us happier and healthier.Period!
对于关系,我们学到了三条。第一条是,社会连结真的对我们有益,而孤独却有害。
事实证明,和家庭、朋友和周围人群连结更紧密的人更幸福。他们身体更健康,他们也比连结不甚紧密的人活得更长。而孤单的体验是有害的。和不孤独的人相比,那些比自己所希望的样子更孤单的人觉得自己更不幸福,他们到中年时健康状况退化地更快,他们的大脑功能衰退更早,而且他们的寿命更短。令人遗憾的是,任何一个时刻,每5个美国人中就有不只1个说自己孤独。我们知道,在人群中你也可能感到孤独,在婚姻中你也可能感到孤独。
We’ve learned 3 big lessons about relationships. The first is that social connections arereally good for us and that loneliness kills. It turns out that people who are more socially connected to family, to friends, to community are happier. They are physically healthier and they live longer than people who are less well connected. And the experience of loneliness turns out to be toxic. People, who are more isolated than they want to be from others, find that they’re less happy, their health declines earlier in mid-life, their brain functioning declines sooner, and they live shorter lives than people who are not lonely. And the sad fact is, that at any given time, more than 1 in 5 Americans will report, that they are lonely. And we know that you can be lonely in a crowd, and you can be lonely in a marriage.
所以我们学到的第二条信息是,起决定作用的不是你拥有的朋友的数量,不是你是否在一段稳定的亲密关系中,而是你的亲密关系的质量。
事实证明,处于冲突之中真的对我们的健康有害。举个例子,充满冲突而没有感情的婚姻,对我们的健康非常不利,甚至有可能比离婚还糟。而生活在良好、温暖的关系中是有保护作用的。
当我们追踪我们的研究对象到他们的80岁之后,我们希望回顾他们的中年生活,来看看我们是否能在那时预测谁会享有幸福健康的晚年,谁不会。当我们把所有有关他们50岁的信息都整合起来之后,发现能够预测他们晚年生活的不是他们的中年胆固醇水平,而是他们对所在亲密关系的满意程度。50岁时对自己的亲密关系最满意的人,80岁时最健康。而良好、亲密的关系似乎能缓冲我们在衰老过程中遇到的坎坷。
我们生活的最幸福的伴侣,无论男女,在他们80岁之后都说,当他们感到更多躯体疼痛时,他们的心情依然快乐。而那些处于不幸关系中的人,当他们感受到更多躯体疼痛时,这些疼痛被增加的情感痛苦给放大了。
So the 2nd big lesson that we learned is that it’s not just the number of friends you have, and it’s not whether or not you are in a committed relationship, but it’s the quality of your close relationships that matters. It turns out that living in the midst of conflicts is really bad for our health. High conflicted marriages, for example, without much affection, turn out to be very bad for our health - perhaps worse than getting porced. And living in the midst of good, warm relationships, is protective. Once we’ve followed our men all the way into their 80s, we wanted to look back at them at mid-life, and to see if we can predict who was going to grow into a happy, healthy octogenarian and who wasn’t. And when we gather together, everything we knew about them at age 50, it wasn’t their middle age cholesterol levels that predicted how they were going to grow old. It was how satisfied they were in their relationships. The people, who were the most satisfied in their relationships at age 50, were the healthiest at age 80. And good close relationships seem to buffer us from some of the slings and arrows of getting old. Our most happily partnered men and women, reported in their 80s, that on the days when they had more physical pain, their moods stayed just as happy. But the people who were in unhappy relationships, on the days when they reported more physical pain, it was magnified by more emotionalpain.
第三条我们学到的关于关系对我们健康的影响是,良好的关系不仅只是保护我们的身体,也能保护我们的大脑。
研究表明,在80岁之后依然处在对另一个人安全依恋关系中是有保护性的。在关系中真的感到自己能在需要时可以依赖另一个人的人们,他们的保持清晰记忆力的时间更长。而感到自己在关系中真的无法依赖另一个人的人群,他们将更早出现记忆力衰退。而那些良好的关系,并不一定要一直保持平顺。一些 80-89 岁老年夫妇,他们可能一天到晚都在吵架。但只要他们感到自己真的能在困难时刻依赖另一个人时,他们根本就不会记得那些争吵了。所以我们学到的是,良好、亲密的关系有利于我们的健康和完好状态。这是老智慧,是祖母和牧师的忠告。
And the 3rd big lesson that we learned about relationships on our health is, that good relationships don’t just protect our bodies, they protect our brains. It turns out, that being in a securely attached relationship to another person in your 80s is protective. And the people who are in a relationship that they really feel that they can count on the other person in times of need, those people’s memories stay shaper longer. And people in a relationship where they feel they really can’t count on the other one, those are the people who would experience earlier memory decline. And those good relationships, they don’t have to be smooth all the time. Some of the octogenarian couples could bicker with each other day in and day out. But as long as they felt that they can really count on the other one when they are going out tough, those arguments didn’t take a toll on their memories. So, this message, that good, close relationships are good for our health and well-being; this is the wisdom that’s as old as the hills. It’s your grandmother’s advice, and your pastor’s.
为什么明白这个道理这么难?就拿巨大的财富来说,我们知道,一旦我们的基本物质需求被满足了,财富就帮不上什么忙了。如果你从每年挣75,000美元提高到7500万美元,我们知道你的健康和快乐基本不会发生变化。而至于声望,媒体不断地入侵和缺乏隐私使得多数名人显著地不健康。这显然不会让人更快乐。至于拼命工作,有一条真理说,没有人在临死前觉得自己要是花更多时间在办公室就好了。
为什么这些这么难理解,这么容易就被忽视了?是啊,我们是人啊。我们真正喜欢的是快速解决方案,一种我们能得到的,又能让我们生活得好并且一直保持下去的东西。关系错综复杂,照顾家人和朋友是繁重的工作,一点也不性感也不光芒万丈。而这也是终生的,绝无尽头。
在我们的75年研究中拥有最幸福退休生活的人是那些主动寻找玩伴来替代工作伙伴的人。正如调查中的年轻人一样,我们的研究对象中很多人在一开始还是青年的时候,真的相信声望、财富以及高成就是他们想要生活得更好就必须追求的。但随着时间的流逝,在这75年间,我们的研究显示:发展得最好的人是那些把精力投入关系,尤其是家人、朋友和周围人群的人。
Why is this so hard to get? For example, with respectful wealth, we know that once your basic material needs are met, wealth doesn’t do anything. If you go from making 75,000 dollars a year to 75 million, we know that your health and your happiness will change very little, if at all. When it comes to fame, the constant media intrusion and a lack of privacy make most famous people significantly less healthy. It certainly doesn’t keep them happier. And as for working harder and harder, there is that truism that nobody on their death bed ever wished that they had spent more time in their office. (Laughter)
Why is that so hard to get and so easy to ignore? Well, we’re human. What we really like is a quick fix - something we can get that will keep our lives good and keep them that way. Relationships are messy and they are complicated and they are hard work of tending to family and friends, that’s not sexy or glamorous. It’s also life-long. It never ends. The people in our 75-year study with the happiest retirement were the people who had actively worked to replace workmates with new playmates. Just like the millennials in that recent survey, many of our men when they were starting out as young adults, really believed that fame and wealth and high achievements were what they needed to go after to have a good life. But over and over, over these 75 years, our study has shown that the people who fared the best are people who leaned into relationships, with family, with friends, with community.
那么你们呢?假如你们今年25,或者你们40,或者你们60岁。投入关系对你们来说是什么样的?可能性可能是无限的。也许是简单到拿和屏幕打交道的时间来和人打交道,或者通过一起做点什么新鲜事,比如散步或者约会,或者联系那个多年来不曾说过话的人,来点亮一段死气沉沉的关系。因为对一个总把小别扭放心里的人,这些看上去很平常的家庭敌对事件是会造成严重后果的。
So what about you?Let’s say you are 25, or you are 40 or you are 60. What might leaning into relationships even look like? Well, the possibilities are practically endless. It might be something as simple as replacing screen-time with people-time, or lightening up a stale relationship by doing something new together, long walks or date nights, or reaching out to that family member who you haven’t spoken to in years. Because those all too-common family feuds take a terrible toll on the people who hold the grudges.
我想用马克吐温的另一条名言来结束。一百多年前,当他回顾自己的一生时,他写下了,“生命如此短暂,我们没有时间争吵、道歉、伤心。我们只有时间去爱。”
所以说,好的生活是建立在好的关系上的。而这种理念是值得传播的。谢谢大家!
I’d like to close with another quote from Mark Twain. More than a century ago, he was looking back on his life, and he wrote this,”there isn’t a time, so brief his life, for bickerings, apologies, heart-burnings, callings to account. There is only time for loving. ” But in instant, so to speak, for that, the good life is built with good relationships. And that’s an idea worth spreading. Thank you!
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